Starting to help my daughter and son-in-law

[tonguester4_69]

04/12/2015 at 7:09 pm

A couple of weeks ago, my daughter and son-in-law moved in with us, with the intention of restoring their marriage. He is an Army vet with PTSD, and had some issues he wasn’t dealing with which led to them having to seperate for awhile. He’s been getting the help he needs for a couple months now from the VA, and now they wanted to stay with us for them to help them with their marriage. I’m starting with a basic playlist of self mind control, and inner peace. My daughter definitely is a lot like her mother, before we started her training, so later on we’ll have to address that, but for now we’re concentrating on getting their minds under control and thinking about how they react to each other.
This is my second round, having accomplished my major goals with my wife.This will really be a true test of the subliminals effectiveness, since neither of them know I’m playing them. As I did with my wife I’ll eventually bring them onboard with the files I’m playing and get input from them as to what they think would help their relationship.. I’m sort of playing it by ear right now, sort of watching them and how they relate to each other. We’ll see how it goes.

[Fizbin]

04/12/2015 at 8:28 pm

Good luck! I am sure we all wait with bated breath for the results!

[tonguester4_69]

05/03/2015 at 7:56 am

So three weeks, into this new living situation, it’s become apparent that while my son-in-law has his issues, my daughter has no clue, about how to respect, and submit to her husband. They have become more civil, and speak more kindly to one another, since playing the Inner Peace and Self mind control files, so I’ve decided to start in with The Nice Wife, and Submissive Thoughts Wife. The Nice Wife is a new one I hadn’t seen before, and plays directly into what I see as being a major issue, being daughter’s smart mouth. While they are not aware of the subliminals , they are aware that one of the reasons they are here, is to receive help in their relationship from my wife and I. Without that I would not be comfortable getting involved in their relationship.Will keep you posted on how things progress.

[trainer81]

05/03/2015 at 1:29 pm

Hey a good tip for yeah! Help them to remember why they love each other so much right? Talk with them about their goals and hopes for the future.

Remembering things like this could help out allot Self Mind control is a good choice I’d use it as my main file.

[Fizbin]

05/03/2015 at 10:33 pm

Sounds like a good plan!

@tonguester4_69 said:
The Nice Wife is a new one I hadn’t seen before

Me either. I guess Trainer is trying to sneak in a few new ones on us…

[MasterSouthernStar]

05/16/2015 at 1:50 pm

I’m very interested in this – as I work with a LOT of folks who have PTSD. Please keep us posted. I’m also interested to see how your daughter progresses. Best of luck!!!

[tonguester4_69]

05/25/2015 at 8:09 am

It’s been awhile, so I thought I’d update. I’ve had to take a step back in starting to work on my daughter’s issues, and go back exclusively to the self mind control script. I may have to go with this script for a few months, and come up with a custom script for them. The setback was triggered by an episode with the VA, combined with some other stresses. I may also include the the smart shopper script, as they both have a habit of spending money they don’t really need to, and then blame it on the other. I’m also considering a sit-down with both of them to discuss their goals and plans for both their marriage and their lives, and tell them how we see they could improve both their lives and their marriage. I want to include my wife, as she is extremely talented, at telling people things they don’t want to hear, in a way they can accept.This one is definitely going to be a marathon. At least, my daughter doesn’t have the typical issues over sex that are commonly at the heart of a lot of marriage problems. Thank God for small blessings!:?

[Fizbin]

05/26/2015 at 2:34 am

@tonguester4_69 said:
…I may also include the the smart shopper script, as they both have a habit of spending money they don’t really need to, and then blame it on the other. …At least, my daughter doesn’t have the typical issues over sex that are commonly at the heart of a lot of marriage problems.

A case could be made (and has been made elsewhere) that not being aligned on the financial side is actually the root cause of most marriage problems, and that the other issues come later. You might want to get them hooked on Dave Ramsey…

[gtbear]

05/31/2015 at 4:10 pm

@tonguester4_69 said:

The setback was triggered by an episode with the VA, combined with some other stresses. I may also include the the smart shopper script, as they both have a habit of spending money they don’t really need to, and then blame it on the other. img]https://dreamgirlsgt.com/wp-content/sp-resources/forum-smileys/sf-confused.gif[/img]

In the not too distant past, I was over at the VA dealing with war related PTSD issues remaining from Vietnam (no, it doesn’t get better on its own). Also, since then, I’ve been involved with several other Vets with serious cases of PTSD… All have had an issue with spending money inappropriately, some have no memory of doing it at all. Some remember intermittently. Whatever. If I had a PTSD Vet living with me and didn’t have the experience and first hand knowledge about it, I’d be up on all the best sources carefully looking at what is involved with it. I hope that proves valuable…

[tonguester4_69]

06/01/2015 at 8:15 am

That is helpful, thank you. He is much better this time than when he first came back.(They stayed with us for a year shortly after he was medically disabled.) I had never heard that money issues were a part of the PTSD.
Thank you for your service also bear. I know Vietnam was one of the most unpopular wars in our history, and the veterans were treated very badly, as a rule when they came back. I had many friends who served in Vietnam……