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  • August 18, 2014 at 4:37 pm #0
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    08/18/2014 at 4:37 pm

    Hi there friends, recently i put Lee Player in my wife´s pc and i keep it running while she has headphones doing something else. I started with wife cock sucker as a file, but in 3 weeks nothing seems to change. Is there a better to file to start converting?

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    08/18/2014 at 5:23 pm

    Welcome to the forum! It’s hard to know what to recommend, without more information as to your goals, both long-term and short-term, as well what your perception of your relationship is.
    I originally joined the site with the intention of getting my wife to be more sexual, but found thee was so much more that I wanted to accomplish first.I think most of us came in to the site with something similar in mind.
    I would encourage you to consider what behaviors you would like to see change in your wife, why you think she doesn’t display those behaviors, and start there. I had no success with the CS file either, until built a groundwork in submission. After you’ve considered things, share in the forum your goals and as much back ground as you feel comfortable doing, ad I’m sure all the members here will be glad to help.
    Once again, welcome!

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    08/18/2014 at 5:31 pm

    Hi, thank you much for the welcome tonguester4_69!
    My wife is not interested in sex at all, unfortunately hehe. But i´d wish to create in her a craving for sucking.
    there are quite nice files here. The main goal was the CS file. Do you think would be good to start with some submission file then? or the converter files? thanks!

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    08/19/2014 at 12:15 am

    Some say the converter is not necessary. Some have found that it is pretty effective. Those that used it mostly did so for a week or two then started into other files to form a base line of mental capitulation in the little lady’s thought patterns. Those additional files will set the stage mentally for the more difficult to accomplish stuff.
    Most people here think that a month is about as short a time as you should play individual files and that 2 or 3 files is sort of a limit for effectiveness.

    So, read up on the various threads and learn from others successes and failures. Start with the Converter and then on to the files you think will work best to get the kind of mind set you are working toward. Hope that helps.

    One other thing… you might want to check and be sure that the file is playing properly and that all your equipment is functioning correctly… equipment failure has caused problems for some folks before…

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    08/19/2014 at 12:30 am

    Many have found beginning with the converter files for a couple of weeks, first, to be ideal. They will help to condition her to listen to and internalize the voice of the other subliminal files. After that, files dealing with submission and making you happy would be a good next step. And finally begin playing the sucking files either after submission/his happiness files.

    Many of us have found that focusing on, at most, 2 – 3 topics at a time is the most effective strategy, so at least wait until after you’ve run the introduction with the converter files. Running the sucker files in conjunction with the submission files would fit nicely into the 2-3 topic limit.

    Keep in mind, that when attempting to change a person’s behaviors via subliminals, it takes time for the subconscious to work out how it will allow those changes without confronting it’s core perspectives too directly. This is especially true when dealing with women who are decidedly non-sexual, taking large leaps in sex frequency, quality, enthusiasm or into performing acts they profess to detest; it will take time.

    But, very many of us have thought there was to be no progress only to be surprised by huge leaps of progress in short periods of time. If you’ve read many of the posts here, you will see a pattern for many of us, that we may see almost no progress for a very long time, then we’ll see some inkling of changes that we might easily dismiss as our imaginations. Then, BAM, a huge change happens. Often this is around 2 months or so of beginning a new file or topic.

    In any case, welcome to what may be a very long, but worthwhile journey.

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    08/19/2014 at 9:22 am

    Welcome to Stepford!

    In addition to the great advice you have received so far, I want to suggest that you might have better luck starting with an “attitude” file, such as submission, or a focus on your happiness, rather than specific actions. It is almost a cliché that the big difference between most men and women is summed up as “Men express love to get sex, while women give sex to express love.”

    Promote first in her the feelings to express, and then the guidance on how to best express them will be a lot easier to take.

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    08/19/2014 at 12:45 pm

    Thanks a lot, I´ll try that :)

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