[Serebus0126]

01/15/2015 at 4:26 am

Starting after Christmas I started on a new routine. After doing some reading on female psychie (emotional vs. Thinking) I moved away from trying to influence her thoughts and ideas to manipulating her emotions. This made a huge difference.

My approach thus far:
The week between Christmas and New Years I switched to a new file based on the slut mantra. Basically plays on her feelings and emotions to become a submissive and horny slut.

Starting on my first day back to work in January (the 5th) I would send her a random text during the day, every day. The text is always worded to start with “I want”.
For example: “I want you to be happy.” “I want you to know you are my best friend.”

So for two weeks I only sent these feel good “I want” texts. Yesterday about an hour after sending her feel good text I sent her my first sexual request text. She did not get it done but what I was surprised with was her response when I got home. She apologized several times for not completing the task, made it up to me with a BJ as soon as I got home and promised to complete it this morning.

I texted her this morning, again with her feel good txt and then a text reiterating her task with a line in there to not disappoint me. She assured me she will complete the task this morning and she is going to organize her daily routine to make time for these daily requests I send her.

Before I tried this new approach she was always against daily tasks and would always argue against them. Now she seems eager to do them and fears disappointing me.

So while I still thnk the subliminal is a useful tool, if you can find additional tools and methods to influence behavior, be open to trying them.

[Serebus0126]

11/20/2014 at 3:07 pm

I remember seeing before a recommendation of using Amy at a -2 pitch, do you find the higher pitch gives a better result?

Just wondering if I should adjust the pitch of my Amy file back up. I am using two files, one with “I/am” affirmations in Amy’s voice, the 2nd using “you/are” affirmations using my voice.

[Serebus0126]

11/19/2014 at 4:42 pm

Reproduced it:
No driver when calling waveOutWrite

Thanks for the message.

[Serebus0126]

11/19/2014 at 11:44 am

Thanks, my BJ script was based on Tap’s and contains several positive reinforcements like that.
Giving my husband a BJ, is fun. (she complained the other week it was not as much fun for her, so I added the fun part last week)
Giving my husband a BJ, is ecstasy.
Giving my husband a BJ, is happiness.

I cannot remember all the affirmations from memory, but I will double check and ensure there are some along those lines as well.

[Serebus0126]

11/19/2014 at 11:40 am

This happened last night:
I have a Windows 7 Enterprise laptop hooked up to the house stereo as a media player (it also plays through the TV). Last night as I disconnected the audio cable from the speaker port (disconnecting the stereo) the player threw an error about a missing driver and stopped playing, had to bring it up and restart it after plugging the audio cable back in. I know the laptop speaker driver is installed and works because I was able to repeat the experiment playing something in Windows Media Player, upon disconnection from the audio cable the audio immediately switched to the laptop speaker.

So the TJ Player does not like hot swapping audio drivers.

[Serebus0126]

11/18/2014 at 12:11 pm

Thanks LI, I read through all of those, but it turns out in our situation it really was just a bad weekly schedule and that time of the month for her…when her sexual desire reads pretty much 0.

I recently went to a mixed file: the first half of my BJ script is in Amy’s voice using “I/am” affirmations. I then repeated the script using my voice but switched to “you/are” affirmations. The combined file has been showing faster results than a file only using Amy’s voice.

I tend to make any changes to the files being played on Thursday nights since I have an hour or so home alone so this was introduced last Thursday with tweaks based on her responses and an additional conditional. On both Friday and Sunday nights she acted on one of the previous conditionals and yesterday she acted on the new conditional for the first time, so will see what happens as time progresses.

Currently I have three conditionals and have had success with two. The morning one is the toughest since she is not a morning person and usually takes 30 minutes to “wake-up” enough to get out of bed and face her day, though I am not sure the best condition to put on it either.
Right now I have:
When I go to bed, I give my husband a BJ.
When I get home from work, I give my husband a BJ.
When my morning alarm goes off, I give my husband a BJ.

Originally the morning one was “When I wake up, I give my husband a BJ”

So she is performing the go to bed one pretty consistently now: every night or every other night at least, but she is a night person so comes to bed still pretty awake.
Yesterday she did the come home from work one for the first time, but that was only introduced last Thursday so pretty much on schedule for her to accept new behaviors.
The morning one I have had 0 success with and I think I am just going to have to give up on it, but will probably run it until the end of November when I plan to switch script topics anyway.

Also thinking of switching it out with a trigger:
When my husband *performs action XYZ*, I give him a BJ.

Cheers.

[Serebus0126]

11/18/2014 at 12:01 pm

I recently went to a mixed file: the first half of my BJ script is in Amy’s voice using “I/am” affirmations. I then repeated the script using my voice but switched to “you/are” affirmations. The combined file has been showing faster results than a file only using Amy’s voice.

I tend to make any changes to the files being played on Thursday nights since I have an hour or so home alone so this was introduced last Thursday with tweaks based on her responses and an additional conditional. On both Friday and Saturday nights she acted on one of the previous conditionals and yesterday she acted on the new conditional for the first time, so will see what happens as time progresses.

[Serebus0126]

11/17/2014 at 10:53 pm

The copy on my PC just told me the eval period is up and is asking for an activation code. It did not start, so the time out period worked, but it took a reboot of the PC before it caught it. Just curious what the schedule is looking like for when the code will be released.

[Serebus0126]

11/13/2014 at 3:02 pm

Could be. I just stopped the text messages last week.

I will say that there is definitely an over-all effect going on since day one. She now almost completely relies on me to make her decisions for her and she is a lot hornier (pretty much constant state of semi-arousal, a lot more casual brush-ups and touching when we are together, etc.). Now I am trying to focus that physical desire into the behaviors that I prefer to see and get her past some of her hang-ups.

[Serebus0126]

11/13/2014 at 12:17 pm

No worries, I’m an engineer, I deal with lots of questions every day, most of them my own

I started off using messages and images, set at 10ms duration, 4 seconds frequency. This is running on her laptop but when she is using that it is sitting on a desk anyway and staring at it. The images/messages were set to fixed location, centered on the screen and I changed the font size and color to contrast with the desktop background.

Unfortunately the sexually explicit images she noticed and complained of a virus on her laptop so those went away. Then after about a month she said the flashing text messages were also starting to annoy her so had to remove those as well. So we are strictly down to audio.

I can also provide an update that I am seeing mixed/confusing results now. It seems the first week after introduction of a new file/script she behaves almost instantly on it, then during the second week the behavior pretty much stops dead. I provide positive feedback and encouragement during that first week but to no avail. This week is a tough week for us schedule wise though and so that might be part of the 2nd week slump. Week 3 on the current BJ file is next week so will see how that turns out.

I also began playing with the scripts whether they are first or second person (I am vs. you are). Right now I am running a mixed script (the “I am” script for had almost no effect on my wife). Every person is different and it is going to take experimentation to see what your subject responds to which takes time.

The other day I recorded the script using my own voice though I am not using it yet, I plan to introduce that script at the end of next week if there is no noticeable improvement before that.

Even though the behavior stopped during this past week, I do catch her staring at my package and biting her lip like she wants to act on something but something is getting in her way (usually the kids are home). So I think I need to start acting on these moments if the opportunity presents itself.

Cheers.

[Serebus0126]

11/10/2014 at 4:06 pm

Running Windows 7 Enterprise on all our machines. It was an Windows error message saying the file was still in use and could not be deleted.

[Serebus0126]

11/08/2014 at 12:16 pm

I noticed on my laptop that the TJ Player did not recover from the lid being closed and the laptop going to sleep. It threw an error and I had to re-open it and click Play to restart it.

[Serebus0126]

11/05/2014 at 3:15 pm

Feedback to date:
The TJ player is well hidden. The icon disappears into the hidden task bar and you have to right click it to open it. My wife gets frustrated just trying to use Word and Excel (but who doesn’t) and certainly lacks the expertise to start playing around with the task bar and hidden icons so I have no worries there.

Also even after right clicking and hitting Open it immediately pops up with a message that this program is password protected, no hint as to what the program is. So until the password is entered there is no outward sign as to what it is and what it is doing.

Only nit-picky issue I have with it is that it doesn’t default to one of the user buttons. For example, after entering the password, one would expect to be able to hit and it to default to the “Ok” user button, but it does not, you must physically move the mouse to the “Ok” button and click it. This holds true for all the interactive menus with it.

One other issue I found yesterday: when I was trying to change one of the tracks I removed a track from the playlist intending to overwrite it with a new track (same file name), but Windows would not let me delete the file because it said it was still in use by the player. I had to kill the player’s process before Windows would recognize the file as not in use and allow me to delete it and update it with a new file on the disk.

[Serebus0126]

11/05/2014 at 3:13 pm

The TJ player is well hidden. The icon disappears into the hidden task bar and you have to right click it to open it. My wife gets frustrated just trying to use Word and Excel (but who doesn’t) and certainly lacks the expertise to start playing around with the task bar and hidden icons so I have no worries there.

Also even after right clicking and hitting Open it immediately pops up with a message that this program is password protected, no hint as to what the program is. So until the password is entered there is no outward sign as to what it is and what it is doing.

Only nit-picky issue I have with it is that it doesn’t default to one of the user buttons. For example, after entering the password, one would expect to be able to hit and it to default to the “Ok” user button, but it does not, you must physically move the mouse to the “Ok” button and click it. This holds true for all the interactive menus with it.

One other issue I found yesterday: when I was trying to change one of the tracks I removed a track from the playlist intending to overwrite it with a new track (same file name), but Windows would not let me delete the file because it said it was still in use by the player. I had to kill the player’s process before Windows would recognize the file as not in use and allow me to delete it and update it with a new file on the disk.

[Serebus0126]

11/04/2014 at 12:09 pm

Thanks for the finish suggestion gtbear.

After reading through Tap’s forum topic (all 4 pages) I decided to change things up a bit since I kinda rushed into this subliminal thing without having the time to fully read through the forums (I was in the middle of a 3-month bear of a class which finished up last week). So this past weekend I switched to two scripts, based on Tap’s obedience and BJ script. Now I just read his update about playing a single script at once based on Trainer’s experience, one at night and one during the day. So I am going to let the dual script playlist finish out the week and then this weekend switch to a single topic script and alternate each week. I switched from anal to BJ as well since she has always been comfortable with giving BJs but they tend to only happen once every other month, so as a good experiment I am trying to increase their frequency: and she has started to orally stimulate almost every night now as part of foreplay, she doesn’t finish and asks me to f*** her which I oblige her to give her a reward for at least starting the BJ, just getting her to use her mouth more makes me happy. I am also playing with conditionals and have two lines in there:
When I wake up, I give my husband a BJ.
Giving my husband Serebus a BJ every morning, makes him happy.

Yesterday she mentioned that she almost got up to meet me for a BJ as I came out of the bathroom to leave for work but she was too tired (her alarm goes off at 5:45 and she is not a morning person), so I consider this progress but may not achieve the desired result of daily, morning BJ’s just because she is so slow to wake up and I am a morning person and am usually up and gone 10 minutes after her alarm goes off.

I have also upped the exposure by loading the TJ player on her computer and that plays when she is using it and I have the house stereo setup to play on a timer so that plays once the kids are out of the house. They are not allowed to touch her laptop and when she isn’t using it is put to sleep so not overly concerned about exposure from that.

As far as the obedience script, that is definitely working (though she has been on submissive scripts since day 1), she is now looking to me to make all her decisions. Even yesterday, for example, we decided to switch my basement work-out space for the boys’ playroom (too many toys and they are out-growing the space they are in and I need taller ceilings for my equipment and stretching) and I started to move stuff out of the basement into the office to start making space, she started to complain about working in a “storage unit” and using my authoritative tone, I told her this was the way it was going to be and she would deal with it for the week, she quickly stopped complaining and just nodded her head, eyes cast down which indicated to me she is accepting my authority without question.

Well cheers and will keep updating when I have time…