Perfect Wife

[trainer81]

11/25/2013 at 5:13 pm

Short and sweet. And to the point. Obviously it can be expanded quite a bit.

I want to be the perfect wife.

I need to be the perfect wife.

The perfect wife makes her husband happy.

The perfect wife is constantly thinking about how to please her husband.

Every day, I think about how to make my husband happy.

The perfect wife falls deeper in love with her husband every single day.

Every day, in each and every way, I fall more in love with my husband.

The perfect wife trusts her husband completely.

Every day, my trust for my husband grows deeper.

The perfect wife is sexually addicted to her husband.

The perfect wife loves to think about her husband’s cock.

When I think about my husband’s cock, my mouth waters.

When I think about my husband’s cock, my pussy gets wet.

The perfect wife loves being fucked in the mouth by her husband.

The perfect wife loves being fucked in the pussy by her husband.

The perfect wife begs to be fucked in the mouth by her husband.

The perfect wife begs to be fucked in the pussy by her husband.

I want my husband to be perfectly happy with me.

When I do all of these things, I am the perfect wife.

[Tap]

11/27/2013 at 1:08 am

That script looks ok. If it were me, I’d simplify many of your affirmations to be shorter. Also, I’d just use “I” in the first person so she knows it’s for her instead of “the perfect wife”. Her subconscious might equate the perfect wife to some other person, and it wouldn’t have an affect on her.

[Fizbin]

11/27/2013 at 11:25 am

I use similar affirmations, but my generic targets are “A good wife X” or “good girls Y” and then include parallel affirmations so she associates herself with both the desired characteristic, or the desired role model.

[Tap]

11/28/2013 at 1:09 am

I posted this article in another thread, but wanted to post it here also.

http://createsubliminalmessages.com/avoid-using-negative-words-in-message-scripts/

“Conditional Terms and Phrases to Avoid in a Message Script

In addition to understanding what words or contractions not to use in a message script, there are also conditional terms and phrases that should be avoided.

They are considered conditional because the outcome is uncertain and dependent on another event happening first.

Avoiding Conditional Terms and PhrasesThe subconscious mind does not understand the nature of the past or the future, as does the conscious mind.

It can only comprehend the present and because of this, conditional message statements will likely have no effect in achieving the desired goal of the recording.

The best example of the most important conditional word to avoid is “if”.

Using it implies that the desired result can only be achieved when something else occurs first.

Since the subconscious mind is unable to understand the future, it will ignore that part of the statement.

There are specific words, terms and phrases that are conditional, but this may not always be obvious. A list of words, terms and phrases that are considered to be conditional is provided below.

After
Before
But
Conditional, Could
Depending on
Even though
However
If
May
Once this
Perhaps
Prior to
Upon
What if
When
Will
Would

Using any of these words or phrases presents a possible future based on a previous event that may never happen. What is preferable is to project and state a specific future to the subconscious. This cannot be done by using statements that are worded as conditional.

The subconscious mind must be presented with statements describing the goal as already achieved or that it is in the process of being achieved. Designing messages worded in the form “I am”, or “I am becoming” is far more desirable and effective.”

It’s hard to follow that to the T, and even I use when or other conditional words sometimes in my affirmations. I’ve almost cut it down to none now. It’s not to say these are undisputed facts but it’s worth thinking about when you include “when” or other conditional affirmations.

[eldrin81]

11/30/2013 at 5:57 pm

While I don’t believe conditional statements are always ineffective, non-conditional statements are MORE effective from what I have seen and read in other’s posts and my own experience.

Some suggestions from my point of view.

When I think about my husband’s cock, my mouth waters.

(Thinking about my husband’s cock makes my mouth water.)

When I think about my husband’s cock, my pussy gets wet.

(Thinking about my husband’s cock makes my pussy so wet.)

When I do all of these things, I am the perfect wife.

(I am the perfect wife, because I do all these things.) This ones a little tougher because she obviously is not these things currently, but from what I have seen you want to word it as if she is already at the destination.

[seekenq]

12/01/2013 at 12:07 am

One approach to deal with difficult conditionals like the one above is to break it into 2 statements that are tied together.

This has been used / described in some other script posts.

– (I am the perfect wife, because I do all these things.) could become:

A perfect wife does all these things.

I am a perfect wife.

– or I want to be a perfect wife.

– or I must be a perfect wife.

Not sure about the last two but I was trying to address the “future” issue, i.e. a behavior that she is not doing now but you want her to do.

I’m not sure if stating “I am a perfect wife” immediately would negate the need to make changes.

Comments / thoughts ?

[eldrin81]

12/01/2013 at 12:12 am

The way I addressed that issue in For My Husband custom, was this

I am a good wife.

A good wife does things just to please her husband.

or you could say,

A good wife loves sex with her husband.

A good wife submits to her husband.

ie. you let her believe she is a good wife, but then set up the expectations of what a good wife is in later statements.

[eldrin81]

12/01/2013 at 12:36 am

Something I just wrote, you might consider a script structure like this, 

basically repeating blocks of I am a perfect/good wife, followed by one or two statements of the expectation,followed ya first person thought of doing that thing, with an emotion:

I am a good wife.
A good wife is happy to please her husband.
I love pleasing my husband.
Making my husband happy makes me happy.

I am a good wife.
A good wife submits to her husband’s desires.
I love submitting to my husbands desires.
Submitting to my husband makes me happy.

I am a good wife.
A good wife loves sex with her husband.
I love having sex with my husband.
I want sex with my husband right now.

I am a good wife.
A good wife loves sucking her husband’s d ick.
I love to suck my husband’s d ick.
I must suck my husband’s d ick right now.

I am a good wife.
A good wife is happy to please her husband.
A good wife puts her husbands needs first.
My husband is my whole world.
I am a good wife.

[Fizbin]

12/01/2013 at 12:40 pm

That is pretty much the form I use for some of my affirmation patterns, though I do try to be a bit less monotonous about it. Then again, maybe monotony is also good in its own way for some of this…

[Tap]

12/02/2013 at 1:03 am

I like that format too. I think that would be an effective way of presenting the idea to her.

[eldrin81]

12/02/2013 at 10:07 pm

Ya, I think the monotonous tone has a bit of a hypnotic vibe to it. And repetition seems to be key for subconscious reprogramming whether it be hypnosis or subliminals.