Wife surrender

[trainer81]

02/25/2014 at 4:50 pm

Here’s the subliminal I’ve been using for the past two months. YMMV.

I use echo and 2 second pause between lines.

A couple notes:
she has repeated many of the affirmations recently. I told her she was a good wife and she said, “I am learning every day.”
She has talked quite a bit about being open, being obedient, being relaxed, being completely trusting, and surrendering.
Throughout our marriage, she has frequently said her love for me is “fierce” which is why I used that descriptive. But if one of you used that word, it might have unforeseen consequences, lol…

This is your inner voice.
You want to listen to my voice.
This is my inner voice.
These words are my thoughts.
I have always felt this way.
I always listen to my inner voice.
My inner voice is soothing.
I am happy to believe my inner voice.
You have always felt this way.
I am a wife.
You are a wife.
A wife is the best thing that I will ever be.
A wife is the best thing that you will ever be.
Each and every day in each and every way, I become a better wife to my husband.
Each and every day in each and every way, you become a better wife to your husband.
A wife loves her husband fiercely.
I love my husband fiercely.
You love your husband fiercely.
A wife loves her husband unconditionally.
I love my husband unconditionally.
You love your husband unconditionally.
A wife opens her heart to her husband.
I open my heart to my husband.
You open your heart to your husband.
A wife opens her mind to her husband.
I open my mind to my husband.
You open your mind to your husband.
A wife opens her soul to her husband.
I open my soul to my husband.
You open your soul to your husband.
A wife trusts her husband completely.
I trust my husband completely.
You trust your husband completely.
A wife is sexually aroused by her husband.
I am sexually aroused by my husband.
You are sexually aroused by your husband.
A wife is sexually addicted to her husband.
I am sexually addicted to my husband.
You are sexually addicted to your husband.
A wife is happiest when she is serving her husband.
I am happiest when I am serving my husband.
You are happiest when you are serving your husband.
A wife is happily obedient to her husband.
I am happily obedient to my husband.
You are happily obedient to your husband.
A wife relaxes when she is with her husband.
I relax when I am with my husband.
You relax when you are with your husband.
A wife is able to surrender to her husband.
I am able to surrender to my husband.
You are able to surrender to your husband.
A wife belongs to her husband.
I belong to my husband.
You belong to your husband.
A wife wears sexy clothes and makeup for her husband.
I wear sexy clothes and makeup for my husband.
You wear sexy clothes and makeup for your husband.
I need to be a good wife.
You need to be a good wife.

[Tap]

02/27/2014 at 3:07 am

I see that you’ve gone the long subliminal route. How long is that script one way through?

[trainer81]

02/27/2014 at 2:12 pm

A little over 8 minutes. Each affirmation is basically repeated two or three times, just varying whether it’s 1st/2nd/3rd person. So I don’t think it’s too long. But there are probably a few I could take out that are superfluous.

[J66R]

02/27/2014 at 8:09 pm

ADRZ74

While I agree with the general advice to use smaller scripts I am one of those who have mixed around large and small scripts and has had real definite success in using a long script so.

My all in one script is literally 16mins long and I have what I call a Heavy BJ script that runs 11mins. Now those are single pass scripts, not looped in any way. But I also run Trainer’s My Husband is My master, His Happiness, Obedient Wife and a customer BJ script that is short, 4mins.

My script cycle is ultra-long though. I am seeking changes over the course of months or years, and it has been working out pretty well, for the most part. Oh, she has her pushback days (weeks) but in 20 years she would never suck more than a couple of minutes and NEVER to completion letting me cum in her mouth. In just a few months she totally backed off of that and there is NO QUESTION, no discussion. If my penis goes in her mouth, that’s where I’m shooting it off, every time. Same thing with anal or doggy. It was always a multi-week beg fest to get either. Now, if she’s not safe, she brings out the big black bottle of Pur. And if she is safe she stand by the bed until I bend her over. She never used to move at all during doggy but lately has been quite animated in her movements.

I honestly think that the long script was better for the permanent entrainment of certain things. For example the all in one script has been running since it’s inception, 24hrs a day. That’s for almost a year. Back a few months ago I took it offline for about a month. EVERYTHING stayed going for the entire time. We visited her family some 500 miles away and she actually allowed me to have sex in her parents house. Never had that happen. And they other night, we went out and I had to stop at the office to check on something. Not everyone was gone in the building, we could hear people outside the office door, but I told her to get naked. She did. Been trying to get her to do that for years.

My all-in-one is more about long term goals that she was VERY anti about, with intermittent short term small scripts and reinforcing concept scripts sprinkled in. But, you need to figure out what things are the long term and short term goals. Long terms or super important goals could go into a all in one like I have that you intend to be around for many months. with the shorter term, reinforcing or hit-em-hard items in shorter more focused scripts.

With my wife I decided to go the long router because she really is pretty freaking messed up and I think that she needed the constant reminder of all the things that were wrong not just a few little ones at a time. I opted to go for the siege approach I’d guess your say.

I think the bottom line is that she is yours and is your responsibility to help without hurting her or messing her up worse than she might be. Careful observation and honest assessment of both her issues and yours will determine the best course, long scripts, short scripts or combos, to get you both where you need to be to be your best together.

[trainer81]

02/27/2014 at 9:38 pm

Thanks for the input!

Yes, my script has worked quite well for the past couple months, and while I keep getting ideas about changing things around, I haven’t yet taken that step. So my wife has listened to the above script for 2-3 months now. I can’t really complain about the results at this point, so I will continue to stay the course.

[Tap]

02/28/2014 at 1:29 am

Well, I’ve tried a long script for a long time and yes it worked decently. However, when I switched to short scripts, below 25 affirmations, I saw more success.

The issue with a long script is you’ll get alot of dilutional effects. With so many affirmations to concentrate on, the subconscious might feel overwhelmed and ignore some of statements. In my opinion, it’s better to break up your long custom into shorter ones, and focus on a playlist of 2 max and rotate when needed.

However, if you’re seeing good results with your longer ones, might as well continue. With a long custom, the best way to insure it will work is to keep the same custom playing for a long time, years, as j66r said, without making changes to it, or else you won’t get enough repetitions.

[Fizbin]

09/20/2014 at 6:10 pm

I have been going through looking for some messages I may have missed during all of the shuffling, and found this thread.

I have to agree that while the line count is high, the concept count is actually quite reasonable. Other than the induction, intro and closing, there are only 15 “actionable” affirmation types in three persons. Essentially you could think of this as an unfolded sledgehammer.

[adrz74]

09/21/2014 at 1:03 pm

At this point, I’d have to say every affirmation in this script is true. But it’s likely a combination of running this script and then using hypnosis.

[Master2604]

09/30/2014 at 7:31 pm

Gents, I use my blackberry and put the program on repeat all night. I am slowly getting results. Anybody have success playing a silent in her sleep?

[Qwerty]

09/30/2014 at 10:22 pm

Master playing silent files while my wife sleeps is what u ha v e done exclusively and I have had great results.