[So I know I’ve made multiple posts about this, but I really really need some help here guys.
We’re on day 3 of the playlist, the volume is 10/100 and set by the bed. We’re using the rain files.
Basically, i’ve got 11 days for the headaches to go away or princess may remove herself from the program. How do I make these blasted headaches go away?]
Hey bud, Give me a run down of what’s happening and how she’s listening.
How many programs? Maybe cut back and use the silent claiming its better then the rain.
I’ll probably switch to silents tonight as that’s what most of the advice says. I’m not going to hide it, It’s kind of impossible given how we go to bed and how we have to keep the laptop open, though it would help if she weren’t conscious of it :/. No way around this though it seems.
Ok we’ll be moving forward with the silents and I can only hope it fixes this. I really don’t want to stop. She’s not against the programing (at least openly) or anything, she just can’t deal with the headaches and is afraid they will never go away.
[I would, as a control, leave the laptop open and play either the silents or nothing (at random, without saying which is happening that night) for a few nights and see if there is a difference.
[As I said earlier, the silents might be good so she will forget they’re on. You can try looping them on your smart phone if you want to hide it as I do and most of us do. Fizbin’s suggestion is excellent though. You can tell her you’re playing silents but play nothing and see if she still gets headaches. If so, it’s probably just her not wanting to listen to them, and her excuse is the headaches.]
[Alright, I’ll be swithcing to silent, and if that causes problems I’ll try fiz’s control project. Time to adjust is of the essence so I’ll be trying to see if silets can work by themselves first. Also I think the she may be subconciously fighting the messages, so it’s not an excuse, so much as an excuse of her inner self. To her I believe the headaches to be real.]
[There has been talk, on the old board, of whether sometimes headaches come about as part of the process of internalizing something that actually conflicts with an existing belief. I’m not sure if I buy that, but maybe she isn’t as sold on the whole slave bit as she consciously “wants” to be.
P.S. This whole bracket thing is getting a bit frustrating. I’d much rather bracketed stuff be an exception than “everything” like it is now.]
Yes I was thinking that to, that the headaches could be related to fighting the subliminal messages…. Let’s say the subconscious mind take’s on the phrase ‘I am submissive’ that could be a drawback for her on the subconscious level.
Yes go with the silents but cut back for awhile giving the mind a day of rest!
Sorry about that fiz, you have a point, forgive my experimentation as when you try something for the first time bound to make mistakes.
i’ll come up with a new system (probably the reverse) and if we’re still around by the end of day 14 (prays) I’ll type up what the new system is. For now just forget about the brackets as I don’t think she’ll be coming around the site for a while.
We just had a big talk that could have gone negative, but I managed to turn as positive as can be in this scenario.
We were going to switch to the silents tonight, however, i think I’ll give her a day of rest as per trainers recommendation and only pretend I was playing the silents. Perhaps this will make her believe that the silents work better for her so when i actually play them tomorrow she’ll expect them to be easier on her head. Idk, best idea I’ve got. Wish me luck, lets make this work guys.
PS, I know I lost it and would like to apologize to anyone I may have spoken to in a crass manner. It is no excuse but I was just very frustrated and really don’t want this journey to come to an end so early. Thanks guys. I do appreciate the support.
No problem. I understand your frustrations. Another person suggested moving to a different playback method. I play mine through my cell phone. Almost every phone made for the last gazillion years (whether smart phone or not) has the ability to play MP3 files. You always have it nearby to charge, so it can be a very convenient way to get her to listen to silent files.
