[ELFWITCH]

06/16/2016 at 3:55 am

Hi, I think there might be this same issue cropping up with a download I thought was “Boyfriend is Superior,” but when I play it, the voice is very clearly saying stuff about pleasing husband! Will you please take a listen to “My BF is superior,” and see what you think? Thanks!

[ELFWITCH]

08/02/2015 at 5:55 pm

Thanks, Trainer! BTW, I was just on the FetLife Dreamgirls page, and there’s a question there from someone (from awhile back). I sure would like to see more activity on the FetLife site, or if you have another page there, that would be great. It would be nice to interact with Dreamgirls’ users there.

[ELFWITCH]

07/29/2015 at 4:23 pm

I would add that it’s important to keep in mind that for a long, long time in any woman’s life, she has had to do a lot of stuff alone. Women (and I am one) get into the habit of defining ourselves as separate human beings who really can’t rely on others for anything, because we learn that from life experience. Not every woman learns this to the same extent, but if you’ve had damage in your childhood or later on, and have learned to distrust, it’s my opinion (having used these subliminals for years now) that what the subliminal should really be addressing is the lack of trust any woman in this situation feels for men, yes, but for women too.

It’s this societal message that women should be able to do everything on our own, combined with any bad experiences that led to the woman losing trust for men specifically, that is the real problem. It has taken me years to begin to accept that my man can or should do anything for me, and if he fails, as he has in the past, it just confirms any negative beliefs I have about asking him for help. If a man wavers AT ALL the woman is convinced he’s not going to be strong enough to help. I wish women weren’t like this, but it seems to be part of the time we’re living in. Every era has its challenges, and this is a real problem in personal relationships now.

In my opinion, what I’d like to see is a subliminal that specifically addresses trust and doubt, as in “I trust my [fill in the blank or provide name]” and “I never doubt [etc.].” Also, I don’t want to feel like an idiot or have to give up the ground I’ve spent a lifetime fighting for, and therefore be made to feel like I have no worth; I think that idea just sets women back, and will probably meet with a fair amount of resistance subconsciously, unless you want a woman to be afraid of you, and that’s a different kind of relationship.

I’d just focus more on trust and believing in you. That’s usually the first disillusionment women encounter in life, when we have to accept that men aren’t any “better” than we are, they’re just more capable at some things, but they don’t know everything. Unfortunately, knowing this or believing this hasn’t made us “equal,” it’s made women somehow despise men, largely, I believe, because society tells us one thing, that men are superior in every way, but experience tells us almost exactly the opposite. And that is the damage these subliminals have to undo, which is why it can take so long.

I’ve also noticed that I get irritated if I have to listen to the same message over and over, and so I have suggested to Trainer before this to play two or three messages at any one time, because the mind seems to kind of “reel” and resistance is lowered. I would describe this as almost a “drunken” effect.

[ELFWITCH]

08/21/2012 at 5:38 pm

There used to be subliminals for exotic dancing and stripping in the slave subliminal sections. You could look there. Or ask Trainer what happened to them. You can always contact him by email; he’s great about answering quickly. (I went through all the subliminal scripts at one time, which is why I know what scripts used to exist, but I don’t know if it’s still available).

[ELFWITCH]

08/14/2012 at 7:35 pm

Min man, also known as “min herre,” the Swedish for “Lord” or “Master,” loves telling me that I’m his slave (which he insists we say in Swedish, since he’s Swedish, and lives in Sweden, which is where i spend about half the year). But in Swedish, it’s “slav,” the word for slave. An entire race of people, the Slavs, were once thought of as slaves… and, not ironically, I am of Slavic ancestry. One wonders if this is a desire that’s in the DNA, you know…? As a Viking, he also talks a lot about “conquering me.” LOL.

[ELFWITCH]

08/14/2012 at 7:27 pm

I only use (and only trust) Daniel, at http://www.hypnoticdreams.com/

His work is unbelievable. I have spoken with him personally on many occasions, as well as using many of his products. He is a good person, very reliable, with no intention of misusing his powers. He will not be stealing your wife, for example.

I agree with those who say that if you’re going to persuade someone to do something they weren’t already thinking of doing, it’s best to use really simple self-talk from a woman’s perspective. Getting a woman to want to remove her top… this is tricky, and I know you guys often think a woman is specifically reacting to years of feminism, but it actually goes much deeper than that.

When we’re little kids, we don’t feel self-conscious naked. Remember pictures of yourself as a small child? Even little girls go around naked, absolutely unselfconscious. This is the place you want to get back to, and it’s not easy for women (or many men, in my experience; in fact, only the man I’m with now is capable of walking around without any clothes on, which he’s told me he does quite deliberately to get me to pay attention to him LOL).

Anyway, for a woman to naturally remove her clothing, I agree the room has to feel warm, but she also has to think of being naked (even if it’s just her top) as completely normal and desirable, like when she was a child. Therefore, this message is about being and feeling free, as well as feeling okay with her body. Remember: it’s not “normal” behavior to go around without clothes on. It just isn’t. You don’t see a lot of naked people running through the world in general. Therefore, it has to become a natural response to undo what she has learned, and that might take quite some time to get used to.

In addition to that, I think your subliminal might have too many messages in it to take in all at once, and I agree that focusing on relaxing is probably the key message.

Something like this:

I like to relax
I see myself relaxing
Watching television is relaxing

I like to lie down and watch TV
Lying down to watch TV relaxes me

(Rather than mentioning a specific time of day or the children, which for many women is a total sexual turnoff! Jesus, do NOT mention your children!! We do not associate children with sex. We associate children with responsibility. Bleh.—Sorry had to vent).

[ELFWITCH]

08/14/2012 at 7:00 pm

Two thoughts: one, have you tried “Break up” under slave training? I used that for awhile, but it was so powerful, it kind of scared me. I don’t want to lose contact completely with my daughter, so I had to back off.

The other thought is that i listen to the subliminals on silent when i’m with my man, and he finds it annoying if he can hear the hissing or static, so i adjust the levels on my equalizer (listening on my computer) to “electronic” levels, rather than where I ordinarily have it set, which is quite loud (so i can be sure i hear it).

I don’t know your situation at all, so disregard these thoughts if they make no sense for you, but it does sound like the woman you’re working on could be made to do whatever you want if you choose to get her alone, and that means no longer allowing the second woman to stay, or, for that matter, the boyfriend. That’s not a situation conducive to your goals, it seems to me…

[ELFWITCH]

08/11/2012 at 11:02 pm

You are totally welcome. I’m glad i could help.

[ELFWITCH]

07/26/2012 at 3:49 pm

There’s a subliminal in the slave files that addresses some of this; it’s called “I am a slut.” There’s also “sex slave” subliminal that’s pretty cool. GCS is also, in my opinion, amazingly effective. I have always loved oral, but swallowing never used to be a lot of fun until spending time with that subliminal. Now I love it, but I do still have a little resistance from time to time, which I mostly seem to experience when I stop listening to the subliminals for any length of time (like, more than two days).

“I want to” is, according to a hypnotist I’ve worked with, more powerful an incentive to hear in a subliminal than “it’s okay.” Obviously, you must do whatever you think is best, but I wanted to convey that to you. But apparently, direct statements work best. It’s the repetition that’s key.

My other suggestion is that the file dealing with feminine dressing somehow is a good mental stimulus to wanting to shave. It is actually more feminine, I guess, to want to be clean-shaven? Not sure how that one works, but that’s been my experience with it. I find that the more I listen to that one, the more clean-shaven I want to be, so my assumption has been that the two ideas go together.

I hope this helps. Good luck!

[ELFWITCH]

07/26/2012 at 4:59 am

I’m getting used to this new forum, it’s very different than the previous one, and will just say I agree, as a woman using these tracks every day for a long time. I personally need the variety of different tracks running in a loop, and they work best when they have a common theme, so that the ideas are repeated, rather than the same exact words. I tried playing only one track for a week or two when I started, but found I was getting really irritated. When I switched to a variety of tracks, I did not get irritated. I am highly motivated to change, and that’s why I use them.