Qwerty’s New Script

[Qwerty]

04/11/2014 at 3:26 pm

I have been trying to figure out where I want to go from my earlier successes and so I have been working on a script to inroduce the idea of me as her master. Here is what I have so far.
My husband is my master,

I love that my husband is my master,

I am lucky to have my husband as my master,

I am my masters sex toy,

I love pleasing my master,

Pleasing my master is my greatest joy,

I am wholeheartedly yours master,

I am yours body and soul master,

Put your cock in my mouth master,

It is yours master,

I am yours master,

Put your cock in my pussy master,

It is yours master,

I am yours master,

Fuck my tits master,

They are yours master,

I am yours master,

Come all over my tits master,

They are yours master,

I am yours master,

Put your cock in my ass master,

It is yours master,

I am yours master,

Tie me up master,

I am yours master,

Fuck me every kinky way possible master,

I am yours master,

This is what I want,

This is what I need,

This is what I crave,

I am such a naughty wife

I am such a horny wife,

I am such a slutty wife,

I love being a naughty, horny, slutty wife for my master,

I love my master fucking me every which way,

I want my master to fuck me more and more each day,

Yes this is what I want and will strive to achieve,

These are my thoughts,

These thoughts are true,

These have always been my thoughts,

These thoughts are my inner most beliefs,

These thoughts are good,

These thoughts are right,

I am praised for acting on these thoughts,

I am commended for acting on these thoughts,

I must act on these thought so that I am true to myself,

I have kept a sexual tone in the script as currently my wife (due to previous subliminals) can now not go more than two days without needing sex. She has also started to show signs of submission during sex and is having intense orgasms when she is tied up and has to give up control so I want to re-enforce those feelings while helping her make links to her actions being for her master.

I have 3 second pause between each line because I am going to use an echo when recording the file.

Tell me what you think.

[Tap]

04/11/2014 at 9:28 pm

It looks good, but a bit long. I like how a lot of the affirmations are short. I think short works best. I’m curious, do you repeat it in audacity to extend the the length or do you still just record it only one way through like before.

[Qwerty]

04/12/2014 at 12:24 am

Tap,
I am thinking about breaking this script into 3 parts (intro me as her master, sex, and these thought are hers) This allows me the flexibility to emphasize different parts more easily (increase or decrease the reps of a segment) or if a part starts to go sideways (like when I first introduceed the idea of her being a slut, her brain interpretted it to mean she had to be drunk to be a slut and so she was putting down bottles of wine before sex) it allows me to pull that part and rework it while the good parts keep working. It also allow me to better figure out which part of the script is not working rather than having to scrap the whole script. I still plan on doing a 4:2:1 reps of segments just not sure which part to do at what rep. Currently I am leaning to 4 reps of the these are your thoughts, 2 of intro master and 1 of sex as sex has been on rep in some form or another for almost a year now. Though I am open to any ideas of what I should emphasise and what I should not.

[gtbear]

04/12/2014 at 12:54 am

Qwerty,

As you know, I am a lot less experienced than yourself on script writing so think of this more as a learning excercise for me than a cretique of your script…

If you are just introducing the concept of master into her inner dialog, shouldn’t it be done a little at a time rather than pounding it in? Seems you might be risking a serious kick back. Also, are you going to put your name into it? Like Master Qwerty or Qwerty instead of master or Husband instead of master every now and then? Sorta cement the My Husband Is My Master way of thinking?

[Tap]

04/12/2014 at 4:14 am

That’s a good technique in separating it so you can identify what works and what doesn’t better. I found when I separated my long combined custom into 3 different themes, I could more easily identify what affirmations worked better than others and which ones didn’t.

At least for me, the action oriented affirmations work best. Affirmations getting her to obey me were more effective than simply having her think she was submissive. Same went for cleaning the house, liking certain sex positions, and BJs. All actions that I got her to like doing.

[Qwerty]

04/12/2014 at 5:48 am

Bear,
We are all newbies here, except Trainer that is. As for using my name in association with master, I am not sure that would work for me as my wife really does not use my name and she uses pet names for me, and I felt this was not appropriate for a master. Also I have been introducing the idea of me as her master but only a line or two but it seems to be starting to set in as recently she has caught her self about to call me master while she is tied up, so I wanted to ramp it up and see if we can break through that mental block.

Tap,
The note about direct orders being accepted more effective is interesting. I have noticed that also but I have also noticed that if I give her a reason for that action she seems to take it to another level (sometimes good sometimes bad).

[Fizbin]

04/12/2014 at 12:48 pm

Just wanted to say, welcome back to active participation! Interesting twist on the new script. Good luck!

[MasterSouthernStar]

04/13/2014 at 5:26 pm

Qwerty;

Well – my opinion is that its great just like is shown in the first post of this thread. Given your wife’s current status and experience with the form, I believe the need to keep it short and incremental is minimized. Additionally her leanings towards calling your Master already – and that she mentioned it to YOU – leads me to say she’s ready for this type of thing. As we know someone how’s ready for something is a much better subject. Since you’ve had such good luck up to now, I’d say it’s worth a try anyway. As many of us here know, if it isn’t working like you expect you can always back up and try again. Were I in your spot right now I would TRY this because I would like to see if I can expand her Trainability – not that you’ve had any trouble with that. I just think you may be able to get you (both) to a happy place sooner if you maximize your subject’s capabilities.

Please understand this is only my outlook and thoughts on the situation. I’ve only posted them in hopes that it might illuminate issues that you might worth thinking about. Whatever you choose to do – I wish you the best with it.

MSS

[eldrin81]

04/14/2014 at 2:57 am

script is good if you ask me. People see that and think, that is long, but that is only if you consider the number of lines. It does no good to fret over number of lines, when the vast majority of those lines are 3-4 words long. For your script, what is the total playtime duration? after its been recorded. Are you going to play anything else with this?

I agree with MSS as well, if she has already giddily let that term slip towards you, its in her to think of you that way and you can bring it out.

From my own experience, master is much more approachable as a concept, than slave(although they seem to be more of the same consciously), but frankly, mine has been playing for over a month now, and no backlash from the word slave here and there. Still no slave tones from her yet, but she has taken to repeatedly telling me that her purpose is to please me, so the script’s overtones seem to be wiggling their way into her psyche.

[seekenq]

04/14/2014 at 1:39 pm

Qwerty:

Looks good to me.
I like the repetition of the core theme with minor variations.
Along those lines I might work in one or two more repetitions of:
– I am my masters sex toy,
– I love pleasing my master,
– Pleasing my master is my greatest joy,

You mentioned her having intense orgasms when she gives up control and you wanting to support that.
Perhaps some reinforcement of that idea as well.
On the other hand it might be getting too long / complex for a single script at that point.

[Qwerty]

04/14/2014 at 3:35 pm

Ok, so the overall consensus is that the script is reasonable, though I like the idea of adding in the three lines seek suggested one more time after the sex body and before the acceptance ending. I think I will start off simple with a 14500 nyquist and a single voice then depending on how she takes to it in a couple of weeks re-record it as a sledge to bring it home. Thank you everyone for your input, as always it is invaluable.

[FaustsBoon]

04/14/2014 at 4:41 pm

Script length looks good, and i’ll echo Eldrin in saying, for whatever reason, approaching from the direction of “You = Master” seems better received than “Wife = Slave”. I personally think “Master” is a less loaded term societally, which is why its the easier entry point for submission/dominance relationships. Just a hunch, as like you, my wife recoiled from the word “slave”, but seems to be increasingly playful in using the word “Master” where-as I had never heard her use it prior to subliminals.

[Tap]

04/15/2014 at 1:47 am

@eldrin81 said:

script is good if you ask me. People see that and think, that is long, but that is only if you consider the number of lines. It does no good to fret over number of lines, when the vast majority of those lines are 3-4 words long.

In my opinion, the number of affirmations does matter, even if the affirmations are short. The affirmations should be short to be most effective. However, a 10 to 20 affirmation script would take faster and be more effective than a 40 to 50 one. One reason is dilutional effects. The main reason though, is a 20 affirmation script can be repeated 7 times in 12 minutes while a 50 affirmation one might only be able to be repeated 3 times in 12 minutes. That’s a big repetition difference when you think about it over nights, weeks, and months. That 20 affirmation script will receive a lot more repetitions than the 50 one.

[gtbear]

04/15/2014 at 2:23 am

Complete conjecture on my part but… I can see where more repititions of the same affermation would be very effective yet it seems to me that something with a theme adds balance and more fluidity to scripts.

If I make the script something like;

I like dogs.

and repeat that 20 times it’s going to get a lot of repititions but not really have any body to it. If it’s the only script, then it’s going to be a very long wait before you can change it to ‘I like cats.’ Seems like there is a trade off occuring.

[J66R]

04/15/2014 at 5:28 am

I’ll have to pipe in here with my experience having a fairly huge All-in-one file that has been playing for a year with excellent result and retention. She’s female so she will always rebel once in a while, but her behavior is overtly 1000% better even if there are obvious signs of not being 100% “natural”.

Though it is 16 mins of unrepeated affirmations, it is a sledgehammer, with 7 voices, all played at different speeds so that the slowest starts and end the recording, and the faster ones start and end so they are all in the center of the file. The unprocessed file sounds like one person starts talking, then 2, then 3, 4 5 6 7, then 6, then 5, 4, 3, 2 and finally the slowest concludes. In the very middle it sounds like a small crowd of people are all saying and repeating the same thing in casual conversation. It is really quite interesting to listen to.

The method I used for script creation was to select each topic and move from one to another as they naturally relate to each other. i.e. she likes me, loves me, wants me sexually, wants to do X , likes to do X, needs , to do X makes her feel free, to do X makes her a real woman, a real woman loves her husband, trusts her husband, obeys her husbands, submits to her husband, support and defends her husband and on and on keeping one item flowing logically to another related topic.

The second thing I did was for each, we’ll call them suggestions, I had them spoken in 3 deliberate forms :

X pleases her
x pleases me ( one of the thing I do here is self reinforcing as I also include several times in the script that pleasing me pleases God, equating pleasing God with pleasing me)
x pleases God

On the pleasing God affirmations I am careful with only including things supported somewhat by scripture, or can be related, as attempting to instill acts openly proscribed would probably be resisted in this context. Considering all the scriptural bad mojo about adultery, I do not suggest trying to say God wants us to go to the swingers club. But a variety of sex acts strictly between the two of us could be placed in the context of marriage only contact.

Though I know for a fact that this long script approach has worked on a woman who was belligerently hostile to nearly any sexual contact to the point I get to come in her mouth a couple times a week, and it happened in approximately 2 months from creating that huge script. I am working out a set of short scripts to give that method a try.

The way I figure it, I know the long scripts have worked a miracle on her. And many of you guys have settled on short micro scripts hyper focused, and have had excellent results. So given that my wife seems in a “holding pattern” with few monumental “breakthroughs”, I’ll try to see if changing the scripts will kind of jar things loose and get them moving forward again.

Just don’t completely dismiss long scripts because so many others use them. You need to be willing to use whatever tools are appropriate at the time and for the job. Hopefully you know your wife, and you should have some idea how her mind cranks. I mean you got her to marry you, so you had to have some of it figured out.

With that I’ll let the discussion take it’s own way.

[Tap]

04/15/2014 at 5:38 am

That’s pretty much it, a tradoff. The fact is, on almost every other subliminal site including this one, most subliminals are between 10 to 20 affirmations repeated several times.

One of my favorite websites has 10 affirmations repeated over and over for a total of 12 minutes. I still use them daily and have had great success with them. I think the key is not volume of affirmations, but quality. You won’t be able to fit everything you want in just one subliminal. You can try and it looks nice, makes sense on paper and to the conscious mind, but the subconscious works differently and will respond differently then what you would want.

I learned this when I had my long custom at 90 affirmations. She took more to certain affirmations and ignored others. I never had success with BJs and even the sex part of it didn’t do much. Once I separated the topics, one into a strictly BJ one, that is only when I’ve had a lot of success.

My advice is to keep themes the same in one subliminal, and split concepts into multiple subliminals. Then play them in a short playlist one at a time with two max. 10 affirmations to 20 is optimal. I have one at 30 right now, but it’s my base obedience file, and she’s heard most of the affirmations already for months. I was only able to repeat that 5 times in 13 minutes.

[Tap]

04/15/2014 at 5:42 am

@J66R said:

I’ll have to pipe in here with my experience having a fairly huge All-in-one file that has been playing for a year with excellent result and retention. She’s female so she will always rebel once in a while, but her behavior is overtly 1000% better even if there are obvious signs of not being 100% “natural”.

Though it is 16 mins of unrepeated affirmations, it is a sledgehammer, with 7 voices, all played at different speeds so that the slowest starts and end the recording, and the faster ones start and end so they are all in the center of the file. The unprocessed file sounds like one person starts talking, then 2, then 3, 4 5 6 7, then 6, then 5, 4, 3, 2 and finally the slowest concludes. In the very middle it sounds like a small crowd of people are all saying and repeating the same thing in casual conversation. It is really quite interesting to listen to.

The method I used for script creation was to select each topic and move from one to another as they naturally relate to each other. i.e. she likes me, loves me, wants me sexually, wants to do X , likes to do X, needs , to do X makes her feel free, to do X makes her a real woman, a real woman loves her husband, trusts her husband, obeys her husbands, submits to her husband, support and defends her husband and on and on keeping one item flowing logically to another related topic.

The second thing I did was for each, we’ll call them suggestions, I had them spoken in 3 deliberate forms :

X pleases her
x pleases me ( one of the thing I do here is self reinforcing as I also include several times in the script that pleasing me pleases God, equating pleasing God with pleasing me)
x pleases God

On the pleasing God affirmations I am careful with only including things supported somewhat by scripture, or can be related, as attempting to instill acts openly proscribed would probably be resisted in this context. Considering all the scriptural bad mojo about adultery, I do not suggest trying to say God wants us to go to the swingers club. But a variety of sex acts strictly between the two of us could be placed in the context of marriage only contact.

Though I know for a fact that this long script approach has worked on a woman who was belligerently hostile to nearly any sexual contact to the point I get to come in her mouth a couple times a week, and it happened in approximately 2 months from creating that huge script. I am working out a set of short scripts to give that method a try.

The way I figure it, I know the long scripts have worked a miracle on her. And many of you guys have settled on short micro scripts hyper focused, and have had excellent results. So given that my wife seems in a “holding pattern” with few monumental “breakthroughs”, I’ll try to see if changing the scripts will kind of jar things loose and get them moving forward again.

Just don’t completely dismiss long scripts because so many others use them. You need to be willing to use whatever tools are appropriate at the time and for the job. Hopefully you know your wife, and you should have some idea how her mind cranks. I mean you got her to marry you, so you had to have some of it figured out.

With that I’ll let the discussion take it’s own way.

J66R, your file is really long, but I think the reason why it has worked for you is that you’ve been playing it for a really long time, like a year? I would say if you kept the file the same for that long, then you should see results. However, I think you can see even better results if you now make shortened customs that are focus based on what you want. I know you are still trying to get her to swallow your cum in BJs.

I’m almost sure that if you create a 15 affirmation custom strictly on swallowing, and just play that for a few weeks, she will start to.

[Fizbin]

04/15/2014 at 11:21 am

He also said that he started seeing his significant results after about 2 months. My thinking is that it is less about affirmation count as it is about “theme” count. If you have 2 nearly unrelated (though maybe “high quality”) affirmations playing 20 times, that could be effective, but if you have the same two themes, with 5 related affirmations each, played 4 times, do you get worse, better, or similar effects? This is what we don’t have a definitive answer on, but I think it does impact why some people with “long” scripts report just as much (or better) success as those with nominally “short” scripts, while others get almost no effects at all.

P.S. My own hypothesis is that multiple pivots on a single theme help embed that theme into the subject’s mind and make it feel more “natural”.

[Qwerty]

04/15/2014 at 1:34 pm

My own feeling on this is the length is secondary, it is how you say the affirmationss so they are as if your wife/girl friend/slave were saying them. The closer they are to how she thinks the easier she will accept them. That being said more repetition can not hurt and I am willing to see if going to a one line script can see quick results.

Any suggestions?

[J66R]

04/15/2014 at 3:52 pm

Yes, it is true. Twenty plus years and she would rarely, less than once a year, give a BJ and NEVER even get near taking it in the mouth. I started the All-in-One custom at a time when I could hardly even touch her pants, much less get them off her, and within 1 month she was giving me BJ’s at least a couple times a week. To be considerate, I would warn her when I was about to cum so that it would be her decision. She always stopped short. And then at around two months, BAM, she kept at it even when I warned her several times. I think it surprised her as much as it did me. Since that day there has never been a question about cumming in her mouth. The only thing left there is to get her to swallow. She always hated sex from behind, but recently she just gets naked and bends over the bed and asks if I just want to take her like that. Then writhes like a box of kittens when I push into her.
She would hardly ever even undress in front of me much less strip tease, but that is the latest development. I get a show before sex if I ask for it.

So I think it is as Fiz and Q said, it’s the focus and wording. I was very careful about my topic flow, and I tried to create phrases and mental images that were as close to how I perceive she thinks as possible.

I also believe that, just like any other endeavor, there is a point at which you have taken things about as far as they can go, and need a little novelty to break through a barrier. I think that’s where I am. I still positive movement, but not like I did before. So I am willing to try a new “tool” to get over this hump, and see if we can shake a few things loose.

I think the anecdotal proof on these forums that both can work is good and actually gives us all options to work with when we hit a “wall” like I seem to have.

[Tap]

04/15/2014 at 11:09 pm

@Qwerty said:

My own feeling on this is the length is secondary, it is how you say the affirmationss so they are as if your wife/girl friend/slave were saying them. The closer they are to how she thinks the easier she will accept them. That being said more repetition can not hurt and I am willing to see if going to a one line script can see quick results.

Any suggestions?

I think a one line script if worded properly would see amazing results.My short forgiveness script worked well after a day.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.
Swallowing semen tastes wonderful.
My priority in life is to swallow my husband’s semen.

J66,
Play something like that repeated 40 times in 10 minutes all night for a few days. Something short like that should see results quickly.

Let’s do some math:

In 9 hours of sleep, that’s 540 minutes, divided by 10 is 54 times. 54 x 40 = 2160 times she will hear each of those affirmations.

Compare that to a long 50 line one repeated 3 times in 10 minutes. 54 x 3 = 162 times she will hear each of those affirmations.

2160/162 = 13. That is 13 days at 9 hours of sleep at night it would take for that long 50 affirmation subliminal to be heard 2160 times.

The math doesn’t lie. Extreme exposure can be gained by using less affirmations.

[Fizbin]

04/15/2014 at 11:20 pm

@Tap1 said:
The math doesn’t lie. Extreme exposure can be gained by using less affirmations.

And I guess that is the essence of it. Extreme. While there may be times and places for extreme actions, I believe that they ought be limited to emergencies, such as your forgiveness situation.

[Tap]

04/15/2014 at 11:26 pm

Right, but I would say that if there’s anything that one’s wife is having issues with, the way to change that is to go shorter and in the extreme case 1 to 5 lines.

I’ve tried both as many of you know, and I had just one long custom for a good 7 months. I saw decent results and all of you can see my perfect wife custom on this forum. It was only when I switched to shorter customs did I see progress in areas that were still lacking. My greatest example is the BJ area. I only had success because I switched to a focused 20 affirmation one. Even taking out the handjob part of it really helped.

https://dreamgirlsgt.com/forum/gold-share-your-files/my-perfect-wife-custom/

Read above to see how that progressed. Again I saw decent results, but lacked in others.

[gtbear]

04/16/2014 at 12:42 am

So… a very short, very focused, single theme script should work to bring about immediate (read fast) results particularly in crisis situations. Something like that could be added to a play list as a second script following a long, less focused script. Such a technique could be used to ‘break through’ a resisted behavior or to enhance a particular aspect of the long script. Or in my case, to save my ass after failing to use the nyquist encoding properly. Thank you Qwerty, it’s working.

Small note here on female nature:
I have noticed that among those that like to build and occupy nests, change that moves the ladies outside their comfort zone, for whatever reason or by whatever means, is pretty much always met with bitter resistance. For this reason, I am becoming a fan of the Base script (with standard themes) to which in an on / off sorta way, one can tack on shorter specific scripts for shorter periods of say 1 month to get results (change) while still maintaining the urge to stay with the familiar. Should mean less resistance, faster change and better specific results… That’s about as close as I get right now to speaking female.

[Qwerty]

04/16/2014 at 1:19 am

I like how you think gtbear. A long script for an overall change with a short script to punctuate an idea, encourage an emerging behavior, or breakdown a very specific obstacle. The long script give her a feeling of familiarity and stability, while the short scripts can be used for emphasis. Plus the short scripts feed our needs to constantly tinker with scripts and ideas.

It’s like starting a new workout regiment. You set yourself ultimate goals but so you don’t lose faith and keep up your energy you set simple achievable goals so that you can see results. Nice

[gtbear]

04/16/2014 at 2:09 am

@Qwerty said:

I like how you think gtbear. A long script for an overall change with a short script to punctuate an idea, encourage an emerging behavior, or breakdown a very specific obstacle. The long script give her a feeling of familiarity and stability, while the short scripts can be used for emphasis. Plus the short scripts feed our needs to constantly tinker with scripts and ideas.

It’s like starting a new workout regiment. You set yourself ultimate goals but so you don’t lose faith and keep up your energy you set simple achievable goals so that you can see results. Nice

It might be the best of both worlds… and I would think that it would lend itself well to using multiple devices around the house and or at different times for different scripts. One main playing on the main device 24/7 and other short more pointed scripts in various areas…? Lots of ways to apply it I would think. Also, it might be a very fast way to test out which or if part of the base is being ignored or resisted.

[seekenq]

04/16/2014 at 2:49 am

Bear/Qwerty:

This is kind of the approach I have been trying for a couple weeks now.
At night in the bedroom – A longish script on obedience/submission and his happiness plus a shorter script on becoming “sweetie girl the pleasure doll”.
During the day in her office and living room – A longish script on I love sex and being uninhibited plus a shorter Oral script.
The long scripts are evolutions of my foundation scripts that I have been running for several months.
By evolutions I mean minimal new ideas but with gradual changes in emphasis / intensity of the statements compared to the older ones.
I do repeat a couple key “thought groups” within these longer scripts so those are seeing a higher rep rate.
The long scripts are about 15 minutes and looped 4 times consecutively.

The short ones are more focused on introducing new behaviors so are targeted at higher total repeat rate.
This is followed by the shorter scripts at about 5 minutes repeating 12 times consecutively.
3 times using copy/end/paste in Audacity and then looped 4 times in the players.

Too early to tell for sure but if I think I am seeing subtle progress across the board.
Obedience/ submission – the smallest changes here but that is likely due to me not pushing for more.
ILS – She seems more sexual of late and initiated sex out of the blue the other night which is unusual for her.
Sweetie Girl – Referring to herself more regularly as my sweetie or sweetie girl. A few references to herself in the third person.
Oral – Once a week very regularly and she enjoys it / proud of herself rather than being something to get over with quickly. In the past she has never let me come in her mouth – said she is not into that (kind of defensively). Lately she has made a few references /jokes about it but has yet to follow through.

[eldrin81]

04/16/2014 at 9:50 am

Just some thoughts, forgive me if the bulk of this seems a bit of a ramble, its 5:30am and I couldn’t sleep.

Generally any script will work, given enough time. But we dont want to wait forever on stuff, so we try to build a better mouse trap and get things to work quicker. I have seen most scripts take 2-4 weeks, some more complex or resisted topics. I think the more resistance, complexity, and specificity of the behavior in question, all lead to increased demand for strong wording, and longer times before the woman takes. A specific behavior might be, blow jobs, usually resisted, specific, and complex, for a woman anyway. I mean to a guy, thats such a simple thing, we have a hard time wrapping our brain around why the woman won’t do it, but to them, there are a myriad of thoughts, beliefs and whatnot tied up in such acts, its a wonder their heads don’t explode when we ask. Another specific act might be doing something like dying her hair or cleaning the house. Once you get away from the arena of sex, things change a bit, and it seems to be easier to get compliance.

General scripts seem to be easier, requiring shorter scripts, and less time for them to take hold. This might be something like, wanting the husband’s happiness. General scripts tend to deal with emotions on a broader level, and that seems to be easier to change. This might possibly be due to the generality, and broadness of the goal itself, or the fact that people tend to seek a balance of emotion, and a want for happiness.

Examples of this include Taps forgiveness script, His Happiness scripts, I had one involving trust Happiness and calmness.

Ultimately, your wife wants to forgive you for most things, she is your wife, and she wants to be happy. Nobody can be happy carrying around anger or some sort of a grudge at their spouse. They will stay angry for certain reasons, depending on the nature of the offense, but they don’t want to be there, they want to be back in happy land, like the rest of us. Subliminals helped get her there faster, with fewer hangups.

I had one that just told my wife to be happy, to trust me, to be calm, to believe everything was going to be alright. Worked within a day. Again, general level emotions, people want to be happy, so a script that affirms them to be happy, or move towards letting go of negative emotions, is more accepted.

Arousal scripts, I have seen these work in almost real time. An hour or two of a good arousal script gets my wife in the mood, and I have seen others have success. However, women wanting sex, and performing sex, are two different things. They have so many metaphorical psychological ‘knots’ to unravel concerning sex, that merely just wanting it, often isn’t enough, especially for a woman that isn’t in some sort of sexual/hormonal peak. Some young 21 yr old would probably go nuts after hearing an arousal script, or one of those hornball cougar types who has hit some 40’s or 50’s sexual peak.

His happiness scripts, again, your wife wants to be happy, like all people, and His Happiness scripts often associate her happiness with your happiness, ergo, she wants to be happy, and since making you happy brings about hers, then she then wants to do it,making it easier for the script to take.

This is probably why I have, and several others, so often associate things we want, with her being happy.

[eldrin81]

04/16/2014 at 9:57 am

I think that is another foundational attitude, that doesn’t get touched by newbies enough: Trust. People often learn to focus on His Happiness and Submission scripts in the beginning, and throughout their career as a script writer. However trust, in you, in the voice, is important as a foundational attitude. Trust in the voice can be found in the converter scripts. Many of us have included converter clauses in other scripts.

I sometimes include the following script in addition to others:

I am your inner voice.
This is your inner voice.
I always listen to my inner voice.
I always trust my inner voice.
My subconscious is open to my inner voice.
My subconscious is open to change.
I always do what my inner voice tells me.

[gtbear]

04/17/2014 at 12:45 am

eldrin,

I am collecting these snipits of scripts as reference points and hot ideas… ordering a picture frame mp3 player tonight and after I lick the paint off this first one, I’ll probably get a couple of more… should be good for learning experience / testing and all out getting the job done in faster mode. Same time I’ll have the maine long script playing on the home stereo. Short scripts and lots of reps on more than one subject in more than one location… Life is good!

[eldrin81]

04/21/2014 at 12:10 pm

If you have more than one coming then yes, you might want to go with super short, highly focused scripts tied to that area during the day, things you want her to associate being in that room with. Kitchen, have a script about keeping the house clean, doing dishes, cooking. Dining room could also be about cooking, living room could be about you being master of the house or something, bathroom, could be cleaning as well. Bedroom, some kinda sex file(s). Saving one or two main/lengthier scripts for night time/bedroom play.

[gtbear]

04/21/2014 at 1:15 pm

If I can manage to get this first frame, when it gets here, to do what I want it to do, then I was thinking that it might be a good thing to get the next ones with motion activated screens ect. so that they are only running when someone is in the area. The thing is that the more features and bigger they get the more expensive they get. For now, I’ll just have to get the first one going and see.
I am begining to realize that it will probably be a very long time before ‘enough’ of anything (script wise) is in the picture.

[cms]

04/22/2014 at 3:59 pm

@Fizbin said:

He also said that he started seeing his significant results after about 2 months. My thinking is that it is less about affirmation count as it is about “theme” count. If you have 2 nearly unrelated (though maybe “high quality”) affirmations playing 20 times, that could be effective, but if you have the same two themes, with 5 related affirmations each, played 4 times, do you get worse, better, or similar effects? This is what we don’t have a definitive answer on, but I think it does impact why some people with “long” scripts report just as much (or better) success as those with nominally “short” scripts, while others get almost no effects at all.

P.S. My own hypothesis is that multiple pivots on a single theme help embed that theme into the subject’s mind and make it feel more “natural”.

I think you hit it on the head here. Allow me to rephrase with myself as the subject. I am a multi-dimensional / multi-perspective thinker. By that I mean that when someone presents a problem to me, I have a tendency to see the issue from multiple points of view simultaneously – all perspectives in search of that true nugget of information that is the true source of the trouble. Another aspect of this is that when someone makes a request, I listen to that request formatted and phrased at least 6 different ways in my head to find any nuance that the requester may have missed. This also greatly aids me in quickly finding the true source of the request.

Now. All that said – here’s where I’m going with it. Sometimes, while examining am issue from a variety of perspectives, that nugget remains elusive. Only when another perspective is introduced / phrased just exactlya certain way, does it become exceptionally clear what needs to be done.

Perhaps, by repeating the same theme several different ways – much as I “listen/see” (it’s really “see” for me – I’m very much a visual thinker) the issue in several different ways simultaneously – what you are doing is providing the listener’s subconscious mind threw opportunity to find that one nugget and grab hold. Then the repetition of the other phrasings start to make sense since the nugget was accepted. Once various view points are suitably embedded, the learned behavior gets engrained all the deeper.

[Tap]

04/23/2014 at 3:51 am

@Fizbin said:

He also said that he started seeing his significant results after about 2 months. My thinking is that it is less about affirmation count as it is about “theme” count. If you have 2 nearly unrelated (though maybe “high quality”) affirmations playing 20 times, that could be effective, but if you have the same two themes, with 5 related affirmations each, played 4 times, do you get worse, better, or similar effects? This is what we don’t have a definitive answer on, but I think it does impact why some people with “long” scripts report just as much (or better) success as those with nominally “short” scripts, while others get almost no effects at all.

P.S. My own hypothesis is that multiple pivots on a single theme help embed that theme into the subject’s mind and make it feel more “natural”.

I do agree that multiple pivots on a single theme embed the idea more. This is what I do all the time in my scripts. However, consideration in long vs short should be given to how some themes may appeal to your wife more than others. If you have a long subliminal with multiple themes, your wife may focus on the more appealing themes as the custom is played.

For example, say you combine a cleaning subliminal with a sex one. She may hate sex, but hate cleaning a little less. As she listens to a custom combined with both, her subconscious may find ease in hearing the cleaning part more than the sex part. She might gravitate toward liking the cleaning part more and her behavior will show it.

For me, when I combined the BJ and handjob affirmations in one custom, she started liking handjobs more, but did not do BJs yet at that point. I believe it was eldrin who mentioned how it might be better to just focus on BJs solely. I did and had great results. Her subconscious could no longer find rest in the handjob affirmations. It was strictly BJ all out on her mind, and she eventually gave in.

I think this is an important point and possible problem to think about when using a long custom, or even combining two themes into one custom. I’d even recommend separating sex and BJ into two customs, if your wife likes one more than the other.

[FaustsBoon]

05/04/2014 at 3:00 pm

@Tap said:

@Fizbin said:

He also said that he started seeing his significant results after about 2 months. My thinking is that it is less about affirmation count as it is about “theme” count. If you have 2 nearly unrelated (though maybe “high quality”) affirmations playing 20 times, that could be effective, but if you have the same two themes, with 5 related affirmations each, played 4 times, do you get worse, better, or similar effects? This is what we don’t have a definitive answer on, but I think it does impact why some people with “long” scripts report just as much (or better) success as those with nominally “short” scripts, while others get almost no effects at all.

P.S. My own hypothesis is that multiple pivots on a single theme help embed that theme into the subject’s mind and make it feel more “natural”.

I do agree that multiple pivots on a single theme embed the idea more. This is what I do all the time in my scripts. However, consideration in long vs short should be given to how some themes may appeal to your wife more than others. If you have a long subliminal with multiple themes, your wife may focus on the more appealing themes as the custom is played.

For example, say you combine a cleaning subliminal with a sex one. She may hate sex, but hate cleaning a little less. As she listens to a custom combined with both, her subconscious may find ease in hearing the cleaning part more than the sex part. She might gravitate toward liking the cleaning part more and her behavior will show it.

For me, when I combined the BJ and handjob affirmations in one custom, she started liking handjobs more, but did not do BJs yet at that point. I believe it was eldrin who mentioned how it might be better to just focus on BJs solely. I did and had great results. Her subconscious could no longer find rest in the handjob affirmations. It was strictly BJ all out on her mind, and she eventually gave in.

I think this is an important point and possible problem to think about when using a long custom, or even combining two themes into one custom. I’d even recommend separating sex and BJ into two customs, if your wife likes one more than the other.

Just wanted to chime in and say I believe Tap is precisely correct on this front. Having been deeply evaluating my last two months successes, it is clear that different themes sharing “subliminal time” get received to various degrees. Even in a script I dearly loved, that might’ve been the best written i’d ever made, my wife definitely took to some whole sections far more than others. Everything saw progress, but not evenly.

Dividing into highly specific themes seems to be potent and leave the brain with less wiggle-room.

[J66R]

05/05/2014 at 4:09 am

That’s what I’m hoping guys. I’ve decided and have implemented a focused single item theme script. Tomorrow will be 1 week of full on total non stop subliminal focus on swallowing.

The effects I am noticing right now are slightly increased resistance to BJs in general. She is not refusing, but doing whatever she can to distract. Still, I’ve gotten two BJs, both to completion, of course, due to the old monolithic All-in-One file, which is no longer playing. I’m not entirely for sure but it seems to me she might be making some effort. She generally has not been too keen on going deep in the slightest but has been going “deeper” than usual. I’ve been trying to get her to take me in deeper and do the swallowing action when I’m no where near cumming, to get her used to it, when there is little fear of “having” to swallow. These past two times, though, she kept up the swallowing action right up until I actually shot. Even though I warn her I’m VERY close. To quote, “Cough, cough, sputter.”, mumble something about “coming out my nose.” But she still bolts and spits into the washcloth. Not quite all the way, but she is keeping the “action” going until right a the end, which makes for a significantly more satisfying BJ. I’m needing Hope. So I’m going to count that as a good sign.

But I’m serious about giving this hyper-focused script thing a fair try. So it stays until I hit the 2 month mark at least or until she actually drinks me down.

[Tap]

05/09/2014 at 1:45 am

I think it should work depending on what the script says. I’ve thought about it and swallowing vs spitting is no big deal. What my wife does is while I’m cumming she keeps sucking. I like watching her face and see my semen drip down her mouth. Then when I tell her I’m done she will run to the bathroom to wash her mouth. While it might be nice to see her swallow, to me it’s ok for now.

[J66R]

05/09/2014 at 5:55 am

I think I would be actually OK with that if she would keep sucking until I’m done.

The problem is on the first shot, she makes a huge internal gasping sound, jerks her whole body up and pulls so far out that I’m hardly in any more. I guess she’s trying to minimize contact with the payload but physics tells me she’s just making things worse on her end, plus insuring I don’t get the full effect. The poor fella just goes into limbo right in the middle of his big hoorah. No stimulation to finish it out. Cut the feeling off dead cold.

Yeah, I think if my wife did what yours does, I might be fine. But she don’t! And the over-the-top production quality of her reaction, pure Shatneresque.

[Tap]

05/10/2014 at 3:14 am

I see that’s why it’s not as good. The only part that matters is when you’re orgasming and she continues through. It’s what makes the difference between an awesome orgasm or dud.

I’m not sure how your affirmations are, but along with swallowing, you should put an emphasis on cumming in her mouth. Something like below worked for me:

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband always comes. in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, is pleasure.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is my fantasy.

[J66R]

05/10/2014 at 4:05 am

Oh, no problem getting her to let me cum in her mouth. That’s a total given.
It’s the fact that she like widens the inside of her mouth, as if I just cummed molten lava to the point there is absolutely no contact inside while I shoot. During the ejaculation she just sits there like that and cringes. Not optimal for either of us.

Granted, this script hasn’t been running for two full weeks yet. So I don’t expect any actual “results” for a couple more.
I’m wanting to elicit a full range of emotions and desires and the idea that this will satisfy much of her internal goals.
I focus on the everyday because I want her to think on it everyday at least.
She’s also on a diet that leaves her hungry most of the time, so I thought I’d slip that in as well.

But, I’m open to suggestions.
Following is what I have.

I want to give my husband blow jobs every day.
It is my idea to give my husband blow jobs every day.
I choose to give my husband blow jobs every day.

I like giving my husband blow jobs every day.
I love giving my husband blow jobs every day.
I need to give my husband blow jobs every day.
I hunger to give my husband blow jobs every day.

I want to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
It is my idea to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I choose to swallow my husband’s semen every day.

I like to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I love to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I need to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I hunger to swallow my husband’s semen every day.

To Swallow my husband’s semen sounds good.
To Swallow my husband’s semen feels wonderful.
To Swallow my husband’s semen tastes wonderful.
To Swallow my husband’s semen satisfies my hunger.
I crave to swallow my husband’s semen.

To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me smart.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me lose wait.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me strong.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel young
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel beautiful
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel sexy
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel good.
To Swallow my husband’s semen helps me sleep well.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel loved.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel safe.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel contented.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel happy.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel joyful.

My priority in life is to swallow my husband’s semen.

[Tap]

05/10/2014 at 7:53 am

I like how you’re focusing on every day. I think you place a lot of good emphasis on swallowing.

I think that the worst part for her is you cumming in her mouth. From what you describe, the act of you cumming in her mouth causes her to react like that and it becomes less intense because she stops sucking. You might want to include some affirmations related to that.

I like my husband cumming, in my mouth.
My husband cumming in my mouth, is the best part.

Something to that affect. Once she starts enjoying the part of you cumming in her mouth, she may more enthusiastically take your cum into her mouth following through with the action. Then she might just start swallowing it.

[J66R]

05/10/2014 at 3:16 pm

I see your point. I think there is some validity to it. Regardless of the fact that she has been doing it and not (verbally) complained for over a year, I can see where the melodrama is her version of complaining/resisting. I had, naively, assumed that cumming in her mouth had just become a part of the whole thing and was no longer a problem and that her resistance was mainly from the fact she knew I wanted her to go deep and swallow.

Opens up a new perspective. I’m going to have to give some thought to that and how I might word the script to help her actually enjoy me cumming in her mouth.

Good point.

[Tap]

05/10/2014 at 6:43 pm

Right I hope that helps out. From what I know of your history, I think a good game plan for you is to still play your long custom from time to time for upkeep. Then you can have a short BJ one to help with that swallowing part.

From my scripts, you can see my BJ one covers BJ itself, then goes into cumming in her mouth and then swallowing. I think the cumming in her mouth is equally as important as the BJ itself.

For me, I’ll tell her I’m almost there and she literally sucks faster. Then I watch her face as I get there and I can see my semen dripping down her mouth as she keeps going. She continues through even with it all in her mouth until I say stop. By the time I say stop, I’m literally kind of dizzy and have these weird sensation feelings in my arms because it’s intense. Then she goes to the bathroom to clean up. She usually sees how passed out I am after, gets a thrill from it, and starts teasing me about it. I think part of that is due to the my happiness affirmations in my obedience custom.

[MasterSouthernStar]

05/17/2014 at 5:51 pm

J66R;

I keep seeing everyone trying to give script ideas to get her to ENJOY it more – I’m wondering if affirmations to link swallowing to her self esteem might not be more effective. It seems to me my girl – who LOVES to swallow – really finds it to be something that makes her feel good about herself. That act elevates her to a level of sexiness that other chicks ain’t got. Knowing how the american female and self esteem tend to be mutually exclusive, having that as a carrot to dangle might just be very powerful. If swallowing brings the promise of feeling superior to others, seems like most american females would jump at the chance. It’s just an idea, but if appealing to her pleasure isn’t working – maybe it’s time to try another avenue.

Either way I’m on your side. Best of luck and I’ll be following along in this forum.

MSS

[Tap]

05/17/2014 at 8:19 pm

Interesting. I suppose it depends on the girl if that would work, but it wouldn’t hurt to try.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, improves my self-esteem.
Swallowing my husband’s semen, make me feel great about myself.

[sdalie]

05/18/2014 at 4:12 pm

Very interesting thread. Like the idea’s that are flowing for refining scripts with different angles to get success.
It is nice having a support group you can always come back too. Keep up the good work.
Sdalie

[adrz74]

05/19/2014 at 1:56 am

My wife has a very stressful job, so I have statements like:
Sucking my husband’s cock relaxes me.
Sucking my husband’s cock eases my tension.

The thing she needs most when she gets home is stress relief. So I try to give it to her.

Figure out what your wife wants/needs most and link that to your cock.

[Tap]

05/21/2014 at 1:22 am

@J66R said:

Oh, no problem getting her to let me cum in her mouth. That’s a total given.
It’s the fact that she like widens the inside of her mouth, as if I just cummed molten lava to the point there is absolutely no contact inside while I shoot. During the ejaculation she just sits there like that and cringes. Not optimal for either of us.

Granted, this script hasn’t been running for two full weeks yet. So I don’t expect any actual “results” for a couple more.
I’m wanting to elicit a full range of emotions and desires and the idea that this will satisfy much of her internal goals.
I focus on the everyday because I want her to think on it everyday at least.
She’s also on a diet that leaves her hungry most of the time, so I thought I’d slip that in as well.

But, I’m open to suggestions.
Following is what I have.

I want to give my husband blow jobs every day.
It is my idea to give my husband blow jobs every day.
I choose to give my husband blow jobs every day.

I like giving my husband blow jobs every day.
I love giving my husband blow jobs every day.
I need to give my husband blow jobs every day.
I hunger to give my husband blow jobs every day.

I want to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
It is my idea to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I choose to swallow my husband’s semen every day.

I like to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I love to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I need to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I hunger to swallow my husband’s semen every day.

To Swallow my husband’s semen sounds good.
To Swallow my husband’s semen feels wonderful.
To Swallow my husband’s semen tastes wonderful.
To Swallow my husband’s semen satisfies my hunger.
I crave to swallow my husband’s semen.

To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me smart.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me lose wait.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me strong.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel young
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel beautiful
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel sexy
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel good.
To Swallow my husband’s semen helps me sleep well.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel loved.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel safe.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel contented.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel happy.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel joyful.

My priority in life is to swallow my husband’s semen.

J66R,
With this script, did you succeed in getting her to give you a BJ every day? Or did it improve the amount of times she did it in a week. I’m looking at ways to modify my script to increase the amount of times she does it.

[J66R]

05/21/2014 at 2:07 am

She will give me a blow job any time I ask. Even in the middle of the day. And has done it for up to 4 days in a row. But she does make a big production about how inconvenient it is, with out saying so, of course. Just lots of almost stomping, quick forceful movement, and statements like “we gonna do this?” if I am not nekkid and on the bed by the time the BR doors are locked. Acts like a 10 year old that’s doing something she knows she’s supposed to do but is cutting itno whatever she would rather been doing.

On the other hand she gets better at going deeper and actually is now sucking right up to the end every time. I think resistance is wearing down but she fights the urge to do it on the principle that she’s always refused. I’m not entirely for sure what she thinks is going on since she refused to do it at all for decades and then in just a year she’s a hair’s breadth from swallowing cum. I have to think she’s a little confused at why she’s doing it when I ain’t as tasty a picture as I once was, back when she first started refusing.

Today, though, I had her blow me around noon. She took it way down and, for the first time, kinda sorta kept sucking even during the ejaculation. I actually got to cum while having the suction and contact. I’m talking orders of magnitude better than before. I’m pretty sure she actually swallowed a little, at least by accident.

To test to see how it is going I’m going to try to get her to suck me off again tonight after the kids are in bed. If she does it will be the first time she’s done it twice in one day.

[J66R]

05/21/2014 at 3:56 pm

Just ignored the request as if I didn’t even say anything while I’m lying there with a tent pitched big enough to house a mega-church revival, at the thought of getting it twice in one day…At least she didn’t go off about how all I want from her is sex and that I disrespect her by wanting sex. Patience, patience… I remember how it used to be and it is better than that. So maybe it’s a baby-step thing.

[Tap]

05/22/2014 at 12:18 am

That’s pretty good how you are getting a BJ on demand and she is close to swallowing. I think your BJ focused custom is really working well for you. I’m trying to get to that point to BJ on demand. You have a great thing going.

[limited1]

05/27/2014 at 8:14 pm

@J66R said:

I’ll have to pipe in here with my experience having a fairly huge All-in-one file that has been playing for a year with excellent result and retention. She’s female so she will always rebel once in a while, but her behavior is overtly 1000% better even if there are obvious signs of not being 100% “natural”.

Though it is 16 mins of unrepeated affirmations, it is a sledgehammer, with 7 voices, all played at different speeds so that the slowest starts and end the recording, and the faster ones start and end so they are all in the center of the file. The unprocessed file sounds like one person starts talking, then 2, then 3, 4 5 6 7, then 6, then 5, 4, 3, 2 and finally the slowest concludes. In the very middle it sounds like a small crowd of people are all saying and repeating the same thing in casual conversation. It is really quite interesting to listen to.

The method I used for script creation was to select each topic and move from one to another as they naturally relate to each other. i.e. she likes me, loves me, wants me sexually, wants to do X , likes to do X, needs , to do X makes her feel free, to do X makes her a real woman, a real woman loves her husband, trusts her husband, obeys her husbands, submits to her husband, support and defends her husband and on and on keeping one item flowing logically to another related topic.

The second thing I did was for each, we’ll call them suggestions, I had them spoken in 3 deliberate forms :

X pleases her
x pleases me ( one of the thing I do here is self reinforcing as I also include several times in the script that pleasing me pleases God, equating pleasing God with pleasing me)
x pleases God

On the pleasing God affirmations I am careful with only including things supported somewhat by scripture, or can be related, as attempting to instill acts openly proscribed would probably be resisted in this context. Considering all the scriptural bad mojo about adultery, I do not suggest trying to say God wants us to go to the swingers club. But a variety of sex acts strictly between the two of us could be placed in the context of marriage only contact.

Though I know for a fact that this long script approach has worked on a woman who was belligerently hostile to nearly any sexual contact to the point I get to come in her mouth a couple times a week, and it happened in approximately 2 months from creating that huge script. I am working out a set of short scripts to give that method a try.

The way I figure it, I know the long scripts have worked a miracle on her. And many of you guys have settled on short micro scripts hyper focused, and have had excellent results. So given that my wife seems in a “holding pattern” with few monumental “breakthroughs”, I’ll try to see if changing the scripts will kind of jar things loose and get them moving forward again.

Just don’t completely dismiss long scripts because so many others use them. You need to be willing to use whatever tools are appropriate at the time and for the job. Hopefully you know your wife, and you should have some idea how her mind cranks. I mean you got her to marry you, so you had to have some of it figured out.

With that I’ll let the discussion take it’s own way.

J66R –
I really like your methodology that you have outlined –

X pleases her
x pleases me ( one of the thing I do here is self reinforcing as I also include several times in the script that pleasing me pleases God, equating pleasing God with pleasing me)
x pleases God

Have you posted your long script anywhere? I looked for it but couldn’t find. If you are willing to share, could you post it in the scripts section ? TIA