Please critique these scripts and help me choose!

[FaustsBoon]

07/05/2013 at 9:03 pm

Hey guys,

So as you know, I have been going through the custom creation process with Trainer.  I am constantly wavering on the idea of either directing one perfect file towards a FAR FAR off end goal, or creating a perfect file to fix our more serious problems in the present, while also laying ground-work for a further out future.

The bottom line is… right now, our sex-life has gone to zero.  I get a mercy handjob once or twice a week, but otherwise there is no sex, and there hasn’t been for almost two months.  In watching a movie with the wife that had some extremely steamy sex scenes, I realized, when we discussed it afterward, that she simply isn’t as excited as I am by sex.  She restrains herself, and doesn’t let herself feel the full extent of her sexuality or sexual pleasure.  I wonder if “unlocking” or de-criminalizing it in her mind, first, isn’t a better way to go that might fix our issues in a nearer term, versus trying to make something wonderful happen a year out… while we’re miserable and sex-less until then.

So here is a script I whipped up, inspired by QWERTY’s seemingly powerful script, which has, in a month or so, turned his wife from disinterested, to engaging constantly, flirting with him, etc…  The intention is to simply let my wife be horny ALL the time.  I want her mind constantly dwelling on sex.  Likewise, I put in some highly specific behaviors that I could look for, as initially Wife CS seemed soooooo useful and looked to be working for a long, long time.  

What do you guys think?  I can make ONE of these custom sledgehammers with Trainer’s help, right now… but whatever it is, it will be the ONLY file I play for her, for months.

Option 1.

I want kinky sex with Mark.

I love kinky sex with Mark.

 

You need kinky sex with your husband, Mark.

I need kinky sex with my husband, Mark.

 

My pussy is so wet.

I am horny all the time.

Mark makes me so wet.

I need sex all the time.

Making Mark happy gets my pussy wet.

 

I love Mark’s cock in my mouth.

I want Mark’s cock in my mouth.

You need Mark’s cock in your mouth.

I need Mark’s cock in my mouth.

 

I want to cum all the time.

I need to cum all the time.

You are always horny.

I am so horny.

I have to cum all the time.

Mark makes me cum so hard.

 

I need sex now.

I always need sex.

I am so horny.

Mark makes me so horny.

 

I love sucking Mark’s cock.

Sucking Mark’s cock makes me horny.

I need to suck Mark’s cock.

Sucking Mark’s cock gives me pleasure.

 

I want Mark to dominate me.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

I need Mark to dominate me.

I am submissive for my husband Mark.

 

I do everything Mark tells me to.

I am submissive for my husband Mark.

I love doing everything Mark tells me to.

I am submissive for my husband Mark.

 

I fantasize about Mark dominating me.

You love Mark dominating you.

I love Mark dominating me.

I need Mark dominating me.

 

I ask Mark for sex every day.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

I beg Mark for sex every day.

I am submissive for my husband Mark.

 

I lick my nipples when I am horny.

You are always horny.

I am always horny.

I love to lick my nipples.

 

I want Mark to watch me lick my nipples.

I need Mark to watch me lick my nipples.

I ask Mark to watch me lick my nipples.

 

I am so horny.

You are so horny.

I am so horny.

I need sex now.

Option 2. is the long term goal option

I am my husband’s sex slave.

I love being my husband’s sex slave.

I have always wanted to be a sex slave.

You love being you husband’s sex slave

I love being my husband’s sex slave.

I am a sex slave for my husband, Mark.

 

Mark, my husband, loves me with all his heart.

I need to be a sex slave for Mark.

 

I will love my husband, Mark, forever.

Being a sex slave for Mark gives me pleasure.

 

I am submissive.

I am Mark’s sex slave.

I am submissive.

I am Mark’s sex slave.

I am submissive.

 

You love it when Mark dominates you.

I love it when Mark dominates me. 

 

I love being a sex slave.

I want to be a sex slave.

You need to be a sex slave.

I need to be a sex slave.

 

I fantasize about Mark dominating my sex life.

I ask Mark to control my sex life.

I fantasize about Mark dominating my sex life.

I beg Mark to control my sex life.

Becoming a sex slave is my fantasy.

 

I am a sex slave.

I have fantasies of being a sex slave.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

 

I want my husband, Mark, to dominate me sexually. 

I am a loving sex slave for Mark.

I beg Mark to dominate me sexually.

I am a loving sex slave for Mark.

I love Mark to dominate me sexually.

I am a loving sex slave for Mark.

I need my husband to dominate me sexually.

 

I was born to serve Mark, my husband.

I am my Husband’s sex slave.

You are your Husband’s sex slave.

 

I need to be a sex slave for Mark, my husband.

 

I am submissive.

I am Mark’s sex slave.

I am submissive.

I am my Husband’s sex slave.

I am submissive.

 

I want Mark to dominate my sex life.

I am submissive.

I need Mark to dominate my sex life.

 

I am submissive.

I want sex with Mark every day.

I dream about having sex with Mark.

I need sex with Mark every day.

[FaustsBoon]

07/05/2013 at 9:12 pm

Oh… and for what it is worth… I will put my money where my mouth is.  

I have made a friendly challenge for Trainer.  IF either script works, even 50% as well as I am wishing for, I will, legitimately, send him a “bonus” of $5000 USD.  I am set on making that happen, and am posting it here so you guys can all call me on my bullshit if you see me excitedly posting results, but not having paid him his extra, reward.  🙂

[Qwerty]

07/05/2013 at 9:30 pm

FaustBoon,
Couple of quick things. If your wife has a mental block on sex in which she sees it as something negative, you might want to focus the script on that. Maybe a script that emphasizes sex as being natural, normal, part of a healthly relationship. Then if you want to go the “kinky sex” route use words like sexually adventurous and tie it to peer pressure statement like:

I want to be sexual adventurous with Mark
Sexually adventurous women are admired in society for their care free attitude towards sex.
I want society to admire me for my ability to be sexually adventurous

Some people have a negative association with kinky. If this a word you wife uses frequently then feel free to use it instead.

The other thing I would say is make sure you use words that your wife would use. I used a little more of a dirt script because my wife had a tendency to use those words when she was drunk and horny. So I knews these words were attached to a curtain behaviour I wanted to encourage, hence why I chose them.

Otherwise I like the first script.

Oh and thank you for the kind words.

[FaustsBoon]

07/05/2013 at 10:04 pm

Hey Qwerty,

You’re very welcome.  Thank you for the thoughts, as well.

Trainer’s preference, for now, seems to be the “sex slave” script, (IE #2) and he believes it will work.  He also thinks I can “prime” her by using the I love Sex, and/or Wife CS subliminals currently available…. but I have been using “I love sex” as a solo file for about 10/11 days now, and it isn’t yet have even the tiniest of visible effects.

I’m also not sure he realizes just how sex-less, and emotionally challenging our current situation is.  My wife has virtually shut-down sex, under the pretense that she’s trying to empower/discover herself through taking charge (and yet NEVER initiating, and always finding excuses).  Thinking long-long-long term goal is virtually impossible, when right-now is so tense.

I really just want the cock-sucking, moaning, lusty, sex-starved girl I dated back…. but hell, i’d settle for the more boring, but at least still having some sex, wife I have loved the last couple years.  🙁

[Tap]

07/06/2013 at 12:20 am

@FaustsBoon said:

I’m also not sure he realizes just how sex-less, and emotionally challenging our current situation is.  My wife has virtually shut-down sex, under the pretense that she’s trying to empower/discover herself through taking charge (and yet NEVER initiating, and always finding excuses).  Thinking long-long-long term goal is virtually impossible, when right-now is so tense.

I really just want the cock-sucking, moaning, lusty, sex-starved girl I dated back…. but hell, i’d settle for the more boring, but at least still having some sex, wife I have loved the last couple years.  🙁

FB, I think your main focus should be a pure sex, libido enhancing custom if your wife is like that. My wife is similar in that she basically doesn’t need sex. I got to the point where I am, insisting on sex 5 to 6 times in 2 weeks through a lot of tough work, but it wasn’t easy. I gave her an ultimatum that our sex life had to get better or I was gone. We had separated for a month some years back because of that and other things. That pretty much straightened her out to realize that sex was very important for me in our marriage.

If a wife thinks there will be no consequences to not having sex especially when she doesn’t want to, then why should she have sex? There are plenty of sexless marriages where the woman just doesn’t have sex and it stays sexless because the husband allows it. Her “taking charge” of your sex life is basically you not having sex with her. My suggestion is taking a firm stance against that.

With your scripts, I feel that the 1st one, if she heard that over and over, will get her in the mood more. I do like the second one, but the first one is more specific. Also, you can see the results if they are working, like if she gives you a BJ and licks her nipples. It’s like my custom. She tells me she likes rough sex so I pull her hair, and she flips over for doggystyle without me asking, whereas before she hated that position. It’s all in my custom.

[FaustsBoon]

07/06/2013 at 8:10 pm

Ok guys… so here are updated scripts for BOTH files I am considering (remember, for the moment, i’m picking just one).

Trainer and I had a conversation, and he really believes, based on my wife’s history, that knowingly or otherwise, a big part of her intense need to try to run our sex life, is based on trust issues, not necessarily because of anything I have done or not done, but rather what people before me left residually.  As such, he has suggested that I add some themes of love/trust to my own agenda/goals, in an effort to help her really let go of her inhibitions.

I have also taken it upon myself to add some elements of “safety” helping her feel secure and alright in wanting these things, etc…

Take a look, and again, tell me what you guys think.

Right now, Trainer’s preference is still #2, mine is slightly leaning toward #1, with the understanding that a few months from now, i’ll happily have him make #2 anyway and transition into it.  I just think #1 seems more timely for a window of say, the next six months to a year, whereas #2 seems an aspiration that I imagine will need a year+ to become a lifestyle.

Here goes… 

#1

I love sex.

I enjoy having sex with Mark, my husband.

Sex with Mark gets me excited.

Sex is relaxing.

 

I want kinky sex with Mark.

I love kinky sex with Mark.

 

You need kinky sex with your husband, Mark.

I need kinky sex with my husband, Mark.

 

My pussy is so wet.

I am horny all the time.

Mark makes me so wet.

I need sex all the time.

Making Mark happy gets my pussy wet.

 

I love Mark’s cock in my mouth.

I want Mark’s cock in my mouth.

You need Mark’s cock in your mouth.

I need Mark’s cock in my mouth.

 

I get horny when Mark dominates me.

I am always horny.

I feel safe when Mark dominates me.

I am always horny.

 

Sex with Mark makes me feel safe.

I need sex now.

I always need sex.

I am so horny.

Sex with Mark makes me feel loved.

 

I love sucking Mark’s cock.

Sucking Mark’s cock makes me horny.

I need to suck Mark’s cock.

Sucking Mark’s cock gives me pleasure.

 

I feel safe when Mark dominates me.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

I feel love when Mark dominates me.

I am submissive for my husband Mark.

 

I feel safe when I have sex.

I am submissive for my husband Mark.

I feel loved when I have sex.

I am submissive for my husband Mark.

 

I fantasize about Mark dominating me.

You love Mark dominating you.

I love Mark dominating me.

I feel safe when Mark dominates me.

 

I ask Mark for sex every day.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

I beg Mark for sex every day.

I am submissive for my husband Mark.

 

I suck Mark’s cock when I am horny.

You are always horny.

I am always horny.

I suck Mark’s cock when I am horny.

 

I am so horny.

You are so horny.

I am so horny.

I need sex now.

 

 

#2

 

I love sex.

I enjoy having sex with Mark, my husband.

Sex with Mark gets me excited.

 

I feel safe as a sex slave.

I am my husband’s sex slave.

I feel loved as a sex slave.

I have always wanted to be a sex slave.

You love being you husband’s sex slave

I love being my husband’s sex slave.

I am a sex slave for my husband, Mark.

 

I trust my husband Mark

I need to be a sex slave for Mark.

I feel safe with my husband, Mark.

Being a sex slave for Mark gives me pleasure.

 

I am submissive.

I am Mark’s sex slave.

I am submissive.

I am Mark’s sex slave.

I am submissive.

 

You love it when Mark dominates you.

I love it when Mark dominates me. 

 

I love being a sex slave.

I want to be a sex slave.

You need to be a sex slave.

I need to be a sex slave.

 

I feel pleasure when Mark dominates me during sex. 

I ask Mark to control my sex life.

I feel safe when Mark dominates my sex life.

 

I beg Mark to control my sex life.

Becoming a sex slave is my fantasy.

 

I am a sex slave.

I have fantasies of being a sex slave.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

 

I want my husband, Mark, to dominate me sexually. 

I am a loving sex slave for Mark.

I beg Mark to dominate me sexually.

I am a loving sex slave for Mark.

I love Mark to dominate me sexually.

I am a loving sex slave for Mark.

I need my husband to dominate me sexually.

 

I was born to serve Mark, my husband.

I am my Husband’s sex slave.

You are your Husband’s sex slave.

 

I need to be a sex slave for Mark, my husband.

 

I am submissive.

I am Mark’s sex slave.

I am submissive.

I am my Husband’s sex slave.

I am submissive.

 

I want Mark to dominate my sex life.

I am submissive.

I need Mark to dominate my sex life.

 

I am submissive.

I want sex with Mark every day.

I dream about having sex with Mark.

I need sex with Mark every day

[FaustsBoon]

07/09/2013 at 2:26 pm

Here is our FINAL script for custom sledge

My husband, Mark, is in control of my sex life.
My husband, Mark, makes me feel safe.
I feel safe with my husband, Mark, in control.
My husband, Mark, makes me feel safe.

 

 

I love sex.
I enjoy having sex with Mark, my husband.
Sex with Mark gets me excited.
Sex is relaxing.

 

I want kinky sex with Mark.
I love kinky sex with Mark.

 

You need kinky sex with your husband, Mark.
I need kinky sex with my husband, Mark.

 

I think about sex all the time.

 

I am horny all the time.
I want sex all the time.
I need sex all the time.
I am horny all the time.

 

I love Mark’s cock in my mouth.
I want Mark’s cock in my mouth.
You need Mark’s cock in your mouth.
I need Mark’s cock in my mouth.

 

I get horny when Mark dominates me.
I am always horny.
I feel safe when Mark dominates me.
I am always horny.

 

Sex with Mark makes me feel safe.

I always need sex.
I am so horny.
Sex with Mark makes me feel loved.

 

My husband, Mark, is in control of my sex life.
My husband, Mark, makes me feel safe.
I feel safe with my husband, Mark, in control.
My husband, Mark, makes me feel safe.

 

I love sucking Mark’s cock.
Sucking Mark’s cock makes me horny.

I need to suck Mark’s cock.
Sucking Mark’s cock gives me pleasure.

 

I think about sex all the time.

 

I feel safe when Mark dominates me.
I am submissive for my husband, Mark.
I feel loved when Mark dominates me.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

 

I feel safe when I have sex.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

I feel loved when I have sex.
I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

 

I fantasize about Mark dominating me.
You love Mark dominating you.
I love Mark dominating me.
I feel safe when Mark dominates me.

 

My husband, Mark, is in control of my sex life.
My husband, Mark, makes me feel safe.
I feel safe with my husband, Mark, in control.
My husband, Mark, makes me feel safe.

 

I ask Mark for sex every day.
I am submissive for my husband, Mark.
I beg Mark for sex every day.

I am submissive for my husband, Mark.

 

I suck Mark’s cock when I am horny.
You are always horny.
I am always horny.
I suck Mark’s cock when I am horny.

 

I am so horny.
You are so horny.
I am so horny.

I think about sex all the time.

[Qwerty]

07/09/2013 at 2:31 pm

Nice work FaustBoon and Trainer. I am interested in hearing how it works.

[FaustsBoon]

07/09/2013 at 3:54 pm

@Qwerty said:
Nice work FaustBoon and Trainer. I am interested in hearing how it works.

Well, if it works, you’re to be given partial credit.  As i’ve implied… I was going a very different route until I saw your script, and saw that it was yielding some very direct/prompt successes.  I mined that script for what I thought could work in my own case, so thank you for that.

I remember you saying that the dirty-talk you used works because your wife is prone to speaking like that when drunk.  Problem for me, is that my wife has never really owned her sexuality fully, and thus I have to help her build her internal sexual vocabulary.  As such, in this script i’ve combined what I think she would say, with language she has heard from me repeatedly enough… and all the while i’ve linked ideas with similar phrasing.  If you notice, I use “sex” and “horny” interchangably in some cases… with my hope being that that is the language she’ll start using, and also that all those linked ideas will be associated with pleasure, feeling excited, safe, loved… etc…  I figure, the sooner she allows her libido to come to the fore-front, and the sooner she lets herself really enjoy it, the sooner she can be that much happier (as can I).

[limited1]

07/09/2013 at 4:08 pm

Keep us updated on the results of this script…looks really good, tight and and to the point.

[FaustsBoon]

07/09/2013 at 5:09 pm

@limited1 said:
Keep us updated on the results of this script…looks really good, tight and and to the point.

Thanks man.  I hope this is the case.  

Like I said… one minute i’ll be looking at it, and feel like all the concepts/phrases are tightly inter-mingled and inter-connected, with plenty of repetition…  then i’ll look at “I love sex” and realize my custom is SIX times longer….  and suddenly worry that i’ve done too much.

That said, Trainer signed off on it, and said it was well done (we legitimately did six to eight revisions of it, back and forth).

One thing I DO feel really positive about is the fact that, for this phase of life, and the system… this one track contains all facets/aspects of what I could want, and reasonably expect “right now”.  As such, this script, if its written well enough and recorded correctly on all counts, means I no longer have to come up with play-lists… I no longer have to pick several tracks to create one desired over-all effect, etc…

I’ll loop this ONE file… for as long as it takes… and let it work (while observing, reinforcing, etc…)

[Tap]

07/10/2013 at 12:01 am

FB, I think it’s a great file, focusing the most on what you’re concerned about, the sex part. I’d be interested in the results also. I think we should also consider the idea that it’s a sledgehammer vs a single voiced subliminal. If you have great results on your sledgehammer, I might start looking into making my custom a sledgehammer.