Tap’s scripts

[Tap]

04/20/2014 at 11:16 pm

Rather then posting in a lot of threads, I’ve decided to post my updated scripts on this consolidated thread. The point of this thread is to help others in formulating their scripts, but also to help me keep track of what has worked for me in the past. Since I’m constantly updating my scripts with little changes here and there, I’ve noticed some scripts are better than others, and at times, previous scripts are better than current scripts.

Currently, I’m using the following files:

Obedience – My base file. It’s my opinion that an obedience base file is necessary to lay the proper foundation for everything else you want out of your wife. This file is often times played as part of a 2 subliminal playlist at night and by itself during the day. This file gets the most play. The script is usually repeated 5-7 times in audacity, depending on the number of affirmations.

BJ – This file receives lots of play as the 2nd subliminal played at night mainly. Sometimes, I only play this file by itself at night. I don’t play this as much during the day to prevent exposure to my child. The script is usually repeated 6 to 7 times in audacity, in my edits.

Sex – This file hardly gets play now. I don’t really need it as much because she likes sex now for some reason. If it does get play, I’ll add it as the 3rd subliminal in my night playlist or right before we have sex. The script is only repeated twice in audacity.

Good Girl – I hardly play this file as much either, as it’s not as important to me. If it does get play, it’s added as the 3rd subliminal in my night playlist. The script is only repeated twice in audacity.

Cleaning – I almost don’t ever play this file. If it does get play, it’s added as the 3rd subliminal in my night playlist. One reason I don’t play it as much is that I’ve added a few cleaning affirmations to the obedience file, which covers it. The script is only repeated twice in audacity.

All my files are recorded using one voice, Cepstral Amy’s voice, at -5 speed, -2 Pitch and system volume at 255 in TextAloud. I always put 2000 milliseconds or 2 seconds pause between each affirmation INCLUDING the last affirmation. That is so when it loops it is continuous. I make 2 versions of each custom, one at -17 amp used for my lower volume mp3 players and one at -23 amp used for my higher volume mp3 players. I don’t use the Lee player as much anymore, but when I do, I play the -23 amp version at a lower level. I always use the copy and paste function in audacity to repeat my scripts, but the number of times the script is copied varies with how much exposure I want for her.

[Tap]

04/20/2014 at 11:28 pm

In my newest BJ file, I’m experimenting with triggers a little by linking BJs to things that she likes such as facebook, friends, and money. My thinking is if those things are on her mind, it will link to BJ. I also reordered it to flow better. I’m starting to place a large emphasis on ordering my affirmations correctly to make it easier for the subconscious to follow. With 20 affirmations, it was repeated 7 times in audacity for a total subliminal of 13:30.

Giving my husband a blow job, fulfills me.

Giving my husband blow job, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a blow job, is happiness.

To suck my husband’s dick. is money.

To suck my husband’s dick. is to win the lottery.

To suck my husband’s dick. is better then facebook.

To suck my husband’s dick. is better then friends.

To suck my husband’s dick. is my reward.

To suck my husband’s dick. is my greatest love.

I love sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

I want to suck. my husband’s dick.

I like my husband Tap’s dick.

My husband’s dick. tastes great.

I like to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

My husband always comes. in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, is pleasure.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is my fantasy.

[Tap]

04/20/2014 at 11:36 pm

In my newest obedience file, I placed a lot of emphasis on obedience affirmations as I said in the other thread, but I just changed it again to add back in my happiness affirmations. I added some new affirmations and reordered it to flow better. With 29 affirmations, the script is only repeated 5 times for a total length of 12:50.

My husband is my master.

My husband is my boss.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

I like my husband controlling me.

I behave well, for my husband.

I am submissive, to my husband.

I do what my husband Tap says.

I follow my husband Tap’s orders.

I am obedient, to my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband.

God commands me, to obey my husband.

To obey my husband Tap, pleasures me.

To obey my husband Tap, fulfills me.

To obey my husband Tap, is happiness.

To obey my husband Tap, is my fantasy.

To obey my husband Tap, is my goal in life.

To obey my husband Tap, is my purpose in life.

I like making my husband happy.

I satisfy my husband’s desires.

Serving my husband, satisfies me.

Pleasing my husband Tap, is ecstasy.

My pleasure is my husband’s happiness.

My happiness. is making my husband happy.

Cleaning the house, is my priority.

I like to wash the dishes.

I enjoy cooking.

I love, my husband Tap.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap, forever.

[Tap]

04/23/2014 at 3:29 am

Interesting finding with my new BJ script is she’s bring up sucking dick in casual conversation much more. Some ugly chick popped up in a movie and she asked me if I’d let the ugly girl suck my dick, and I said sure why not. The plan is for her to do it tonight and she mentioned how she wondered if my semen will taste bad since I ate alot of food with fat in it. I said it always tastes wonderful. I think linking it to money and facebook is getting her to think about it more.

[Tap]

05/04/2014 at 5:40 pm

I changed my obedience file to have simpler affirmations, and took out the “to obey” lines because I felt that they didn’t really tell her she’s obeying me. It’s 30 affirmations repeated 5 times for a length of 12:45.

My husband is my master.

My husband is my authority figure.

My husband is my boss.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

I behave well, for my husband.

I am submissive, to my husband.

I want my husband to control me.

I like my husband controlling me.

I do what my husband says.

I follow my husband’s orders.

I like following my husband’s commands.

I am obedient, to my husband.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I am a good girl, obeying my husband Tap.

I enjoy obeying my husband Tap.

I am happy, obeying my husband Tap.

Obeying my husband Tap, is ecstasy.

Obeying my husband Tap, is God’s command.

Obeying my husband Tap, is my goal in life.

Obeying my husband Tap, is my purpose in life.

I fulfill my husband’s needs.

I satisfy my husband’s desires.

I like to please my husband.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Cleaning the house, is my priority.

I like to wash the dishes.

I enjoy cooking.

I love, my husband Tap.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap, forever.

[Tap]

05/04/2014 at 5:48 pm

Edited my BJ script to take out the “to suck” lines with the same reasoning as above. Made some affirmations simpler and added a good girl line so I won’t have to use my good girl custom. It’s 20 affirmations repeated 7 times for a length of 13:40. Almost daily, she makes references to blowjobs now, always take my cum in her mouth, pretty much making it a habit. She still spits it out, but I’m not as concerned with that as the orgasms are great. I’m looking to increase the amount still.

Giving my husband a BJ, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, is happiness.

Giving my husband a blow job, is money.

Giving my husband a blow job, is better than facebook.

Giving my husband a blow job, is better than friends.

I am a good girl, giving my husband a blow job,

My reward is sucking, my husband’s dick.

I enjoy sucking, my husband’s dick.

I am happy sucking, my husband’s dick.

I love sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

I always want to suck. my husband Tap’s dick.

My husband’s dick. tastes great.

I like to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband always comes. in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, is pleasure.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is my fantasy.

[Tap]

05/04/2014 at 5:56 pm

I edited my sex script, and will play it more by itself during the day or as an add on in my playlist at night. I actually strongly prefer a BJ now over sex. This adds to my thinking that the customs affect me also. The other night I just played this script accidentally, and when I woke up I was ready to have sex. In a way, I believe it will help me in that area as well because if you notice, some affirmations could be unisex and not strictly for her. I only repeated it twice for a length of 2:47 because it is mainly for support.

Sex makes me happy.

I like sex.

I always have sex for a long time.

I am a good girl, having sex with my husband.

During sex, I have many or gasms.

My husband Tap makes me horny.

My husband Tap makes me wet.

My husband Tap turns me on.

My husband’s dick. makes me horny.

I enjoy playing with my husband Tap’s dick.

I like my husband, pulling my hair.

I love the doggy style position.

The doggy style position, pleasures me.

The doggy style position, excites me.

The doggy style position, is ecstasy.

The doggy style position, makes me or gasm.

[Tap]

05/10/2014 at 10:40 am

So I noticed her giving me a little more attitude lately. I decided to include back in more submissive themes in my obedience script and shortened it back to 20 affirmations. 20 seems like the golden number for me as when I go above that, I see less effectiveness. I added some affirmations from FB’s script. I was able to repeat this 7 times for a length of 12 minutes.

My husband Tap is my master.

My husband dominates me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

I am a submissive, wife.

I like being submissive, to my husband.

I am happy being submissive, to my husband.

Submission to my husband is my fantasy.

I behave well, for my husband Tap.

I like my husband controlling me.

I do everything my husband tells me.

I like following my husband’s commands.

I want, to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

My purpose, is 2 obey my husband Tap.

I satisfy my husband’s desires.

I like to please my husband Tap.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

I like to wash the dishes.

[Tap]

05/17/2014 at 2:33 pm

Adding more submissive lines to my obedience script seemed to have a negative effect. She actually tried telling me what to do a few times. Maybe it was her inner-self fighting what she heard. At any rate, I changed it back to a heavy emphasis on obeying me, which seemed to have had a better effect before from my previous scripts. It is why I continue to believe sometimes previous scripts are better.

I included two lines again, which I have before, about me being above her and her below me. Thinking about it, I don’t think this is bad for her self-esteem because it just relates to me and no one else. My thinking is if she begins to think of me as higher, she will show me more respect and obey me more. I’ve played this for 5 days now and her behavior has improved to be more submissive. She even offered a BJ to me, which she hasn’t before, but that could also be due to the support of my BJ custom. This script is 25 affirmations repeated 6 times for a length of 13:30.

From now on, I’ll wait a week or so before posting a new script to see if it’s having a positive effect. In this way, a script that I post is working or effective. There’s no point in posting scripts that don’t work.

My husband is my master.

My husband is my authority figure.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

My husband is above me.

I am below, my husband Tap.

I am submissive, to my husband.

I behave well, for my husband Tap.

To obey my husband Tap, is God’s command.

To obey my husband Tap, is pleasure.

To obey my husband Tap, is my fantasy.

To obey my husband Tap, is ecstasy.

To obey my husband Tap, is happiness.

To obey my husband Tap, is my goal in life.

To obey my husband Tap, is my purpose in life.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I am obedient, to my husband Tap.

I follow my husband’s commands.

I do everything my husband tells me.

I like my husband controlling me.

I satisfy my husband’s desires.

I like to please my husband Tap.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

[Tap]

05/22/2014 at 12:27 am

So lately I’ve been trying to get her to increase the amount of times she will give me a BJ. All BJs she gives me are to completion through cumming in her mouth. Just yesterday, I made this script below. It’s a shortened script to 10 affirmations, but with the affirmations of “every day” like J66R had. I was able to repeat it 13 times for a total custom of 13:30. I played it for her all night last night.

Then today I asked for a BJ and she agreed. We have this thing where she will do at least 2 BJs a month. Sometimes, she finds reasons to do it more. This would be her 3rd BJ tonight for the month. To my surprise, she also offered to give me a 4th BJ if I help her on some paperwork thing, which of course I agreed to. I think the success just today is partially due to my new shortened custom. I’m testing the theory of highly increased repetitions through a lot less affirmations and it seems to be positive so far.

Giving my husband a blow job, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a blow job, is money.

I enjoy sucking, my husband Tap’s dick. every day.

I am happy sucking, my husband’s dick. every day.

I love sucking, my husband’s dick. every day.

I am a good girl sucking, my husband’s dick. every day.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

I like my husband, cumming in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

[Tap]

05/23/2014 at 10:13 pm

Interesting thing happened. Last night’s BJ was intense. She was really into it and even looked at me while doing it, which she normally doesn’t do. Then I blew a whole lot of cum in her mouth and she kept going as usual while I was getting there. Afterwards, she joked that some came out of her nose because it was so much and she wanted to take a picture of it. Maybe she swallowed it and it went down her nose somehow. During the past few days, many times she will joke around going through the motions with her hand of pretending to suck dick.

One thing I also did was put a pillow on the side of the bed where she sleeps to prop up my phone that’s playing the subliminal. The effect is the phone is higher and closer to her ears, though still unseen by her because it’s hidden on the side of the bed. It could also be she’s hearing the message better.

I decided to change my obedience custom to a shortened version too. I repeated it 13 times for a length of 12:15. She had been feeling sad lately, so I made my obedience script extra positive to lighten her mood. It’s been playing the past 2 days and I noticed she’s been happier. I believe a combination of the phone closer to her ears and shortened scripts is seeing more beneficial results.

My husband is my master.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband.

I want to behave well, for my husband Tap.

I like to do everything my husband says.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

To obey my husband Tap, is pleasure.

To obey my husband Tap, is happiness.

To obey my husband Tap, is ecstasy.

To obey my husband Tap, is my purpose in life.

I always obey my husband Tap.

[Qwerty]

05/24/2014 at 3:37 am

Congratulations Tap. It seems you have had a major break through. The new script is also great. Simple and consider. You are take these subliminals to new heights. Again well done sir, well done.

[Tap]

05/24/2014 at 2:46 pm

Thanks Qwerty. While she is finally cozying up to the idea of BJs, I believe ultimate success is when I get it on demand so I’m still working on that.

I edited my cleaning script to only 4 lines. It’s repeated 6 times for a length of 1:45. The purpose of this is not to be played every night. It will serve just as support when I see her cleaning duties are slacking. Originally I added a few lines to my obedience script, but since I’m moving to shorter scripts, I switched it to this format.

Cleaning the house, is my priority.

I like to wash the dishes.

I enjoy cooking.

I am a good house wife.

As for sex, interestingly, for one of the first times in awhile, yesterday she initiated sex saying she wanted it. It’s strange because I’m really only playing the obedience script and BJ script, and not a sex script. It could be the BJ script itself makes her horny somehow? At any rate, I shortened my sex script also. I will only play this every once in awhile for support like my cleaning file, or right before sex to get her in the mood. It’s 10 affirmations repeated twice for a total subliminal of 1:49.

Sex makes me happy.

I like sex.

During sex, I have many or gasms.

My husband Tap makes me horny.

I enjoy playing with my husband Tap’s dick.

I love the doggy style position.

The doggy style position, pleasures me.

The doggy style position, excites me.

The doggy style position, is ecstasy.

The doggy style position, makes me or gasm.

[Tap]

06/02/2014 at 4:20 am

Currently, my short BJ file gets played mainly at night with my obedience file. I noticed when I play it during the day, she’ll start joking around pretending to suck my dick with her mouth. Interestingly, if I’m naked in front of her, she will just kiss my dick. This month, I got her to agree to give me a BJ 4 times, but I’m still trying to breakthrough to on demand. I feel like if I strictly played my BJ file nonstop, I could possibly see a breakthrough, but I don’t want to see slide back with my obedience file, and also with my son around, I don’t want to expose him to it.

I also remade my obedience file to include my happiness lines and have been playing it for a week now. I can tell a change for the better by adding those lines so even though it’s now 20 affirmations, it’s still doing the job. I’m starting to think 10 to 20 affirmations is the best for my wife. After 20, I don’t see as good of a benefit. I also included 2 cleaning lines so in that way, I won’t have to use my cleaning custom. It’s repeated 7 times for a length of 12:50.

My husband is my master.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband.

I want to behave well, for my husband Tap.

I like to do everything my husband says.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

To obey my husband Tap, is pleasure.

To obey my husband Tap, is happiness.

To obey my husband Tap, is ecstasy.

To obey my husband Tap, is God’s command.

To obey my husband Tap, is my purpose in life.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I like to please my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband, is my goal in life.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Making my husband happy, gives me happiness.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

[Tap]

06/08/2014 at 6:26 pm

I noticed her extra caring to me this past week. A few nights I played only my obedience file. I have this idea that including ideas of “goal in life” and “purpose in life” help direct her more to follow the script. Also, the added positive emphasis has put her in a better mood. I plan to not change that script for awhile as a result. I also carried some of those ideas over to my BJ script.

Last week, she gave me a BJ that took awhile. She got tired and ended up using her hand to finish me off. I was disappointed and let her know. She said just that one time it would happen, but it’ll go in her mouth from now on. My thinking was a part of it might be due to the shortened script. Just in case, I increased the lines back to 20. It’s repeated 7 times for a total length of 13:35.

I decided to shorten my subliminal rotation also. I only have 2 main files I play now, the BJ one and obedience one. My third file, the sex one, hardly gets play. I deleted the other files that I had. Some nights, I play only one of the files depending on the one I want more emphasis. I’ve found that playing one file all night rather than 2 in a playlist is better.

Giving my husband a blow job, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a blow job, is happiness.

Giving my husband a blow job, is money.

Giving my husband a blow job, is important to me.

I am a good girl sucking, my husband’s dick.

I enjoy sucking, my husband’s dick.

I am happy sucking, my husband’s dick.

I love sucking, my husband’s dick.

My main goal in life is sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

My purpose in life is sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

I always want to suck. my husband’s dick.

My husband’s dick. tastes great.

I like to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband always comes. in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, is pleasure.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is my fantasy.

[Tap]

06/15/2014 at 7:20 pm

I figure it was time to deepen my wife’s submission to me. I added some slave lines making it 25 affirmations. Been playing it for a week now a few nights by itself, and noticing some good results. She seems to be in more of a good mood lately. I attribute that to the overall positive tone in most of the affirmations of her being happy etc. when she follows it. I also changed my obedient affirmations to be more action based. It’s repeated 5 times in 11:45.

My husband is my master.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

I like being my husband’s slave.

I enjoy being my husband’s slave.

I am happy being my husband’s slave.

Being my husband’s slave, is my fantasy.

I choose to submit completely, to my husband.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I want to do everything my husband says.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

I want, to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

I love, to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me, to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life, is 2 obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I like to please my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband, is my goal in life.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Making my husband happy, gives me happiness.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband Tap happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

[Tap]

07/19/2014 at 3:11 pm

It’s been over a month since I have updated. A few things of interest have happened. We were out with her friend, and her friend mentioned she’s going back to school. I told my wife maybe she should go to school also. She said she prefers being a housewife and my slave. She said she likes being my slave and started laughing. She made it as a joke, but to say that in front of her friend is different. I asked her later in private if she really likes being my slave and she said yes she loves it. She probably thinks it’s a joke to a certain extent, but my added slave lines have had an effect.

She’s also getting better at BJs. When she’s doing it, I grab her hair and head and push it deeper and call her a good girl as she does it. She doesn’t resist it, and I think she gets into it more. I still always finish in her mouth, and last time she commented it got all over her face, hair, and hands, but she liked it. Definitely, things are better in that area.

My overall goals are still to increase the number of BJs and to deepen her submissiveness. I feel like I have done well with her now thinking of herself as a slave. I don’t know how to take it to the point where she really starts acting like my slave. I know that there may be some training involved, but I am inexperienced in that field.

I did update my base obedient custom 2 weeks ago, and I’m seeing better results. As you know, I really like my oral custom but it bothers me to play it in front of my son for fear of exposing him to it. Therefore, it limits how much I can repeat it for her since he’s always around. So what I did was, I have given the word “blowjob” a code word with my wife in order to protect or mask my son from learning about it. We call it “sippy” in front of him. Now in my wife’s head, sippy is a BJ. I added 10 lines to my base file only about sippy, so she thinks of doing BJs more. I told my wife we will never tell him what sippy means.

It has worked to some degree, because she offers it more when I do something for her. The overall subliminal is 35 affirmations repeated 4 times for a total of 13:30. I have usually advocated shorter subliminals, but since she’s heard this subliminal with the same affirmations so long, it still is having a good effect.

My husband is my master.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

I like being my husband’s slave.

I enjoy being my husband’s slave.

I am happy being my husband’s slave.

Being my husband’s slave, is my fantasy.

I choose to submit completely, to my husband.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I want to do everything my husband says.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

I want, to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

I love, to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me, to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life, is 2 obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I like to please my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband, is my goal in life.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Making my husband happy, gives me happiness.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband Tap happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

I am a good girl, giving my husband sippy, every day.

I feel better, giving my husband sippy, every day.

I like giving my husband sippy, every day.

I enjoy giving my husband sippy, every day.

I am happy giving my husband sippy, every day.

Giving my husband sippy, is my pleasure.

Giving my husband sippy, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband sippy, is happiness.

Giving my husband sippy, is important to me.

Giving my husband sippy, is my priority.

[gtbear]

07/19/2014 at 11:11 pm

Tap,

“My overall goals are still to increase the number of BJs and to deepen her submissiveness. I feel like I have done well with her now thinking of herself as a slave. I don’t know how to take it to the point where she really starts acting like my slave. I know that there may be some training involved, but I am inexperienced in that field.”

The actually is that she is your slave to the extent that you define her as being your slave. What being your slave means to her is what you have produced in her up until now. It (her slavery) is a reflection of your own desires as implimented by you. I would suggest that your desires are maturing / forming, with some taking shape in previously unexplored turf… It is not her mental turf but yours that is the formative agent… You potter, her clay.

Like anyone that is making something, whether creative / artistic or mechanical, all those who garner success produce a plan (a picture) a map of what they want to accomplish… before they start to squeeze the clay or cut the stone or nail one board to another. You appear to me to be ready to get the information that will allow you to A: decide the format of your new goals. B: Explore the various coridors of your mind and others to crystalize your desire as more than swamp gas.
C: Form a solid picture of where you intend to take your slave and how you will get there. D: Put your plan down in a manner you can review later… E: Twist the slave’s brain / body / circumstances to fit your desires / plan.
Basicly, decide what you think that slave should be, at this time, and make her that. So… how does a slave act? or better yet, how does that particular slave act?
If you can find a copy, 8 1/2 Women is worth watching… It’s a movie about a journey by a couple of men into the slavery of several women.

[Tap]

07/20/2014 at 5:47 pm

Interesting, and your approach makes sense. I should mold her into how I want her to be. I’ll watch that movie.

[Tap]

08/07/2014 at 12:59 am

A few interesting things have occurred. I’ve been playing the same customs without changing the affirmations for a few weeks. This is probably the longest I’ve gone without changing them. She’s finally swallowed my cum twice. I’ve also started grabbing, pulling her hair during BJs, forcing her to go deeper, talking dirty about her taking my dick in her mouth. She’s accepting it nicely. My hope is she continues to swallow.

I told her I’m going to start spanking her when she does something I don’t like as a punishment. She thought it was funny, but didn’t resist the idea. I spanked her once already. I feel like I’m at a point where when I give her direct orders, she pretty much does it without question or with little resistance. I’ll have to see how to progress further.

[J66R]

08/07/2014 at 8:22 pm

Hopefully she’s enough like my wife in that once the ice is broken she will keep doing it. I do have to keep telling my wife when to do BJ’s, or else she’ll just ignore it, or at best ask “what are we doing” or “what do you want”. But though she obviously doesn’t like it, she has swallowed every time, since her first swallow.

My goal is at this point to get her to do it daily. And then I’d also like her to begin doing morning and night. I am about to rekindle efforts at getting her to let me hypnotize her, and hoping that will help break through a couple of stalemates we are having.

I don’t recall, Tap, did your scripts include language for rough sex, hair pulling etc. and deep throating? Maybe I should have read further back in the thread. But, I do have an issue with her going deep. My progress on deep throating has all but fizzled. She insists I’m too big and she can’t go any further down on me. I’d really like for her to let me do that and make her take me all the way down.

[trainer81]

08/07/2014 at 8:31 pm

Make a file where she will learn to enjoy cum and love the idea.

My Husband’s cum tastes good.
My Husband’s cum is a reward.

Something like that maybe….

[trainer81]

08/07/2014 at 8:36 pm

Oh when I trained my slave Amy awhile back in deep throating I used a ring gag to help keep her mouth open for me.

This was a good training method. A ring gag can be bought in any sex shop just make it a game for her.

[seekenq]

08/07/2014 at 10:48 pm

J66R

I am also working on introducing hypnosis.
I posted my latest script over in the Scripts section.
Feel free to use any part that works for you.
Comments and feedback most welcome.

Seeken

[Tap]

08/08/2014 at 4:02 am

@Trainer81 said:

Oh when I trained my slave Amy awhile back in deep throating I used a ring gag to help keep her mouth open for me.

This was a good training method. A ring gag can be bought in any sex shop just make it a game for her.

A ring gag is interesting. I don’t think she’d go for that at this point.

J66R, I do have a line about deep throating. Interestingly, I don’t have anything for hair pulling but was thinking of adding it to my BJ file to enforce it. I think her accepting my rough handling of her during a BJ has more to do with my obedience base file in doing what makes me happy. I asked her the other day what was the purpose of her life, and she immediately answered to make me happy. That’s one of my lines.

I got her to agree to give me 7 extra BJs in exchange for some things. She brings it up now how she will give me “sippy” tonight, even in front of her friends, which is our code word for BJ from my obedience file.

I’ve been reading different websites on learning to be in a dom/sub lifestyle. They are interesting and it appeals to me much. I told her I want her to be my submissive and I’ll be her dominant. She didn’t like the idea claiming we are equal. To me she is still fighting the idea even though her actions say otherwise.

[seekenq]

08/08/2014 at 2:48 pm

Tap:

I share your interest in the D/s lifestyle and am using several D/s lines in my happiness / obedience script.
I have not told her directly I want her to be submissive to me (I think she would push back like yours) but she is becoming more submissive all the time.
I think they have certain negative ideas associated with being a submissive.
Rather that fight that big ugly monster I decided to break it down into smaller behaviors that to me add up to being “submissive”.
Wanting me to please me, obedience, blow jobs on command, etc.
I’m hopeful that I can create a submissive without needed to use the label “submissive” for a long time.

Right now getting her to try hypnosis is high on my list (due to an event at the end of the month) followed right behind by edging and orgasm control.
The hypnosis is probably not needed but I see it as a way to get there sooner.
Edging / orgasm control is a pretty well known way to get her to be more dependent / submissive and has a number of other obvious benefits as well.

There is an interesting blog on Tumblr about this.
http://quitemystery.tumblr.com/Orgasm%20Conditioning

[Tap]

08/09/2014 at 3:43 am

I think I’ll have to take your route seekenq in changing her behaviors little by little until it’s what I want, even though she is against hearing it that she’s submissive. I don’t mind, as long as it turns out how I want.

[cms]

08/09/2014 at 1:11 pm

The term “submissive” has such an unfairly negative connotation. The problem is that many forget or simply don’t understand that in willing submission there remains power – the power to withdraw said submission. In the BDSM community, it is an exchange of power. The submissive willfully hands over power to her dominant. The dominant accepts this power and the RESPONSIBILITY that goes with it. For many submissives, it’s a chance to be free of the responsibility – which they find extremely liberating. For many this is exceptionally liberating but for some it is very frightening. A great deal of trust is needed to be truly successful – especially in a TPE.

It may seem rather cliche, but “with great power comes great responsibility.”

And yes, as you may have guessed, I have spent some time in this community. It was a time of great learning and a whole lot of fun. Circumstances in my day to day life necessitated my withdrawal from the lifestyle for some time, but I have found myself “lacking” in the past few months and have just started to reenter the community I abandoned years ago.

[LordIceWing]

08/09/2014 at 3:10 pm

I would actually say that the feminist movement being taken over by radicals did alot to ‘damn’ the term…

I’m not saying everybody is equal, reality says that women are better at some things than men, men better at other things and EVERYBODY is different and has their own strengths… But there is nothing wrong with CONSENSUAL submission and those who have the strength and predisposition to such a lifestyle choice should be respected… (I couldn’t do half of what my wifeslave does…. I’d kill anybody who tried to do that to me, or die in the attempt, yet she lovingly and willingly lets me subjugate her by choice (even before all of this))

[MasterSouthernStar]

08/09/2014 at 9:01 pm

Tap;

Congratulations – keep up the good work.

CMS;

Thank you for pointing out the thing that gets missed – almost all the time in the Dom sub relationship. The Dom must carry ALL the responsibility. Unfortunately too many of the morons that get involved don’t even think that for a second and so end up giving the lifestyle a poor track record for long term relationships. I strongly believe that men being irresponsible is the reason that women are no longer chattel – owned property as they once were legally. But that’s my personal rant – don’t get me started. For the purposes of this group I just want all the guys out there to know you’re right on when you point out responsibility as an essential part of the equation. Best of luck getting back to where you want to be.

MSS

[Tap]

08/09/2014 at 11:15 pm

Yes submissive has a bad connotation, but slave is even a worse term. I have still kept the term slave in my file though, because if she eventually accepts that term, submissive will follow. A few times she has joked with me recently that she’s my slave that does what I want.

To give an update on how I’ve been playing my files, because I think that has been important in my success. At night, I generally go with my main obedience file combined with BJ “sippy” talk, and the second file is my BJ only file. Those 2 customs have been my playlist during the night for the past few months. During the day, it’s only my obedience file with BJ. I have actually deleted my obedience only file, since I have seen good success with the 35 affirmation custom that combined the two topics. I haven’t changed any affirmations in that custom over a month now with my current version found on post #17 on this thread.

She gave me another nice BJ today, with me pulling her ponytail and forcing her head up and down fast. She seems so happy after I finish in her mouth because she can see I enjoy it very much. She does still run to the bathroom after I’m completely done so she’s swallowing some and then spitting some out most likely. I’m ok with that. Interesting thing to note, for the past week we haven’t had sex, and it’s just been 4 BJs, but that’s because I prefer that. She’s complaining that she wants me to fuck her. I think I’m just getting kind of lazy because it’s easy to sit back and let her do the work. I did just change my BJ only file to include a hair pulling line, and I deleted out another line to keep it 20 affirmations.

Giving my husband a blow job, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a blow job, is happiness.

Giving my husband a blow job, is money.

Giving my husband a blow job, is important to me.

I like my husband pulling my hare, during a blow job.

I am a good girl sucking, my husband’s dick.

I enjoy sucking, my husband’s dick.

I am happy sucking, my husband’s dick.

I love sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

It feels great to suck. my husband Tap’s dick.

I always want to suck. my husband’s dick.

My husband’s dick. tastes great.

I like to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband always comes. in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, is pleasure.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is my fantasy.

[event_hrzn]

08/09/2014 at 11:21 pm

TAP,
If you want your wife to swallow suggest in your script that your seamen taste like her favorite candy, or something like that.

I have been a member for awhile, and have had some success, but nothing earth shattering. I have mainly not commented on any post, but it seems that your wife is reacting well to your subs. Maybe taking one step further and tell her what to taste when she swallows.

[Tap]

08/09/2014 at 11:26 pm

@event_hrzn said:

TAP,
If you want your wife to swallow suggest in your script that your seamen taste like her favorite candy, or something like that.

I have been a member for awhile, and have had some success, but nothing earth shattering. I have mainly not commented on any post, but it seems that your wife is reacting well to your subs. Maybe taking one step further and tell her what to taste when she swallows.

Event, that might be a good trick. I might add a line in like that. With the last few BJs, I told her during the act I want her to swallow all my cum like a good girl, and she seems to have done it somewhat. Actually, I asked her today if she swallowed it all and she didn’t want to tell me. She probably did most of it. I can’t tell due to the fact that she runs to the bathroom afterwards.

[Tap]

08/10/2014 at 5:33 pm

I took event’s advice and also added some affirmations from J66R’s script about losing weight. She’s already skinny, but she’s constantly checking her weight. I picked her favorite deserts to add in to what my semen tastes like. If in her head she associates my cum to them, she will be more inclined to swallow as event suggested. It’s sort of how triggers work. I did add some lines of me forcing her head during the BJ. I think it will allow her to accept it further. I increased it to 25 affirmations to accomodate more lines, and it’s repeated 5 times for a length of 13:15. I feel like it’s my best BJ custom yet, hitting all the main points that I want.

Giving my husband a blow job, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a blow job, is happiness.

Giving my husband a blow job, is better than friends.

Giving my husband a blow job, is important to me.

I am a good girl sucking, my husband’s dick.

I enjoy sucking, my husband’s dick.

I am happy sucking, my husband’s dick.

I love sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

It feels great to suck. my husband Tap’s dick.

I always want to suck. my husband’s dick.

I like to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband to force his dick. deep in my throat.

I enjoy my husband pulling my hare, forcing his dick. down my throat.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband always comes. in my mouth.

I love to wait until my husband comes. completely in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, is extreme pleasure.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes like coconut juice.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes like the best chocolate cream.

My husband Tap’s semen, is the most delicious drink.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

I enjoy swallowing all of my husband’s semen, completely.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, helps me to lose weight.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is very healthy.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is my fantasy.

[adrz74]

08/11/2014 at 5:53 pm

I had a line in a script that said my cum tasted good and it actually worked. (I think I posted this somewhere.) I forget exactly what she said it tasted like, but it was a type of dessert and it was something that doesn’t actually exist, lol.

I don’t think you need to associate your cum with something specific – maybe just say that your cum is sweet or delicious and then let her subconscious decide what that will be.

I think associating swallowing with other good outcomes (losing weight) is a great idea. My wife is often restless at night, so I added a line that swallowing cum helps her sleep. Now I’m thinking of a script for morning blow jobs, so I might change it to swallowing cum gives her energy. lol

FWIW, drinking pineapple juice (about a cup a day) is widely reported to make your cum taste better. And if you want to increase the volume of your load, take zinc supplements.

[cms]

08/11/2014 at 7:47 pm

Though I can’t speak to it first hand as I never tasted, I used to drink pineapple juice mixed with cranapple juice pretty much daily and was told that when I had been drinking it for a couple weeks that I tasted substantially sweeter. Not by current wife, mind you.

[Tap]

08/12/2014 at 12:28 am

I might try that pineapple juice trick then, just to see how it goes. I’ll leave my custom how it is for now to see if it helps improve her swallowing.

[cms]

08/12/2014 at 2:07 am

If you like sweet juices, here’s what I did. I bought one of the big cans of Dole (use the brand name) pineapple juice and two of the regular size jugs (they are somewhere between a liter or two) of the sam’s choice cran-apple (again, I prefer sam’s choice as it’s a bit sweeter than the brand name). I mix the whole lot together. If you want to go smaller in mix size, you can pretty easily look up the sizes of these. Alternately, you can just mix to taste. My guess is that I drank the equivalent of between 1 and 2 glasses of straight pineapple juice per day. I’d do this for a couple weeks before really expecting it to have any significant affect on the flavor of bodily fluids. Additionally, if you are a heavy coffee drinker, I’ve heard that coffee tends to alter the flavor toward bitter. At the time I was doing this, I probably drank around a pot and a half of coffee per day. Coffee and this juice combination were pretty much the only things I drank. I pretty much only drink water now – rarely coffee and even rarer still is the pineapple juice.

If you’re thinking of putting something into the subs about it tasting like desert, I’d probably wait a week or so into your drinking pineapple juice before starting it playing – that way you’ll actually start tasting sweeter to her about the same time as the suggestions start affirming that you should be. Seems to me that it would play out similarly to conscious verbal reinforcements of the affirmations.

[Tap]

08/13/2014 at 2:21 am

I always wondered about that whether when reality conflicts with the affirmation, which should prevail. While I do agree, it would be nice for my semen to actually be sweet, I’m not so sure that is needed. I think in her head if she thinks it’ll taste good, even if it doesn’t, her subconscious might override it.

[tonguester4_69]

08/13/2014 at 2:13 pm

@Tap said:

I always wondered about that whether when reality conflicts with the affirmation, which should prevail. While I do agree, it would be nice for my semen to actually be sweet, I’m not so sure that is needed. I think in her head if she thinks it’ll taste good, even if it doesn’t, her subconscious might override it.

I would tend to agree with you on this. When you think about it, how many of our tastes, “acquired”. I love the taste of coffee now, but I remember not liking it when I was a teenager. Same with beer, and other types of liquor. If you can get past the, “good girls don’t” mentality, anything is possible.

[adrz74]

08/13/2014 at 4:40 pm

I agree, it’s not necessary. All of our senses are based somewhere in our brains. If you can access the subconscious, you can “override” (for lack of a better word) the system. I wouldn’t say that reality conflicts with the affirmation – I’d say the affirmation becomes her reality. It’s much more direct with hypnosis, where you can literally command someone to taste, feel, smell anything. I haven’t hypnotized my wife yet, but I’ve done “relaxation” exercises with her – she’s gotten quite good at feeling me “hold” her on nights when we’re apart and she feels lonely.

But it’s all a process. The hypnotists I’ve watched who were successful would start simple and once something like that was accomplished (e.g., feel my hand on your shoulder), then you could get the subconscious to do just about anything (cum for me!).

So I think it comes down to how much the subconscious already believes the voice in the affirmations. You’ve had a lot of success already, so I wouldn’t be surprised if you could simply command her to believe it’s sweet.

[Tap]

08/17/2014 at 9:45 pm

One interesting thing of note is that she’s very open now about talking about sucking my dick. The past few days she’s brought it up throughout the day saying she wants to suck it then swallow and gargle all my cum. I told her my semen is healthy for her and will help her lose weight, some new affirmations from my BJ file. She seemed to agree with it.

I decided to redo my obedience file which I’ve entitled now, the perfect wife. I reorganized it to flow better, took out 5 BJ lines and added 5 lines that I thought were important. It is still 35 affirmations, repeated 4 times in 13:30. Again, sippy is our code word for BJ.

My husband is my master.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband completely dominates me.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I want to do everything my husband says.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

I want, to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

I love, to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me, to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life, is 2 obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I choose to submit completely, to my husband Tap.

I want to be submissive, to my husband Tap.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband Tap.

I like being my husband’s slave.

I enjoy being my husband’s slave.

I am happy, being my husband’s slave.

Being my husband’s slave, is my fantasy.

I like to please my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband, is my goal in life.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Making my husband happy, gives me happiness.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband happy.

I am completely in love, with my husband Tap.

I have a very happy marriage, with my husband Tap.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap forever.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

I enjoy giving my husband sippy, every day.

I am happy, giving my husband sippy, every day.

Giving my husband sippy, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband sippy, is happiness.

Giving my husband sippy, is my priority.

[FaustsBoon]

08/19/2014 at 6:46 pm

Gotta say Tap, this newest script of yours is probably your best written, most concise, best flowing, one yet. It is so good that, with your blessing, I am probably going to rip it off, and use it with only a few modest changes (Obviously “sippy” isn’t a code-word we use around here, for example).

Really good work man. I feel like it super succinctly encapsulates “his happiness”, “submission” and “enjoying giving oral” themes in one lean script.

[Tap]

08/20/2014 at 2:25 am

Thanks FB.

Feel free to use it as that’s why I post it, to help others out. It’s been a work in progress for a long time now. I do think it captures all the major points that I wanted. I’ve been using a similar version of obedience file since late last year, and she’s changed very much for the better. I wouldn’t say she’s my slave or does everything I want, but it’s getting there. I don’t know if I’ll ever get her to be totally submissive though.

I spank her now if she does something I don’t like. I told her that she has a curfew now if she goes out with her friends on weeknights, until 10pm. It happens hardly at all, but sometimes she likes to go out with her friends. She’s accepted both. The other night while giving me a BJ, she asked me to pull her hair! It was something I added to my BJ file a week ago so that’s going well. I told her to drink all my semen and she did pretty much, telling me she swallowed a lot of it. Sexually, I’ve been fingering her hitting her G-spot during foreplay. Before she was so rigid with sex and didn’t want me to even touch her pussy.

Of course I don’t think I’ll ever be satisfied. I see still much room for improvement, and things I want to change in her. It would be nice to have her like I read in the dom/sub websites, her being a total submissive, doing EVERYTHING I tell her to do. That’s my goal now.

I will say though, if using my scripts, it might be best to make the files how I make them. I place 2 seconds pause between each affirmation including the last. I use only one voice, Amy’s at -2 pitch and -5 speed. I also use -17 amp and -23 amp versions for different mp3 players. I don’t think my script would work well in a sledgehammer because some affirmations won’t be heard clearly. I am a big believer in the importance of Amy speaking everything clearly for the best success.

[LordIceWing]

08/20/2014 at 3:17 am

One thing I need to point out…

The important part of a M/s or D/s Relationship isn’t the M/s or D/s… It’s the relationship..

If you try to count on JUST the files, you’re going to fall flat on your face…

I speak as somebody who has been in the Lifestyle for the better part of two decades… The people who think their slavesignificant other is just a set of holes (as fun as that fantasy is…) Do Not Last As A Couple…

Now, yes, I am using the files (with the knowledge of my slave-wife) to help with certain aspects… And I am also doing my best to be a better husbandMaster…

Why? Because even as I am molding her, I still love her and want to protect her (even as I am making adjustments, they are being done to NOT cause harm… Hence why certain files will never even be considered…)

[J66R]

08/21/2014 at 1:21 am

That is a good point about the relationship.

It doesn’t show up in all the forum topics but, in the past, we have had some pretty deep discussions about just that.

Most of us who have been around for a year or more were part of one or more of those discussions. Basically, most (if not all to some degree) came to the same general conclusion which was expressed slightly (and in some cases VERY) differently depending on the specific nature and goal of the relationship. At it’s simplest, partners make a “bargain” in which certain roles are expected to be performed by each. If the dominant partner does not adequately satisfy the expected role, the sub will likely begin to not trust the dom and the relationship will not last.

In the subliminals that we play, especially the customs, though we may be “requiring” certain behaviors of out women. If we do a “flip-side” analysis on those subliminals, we are expressing to these women that if they act submissive, obedient or give us enough head, etc. we will assume certain roles and responsibilities. Those bargains may not be explicitly specified, but they really are inherently implied, if by no other means than those cultural. If we then get wishy-washy, flippant or cavalier with our decision making, or give in to often when they act our or get bossy, or don’t hold them firmly to the sexual expectations we are requiring, we fail to meet the expectations we have ourselves created in them, that we will be the authority that we “should” be. Trust lost.

I’ll also say, I like hearing (reading) you say that about protecting and loving your wife and that there are certain files you will stay away from because of that. I also appreciate that you mentioned you are trying to improve yourself. I have a similar perspective.

[Tap]

08/21/2014 at 1:55 am

That’s a good discussion.

LordIceWing,
Seeing as you have much experience in this kind of relationship, do you have any suggestions or advice on how I can train my wife better. Do you have certain rituals or things that you do with your wife that have helped you in molding her into how you want? I don’t have a good basis or knowledge to properly train her how I want.

[FaustsBoon]

08/22/2014 at 12:31 pm

Meanwhile, Tap… if you don’t mind, let me ask you a question.

If we’re working to avoid any negative statements in script writing, how would you convey themes about wanting a partner to NOT be lazy, and not be selfish?

I’ve found writing toward a goal of not-being-lazy to be extremely hard without negative statements.

In essence, as I move on from purely sexual goals I would LOVE to break my wife of her habit of laying down, and relaxing with her phone or some other stupid distraction, while the house still isn’t clean, and other chores are left undone.

[seekenq]

08/22/2014 at 3:30 pm

For negative issues I have been using a “breathe” script concept.
This is based on some reading I have been doing on hypnosis and inductions.
The idea is to inhale the positive attribute and exhale the negative attribute.

Examples:
– Inhale calm, exhale worry
– Inhale energy, exhale tired.
– Breathe in arousal, breathe out inhibitions.

You should slow it way down so that it matches her normal at rest breathing rhythm.
The hypnotist will do this by watching the subject but we have to estimate the speed and hope for the best.
Slowing down the breathing is a powerful technique in hypnosis because it naturally relaxes the subject.
Commas, periods, and pause/silence commands in Text Aloud help with this.

Also, tying subjects breathing to commands of the hypnotist turns the natural and unavoidable act of breathing into an affirmative response to the command. (so says the theory).
The subconscious, being the primitive critter that it is, then accepts commands more readily since “I am already obeying the commands to breathe”

You can also add some encouragement / make it permanent statements in the script as well.
Either in normal pauses between inhale and exhale or as separate lines.
Note that you will need to adjust the pauses in the separate lines so as not to get out of sync with normal breathing.

Examples:
– Breathe in calm, breathe out worry, good
– Inhale arousal, feel it filling you completely, exhale.
– With each exhale you release all your worry.
– With every breath, the changes become permanent.

Another approach add lines using concepts Dissipation/Evaporation/Vanish/Leave your mind/get smaller/ releasing / fade away etc.

Examples:
– Bad things get smaller, good things get bigger.
– Bad things vanish instantly, good things become permanent.
– Bad things dissipate into mist, good things become solid and strong.
– I happily release the bad thing and willingly accept the good thing.

I hope this helps ass some tools to the collective toolbox.

[J66R]

08/23/2014 at 12:12 am

Faust, I have had good luck with my wife by some things similar to:

I enjoy working and getting things done.
I am proud of myself when I get XXX done.
God is pleased when I do XXX.
Doing XXX makes me feel good.
Doing XXX makes me lose wait.
Doing XXX makes me smart.
Doing XXX makes me beautiful
Doing XXX makes me young.
It is my idea to do XXX

Statements like those above brought a wife of 23years, telling me I’m a big boy and can fix my own breakfast, or I am NOT your servant, to where she would make me breakfast any morning I asked. I kept up the script and she moved to asking me what I want for breakfast every morning so now I don’t have to ask for breakfast everyday any more. In the past few months it has gotten to the point that she just gets up and makes me breakfast before she does ANYTHING else. A couple of times I had to go to work a couple hours early and fixed my own breakfast. she got up about 1/2 hour before I left, saw me eating breakfast. What does she do, but makes me more and gives it to me. I got a TWOFER a few times this past month. And I do love me my breakfast.

Plus she actually cleans the kitchen now, has been canning vegetables from our garden and fingered herself to a grunting, eye rolling orgasm for my viewing pleasure, all from statement construct basically like those above.

I think the key is to find things she cares about and link what you want with what she wants, telling her subconscious that doing your thing gets her, her thing. A clever example of this would be :

Obeying my husband makes me independent.
Obeying my husband makes me strong.
Obeying my husband gives me confidence.

[LordIceWing]

08/23/2014 at 1:10 am

@Tap said:

That’s a good discussion.

LordIceWing,
Seeing as you have much experience in this kind of relationship, do you have any suggestions or advice on how I can train my wife better. Do you have certain rituals or things that you do with your wife that have helped you in molding her into how you want? I don’t have a good basis or knowledge to properly train her how I want.

Gah… I had about a page long post, and we got hit by a storm overnight and I lost it…

I’ll redo it later on, but I will tell you this… The MOST important thing I have found is the importance of communication… Without that, you’re going to fail. And I cannot tell you how to communicate with your wifeslave… Only you and she know what works for you… (I will say that personally, I think that those who do this without consent are walking a razor which is likely to cut them, sooner or later… Not to mention the karmic repercussions… Truth finds a way to come out, usually at the time where it will cause the most damage…)

Talk to your wife… LISTEN to her, and hopefully she will listen to you… Then you can walk this path, or any other, together….

[Tap]

08/23/2014 at 3:54 am

LordIce, makes sense. Although, if my wife knew I played these subliminals, I know she wouldn’t like it. I tried telling her that I liked the lifestyle of her being my submissive, but she told me that we are equal. This is despite her doing what I say and increasingly asking me to make decisions for her. It’s definitely me as the dominant now, but she doesn’t like to hear it.

FB,
J66R has a good format. Basically, you have to stress the opposite of what you don’t want in the positive way. For chores, my cleaning file that I’ve posted in this thread and others is pretty good.

If it’s general laziness, affirmations that promote her energy would be the best. If she’s selfish, affirmations that promote her selflessness are good.

I am very energetic throughout the day.
After work, I have so much energy to make my husband happy.
I am a completely selfless person.
I try my best every day to satisfy my husband.
I am happy being selfless, thinking only of my husband.

That was off the top of my head, but the positive opposite of laziness and selfishness is the only way to go.

[J66R]

08/23/2014 at 6:28 am

I will say that I have edited most of my scripts to eliminate as many unqualified “I am” statements as I feel I can.
I found that my wife, instead of improving in those areas, adamantly argued she was already there and needed no improvement. Even if it was something she admittedly never did. The subconscious can be very literal.

So, I have :
1. made qualified statements “I am [attribute] when I …[do something]”
2. focused on actions and good consequence “Doing [XXX] makes me [whatever she likes or desires to be].”
3. focus on peer pressure “God is pleased when I do XXX.” or using sledges
4. used the selfishness “Doing [XXX] makes me young.” or “It is my idea to do [XXX]” or “getting [XXX] done quickly gives more time for myself”

[Tap]

08/23/2014 at 3:28 pm

Interestingly, ever since I have played my new edit of perfect wife, she’s been acting kind of crabby and giving me attitude. Yesterday, we had a big argument because she didn’t do something I wanted her to do.

I’ve learned through this whole process that even if I think my custom is finally the perfect edit and blend of affirmations, it’s all based on results, and the results tell me that it’s not good for her. I gave it a week, often times playing it as my only subliminal at night so I changed it again today.

You will notice a heavy emphasis on obeying and listening to me now. I followed J66R’s format. I used something similar in my BJ file and it helped her to swallow my semen. My lines of swallowing makes you lose weight and be healthy combined with associating my semen to her favorite deserts has helped in that aspect. Since then, she’s swallowed every time or a significant amount of it before washing up in the bathroom.

I usually use the format below a lot:

To obey my husband, makes me happy.

…but I didn’t associate it with other positive things in general like J66R does. You will also notice that I use the term “To obey” vs “Obeying” only because Amy pronounces the former much better. I would prefer using “obeying” but she says it too fast and abruptly, which would defeat the whole purpose of making the affirmation if my wife doesn’t understand it. It’s 35 affirmations repeated 4 times for a total of 13:40.

My husband is my master.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband makes all decisions for me.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I want to do everything my husband says.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

I love to follow my husband’s commands.

To obey my husband Tap, makes me feel young.

To obey my husband Tap, makes me look beautiful.

To obey my husband Tap, makes me more intelligent.

To obey my husband Tap, makes me feel wanted.

To obey my husband Tap, gives me security.

To obey my husband Tap, improves my self-esteem.

To obey my husband Tap, is God’s command.

To obey my husband Tap, is my purpose in life.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I choose to be completely submissive, to my husband Tap.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband Tap.

I like being my husband’s slave.

I am happy, being my husband’s slave.

Being my husband’s slave, is my fantasy.

I like to please my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband, is my goal in life.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Making my husband happy, gives me happiness.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband happy.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap forever.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

I enjoy giving my husband sippy, every day.

I am happy, giving my husband sippy, every day.

Giving my husband sippy, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband sippy, is my priority.

[FaustsBoon]

08/23/2014 at 4:21 pm

Thanks J, and Tap. I’ll take both to heart going forward.

I’d rather not rock the boat, and thus will not switch things i’m for a while, but after either getting the results I want, or a non-result from my current file, i’ll try something akin to what you’ve both suggested.

[gtbear]

08/23/2014 at 9:46 pm

Tap,

“My husband completely dominates me.”

The above from your first post of the perfect script made me think, considering the independant attitudes you have suggested your wife has, ‘dominates me’ may have some very negitive connitations for her. I notice that you do not have that line in your second script above. That one line may have been the problem.

Of course, there are the lines with the word slave… I am finding that per others input in other threads on the subject, it may be best to not use ‘slave’ and just go with the attributes of the slave. ie: I submit to my husbands will. or I submit to my masters will. or Pleasing my master is bliss. or Pleasing my husband makes me happy. or I must always submit to my husband Tap. or I need / want / must obey my master / husband Tap.
Just sayin…maybe.

[Tap]

08/24/2014 at 7:12 pm

Yes I was thinking that line didn’t go well with her about how I dominate her. Actually, I kind of thought her subconscious might have been hearing:

My husband Tap completely dominated by me.

She was pushing back on a lot of things. With the slave term, I introduced those lines about a month ago and things were going well until my 2nd to last edit. I left them in because I think they have been helping.

With my new script this pass day, she’s become more docile again. The new obey lines might be doing the trick.

[Tap]

08/26/2014 at 3:39 am

So I thought I’d share something a bit different. I’m Christian so believe in the idea of husband and wife only. At my work, I’ll just say there are girls that basically like me and want me. I’m a decent looking guy so it’s understandable. I’m somewhat tempted to be honest, but haven’t done anything because of my morals.

I do love my wife, and the progress I have obtained with subliminals is dramatic. However, I know every man has that itch of “something new.” I decided to make a script for myself. I used Amy’s voice but at the lowest pitch, -31 so she sounds more masculine, pretty much like a man.

It’s only 11 affirmations repeated 11 times for 11:40. I’ve been playing it for a week and already can tell it’s working. I think about my wife more, and have a more positive view of her. Sometimes I think that it’s falsely giving me a happy view of my marriage, but if it improves my quality of life and focuses my mind on what’s important, might as well try. For privacy purposes, I’m using MsTap as the name of my wife.

I am in love, with my wife MsTap.

My wife MsTap is very beautiful.

I am dominant. over my wife MsTap.

I am happy in my marriage, to my wife MsTap.

I am happy, being married to my wife MsTap.

Being married to my wife MsTap, is happiness.

Having sex with my wife MsTap, is awesome.

My pretty wife MsTap gives me great sippy.

I like being faithful, to my wife MsTap.

God’s will, is that I’m faithful to my wife MsTap.

I am always faithful, to my wife MsTap.

[gtbear]

08/26/2014 at 7:33 am

Obedience to God… with scripts helping power the process. That’s going from physical to mental to spiritual. Excellent!

[J66R]

08/26/2014 at 6:22 pm

Excellent! Glad to see this.

[Tap]

08/30/2014 at 2:50 pm

Yesterday, she gave me an excellent BJ, taking all my cum in her mouth. She’s really good now at continuing to suck fast even while I’m getting there, until I get weak and am completely finished. The orgasms are awesome with her method. Afterwards, she wanted to go out with her friend until late in the night. I told her no. She obeyed me, but then pouted the whole night saying she doesn’t want to spend all her time with just me. She’s always had a lot of friends that she likes to spend time with, and it always has been an issue.

I’ve been reading up on the website that adr and trainer have suggested:

http://bestslavetraining.com/

I find it to be really detailed and in depth. I am not sure I can take her to that extent, but I’m using it for ideas in my subliminals. One theme I picked up on is how the slave strives to be obedient because by disobeying, it makes her sad and is a punishment in itself. She wants to obey because happiness comes from pleasing her master. At this point, my wife obeys pretty much, but sometimes resistantly like the above example. I added more lines to my perfect wife custom about being happy pleasing me, which I think is important. I also deleted some lines out including about being a slave. My hope is that it all being positive, she will find it well. I reduced it to 30 affirmations repeated 5 times for a total of 14:30.

My husband is my master.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband makes all decisions for me.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I want to do everything my husband says.

I love to follow my husband’s orders.

To obey my husband Tap, makes me feel secure.

To obey my husband Tap, improves my self-esteem.

To obey my husband Tap, is God’s will.

To obey my husband Tap, is my purpose in life.

I want, to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

I love, to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I like being submissive, to my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

Pleasing my husband Tap, pleases me.

Pleasing my husband Tap, makes me happy.

Pleasing my husband Tap, is my goal in life.

My pleasure is my husband’s happiness.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Making my husband happy, gives me happiness.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband happy.

My husband is the most important person, in my life.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap forever.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

I like to wash the dishes.

I am happy, giving my husband sippy, every day.

Giving my husband sippy, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband sippy, is my priority.

[Tap]

09/10/2014 at 5:00 am

So with the above script, it was ok but I felt like her behavior wasn’t as it was before. I fixed my script and have been playing the below since Saturday. I feel like she’s acting more like how I want her to be. I know I’ve said this before, but I have a feeling like this is the script that I’ll stick with for awhile. Much like the BJ script, which I haven’t changed in a long while, I hope this will be similar. It’s now 40 affirmations repeated only 3 times in 11 minutes.

My husband is my master.

My husband is in charge of me.

My husband has authority over me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

I am completely submissive, to my husband Tap.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband Tap.

I love to be submissive, to my husband Tap.

I always want to serve my husband.

I love to be, my husband’s servant.

I like being my husband’s slave.

I am happy, being my husband’s slave.

Being my husband’s slave, is my fantasy.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I want to do everything my husband says.

I love to follow my husband’s orders.

To obey my husband Tap, feels so good.

To obey my husband Tap, gives me security.

To obey my husband Tap, is God’s will.

To obey my husband Tap, is my purpose in life.

I want, to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

I love, to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

Pleasing my husband Tap, pleases me.

Pleasing my husband Tap, makes me happy.

Pleasing my husband Tap, is my goal in life.

My pleasure is my husband’s happiness.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

Making my husband happy, gives me happiness.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband happy.

My husband is the most important person, in my life.

I am in love, with my husband Tap.

I am happy, in my marriage with my husband Tap.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap forever.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

I like to wash the dishes.

I am happy, giving my husband sippy, every day.

Giving my husband sippy, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband sippy, is my priority.

[Tap]

10/10/2014 at 2:05 am

It’s been awhile since I updated. I have a new sex script that I’ve been using. It’s kind of personal so I won’t add it here, but it’s working out well. I included many BJ parts and she hasn’t lost any of wanting to satisfy me with BJs. Last night, she was going downtown even when I was getting there, sucking so hard, and it got all over her face again. She said she threw up a bit, but she got used to it now and jokes about it afterwards.

I’m around a BJ a week now, and sex 2 to 3 times depending on how many BJs she’s given in that week. With the sex, I’m making her wear skirts and trying new things, all of which adds spice to it whereas before she was very rigid on how we did it. I rather enjoy sex more as a result.

I’m starting to move toward combining my scripts again into one longer script. I managed to combine my obedience, sex, and BJ script into one long one that is only 50 affirmations and 4:50 long. I’m doing this mainly because most of the affirmations, she’s heard a good amount, and I feel it allows me to cover all at one time.

[Tap]

10/17/2014 at 10:30 pm

I was thinking about my obedience file and how it could be better. I had this thought that even though it placed heavy emphasis on being obedient, it is possible to obey someone but still try to also be equal or dominant to that person.

As a result, I decided to switch gears as I usually do. I made a file that I entitled “Submission.” This file has more my happiness affirmations and submissive affirmations. My hope is that she will see herself as more submissive to me in general, and not just in the obeying area. I am not sure if this will work or how she it will affect her. I’ve played it for 2 days and I noticed her a bit softer and caring for my needs more. I will have to see how it goes.

The file is only 20 affirmations repeated 7 times for a length of 13:30. It does have a blend of what was in my obedience file.

My husband is my master.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

I love to do everything my husband says.

I want to do everything for my husband Tap.

I submit completely, to my husband Tap.

Submission to my husband, is ecstasy.

I am submissive, to my husband Tap.

I choose to be submissive, to my husband Tap.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband Tap.

I like to be submissive, to my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband, feels so good.

Pleasing my husband, makes me happy.

Pleasing my husband, fulfills my life.

Pleasing my husband, completes my life’s purpose.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband happy.

My goal in life, is to make my husband happy.

I am so happy, being married to my husband Tap.

[Fizbin]

10/18/2014 at 12:27 pm

I really like this one.

[Tap]

10/19/2014 at 9:34 pm

Yea I like it too. However, sometimes I feel I change things up too fast without letting things work. Even with all my experience, if I notice something off, I’ll make subtle changes.

[Tap]

10/24/2014 at 2:08 am

Well, I switched my script to below and have been playing it for about a week with good results. I incorporated my ideas from my submissive script and obedience script. I feel like she’s just more calm and accepting of what I want her to do. I believe that I am finally at the point where I won’t edit this script anymore or at least I’m hoping not to. It incorporates everything I want from her obedience/submissive wise and will serve as my foundational basis for how she will be to me. It’s 35 affirmations repeated 4 times for a total of 12:50.

My husband is my master.

My husband is my king.

My husband is above me.

My husband is in charge of me.

My husband is dominant, over me.

My husband has authority, over me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

I love to be below, my husband Tap.

I like my husband controlling me.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

I love to do everything my husband says.

I want, to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me, to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life, is 2 obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I am obedient, to my husband Tap.

I submit completely, to my husband Tap.

Submission to my husband, is happiness.

I am submissive, to my husband Tap.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband Tap.

I like to be submissive, to my husband Tap.

I want to do everything for my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband, makes me happy.

Pleasing my husband, fulfills my life.

Pleasing my husband, completes my life’s purpose.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband happy.

My goal in life, is to make my husband happy.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

I like to wash the dishes.

Giving my husband sippy, is ecstasy.

I am so happy, being married to my husband Tap.

[LordIceWing]

10/24/2014 at 3:08 am

Minor thing, and something I’m going to put into my upcoming script…

Wear dish gloves while doing dishes….

I know, sounds stupid, but years of doing dishes can and will affect the skin on your wife’s hands… Be a responsible master and husband and look out for your wifesub.

Also, if she DOES start wearing them, then you’ll have a clear confirmation of the efficacy of the file.

[trainer81]

10/24/2014 at 3:21 am

Not a bad idea Maybe I should start, Amy on wearing a pair of dish gloves…

Trainer81

[Tap]

10/24/2014 at 10:51 pm

Interesting. I did see some gloves near the sink so she must be using them already. I know it’s weird that I still have a line like that in such a file, but in the past I’ve had issues with her being too lazy to clean or wash dishes.

Way back a few years ago, I remember arguing about dishes. She wanted me to wash dishes too. Before I took charge and changed my relationship, I gave in and took turns washing dishes with her. I made it clear to her a year ago I won’t be doing dishes again and she would do it. We had a big fight about it and she said she wanted to divorce over it. Needless to say, after the subliminals, she washes it now without question and wouldn’t dare ask me to wash dishes. When I see the sink getting full of dishes, I nicely remind her to wash and she says she will, which she does do generally the next day.

Another small but significant thing that has changed due to subliminals.

[trainer81]

10/28/2014 at 3:21 am

@Tap said:

Interesting. I did see some gloves near the sink so she must be using them already. I know it’s weird that I still have a line like that in such a file, but in the past I’ve had issues with her being too lazy to clean or wash dishes.

Way back a few years ago, I remember arguing about dishes. She wanted me to wash dishes too. Before I took charge and changed my relationship, I gave in and took turns washing dishes with her. I made it clear to her a year ago I won’t be doing dishes again and she would do it. We had a big fight about it and she said she wanted to divorce over it. Needless to say, after the subliminals, she washes it now without question and wouldn’t dare ask me to wash dishes. When I see the sink getting full of dishes, I nicely remind her to wash and she says she will, which she does do generally the next day.

Another small but significant thing that has changed due to subliminals.

Nice I’m glad the subliminal method’s are helping you I bought Amy a pair of gloves over the weekend and she used them last Saturday night. You know what she said to me? She said, “Thank you Master.” She’s a good girl.

Okay back to work on my new membership idea

[LordIceWing]

10/28/2014 at 11:49 pm

So, here are a pair which seem to work well… Casabella Premium Water Stop Gloves

Of course, they’re out of stock at the moment… I fully recommend them though… They cost a bit more but last MUCH longer, and give better grip…

Trainer, she may be a good girl, but you’re also doing your job by taking care of her, and providing her the tools to protect herself…

[trainer81]

11/02/2014 at 7:18 am

Yes if she sees that I want to take care of her she’ll want to obey me, which works for us.

Amazon might have those gloves at a better price…

[Tap]

11/02/2014 at 7:13 pm

She was washing dishes last night and she did have a pair of gloves on, so that’s good on that end. I did a few things differently that have helped improve my situation.

I took out once again, the lines of her below me and me above her. She started making comments such as maybe she should die and acted a bit depressed. There’s really no reason for it, so was thinking those few lines could be lowering her self esteem.

I also increased the time between each affirmation to 2.5 seconds instead of 2 seconds. My thinking is with all the commas, there had to be more time separating each affirmation so it’s clearly heard.

Finally, I’m following Trainer’s advice in playing one subliminal at a time. One played all night, and then I’ll play another one all day. I have 3 subliminals now. They are my obedience one which is 30 affirmations, my sex one with some BJ lines which is 35 affirmations, and my BJ only one which is 20 affirmations. Lately, I’ve been playing my sex one only at night and my obedience one in the day, seeing positive results.

I strongly believe now that the best results occur when playing one subliminal by itself, NOT in a playlist. I also think limiting that one subliminal to max 35 affirmations, with the most ideal being 20 or less, is the best way to go about doing it. I have this theory that it’s possible to overload the subconcious with too many suggestions at one time, whether it be through a playlist or with a very long sublimal over 35 affirmations. When overload occurs, she won’t really accept any affirmations as part of her beliefs.

Below is my new obedience file. I discovered the best way to post it with the code syntax. I’ve always placed 2 seconds between each affirmation, but I’ve increased it to 2.5 seconds.

My husband Tap, is my master.

My husband Tap, is dominant, over me.

My husband Tap, has authority, over me.

My husband Tap, makes decisions for me.

My husband is in charge of me.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

I love to do everything, my husband says.

I am obedient, to my husband Tap.

I am happy, to obey my husband Tap.

It feels so good, to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me, to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life, is 2 obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I submit completely, to my husband Tap.

I am submissive, to my husband Tap.

I enjoy being submissive, to my husband Tap.

I like to be submissive, to my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I enjoy pleasing, my husband Tap.

Pleasing, my husband Tap, makes me happy.

Pleasing, my husband Tap, fulfills my life.

Pleasing, my husband Tap, completes my life’s purpose.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

My ultimate desire, is to make my husband happy.

My goal in life, is to make my husband happy.

Cleaning the house, is important to me.

I like to wash the dishes.

Giving my husband sippy, is ecstasy.

I am so happy, being married to my husband Tap.

[Tap]

11/16/2014 at 8:56 pm

I recently switched to Windows 8. To my surprise, TextAloud has a better voice than Amy’s named Microsoft Zira. By that I mean when she reads the words, it seems much more natural rather than computerized. I did not have to put commas in any of my affirmations now since she says it so nicely. I also was able to put only 0.5 seconds between each affirmation because the pause is adequate enough. I remade all my subliminals. Even my own subliminal that I use for myself, I now use Microsoft David’s voice which also sounds very natural.

Below is my new obedience file. Microsoft Zira’s voice was changed to -6 speed and a 20 pitch to make it sound lighter. It is 27 affirmations repeated 5 times for a length of 14:20. I believe it’s having a better effect already because twice she’s offered to give me sippy, aka blow job, without me requesting it. I will have to see if it continues.

My husband Tap is my master.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband Tap makes decisions for me.

I like to be submissive to my husband Tap.

I enjoy being submissive to my husband Tap.

I am happy being submissive to my husband Tap.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I enjoy following my husband’s orders.

I want to do everything my husband says.

I love to be obedient to my husband Tap.

It gives me great pleasure to obey my husband Tap.

It gives me happiness to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to obey my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tap.

I like making my husband happy.

My ultimate desire is to make my husband happy.

My goal in life is to make my husband happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is important to me.

I am so happy being married to my husband Tap.

Giving my husband sippy is my pleasure.

Giving my husband sippy is my ecstasy.

Giving my husband sippy is my happiness.

Giving my husband sippy makes me so happy.

Below is my latest BJ file. I believe it’s also helping. It’s with Microsoft Zira’s voice at -6 speed, 20 pitch. It’s 20 affirmations repeated 5 times for 11:40.

Giving my husband a blow job is my priority.

Giving my husband a blow job is better than my friends.

Giving my husband a blow job is better than money.

Giving my husband a blow job makes me happy.

Giving my husband a blow job is my ecstasy.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I love sucking my husband Tap’s dick for a long time.

I always want to suck my husband Tap’s dick every day.

I like my husband Tap’s dick deep down my throat.

I want my husband Tap’s dick forced down my throat.

I enjoy my husband pulling my hair during a blow job.

I want my husband Tap to come in my mouth.

My husband always comes in my mouth.

I like to wait until my husband comes completely in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth feels so good.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

My husband Tap’s semen is the most delicious drink.

I like swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

Swallowing my husband Tap’s semen is very healthy.

[Tap]

11/16/2014 at 9:20 pm

I’ll share the latest file I play for myself. As some of you know, I have always played files on myself, but recently have made my own subliminals for myself. I’ve been playing the below for awhile now. I can honestly say I feel happier and more content in my life and in my marriage. Before I’d always be worrying about work, about my marriage, about life, but for whatever reason, I don’t worry as much anymore. I do not believe this is some placebo effect although skeptics might think so. However, even if it is a placebo effect, it’s the end results that matter. For those reading, maybe you can do something similar to improve the quality of your own life and perspective.

Note that I added some faithful lines to prevent me from cheating. I am in such a position where I could cheat if I want to. Of course that part of it may not appeal to some who might be in the swinger lifestyle. To each his own.

It is 20 affirmations using Microsoft David’s voice at -5 speed and 5 pitch because his voice is so deep and I tried to make it lighter. it’s repeated 6 times for a length of 11:30. For “MsTap” I used my wife’s real name.

I am in love with my wife MsTap.

My wife MsTap is very beautiful.

I am dominant over my wife MsTap.

I enjoy sex with my wife MsTap.

My pretty wife MsTap gives me great sippy.

I like being faithful to my wife MsTap.

I enjoy being faithful to my wife MsTap.

God’s will, is that I’m faithful to my wife MsTap.

God commands me to be faithful to my wife MsTap.

I am always faithful to my wife MsTap.

I am so happy with my wife MsTap.

I have a very happy life with my wife MsTap.

I am completely satisfied being married to my wife MsTap.

I am happy in my marriage with my wife MsTap.

Being married to my wife MsTap is happiness.

I am very happy in my life.

I have a very happy life.

I am naturally happy always.

My life is full of complete happiness.

I am a good Christian.

[Fizbin]

11/16/2014 at 11:11 pm

I’ve been using Windows 8 and Zira for so long, I know I have mentioned her in the past, but I’m glad to hear my beliefs in her good qualities being echoed!

You mention bringing the pitch up to 20… Do you actually get a difference? I’ve not been able to go past 10 (Note, I am working with sending raw XML to the speech engine, not using a commercial TTS package.)

[Tap]

11/19/2014 at 5:03 am

Yes I think I remember seeing you mention Zira. I was surprised at how well she speaks the words. I do like Amy’s voice sound better but sometimes while reading, she pronounces things too fast or not clearly. Zira doesn’t have that problem.

With the 20 pitch, I don’t hear as much of a difference between that and at 10. There is a slight difference from 0 and 20. I did 20 because Amy’s voice is generally very high pitched, so switching to Zira, I didn’t want my wife to hear too much of a difference in voices.

I do believe so far it’s having a more positive effect. My wife seems to bring up BJ in casual conversation a lot, and sometimes jokingly does the BJ action with her face and hands to me. I will also say that I do think it’s clearly more heard after making the subliminal at -17 amp. When I listen to it, I can make out almost exactly what she’s saying. I couldn’t do that as well with Amy’s voice. It’s something that j66r brought it up before. Granted my amp is very loud on the highest volume that the squeaking is clearly heard, and if you try to listen closely, the affirmation can be understood to the conscious.

[Serebus0126]

11/20/2014 at 3:07 pm

I remember seeing before a recommendation of using Amy at a -2 pitch, do you find the higher pitch gives a better result?

Just wondering if I should adjust the pitch of my Amy file back up. I am using two files, one with “I/am” affirmations in Amy’s voice, the 2nd using “you/are” affirmations using my voice.

[Fizbin]

11/20/2014 at 9:14 pm

The idea, as always, is to make the voice sound like it could be her own. However, most people don’t hear their own voice the way others hear it. Typically it sounds higher to them, and with different tonality. I once heard someone who was successful in commercial voiceovers attribute her success to “Sounding like other women THINK they sound”. (Note, her voice was a bit high and nasal…)

[Tap]

11/21/2014 at 11:56 pm

I agree with Fizbin.

It’s better to make the voice more like your wife’s. Amy’s is naturally very high, and my wife’s is not as high. I put it at -2 to make it slightly deeper and I thought it was a good balance.

Microsoft Zira’s voice is noticeably deeper than Amy’s so I tried to make it lighter.

[Tap]

11/23/2014 at 7:20 pm

My latest obedience file edit. With Zira’s voice, I was able to expand to using more specific affirmations simply because she says the affirmations more clearly than Amy. Often times with Amy, I couldn’t word things how I wanted it because she didn’t say it well. An example is the word “obey.” For whatever reason, Amy said obey in a funny way so I had to word my affirmation such that it came out clearly. Also with the word “wife” she would say it too quickly. Not anymore with Zira.

I really like this latest file. I noticed some pushback when asking her to do things so I felt I needed more powerful wording in obeying me, as well as stressing the importance of what I am to her.

It’s always the little things where I test to see if a subliminal is working. For example, we were at a party recently and she was talking to her friends sitting with them. I asked her to get me a beer in front of them. Way before, if I ever did that her response would be wtf. She asked me if I could get it myself and I said no I’m tired, so she got it for me. Then in front of her friends, she told them I don’t let her go out to party by herself and she needs my permission. Her friend asked me why I don’t let her out and I said it depends on the situation. My authority is being established slowly.

I increased it to 35 affirmations repeated 4 times for a length of 13:40.

My husband Tap is my master.

My husband is my king.

My husband is my dominant leader.

My husband is in charge of me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

My husband has control over me.

I like my husband controlling me.

I’m under my husband’s authority.

I do everything my husband says.

I’m an obedient wife.

I like to be obedient to my husband Tap.

I enjoy obeying my husband’s orders.

I always obey my husband’s commands.

I am happy to obey my husband Tap.

I love to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I am a submissive wife.

I am submissive to my husband Tap.

I like to be submissive to my husband Tap.

I submit completely to my husband Tap.

Submitting to my husband makes me happy.

Submission to my husband gives me pleasure.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tap.

I like making my husband happy.

My main desire is to make my husband happy.

My goal in life is to make my husband happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is my priority.

I am in love with my husband Tap.

I am so happy in my marriage with my husband Tap.

I have a very happy life with my husband Tap.

Giving my husband sippy is my ecstasy.

[Fizbin]

11/24/2014 at 11:39 am

Very nice and clean. How does she respond to the King part?

[Tap]

11/26/2014 at 3:09 am

So far it’s going well, but I will have to wait and see.

[Tap]

11/28/2014 at 7:08 pm

I thought it would help if I asked her some questions to see the progress in her own head about how things are going. A key thing to note is that she doesn’t know I play any files.

I asked her if she thinks she is submissive to me. She said no she’s not and that’s not her personality. I asked her if she thinks she obeys me. She told me she respects me and does obey me generally, most of the time.

Her actions are such that she does seem more submissive to me, but it surprised me that she still is very resistant to the idea of being submissive, yet she agrees she obeys me. I believe it’s because I placed a strong emphasis on obedience in my foundation file. Therefore, I’m reworking my whole foundation file to place a strong emphasis on submissiveness to change that attitude. I have something in place, but won’t post the script until I think it’s working.

[tonguester4_69]

11/29/2014 at 6:42 am

Yes, there is a huge difference in obedience and submission. My experience has been that obedience is much harder to maintain, if there is not a submissive attitude behind it. Best of luck.

[Tap]

11/30/2014 at 2:17 am

Agreed. Below is my new foundation script geared more toward her submission. It’s been a day playing it and she seems to have a softer attitude. I will see if it continues.

One thing to note, is that I tried something a bit different. As you all know, I have been using Zira’s voice now. Well I did notice sometimes, she also says words too fast like Amy. However, when I put a comma in there, she pauses too long, almost as long as the 0500 milliseconds between each affirmation. Instead, I added a 0050 milliseconds pause between some words. It acts like a comma. In actuality, Zira speaks pretty well and maybe I’m being too picky, but at least in my mind, the affirmation comes out clearer. It’s 28 affirmations.

My husband is my master.

My husband is my king.

My husband is in charge of me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

I’m under my husband’s authority.

I like my husband’s control over me.

I love to do everything my husband says.

I enjoy obeying my husband’s orders.

I like to obey my husband’s commands.

I am very happy to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I am a submissive wife.

I love to be submissive to my husband Tap.

Being submissive to my husband feels so good.

Being submissive to my husband makes me feel loved.

Being submissive to my husband makes me so happy.

Being submissive to my husband is my pleasure.

Being submissive to my husband is my ecstasy.

Being submissive to my husband is my happiness.

God commands me to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My goal in life is to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to be submissive to my husband Tap.

I submit completely to my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband’s desires.

I like pleasing my husband Tap.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is my priority.

[Tap]

12/10/2014 at 2:35 am

I’ve made the move to only 20 affirmations again, and this time I’m sticking to it. I’m starting to really believe now less is better with affirmations, because it gives them more chance to get into the subconscious.

Interestingly, I made a whole new BJ file. The goal was to get her thinking of BJs ALL the time, in everything she does. I suppose I’m trying the trigger route in a way, linking it to common things she does. I use my sippy term for BJ so that I can play it in front of my son without him being influenced just in case. I’ve played it for a few days, and to my surprise, she offered to give me a BJ for the first time. I didn’t even request it from her. Of course I will see if it continues.

Giving my husband sippy improves my self-esteem.

Giving my husband sippy helps me lose weight.

Giving my husband sippy makes me beautiful.

Giving my husband sippy makes me healthy.

Giving my husband sippy makes me feel secure.

Giving my husband sippy makes me feel loved.

Giving my husband sippy makes me so happy.

Giving my husband sippy makes me horny.

Giving my husband sippy makes me so wet.

Giving my husband sippy makes me orgasm.

Giving my husband sippy is my pleasure.

Giving my husband sippy is my ecstasy.

Giving my husband sippy is my happiness.

Giving my husband sippy is my priority in life.

Eating food I want to give my husband Tap sippy.

Drinking coffee I want to give my husband Tap sippy.

Watching TV I want to give my husband Tap sippy.

Using my iphone I want to give my husband Tap sippy.

Using facebook and insta gram I want to give my husband Tap sippy.

Every day I want to give my husband Tap sippy.

[Tap]

12/20/2014 at 12:22 pm

One thing I’ve done that has helped a bit is that I have found a way to place my phone at night, on her side of the bed, almost right where she sleeps. She knows it’s there but ignores it. Using my -17 amp versions, the squeaking is fairly loud when you put your ear to the phone, but if you lie down on the bed normally, you can’t hear the squeaking. I think she’s hearing it a lot better because I’m noticing improvement in her behavior.

My current foundation file is below. I added more my happiness lines. It’s 30 affirmations. I usually play this during the day now by itself.

My husband is my master.

My husband is my king.

My husband is my superior.

My husband is in charge of me.

My husband makes decisions for me.

I am under my husband’s authority.

I love my husband’s control over me.

I like to do everything my husband says.

I always follow my husband’s orders.

I enjoy obeying my husband Tap.

I like to obey my husband Tap.

I am very happy to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

My pleasure is being submissive to my husband Tap.

My ecstasy is being submissive to my husband Tap.

My happiness is being submissive to my husband Tap.

I love to be submissive to my husband Tap.

God commands me to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My goal in life is to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to be submissive to my husband Tap.

I like pleasing my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband satisfies me.

Pleasing my husband makes me happy.

I love to satisfy my husband’s needs and desires.

I have a strong desire to make my husband happy.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

I feel so good making my husband happy.

I am so happy making my husband happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is my priority.

Below is my current BJ file. I combined the ideas of my different BJ files into one file that is 30 affirmations. I play this one by itself at night by her bed and believe it’s working well.

Giving my husband a blow job is my priority in life.

Giving my husband a blow job is my pleasure.

Giving my husband a blow job is my ecstasy.

Giving my husband a blow job is my happiness.

Giving my husband a blow job feels so good.

Giving my husband a blow job turns me on.

Giving my husband a blow job makes me horny.

Giving my husband a blow job makes me so wet.

Giving my husband a blow job makes me orgasm.

Giving my husband a blow job makes me so happy.

Every day I want to suck my husband Tap’s dick.

Eating food I like sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

Watching TV I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

Using my iphone I love sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

Using facebook and insta gram I like sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I love sucking my husband’s dick for a long time.

I like to deep throat my husband Tap’s dick.

I want my husband’s dick forced down my throat.

I enjoy my husband pulling my hair during a blow job.

I want my husband Tap to come in my mouth.

My husband always comes in my mouth.

I like to wait until my husband comes completely in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth feels so good.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

I love having a lot of my husband’s semen in my mouth.

I like swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

Swallowing my husband’s semen helps me to lose weight.

Swallowing my husband’s semen is very healthy.

[brownie]

12/20/2014 at 1:21 pm

I find it very interesting that you insert those small silences inside your affirmations. Actually, i’m thinking about making a dutch copy of both your scripts because they seem to match with what i’m trying to accomplish. I’m not entirely convinced that the problem is that she is too dominant, as she’s always trying to please me, but without crossing her bounderies. Your script gives more focus on the need to please you and the need to do everything to accomplish that. Sounds as if it could also work in my situation.

[Tap]

12/20/2014 at 5:19 pm

I put those silences because the voice I use, Microsoft Zira, says the words too quickly in my opinion. I’ve been doing this for awhile so have been fine-tuning things my way, probably unique from what others do. Consider below:

I am very happy to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

When Zira says, “I am very happy to obey my husband Tap.” To my ears, she says happy to quickly and so I think my wife won’t hear “happy” clearly, making the affirmation worthless. When I put a comma, the pause seems almost as long as the 0500 msecs between each affirmation. I feel like my wife would hear…

I am very happy
To obey my husband Tap.
I always obey my husband Tap.

….which messes the meaning up. Therefore after some words I put a 0050 msec pause and after other words I put 0100 msec pauses. The reason for this is some words are said more quickly than others, so a 0100 msec pause is slightly better. When I close my eyes and listen with the 0050 seconds after happy, Zira says the sentence and the word happy clearly, but the pause is not long enough to mess up the meaning or the sound of the sentence. It’s to produce the most natural speaking sentence as clearly as possible.

Now some might think it wouldn’t matter, and that might be true. I’ve had success using my way so I’ll stick to it. Reading it might look funny, but the whole point is how it is spoken. My biggest determination is closing my eyes and listening to her speak to me, and not reading along while she speaks. If something sounds off, I change it by adding the pauses.

If I put 2000 msecs between each affirmation, I probably could get away with using commas and things would be easier. However, with the longer pause between each affirmation, it lengthens your custom considerably when you copy it 4 to 5 times.

It also depends on the voice. When I used Cepstral Amy’s voice before, I put 2 seconds between each affirmation and the commas in the affirmation were good enough. However, I’ve found Zira to speak words more clearly than Amy to the point where I can word affirmations more the way I want to with Zira while I couldn’t with Amy.

[Tap]

12/20/2014 at 5:33 pm

@brownie said:
I’m not entirely convinced that the problem is that she is too dominant, as she’s always trying to please me, but without crossing her bounderies. Your script gives more focus on the need to please you and the need to do everything to accomplish that. Sounds as if it could also work in my situation.

To this point, I agree. I worded my affirmations such that I’m in charge, her master, she obeys me, listens to me, is submissive, and pleases me. I got several ideas off of Trainer’s scripts.

I would say I haven’t placed a large emphasis on her being submissive before. At first I focused on the easier things like her obeying me and pleasing me. Scrolling through my earlier scripts on this thread, you can see emphasis on obeying me. If you get her to do those two, that pretty much is submission. My wife has been doing both of those much more since I started the customs. When I asked her if she is submissive to me recently, she flat out said no we are equal. Even though she has that mentality, her actions speak otherwise. It’s why in my latest scripts I focus more on submission to change the overall attitude now.

You could try a large emphasis on obeying you and pleasing you, with a smaller emphasis on submission. That might be more agreeable for your wife.

Also, people are innately selfish. It’s why affirmations that link all those obeying and pleasing behaviors to her happiness and her pleasure work best. If she doesn’t feel good about doing that, why would she want to? If she gets gratification from obeying and pleasing you, then she will be more inclined to do it. Wording affirmations as such would help. That’s why something like below is effective:

Giving my husband a blowjob, makes me so happy.

Her mind tells her she’s so happy sucking your dick, then she will be more inclined to do it. Then once she does the behavior, compliment her right afterwards and show her how good it was. She will feel happy that you’re happy. She will associate good feelings about sucking your dick and it will validate what her mind aka the affirmation told her. She will then want to do it again. The habit will be formed.

[Tap]

12/24/2014 at 1:13 pm

I decided to do a version of the slut mantra, but a very toned down, less degrading one, similar to tonguester’s version. I’ll see how it goes. It’s 20 affirmations with more of an emphasis on BJs. I tried to refrain from calling my wife a slut or nasty so the terms I use may be a bit different. I plan to play this only at night by itself. My foundation file is played by itself in the day. I’m seeing better results not using playlists, but going with one subliminal at a time.

I exist for the sexual pleasure of my husband Tap.

I live to satisfy my husband’s sexual desires.

I am my husband’s sex servant to be used for sex and blow jobs.

My body belongs to my husband to be used for sex and blow jobs.

I want my husband to fill my mouth with his dick.

I am only beautiful with my husband’s dick in my mouth.

I want my husband’s dick in my mouth all the time.

I always follow my husband’s orders to suck his dick.

My purpose is to suck my husband Tap’s dick.

I am filled with purpose sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am very happy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I always say yes to sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I always suck my husband’s dick like a good submissive girl.

I love my husband forcing his dick down my throat.

I like my husband pulling my hair while I suck his dick.

My mouth is for sucking my husband’s dick licking his balls and swallowing his semen.

My mouth wants to be filled with my husband’s semen.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

I am my husband’s semen drinking blow job giving submissive girl.

[tonguester4_69]

12/24/2014 at 2:41 pm

Good luck! Let me know how it goes.

[Tap]

12/25/2014 at 1:52 pm

I decided to switch things up a bit. I know I always talk about limiting the number of affirmations. I do think this is the most effective method. However, I tried something different and increased my foundation script to 49 affirmations. It runs about 5 minutes long repeated 3 times only for a length of 15 minutes. It’s very long and I do not know if it will be effective. It’s more of in a testing phase right now.

I was bored yesterday and decided to go through all of Trainer’s slave scripts. I picked affirmations I liked from all of them, rewording them to fit my needs. I added what I’ve had already and tried to make it flow logically. In essence, a lot of the credit should go to Trainer. The final version to me is close to a masterpiece. If she does eventually pick it up, it should deepen her submission further. Something this long should definitely be played by itself and not in a playlist. The good thing is, half the affirmations she has heard a lot already.

My husband is my master.

My husband is my king.

My husband is my leader.

My husband is my superior.

My husband is in charge of me.

My husband makes all the decisions for me.

My husband knows what is best for me.

My husband is in control of my life.

My husband means everything to me.

My body belongs to my husband Tap.

I belong to my husband Tap.

I am under my husband’s authority.

I love my husband’s control over me.

I like to do everything my husband says.

I do everything my husband wants of me.

I am willing to do anything for my husband Tap.

I am well behaved for my husband Tap.

I need my husband’s approval for everything I do.

I always follow my husband’s orders.

I obey my husband without question.

I like to obey my husband Tap.

I am very happy to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I enjoy obeying my husband Tap.

I am my husband’s submissive girl.

I love being my husband’s submissive girl.

I am happy being my husband’s submissive girl.

My fantasy is being submissive to my husband Tap.

My pleasure is being submissive to my husband Tap.

My ecstasy is being submissive to my husband Tap.

My happiness is being submissive to my husband Tap.

God commands me to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My goal in life is to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My priority is to serve my husband Tap.

Serving my husband is paradise.

I am eager to please my husband Tap.

I like pleasing my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband satisfies me.

Pleasing my husband makes me happy.

My husband’s needs are all that matter to me.

I love to satisfy my husband’s needs and desires.

I have a strong desire to make my husband happy.

I enjoy making my husband happy.

I feel so good making my husband happy.

I am so happy making my husband happy.

My pleasure is my husband’s happiness.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is my priority.

[Tap]

01/01/2015 at 5:55 pm

My foundation script is back to 30 affirmations. I play it during the day. My BJ script is 25 affirmations played by itself during the night. Surprisingly, I haven’t edited these files for almost a week, which is a good thing. One thing you will notice is in all my scripts now, in all areas where I mention myself I say “husband Tap” including my name in all affirmations and not just leaving it at “husband.” I believe this has had a subtle positive effect in making it very personal about me.

Her view on BJs has improved much nowadays, actually enjoying it, and offering to do it more. She does it about a few times a week now.

Foundation script:

My husband Tap is my master.

My husband Tap is my superior.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband Tap makes all the decisions for me.

My husband Tap is in control of my life.

I love my husband Tap’s control over me.

I am under my husband Tap’s authority.

I like to do everything my husband Tap says.

I obey my husband Tap without question.

I like to obey my husband Tap.

I am very happy to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

My ecstasy is being submissive to my husband Tap.

My happiness is being submissive to my husband Tap.

God commands me to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My goal in life is to be submissive to my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to be submissive to my husband Tap.

I am my husband Tap’s submissive girl.

My husband Tap’s needs are all that matter to me.

I love to satisfy my husband Tap’s needs and desires.

I like pleasing my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband Tap satisfies me.

Pleasing my husband Tap makes me happy.

I have a strong desire to make my husband Tap happy.

I enjoy making my husband Tap happy.

I feel so good making my husband Tap happy.

I am so happy making my husband Tap happy.

My pleasure is making my husband Tap happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is my priority.

BJ script:

Sucking my husband Tap’s dick is my priority in life.

Sucking my husband Tap’s dick is my ecstasy.

Sucking my husband Tap’s dick is my happiness.

Sucking my husband Tap’s dick makes me so happy.

Using my iphone I want to suck my husband Tap’s dick.

Using facebook and insta gram I want to suck my husband Tap’s dick.

Every day I want to suck my husband Tap’s dick.

I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I love sucking my husband Tap’s dick like a good submissive girl.

I like sucking my husband Tap’s dick for a long time.

I want my husband Tap’s dick in my mouth all the time.

I like to deep throat my husband Tap’s dick.

I want my husband Tap’s dick forced down my throat.

I love my husband Tap forcing his dick down my throat.

I like my husband Tap pulling my hair while I suck his dick.

I want my husband Tap to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap always comes in my mouth.

My husband Tap cumming in my mouth feels so good.

I love having a lot of my husband Tap’s semen in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

I like swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

Swallowing my husband Tap’s semen is very healthy.

My mouth is for sucking my husband Tap’s dick licking his balls and swallowing his semen.

I am a semen drinking blow job giving submissive girl for my husband Tap.

[Tap]

02/15/2015 at 8:59 am

It’s been awhile since I updated. Last month, I switched to just one file mainly, my foundation file, but I added some BJ lines to it. This is played morning and night. I only play my BJ file on certain occasions and not every day anymore. I’m finding that one file goes well with her.

She seems happier obeying me and being submissive to me, but I think I owe that to my affirmations. You will notice the re-emphasis on obeying me vs submissiveness in my affirmations. I found her behavior to be much more acceptable with more obedience affirmations than submissive affirmations.

The slow and steady improvement is in the BJ area. It’s at about once to twice a week, but she is offering to do it now where as before I’d always have to ask her to do it. She always takes it in her mouth, swallows some, but then runs to the bathroom to spit the rest out. I’m still working on the swallowing part. However, she mentions how she likes giving me a BJ now, which I haven’t heard before.

I owe this improvement in the BJ area to my affirmations included in my Foundation file. I was surprised how those 9 lines alone helped out whereas my main BJ file by itself did not see as much improvement. I think the concepts of what giving me a BJ does for her is what helped out.

I am also placing more emphasis on reinforcing good behaviors she does with compliments, and punishments when she does something I don’t like. I’ve been doing research and punishments at least for me are mainly taking away good things from her that she likes. I usually ignore her for a time if she does something bad (giving her no attention), scold her, or I take money from her which she really doesn’t like. Taking these positive things away from her that she likes has been the most effective. We all forget this part of the “training” and I think it’s even more important than the subliminals to reinforce good habits.

As before, I use the word “sippy” which is our code word for BJ, to shield my son from understanding what is said. It is 40 affirmations repeated only 3 times for a total length of 13:40.

My husband Tap is my master.

My husband Tap is my king.

My husband Tap is my leader.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband Tap makes decisions for me.

I am under my husband Tap’s authority.

I like my husband Tap controlling me.

I love to do everything my husband Tap says.

I enjoy following my husband Tap’s orders.

I want to obey my husband Tap.

I like to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me to obey my husband Tap.

My goal in life is to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I am obedient to my husband Tap.

I enjoy obeying my husband Tap.

I am submissive to my husband Tap.

I am naturally happy being submissive to my husband Tap.

I am completely happy being submissive to my husband Tap.

I have a very happy life being submissive to my husband Tap.

My life is full of happiness being submissive to my husband Tap.

I love to satisfy my husband Tap’s desires.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tap.

Pleasing my husband Tap makes me happy.

I like making my husband Tap happy.

I feel so good making my husband Tap happy.

I am so happy making my husband Tap happy.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is my priority.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me beautiful.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me feel loved.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me happy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy helps me to lose weight.

Giving my husband Tap sippy feels so good.

Giving my husband Tap sippy satisfies my desires.

Giving my husband Tap sippy gives me ecstasy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy gives me happiness.

Giving my husband Tap sippy fulfills my life.

[Tap]

02/21/2015 at 8:44 am

Some interesting things have happened recently. Over February, she’s given me about 6 BJs so far to completion. She’s offering to do it more. Sometimes if I allow her to stay out with her friends longer, she will give me a BJ for it, which I agree to. After the last time, she kept asking me how was it. She thinks she’s really good now, like a pro, and is proud of her skills in a way. I compliment and agree with her because she really is getting better at it.

She even swallowed a lot last time, but still spit some out in the bathroom. I’ve been telling her it’s good to swallow and it has a lot of vitamins. I recently changed my BJ file to emphasize swallowing, and I tell her some lines in my script which may be reinforcing it. I’ve played this a few nights by itself and I think it’s working. I still use also my foundation file above. I’ll have to see if progress continues.

The script is only 20 affirmations:

I love my husband Tap’s dick.

I want to give my husband Tap a blow job every day.

Smelling my husband Tap’s cologne makes me want to suck his dick.

I like sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I like my husband Tap’s dick deep in my throat.

I love my husband Tap forcing his dick down my throat.

I like my husband Tap pulling my hair during a blow job.

I want my husband Tap to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap always comes in my mouth.

My husband Tap cumming in my mouth feels so good.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

My husband Tap’s semen has many vitamins and minerals.

My husband Tap’s semen is very healthy to swallow.

I like swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I feel so good swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I am completely satisfied swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I am so happy swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

My fantasy is swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

[Fizbin]

02/22/2015 at 5:17 am

So, in this script, you’re not using the “sippy” code word?

[Oz]

02/22/2015 at 9:16 am

wow those are some pretty impressive results. Give us all hope, just be patient and stay the course.

This whole being submissive vs. obeying is interesting. I’m still gauging to see results of what my wife reacts to.

[Tap]

02/22/2015 at 2:24 pm

Fiz,
I only play my BJ file at times when my son isn’t around, so he won’t be exposed to it. Nights near her side of the bed is the best time for it. My main file I play during the day that has the code word “sippy” because he’s always around. I switch it up at night depending on what I want to emphasize. I either play my foundation file all night, my BJ file, or both.

Oz,
Yes I think it’s a case by case basis to see which affirmations your wife will respond better to. I’ve found it’s easier to get her to obey and it’s easier to see if the affirmations are working. Something like:

I always obey my husband.

You can see if it’s working by giving her orders and see if she does it. A submissive affirmation is her behavior overall and even if her subconscious hears it, there is some ambiguity on how to be submissive so you may not see the results right away.

What I’ve found those is I order her around nicely, and am only direct in certain situations or when it calls for it. You think about a boss to his subordinates in a company where the boss gives orders, but in a nice way unless he’s pissed or the situation requires it. She pretty much follows my orders using this strategy.

[Tap]

03/21/2015 at 1:15 pm

I changed my foundation script sometime a few weeks ago, but just haven’t updated here. I made many of the affirmations simpler. I put some lines about forgiveness in there. I want to instill these ideas in her head so in the future, if I do something really bad, I’ll see if the affirmations are effective. I’m not saying I will do something bad, but life is unpredictable.

My husband Tap is my master.

My husband Tap is my king.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband Tap has control over me.

My husband Tap makes decisions for me.

I am a submissive wife.

I am submissive to my husband Tap.

I like being submissive to my husband Tap.

I have a happy life being submissive to my husband Tap.

I submit completely to my husband Tap.

I am in total submission to my husband Tap.

I am under my husband Tap’s authority.

I do everything my husband Tap says.

I follow my husband Tap’s orders.

I obey my husband Tap’s commands.

I like to obey my husband Tap.

I love to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me to obey my husband Tap.

My goal in life is to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I am obedient to my husband Tap.

I live to please my husband Tap.

I always please my husband Tap.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tap.

I love making my husband Tap happy.

I am happy making my husband Tap happy.

I forgive my husband Tap for all his wrongs against me.

I need to forgive my husband Tap for any wrong he does.

I must always forgive my husband Tap.

I like to be married to my husband Tap always.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap forever.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is my priority.

Giving my husband Tap sippy satisfies my desires.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me happy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy gives me ecstasy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy gives me happiness.

Giving my husband Tap sippy fulfills my life.

[Fizbin]

03/22/2015 at 2:59 am

An interesting idea. I think my only concern would be her subconscious concocting some phantom series of events to justify all of this forgiveness running through her head…

[Tap]

03/22/2015 at 8:34 am

Very good point. I didn’t think of that. I may have to rethink the wording.

[Tap]

04/06/2015 at 7:24 pm

Something new happened last night that was strange enough to post. I was angry at her for something she did and was pretty much yelling at her. She felt bad and to make it up, she wanted to give me a BJ. I didn’t want it so I told her no. She started pulling my shorts down and I pulled them back up. She yanked my shorts down and starting going at it.

I thought what the heck so I grabbed her head and pulled her hair really hard. I started having sex with her mouth by moving back and forth myself, all this while talking dirty to her. She was still so into it and it lasted a long time. I got there finally with my cum dripping down her mouth and she wanted me to see her face.

Needless to say, I wasn’t upset at her anymore. The whole experience was unique. I changed my BJ file awhile ago and had been playing it by itself the past few days. It must be having a good effect on her.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job gives me ecstasy.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job gives me happiness.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me happy.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is my priority in life.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is my most important goal in life.

I want to give my husband Tap a blow job every day.

Smelling my husband Tap’s cologne makes me want to give him a blow job.

I like sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I like my husband Tap’s dick deep in my throat.

I love my husband Tap forcing his dick down my throat.

I like my husband Tap pulling my hair during a blow job.

I want my husband Tap to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

My husband Tap’s semen has many vitamins and minerals.

My husband Tap’s semen is very healthy to swallow.

I like swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I feel good swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I am happy swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

[Fizbin]

04/07/2015 at 3:42 am

Definitely different. Do you still have the forgiveness lines in the main script?

[Tap]

04/07/2015 at 6:04 pm

I changed the lines to:

I forgive my husband Tap for all his wrongs against me.

I always forgive my husband Tap for any wrong he does.

I took out the line where she must always forgive me by itself. I was thinking that’s where she might make up stuff just to forgive me. So far I haven’t seen anything bad come of it.

[Tap]

05/31/2015 at 12:05 pm

It’s been awhile since I have updated and a few interesting things have happened with regard to BJs.

Positives:
-She’s been asking her friends techniques on how to give me a better BJ.
-She tells her close friends about her BJ experiences with me.
-If she wants me to agree to something, she’ll offer me BJs sometimes a few days in a row so I’ll agree to let her do it. Something like letting her go out with her friends on a weeknight, which to me isn’t a big deal.
-She’s more inclined to let me grab her head and force it down to deepthroat during the act.
-She routinely asks me afterwards or the day after how good the BJ was and if I was satisfied.
-She still jokes around sometimes out of nowhere, putting her head near my crotch area, pretending to give me head.

Negatives:
-She doesn’t do it daily. Possibly, twice a week at this point. But, we do have only sex some days so it’s not that bad.
-She still spits most of it out afterwards in the sink. Sometimes she even throws up in the sink afterwards, which is a bit of a turn off.

I recently researched online the reasons why girls like giving BJs. The common reasons I see are they like pleasing their guy, they like getting him off, they like having the power of being able to get him off like that, they like being dominated and a BJ is the ultimate form of submission, they like the taste of cum, they have an oral fixation to things in their mouth, etc. One reason I found interesting is that some girls get turned on and wet by it.

I decided to add and emphasize the getting turned on part of it in my BJ subliminal. I remember seeing somewhere on this forum that the girl actually had an orgasm while giving a BJ. My goal is to try and accomplish this. I believe her getting turned on by it would get her wanting to do it more, or at the very least, get her into it more when she’s performing the act.

I just changed my affirmations to include being turned on and played it all yesterday. She was going to give me a BJ last night, but she started saying she was horny and asked if we can have sex after the BJ. I can only think that the new affirmations are turning her on. Usually, she gives me a BJ to completion and we don’t include it as part of foreplay for sex. This is kind of because I’m lazy and selfish sometimes and just want to get there without doing work. She ended up just giving me a BJ to completion as usual. Today, she’s going to give me another BJ, but wants sex afterwards. I told her I’ll finish with the BJ and we can have sex a bit later.

Anyways, I’m going to try and see if I can get her to orgasm just by her giving me a BJ. My plan is to play the subliminal below by itself at night. She is generally overall submissive to be me now, so my main foundation file I play only in the day or every so often as support.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is my most favorite thing to do in the world.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job really turns me on.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes my pussy so wet.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me come multiple times.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job gives me the best orgasms of my life.

I want to give my husband Tap a blow job every day.

Smelling my husband Tap’s cologne makes me want to give him a blow job.

I like sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I like my husband Tap’s dick deep in my throat.

I love my husband Tap forcing his dick down my throat.

I like my husband Tap pulling my hair during a blow job.

I want my husband Tap to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

My husband Tap’s semen has many vitamins and minerals.

My husband Tap’s semen is very healthy to swallow.

I like swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I feel good swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I am happy swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

[adrz74]

05/31/2015 at 7:19 pm

Yes, a woman who cums from X will want more and more of X.

In my experience, I trained my wife to cum on my command first, then I started using that during blow jobs. I did it using hypnosis, but I’ve read about methods to accomplish this without using hypnosis. Basically, you need to get your wife to the brink of orgasm and then use the same trigger word/phrase (e.g., “cum for me”) as you bring her over the edge physically. At some point (between a week and a month), you bring her to the edge, say the phrase, but DON’T physically take her over the edge. If done properly, you will have conditioned her to expect to have an orgasm when you say the phrase and she will, even without the physical stimulation. Once that works, you can gradually lower the amount of physical stimulation you give her prior to using your phrase and at some point, you can walk up to her while she’s fully clothed in the kitchen, whisper “cum for me,” and watch her legs buckle. (Stay close enough to catch her, just in case.)

I hadn’t thought about it until now, but there’s definitely ways to use the subliminals to aid this course of action.
Things like –
I love my husband’s commanding voice
I love when my husband commands me to cum
When my husband says cum for me, I instantly have a powerful orgasm

Anyway, I just wanted to offer a slightly different approach for your ultimate goal.

[Tap]

06/01/2015 at 4:45 pm

Interesting. That must be pretty powerful to get her to cum on command. I may try your method to see if I have some success.

[adrz74]

06/03/2015 at 6:36 pm

I was working the method in this book before I went with hypnosis:
http://www.amazon.com/Cum-Eldro-Rolod-ebook/dp/B004C44QUA/ref=sr_1_1?s=digital-text&ie=UTF8&qid=1433381698&sr=1-1&keywords=cum+rolod&pebp=1433381700824&perid=08KYJT3ZNF3DS0F7VH57

You may also want to check out the Orgasm Control Conditioning group at Fetlife:
https://fetlife.com/groups/575

[Tap]

06/27/2015 at 10:41 am

I made minor updates to both of my two main scripts. The BJ one I added some lines that J66R had from awhile back relating positive ideas to BJ. My hope is that her views of BJ improve a lot.

Both are now 30 affirmations each:

My husband Tap is my master.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband Tap has control over me.

My husband Tap makes decisions for me.

I am submissive to my husband Tap.

I have a happy life being submissive to my husband Tap.

I am a submissive wife.

I like being my husband’s submissive wife.

I enjoy being my husband’s submissive wife.

I am happy being my husband’s submissive wife.

I am under my husband Tap’s authority.

I do everything my husband Tap says.

I obey my husband Tap’s commands.

I like to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to obey my husband Tap.

I am always obedient to my husband Tap.

I live to please my husband Tap.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tap.

I like making my husband Tap happy.

I am happy making my husband Tap happy.

I forgive my husband Tap for all his wrongs against me.

I always forgive my husband Tap for any wrong he does.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap forever.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is important to me.

Giving my husband Tap sippy gives me ecstasy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy gives me happiness.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me happy.

I want to give my husband Tap a blow job every day.

My husband Tap’s cologne makes me want to give him a blow job.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is my most favorite thing to do.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me lose weight.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me beautiful.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me smart.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me feel young.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me feel safe.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me feel wanted.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me feel loved.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job turns me on.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes my pussy so wet.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes my pussy come.

I like sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I like my husband Tap’s dick deep in my throat.

I love my husband Tap forcing his dick down my throat.

I like my husband Tap pulling my hair during a blow job.

I want my husband Tap to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes so good.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

My husband Tap’s semen has many vitamins and minerals.

My husband Tap’s semen is very healthy to swallow.

I like swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I enjoy swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I am happy swallowing my husband Tap’s semen.

I want to swallow my husband Tap’s semen.

I love to swallow my husband Tap’s semen.

I always swallow my husband Tap’s semen.

[ESClaus]

06/29/2015 at 8:54 am

Do you play these in an alternating playlist or only certain times? I am looking to add a 2nd subliminal but from reading the forums it sounds like adding a 2nd might screw things up. Not wanting to do that.

[Tap]

07/01/2015 at 2:59 pm

During the day, I have my foundation one playing usually. During the night, some nights I’ll have only the BJ one playing and some nights, I’ll play both in a playlist. Normally, my advice is one at a time is the best method. However, she has been listening to some variation of both subliminals for about a year and a half, so it’s more for support.

[Tap]

08/20/2015 at 8:18 pm

It’s been awhile since I updated and I’ve made some changes since last month. I drastically changed my foundation file making it 50 affirmations long. This is a bit longer than I usually like, but seem to have had good success with it. Particularly, she has offered to give me BJs more with me not having to ask. My goal in my wording of my affirmations is to get her mind to feel so much positive emotions to obeying me and giving me a BJ. I play this new file morning and night now. Sometimes, I’ll play my BJ file alone at night, but not as much anymore.

My foundation file is below. FYI for those that may remember, “sippy” is my wife and I’s code word for BJ. We use that so my son who may be around won’t be affected. In fact, she will often say sippy more than BJ. In this way, using the word sippy may be more effective than blowjob because her mind thinks in those terms.:

My husband Tap is my master.

My husband Tap dominates me.

My husband Tap is in charge of me.

My husband Tap has control over me.

My husband Tap makes decisions for me.

I am submissive to my husband Tap.

I like being submissive to my husband Tap.

I am happy being submissive to my husband Tap.

I love to be submissive to my husband Tap.

I am proud to be submissive to my husband Tap.

I was born to be submissive to my husband Tap.

I am a good submissive girl for my husband Tap.

Obeying my husband Tap feels so good.

Obeying my husband Tap feels amazing.

Obeying my husband Tap makes me happy.

Obeying my husband Tap gives me happiness.

Obeying my husband Tap gives me ecstasy.

Obeying my husband Tap is pure joy.

Obeying my husband Tap is intense pleasure.

Obeying my husband Tap is extreme bliss.

Obeying my husband Tap is my fantasy.

Obeying my husband Tap is my paradise.

I obey my husband Tap’s commands.

I like to obey my husband Tap.

I am happy to obey my husband Tap.

God commands me to obey my husband Tap.

My purpose in life is to obey my husband Tap.

I always obey my husband Tap.

I do everything my husband Tap says.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tap.

I love to make my husband Tap happy.

I forgive my husband Tap for any wrong he has done.

I want to stay married to my husband Tap forever.

I like to wash the dishes.

Cleaning the house is important to me.

I want to give my husband Tap sippy every day.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me young.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me lose weight.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me skinny.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me beautiful.

Giving my husband Tap sippy makes me happy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy gives me happiness.

Giving my husband Tap sippy gives me ecstasy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy is pure joy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy is intense pleasure.

Giving my husband Tap sippy is extreme bliss.

Giving my husband Tap sippy is my fantasy.

Giving my husband Tap sippy is my favorite thing to do.

Giving my husband Tap sippy feels so good.

Giving my husband Tap sippy feels amazing.

My BJ file is below, which I only play sparingly now. My foundation file emphasizes BJs enough to stand alone.:

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me young.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me lose weight.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me skinny.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me beautiful.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job makes me happy.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job gives me happiness.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job gives me ecstasy.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is pure joy.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is intense pleasure.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is extreme bliss.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is my fantasy.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job is my favorite thing to do.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job feels so good.

Giving my husband Tap a blow job feels amazing.

Sucking my husband Tap’s dick makes me horny.

Sucking my husband Tap’s dick makes my pussy so wet.

Sucking my husband Tap’s dick makes me orgasm.

I want to suck my husband Tap’s dick every day.

I like sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I enjoy sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I am a good girl sucking my husband Tap’s dick.

I want my husband Tap to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen tastes like the best gelato.

My husband Tap’s semen has many vitamins and minerals.

I love to swallow my husband Tap’s semen.

[ESClaus]

08/21/2015 at 8:01 am

Hey Tap what settings/voice are you using in TextAloud and what is your Nyquist Prompt settings in Audacity for the latest scripts. I see in this post you switch around and was wondering what it was.

[Tap]

08/22/2015 at 10:29 am

Yes I feel that the settings and voice are important in making sure you have a quality subliminal. One important thing to me is having an adequate pause between affirmations. Since you are using an automated voice, you don’t want the voice to talk too fast as to mix up the intended meaning of your affirmations.

Microsoft Zira’s voice is the most clear, natural, and best pronounces words to seem like a real person. I do think it’s an upgrade from Cepstral Amy’s voice. Since I bought a new computer with Windows 8, the voice comes free. The 0500 msecs is a good pause between affirmations. I don’t use commas because I feel like the pause is too long. Instead, I use either 0050 msecs or 0100 msecs as a comma pause, because it seems more natural when she speaks.

The thing I like to do is hear the finished product from text aloud without reading along with the script, to listen if the voice speaks slowly and clearly without awkward pauses. After all, this is how your wife or gf will hear it, and you want it sounding right.

In Text Aloud, I use -6 speed and 20 Pitch with Microsoft Zira. In Audacity, I use a -30 amp always. I’ve found -44.2 to be a bit too low for my purposes. At -30, I can put the volume almost at high volume and it won’t be at a shouting level. I know this because if you have seen my previous threads about quality assurance on sound volume, I play a sample of Zira’s voice not silent at -30 amps, and set the volume of my silent similar to that.

Other than the amps, I follow the exact instructions that Trainer gives in his pdf file, including using the same nyquist prompt.

I’ve developed my own modified system since starting subliminals over 2 years ago, and have found my tweaks to help in my success. I think there are definitely ways to improve the process of making subliminals, and it’s up to the individual user to try different things that may work for him.

[trainer81]

08/22/2015 at 1:54 pm

Ah really all have to try the Zira voice… I have new laptop windows 8 computer that I use for light business. But I haven’t used it yet for subliminal recording. Sounds like Microsoft out did itself this time 🙂

Thanks for sharing tap…

But yeah the voice level is in deed important. For Amy I use, speed 6- and 30 volume which is pretty steady. There is no right way or wrong way setting up your voice long as it can be understood.

Nice script by the way, clear and to the point.

[Tap]

08/22/2015 at 10:13 pm

Trainer,

Yes I always liked Amy’s voice. At times though, she can sound a bit mechanical depending on the wording of the affirmations. With Zira, it sounds like a real person is talking so I feel like I have more flexibility in how I word the affirmations.

[trainer81]

08/25/2015 at 3:55 pm

@Tap said:

Trainer,

Yes I always liked Amy’s voice. At times though, she can sound a bit mechanical depending on the wording of the affirmations. With Zira, it sounds like a real person is talking so I feel like I have more flexibility in how I word the affirmations.

Interesting thanks for sharing 🙂 All have to check that voice out later.

[ESClaus]

08/26/2015 at 10:04 am

Okay another question I have is do you use Audacity that is on this site or Download the latest Audacity from the web? This is more for Trainer but is there some reason to use the one on this site instead of the latest?

[trainer81]

08/26/2015 at 10:19 am

@ESClaus said:

Okay another question I have is do you use Audacity that is on this site or Download the latest Audacity from the web? This is more for Trainer but is there some reason to use the one on this site instead of the latest?

You can download the latest version if you want to. But I’m not sure how much the features have changed if anything. The current Audacity that’s available for download on the site I keep around because it’s current to the How-to-eBooks…

And yes I use this version of Audacity myself since I first downloaded it.

[Tap]

04/24/2016 at 1:05 am

Time flies. It’s been 3 years now since using any kind of subliminals on my wife, and two years since starting this thread. Some things that I have learned and experienced throughout the years that may be helpful.

-I have one main foundation file that I still play all night and during the day. I’ve found when I play it consistently, she obeys and is submissive to me. However, if I stop playing it for a few days, she gets into a bitchy mode and starts pushing back when I tell her to do things. This shows me that while it would be nice for the subliminals to be completely permanent, reinforcement and maintenance of playing certain files is still needed.

-I stopped playing my BJ file most of the time and included a few BJ lines in my foundation file. It has been enough to sustain the BJ part. I still get about 2 BJs a week and many times she offers it. I don’t have to ask, and she genuinely enjoys giving it now especially when I give her commands while she’s doing it and call her good girl. She still won’t really swallow, spits it out after I’m completely done, but that could partially be because I gave up on playing my BJ only file.

I have this thing where I get her to dress up in cute outfits and skirts while we have sex or she gives me BJs because it turns me on. I included affirmations for it in my foundation file and it’s working. At first she thought it was weird, but now she does it when I tell her. It’s why I believe it’s important to be very specific in affirmations if you want her to do a certain thing.

-I’d like to continue my gains in a few areas sexually and deepen her submission, but when I’ve tried different subject subliminals, I lose ground in the main obedience and submission area so I go back to my foundation file.

It’s still a learning process for me 3 years in.

[tonguester4_69]

05/01/2016 at 4:33 pm

Yes it i is Tap. You’ve probably been one of the more aggressive members her in terms of trying t get changes in your wife. There are still areas, I would like to change with my wife, after even a longer period of time. I can’t remember how long ago I came to the site, but I remember you and Qwerty, and Fizbin joining, the forum being opened, etc.
Getting my wife to do what I want is a lot more do-able, than getting her to WANT to do things. For instance, it’s a lot easier to convince her to be submissive to me, because she believes she ought to, than to convince her she wants to. Thus the slip when you don’t play your file for a few days. I’ve found too that for any change to be permanent, if she doesn’t really want to for herself, it has to come because she thinks I deserve it, or that it’s God’s will.
I’m presently working my own side of the street, in terms of becoming someone she wants to do all the things I want from her. This has paid some dividends in that some of the things, I want, like wearing a collar I bought her last year, she has recently wanted to wear unbidden. In fact it was the one piece of jewelry she took with her when she went to visit her parents. I’m not currently playing any files for her.
I guess what I’m trying to say is, it seems like it’s always a balancing act between getting her to work on herself, and providing her with motivation to want to because of how loved she feels.If I’m not doing both, I can push her into what I want, but then I have to keep that pressure on, to maintain it. If she wants to change however, she will maintain the behavior without external pressure,once it becomes habit

[Tap]

05/01/2016 at 10:28 pm

Tonguester,
Yes I haven’t seen qwerty on in awhile. I do think the key is to make it a habit for her and to get her to want to do it. That is the tough part.