[babanathie]

06/01/2016 at 1:29 pm

After running the Obedience/Good Girl script for just over three weeks, I have seen a noticeable improvement in my wife. She is generally happier and willing to do what she is told. She is still acting headstrong; she asks, sometimes orders, for things before she follows or after following an instruction. That is an irritating quirk I would like to fix in the near future.

Currently, I have started her cooking on a regular basis, and she seems happy to do so at this point. It is the first week of her cooking; so, we’ll see how it holds up over a long period of time before getting too excited by the results. I do give her odd orders throughout the day to see the effectiveness. For example, my wife tends to dislike certain demeaning acts, especially oral. While I don’t think she’s at the point of performing oral, I do have her kiss “me” on a regular basis. Despite not being particularly fond of it, she does it without question. Overall, she does do the things I tell her; that does make me happy.

A quick breakdown of her timeline:

• Week #1: She actually performed acts that weren’t too difficult or required much effort without work. She went along with being a good girl, probably out of amusement.

• Week #2: She was a pain. She was extremely rebellious and uncooperative.

• Week #3: This actually happened halfway through week #2. She became relatively compliant. She started to ask for things in return for following “difficult” orders but usually follows those orders. Without a return “gift”, compliance was less than ideal; however, she usually complied with them. She asks if she is a good girl on a semi-regular basis.

I’m switching over to a combination of Obedience / My Husband is Superior script. The Obedience portion is twenty affirmations; My Husband is Superior portion is seven affirmations. The switchover will be this weekend.

[babanathie]

05/15/2016 at 7:02 pm

I completely agree with the obedience focus. That is one reason that I decided to focus on obedience on the start. I do think that she has some natural tendency to obey and serve; I think being lazy interferes with that desire. For example, I ordered her around this morning, and she responded without second thought when the tasks were simple and easy. This isn’t due to the script; it’s just her natural tendency. However, anything that required effort was met with resistance.

In addition, I think I might have figured out another fundamental problem: she thinks and wants to be an equal despite not putting in an equal amount of work into the marriage. This conclusion is from years of living from her and sitting down and thinking about it. Her attempt to assert herself recently have been, in my opinion, an attempt to gain equal footing without having to commit to working for it.

Consequently, I think appending a short “My Husband is Superior” script in place of “Good Girl” in the near future might be a good idea. Basically, the bulk of the script will focus on obedience with the last portion focusing on my superiority. Any thoughts? The overall script length should stay around 25 affirmations, with an outside possibility of 27, if I remove the converter portion.

[babanathie]

05/14/2016 at 9:32 pm

Right now, the plan is to play an obedience script a “good girl” appendage. I do have a “converter” preamble at the start. I may take it out at a later date or put it in intermittently.

My main obedience script is 20 affirmations at this point. The converter and good girl portions are five affirmations each for a total of 30 affirmations. I would prefer to stay in the 20 to 25 range; so, I’m inclined to take out the converter portion.

The main portion, the obedience script, will not change over the course of time unless I need to make tweaks to the script. The same 20 lines will be playing throughout the first portion of my updated plan. I will be concentrating on obedience and being happy obeying me during this period. My good girl appendage is just to lay some groundwork to give me tools in being more active during her training.

I do know that it will probably take more than a week to see results; however, I will probably only swap out messages at the end of any given week. During any given week, my plan is to only have one message playing, but I might play a second script during a week to address an important occurrence, as a transition or to experiment with something.

I would add my name to the script’s but it just comes out weird. Probably better to leave it out instead of having some mispronunciation of my name in there, right?

Anyways, I have changed scripts from the converter to the obedience earlier today. We’ll see how it goes… I’ll try to post my script later this weekend, this has been a busy week.

[babanathie]

05/11/2016 at 6:41 am

• Restructure

o I’m doing a general restructuring of my approach. I’m going to focus on some general concepts. I don’t plan on having more than two scripts running at any given time. Preferably, I’ll just have one running for a week at a time.

o I have my concepts broken down into three parts:
 Obedience
 Duty
 Health

o I also want to incorporate a rewards system into many scripts. I want her to crave being called a “good girl”; each script will mention her being a “good girl”. A few scripts will concentrate on her desire to be called a “good girl”. This is in addition to the standard happiness statements.

• Obedience

o This is a fundamental concept in my opinion; so, I will be concentrating on this one first. I plan on making a series of scripts to reinforce these concepts. Each script should be very similar to each other with a minor variation due to supporting role(s).

o A supporting role is another concept, like love, that would help reinforce the need for obedience or a concept, like performing her duties, that signifies obedience. The plan is keep the scripts short and not try to cram too much into a single script. However, having multiple scripts with a similar structure and content will allow me to switch out scripts to reinforce slightly different areas over the course of several weeks.

o There will also be summary script for each concept. A summary will include all of the major roles. I’ll try to keep it relatively short; however, it will be the longest script out the group. It will only be used if she has demonstrated some level of competence in all the listed roles.

o Scripts
 Love
 Honor
 Duty
 Respect
 Summary (rewards)

• Duty

o These scripts revolve around her expected duties around the house. She is lazy to put it bluntly and seems to equate me being in the house at the same time as her as me being lazy. She doesn’t seem to realize that I go to work early in morning before she wakes up, and she doesn’t wake up until I get home or right before I get home. She seems to have developed resentment for me wanting to relax while she “has” to do something even though she just woke up and hasn’t done anything yet. Each of these scripts will mention the major points of: love, honor and obey. In addition, they will be reinforced with a “reward”. I’m not sure how to tackle laziness; I would appreciate any advice.

o Scripts
 Cooking
 Cleaning
 Laundry
 Shopping
 Summary (rewards)

• Health

o This is another area affected by her laziness. I want her to start exercising and getting onto a diet. I will pick a diet and exercise plan for her and leave advertisement for it around the house. The scripts will tell her that she wants to do the diet and/or do the exercise routine.

o Scripts
 Walking
 Exercise
 Diet
 General (rewards)

• Expansion

o After an initial run, I can expand the number of categories and/or scripts in each category. This is just to get me started in the process.

[babanathie]

05/11/2016 at 5:48 am

@Alen said:

I’m not the best with scripts I generally do what others do but I try. U could think about adding her name and your name occasionally into them. I read recently that someone’s name is a powerful thing to put in scripts and their mind may also pick up on it. Hope things go well.

I did have a quick question… What is a single affirmation? Is it just the “I must” or “I action” statement? Do any of lead up statements count as an affirmation statement? For example, would a statement that starts with “God says” count as an affirmation statement?

[babanathie]

05/08/2016 at 10:40 pm

So here’s my Love, Honor and Obey script:

This is my inner voice and I always trust it.

I listen to my inner voice.
I trust my inner voice.
I do as my inner voice says.

My inner voice helps me become happy.

My inner voice helps me change.

You want to make your Husband happy.
I love my Husband.

My Husband is my whole world.
I want to honor my Husband.

I enjoy making my Husband happy.
I obey my Husband.

My Husband is my whole world.
I want to love, honor and obey my Husband.

I want to make my Husband happy.
You want to love, honor and obey your Husband.

I want to make my Husband my whole world.
My Husband is my whole world.
Your Husband is your whole world.

You want to love, honor and obey your Husband.
I want to love, honor and obey my Husband.

You want to love, honor and obey your Husband.
I love, honor and obey my Husband.

You love, honor and obey your Husband.
I love, honor and obey my Husband.

As advised, I tried to keep the verb tense consistent and in the present. And of course, the delays edited themselves out of the post…

[babanathie]

05/08/2016 at 8:44 pm

I was thinking of adding a short converter precursor to some of the later clips… Probably not all of them, maybe every third one since I plan on overlapping up to three scripts at a time. I was kind of worried that I might be spreading the topic of script out too much doing that though.

I’ll keep it in mind. My wife has, in the past, been pretty submissive. It’s just lately, she’s been somewhat aggressive. I willing to spend the time to “correct” that thought pattern though. I’m hoping her natural tendency will be easier to bring out rather than completely rewriting her nature. There are areas that are completely against her nature; I tried to note those areas above. Partially, I wanted to remind myself that these sections might take forever and a day…

I’m early in the process; so, I will keep an eye on verb tense. I noticed that a lot of the default scripts tend to change tenses a lot and break some rules like not using negatives. I’ll attempt to post a few scripts as I get to them… I’m currently working on the stage #1, tracks #2 and #3…