[mastermandprincess]

05/21/2013 at 2:48 am

[ Hey Jason.

First of all, I wanted to say don’t feel too bad about your mistake. Just live with it and correct it. I can tell you in princesses 7 year training leading up to subliminal training we made a lot of mistakes, and that greed is something you’re responsible of keeping in check when training a sub. We all slip up, recovery is the important part. As I advocate everywhere on the forum the best thing to do is to own up to your mistakes, make sure she understands you have done so and what you’re going to change so she can trust you moving forward (however this manifests as I trust the subliminals are covert), and moving forward at a steady pace.

For example, princess has consciously thought of herself as a slave for about 5 years. I’m starting her on very basic things that she already consciously accepts. Slave Idenitity, Happy Slave girl, Submissive thoughts, etc. and varying it up every month. This, to be honest bores me. Subliminals and mind control are my fetish, and I want to have her on custom animal training right now (that was my plan from day one actually :/ till I was corrected) and really heavy mind control stuff. However, I think I’m going to be taking it slow for at least 3-4 months. Until a foundation is sturdy and we can move on.

Unlike some of you guys I can’t speak to the customs as I won’t be going gold for a while (partly to stop the temptation of going onto my wilder projects) but I think that custom breast thing you’ve been doing has worked wonders for your sex life so I wouldn’t stop that, and it shows some guided experimentation in the beginning can be good if you do it right. Bottom line, It’s a great thing that your wife likes to be touched now! Don’t take off whatever did that. But go slow, at a steady pace, and don’t move up to the next floor of subliminal training until your sure it’s foundations are 100% complete.

The reason the breast thing worked out (I’m guessing) is breasts are a very naturally sexual part of a woman, and her resistance on this was probably shame of sex in general. With how quickly she accepted the file it shows this is something she wasn’t opposed to, but whatever you made the mistake with I’m guessing it was something she was opposed to. You can’t make somebody do something they don’t want, only slowly change their perception of their own tastes.

Wishing you the best in the future. Slow and steady wins the race.

EDIT: forgot to mention that I also think a weeks rest is unnesicary if you take it at a steady pace from here on out.]

[mastermandprincess]

05/20/2013 at 12:03 am

The advice in the other thread I made related to this subject actually suggested that loud volume was actually the cause of the problem as the subliminals on this site stimulate the hairs in the inner ear.

https://dreamgirlsgt.com/forum-pub/?mingleforumaction=viewtopic&t=91

Basically I want to keep it effective but not tear these hairs.

[mastermandprincess]

05/19/2013 at 8:54 pm

(MSS, thanks for your comment. Really helped her. She still isn’t ready to post here but I can tell she LOVES getting messages from you guys so please write to her whenever you want. Might encourage her to get to a space where she can write and interact with this community)

Hey everyone. We’re finally back.

I wish I had a more interesting report for this post, but sadly I don’t. We’ve had sex a few times since the hiatus, even with all the stress. During one session she had a breakdown because I pushed to hard with mental play but no major set backs and no major progress either.

Now that we’re finally done with one facet of pressure in our lives, a million others seem to have burst open. Primarily, princesses family is having money troubles so I’ve taken more hours, princess has found a better paying job and we’re trying to help out her family as much as possible. I’ve greatly restricted my favorite expensive habits due to this.

Last night was good and bad, not sexual, but in a different aspect of our relationship (I record these things because i think it’s all connected). See, I’m a very introverted person and this has created problems over the years. Where others might recharge their batteries by being social and hanging with friends, such activity exhausts me and causes anxiety for the most part. I have never understood fully why princess wants me to know her friends, to my own mind that’s some separate part of her life and I don’t really wish to be friends with her friends (nor do I think she should be friends with my friends unless it happens naturally, I don’t like making efforts towards these things). Yes, I know that may sound ludicrous to some of you, it’s just– eh, I’m not a people person and I’m very easily bored around people. Example? Last night we went out with her friend (keeping the code name theme) Susan. I had to meet Susan’s parents and their drunken friends. Then we hit a pub where I was supposed to try a Ghost Peper challenge and have a few drinks. Sadly, they were all out of ghost pepers so we didn’t get to try it. But the entire way they were talking about it to everyone we bumped into etc etc… I don’t know if anyone on this site is as incompetent as me in these matters but I get bored out of my skull and depressed in situations like this. Idle banter, gossip, socializing, things that seem to make others happy I view as a waste of time. I don’t think I can have fun like everyone else unless I’m on a few mind altering substances. I also have very cynical views on friendship and as such don’t even consider people I claim as friends to their face as friends, merely replaceable tools. Relationships to my mind are primarily selfish, parasitic affairs. I will never fully trust any of my “friends.” Sorry, it’s not an easy thing to understand or for me to discuss, so I kind of wanted to outline why this aspect of life is so difficult for me.

That said, it is important to princess that I interact with her friends so after 3 years of dodging it I’m trying to tackle this head on (even if I hate it). The good news? Last night with Susan went really well, they had a lot of fun and I was on best behavior and gave off the vibe of having a good time which is all that counts. princess was very happy with the results. The nice thing about Susan is she talks a lot so I don’t have to. If princess is making all these changes behind closed doors, I feel it fair and encouraging that I try to change my public persona and make an effort to get along with these people.

After that though we got into a fight, it was my fault. I was so drained from the night (again, while others recharge from this behavior, I recharge in isolation) that I started acting cranky. I don’t like staying at her fathers house, and was upset cause I was unable to sleep because of the lack of pillows and sirens. Eventually after a siren woke me at midnight, I flipped out and left. I called this morning to apologize for my behavior and everything is smooth again. Next time I’ll be sure to remember my limitations and insist I spend the night alone if we’ve spent the evening in a social setting.

princess starts a new job on monday, I’ve downloaded her playlist which right now is Rain Converter, Slave Idenitity and Happy Slave Girl (during my absence it has become clear to me that Happy Slave Girl is a program I want to play immediately) and will instruct her to listen to the playlist twice a day, or once a day and looped during the night. I may give her some leeway on when to start because of her job, but I’m going to push for now and hope that goes smooth (I told her I feel stupid because I wanted to start the programs a while ago and wasn’t able to meet my date). The biggest challenge I see? Getting past the headaches. I don’t like to be firm on things that cause her physical pain, and I know she’ll be stressed out with the new job, but I think I’m just going to push her past it this week. I’ve told her about all the advise you guys gave us on the headaches, and she knows it’s going to be painful for a while but she’s willing to work past it.

Well that’s all for now. She’s on her period this week so it’s a bit of a dry week, especially with the stress of starting a new job and subliminals. Hopefully I’ll have a more interesting report for you guys next time. Goodluck with your training everyone! Good to be back.

[mastermandprincess]

05/11/2013 at 6:20 am

Hey bud, so the fact that princess left her sub site put a bit of a hindrance on the search for erotic literature. However, my sex shop is literally right across from my bank, so I stopped in and the very nice ladies there pointed out some good erotic literature. When I told her you had originally suggested 50 shades of grey she looked fearful and said “no no no no” so it looked like my initial reaction was correct, the worker is cool and we’ve talked a lot and I know she knows her stuff.

Problems? 1) I can’t read her hand writing so I’m waiting for princess to decode it XD 2) I think she misheard me and I and thought I said “female” domination, instead of “male” as one of the books on the list was Femdom.

HOWEVER, she invited me to call back at any time, so when my exams are over, I’ll be calling back for recommendations and getting a more legible, male dom oriented list. Keeping you posted.

[mastermandprincess]

05/11/2013 at 1:05 am

Hey princess and I are still busy with our exams (XD we’re the youngin’s of the group) but I’m keeping tabs here so I don’t have a lot of reading to do when I come back, and I thought I’d take this quick opportunity to welcome you to the community.

[mastermandprincess]

05/09/2013 at 3:27 am

Hey everyone, I’m still gonna be away for a while. But I just wanted to say I have a new profile and will either continue posting in this journal with a new name, or make a new one and link it.