Respectful Behavior

[tonguester4_69]

08/01/2013 at 5:03 pm

This script was born out of a thread concerning the love/respect cycle, and incorporating those ideas into a script. It is an adapted version of Trainer’s Respectful behavior. I welcome any constructive criticism, before I actually record it.Any way, here it is.            

[Qwerty]

08/01/2013 at 5:22 pm

Nice script my only suggestion is to break the compound sentences into single thought sentences. For example make “I desire to please Ted in all my thoughts and actions” into two sentences “I desire to please Ted in all my thoughts” “I desire to please Ted in all my actions”. I also like your resistance statement. I have been trying to figure a way to say you can not resist without using a negative, so I might have to borrow your melts away statement.

[tonguester4_69]

08/01/2013 at 5:23 pm

This is the first time I posted a script, so I,m not sure it’s showing. I uploaded it as an attachment. because for some reason it became disjointed when I copied and pasted it.If you can’t see it a little help in how to post it would be appreciated, as almost everything I know about this stuff has been learned through trial and error.

[tonguester4_69]

08/01/2013 at 5:58 pm

That particular line is Trainer’s to give credit where credit is due. I really liked it too.I appreciate your input. There were quite a few negative statements in his script that I either changed, or eliminated, as my wife is hypersensitive to any kind of negative comment.It might be helpful to look at his script in the composition of your own. You might choose to go a different route for your wife.

[limited1]

08/01/2013 at 7:05 pm

@tonguester4_69 said:
This script was born out of a thread concerning the love/respect cycle, and incorporating those ideas into a script. It is an adapted version of Trainer’s Respectful behavior. I welcome any constructive criticism, before I actually record it.Any way, here it is.            
   

I’m not seeing the script or an attachment?

[Fizbin]

08/01/2013 at 8:31 pm

From the parent list, I can see that an attachment exists, but I see no way to access it.

[Tap]

08/01/2013 at 11:24 pm

I can’t see the script either. I know when I post my scripts, it takes out the 1000 msec notations that I put throughout it. I don’t know why it’s not user friendly when posting scripts. It seems like it should be since that’s a big part of what would be posted in the gold forum.

[J66R]

08/01/2013 at 11:36 pm

I also cannot see any way to view the script, though the forum plainly says there is an attachment.

I suppose there could be some little obscure icon somewhere I’m not noticing.

The effects of my customs seem permanent, with only a little fall back, but new scripts or attempts seem to have little to no additional effects. I just can’t seem to find the right thing to take it to the next level.

Given some of the successes, I was hoping to get a look at some handiwork of others that have seemed to have proven successful, particularly those associated with qwerty’s scripts and nyquist settings.

But if I can’t figure out how to view or download the attachments…haha…it will just make my current frustrations that much more acute.

[tonguester4_69]

08/02/2013 at 8:16 am

OK I guess I’ll just copy and paste it . it looks great when I paste it but goes a little haywire when I hit the post button I don’t know why.Let’s try this this way and see if you guys can make sense of it.                                                                                                           Ted is a wonderful husband.
I enjoy, giving Ted, my undivided attention.
I admire, and respect, Ted deeply.
I enjoy, giving Ted, my undivided attention.        My thoughts, belong to Ted.
I show my respect, in my thoughts.   I show my respect, in my  actions.          
I belong, to Ted.
I joyfully, give myself to him.
I desire him, because he makes me feel, loved.    
Ted has always, taken care of me, physically.                                                             Ted has always, taken care of me, emotionally.
I feel comfortable, and safe, with Ted.
I desire, to please Ted, in everything, out of my respect for him.
I answer, to anything, that is asked of me.
I feel so loved,I do not hesitate, in my response.
My mind, is open to Ted.                                        I respect, and admire Ted.
I admire his patience.                                           I admire his kindness.
My mind is open to Ted.
I trust Ted, with all my thoughts. 
I am at peace.
I am a peaceful wife.                                             I am a respectful wife. 
I can share, all my thoughts, with Ted.                 I can share, all my fears, with Ted. 
My mind, is always open, to Ted.
I desire, to please Ted, in all my thoughts.          I desire, to please Ted, in all my actions.
I do not resist Ted.
I feel, so loved,and secure, I always desire him. 
Any resistance, melts away.
I am eager, to respond to him.
Showing resistance, is disrespectful.
I desire, only, to respect Ted.                               I desire, only to cherish, Ted’s love for me.
I enjoy, submitting to Ted.
I am eager, to become, his perfect wife.
I am, his happy little wife.
I am eager, to please him. 
I love, obeying him.

[tonguester4_69]

08/02/2013 at 8:29 am

Ted is a wonderful husband.

I enjoy, giving Ted, my undivided attention.

I admire, and respect, Ted deeply.

I enjoy, giving Ted, my undivided attention. My thoughts, belong to Ted.

I show my respect, in my thoughts. I show my respect, in my actions.

I belong, to Ted.

I joyfully, give myself to him.

I desire him, because he makes me feel, loved.

Ted has always, taken care of me, physically. Ted has always, taken care of me, emotionally.

I feel comfortable, and safe, with Ted.

I desire, to please Ted, in everything, out of my respect for him.

I answer, to anything, that is asked of me.

I feel so loved,I do not hesitate, in my response.

My mind, is open to Ted. I respect, and admire Ted.

I admire his patience. I admire his kindness.

My mind is open to Ted.

I trust Ted, with all my thoughts.

I am at peace.

I am a peaceful wife. I am a respectful wife.

I can share, all my thoughts, with Ted. I can share, all my fears, with Ted.

My mind, is always open, to Ted.

I desire, to please Ted, in all my thoughts. I desire, to please Ted, in all my actions.

I do not resist Ted.

I feel, so loved,and secure, I always desire him.

Any resistance, melts away.

I am eager, to respond to him.

Showing resistance, is disrespectful.

I desire, only, to respect Ted. I desire, only to cherish, Ted’s love for me.

I enjoy, submitting to Ted.

I am eager, to become, his perfect wife.

I am, his happy little wife.

I am eager, to please him.

I love, obeying him.

 Is this any better?

[Tap]

08/03/2013 at 2:26 am

Sounds like a good script. I think it will definitely better your relationship. You may not see tangible results though so you won’t really know if it’s working since there are no specific actions in it. Is that a sledgehammer or one voice? Do you have the amp at -43 like trainer recommends?

[tonguester4_69]

08/03/2013 at 10:59 am

It’s a single voice file recorded at -25, using the nyquist plug-in someone recommended.Good point about no actionable items.My thoughts in creating it were to increase her desire to be affectionate. I wanted to test the link between love/ respect and sexual desire.I was trying to make a single file to cover both,without making reference to sex specificly.In my case when I work on one area I tend to lose in the other. Like if I focus on arousal, she tends to become less submissive. Suggestions?.

[Tap]

08/03/2013 at 6:12 pm

Well, you could try making one really long custom including everything you want her to be and just loop that. I think my custom is possibly 130 affirmations long. I didn’t copy and past it either, i just let it go one time in audacity and it’s about 13:30 by itself. She’s been listening to that custom or slight variations of that for possibly a month and a half, and I’ve seen a big difference in her. With something like that, since there are so many affirmations for her, it would take a long time to sink in.