Oral/HJ script

[Tap]

12/13/2013 at 2:15 am

I know others have posted their version. This is what I’m currently going with. Cepstral Amy’s voice, -2 tone, -5 speed, -23 amp, 2000 msec pause between each affirmation, and the whole script is repeated 5 times for a total of 12:43. Amy says the word “p enis” better than “d ick” so I used that word often.

I like my husband Tap’s p enis.

My husband’s p enis looks beautiful.

I enjoy licking, my husband’s d ick.

I like sucking, my husband’s d ick.

My husband’s d ick, in my mouth tastes great.

My husband Tap’s p enis, tastes wonderful.

Sucking my husband’s p enis, makes me happy.

Licking my husband’s d ick, gives me extreme pleasure.

I want to give a blow job, to my husband.

I need to give a BJ, to my husband Tap.

Giving a blow job, to my husband, makes me orgasm.

I like to feel my husband’s p enis.

It feels good to fondle, my husband’s d ick.

I like to play with my husband’s d ick.

Playing with my husband’s p enis, makes me wet.

Playing with my husband’s p enis, turns me on.

Playing with my husband’s d ick, makes me horny.

Grabbing my husband’s p enis, gives me pleasure.

I enjoy giving a hand job, to my husband.

Giving a hand job, makes me happy.

Giving a hand job, gives me extreme pleasure.

Giving a hand job, makes me horny.

I give hand jobs for a long time.

Giving a hand job, to my husband, gives me an orgasm.

[Tap]

12/21/2013 at 9:39 pm

Edited my script. She likes giving me HJs now and for a long time. She thinks my d ick is the best part of my body and likes grabbing it a lot when walking around the house. Still doesn’t want to give a BJ so edited to place a large emphasis on that. I also discussed with her reasons why she doesn’t like it and she thought BJs are disgusting and she never liked them. She referred to it as mostly “BJ” so I placed a large emphasis on that term.

I also shortened and worded my affirmations differently. I was actually able to repeat it 6 times in audacity instead of 5, for a subliminal that’s 13:19 long.

I like my husband Tap’s d ick.

My husband’s p enis looks beautiful.

My husband’s d ick, in my mouth tastes great.

I like sucking, my husband’s d ick.

It turns me on to suck my husband’s p enis.

It makes me wet to suck my husband’s d ick.

I like giving a BJ, to my husband.

I enjoy giving a BJ, to my husband.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me wet.

Giving my husband a BJ, turns me on.

Giving my husband a BJ, feels so good.

Giving my husband a BJ, gives me pleasure.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me happy.

I want to give my husband Tap a blow job.

I feel wonderful giving my husband a blow job.

Giving my husband a blow job, makes me orgasm.

It feels good to fondle, my husband’s d ick.

I like to play with my husband Tap’s d ick.

Playing with my husband’s p enis, makes me wet.

Playing with my husband’s d ick, makes me horny.

I give hand jobs for a long time.

[Tap]

12/29/2013 at 1:49 pm

This is my final edit of my script. This finally got her to give me a BJ and to agree on consistent BJs from now on. To be sure, the wording and commas in different places are such that Cepstral Amy says the affirmations as clearly as possible. If anyone wants to copy this, I did put 2000 msec after each affirmation including the last affirmation, so when it repeats it flows smoothly.

Again Amy’s speed is at -5 and her tone is at -2. I made two versions, one at -23 amp for my phones for louder squeaking, and a more silent version at -35 amp for my computer. The script is repeated in audacity 6 times, for a total subliminal of 12:24. I hope if anyone uses this, it works for them as well.

Giving oral sex feels like ecstasy.

I like my husband Tap’s d ick.

My husband’s d ick, in my mouth tastes great.

I like sucking, my husband’s d ick.

It turns me on to suck my husband’s d ick.

I like giving a BJ, to my husband Tap.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me happy.

Giving my husband a BJ, gives me pleasure.

Giving my husband a BJ, feels so good.

Giving my husband a BJ, turns me on.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me wet.

I want to give my husband a blow job.

I feel wonderful giving my husband a blow job.

Giving my husband a blow job, makes me orgasm.

I like my husband’s semen, in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

I like my husband’s semen, on my hands.

Every girl gives her man a blow job.

Blow jobs, are normal.

My blow job skills are amazing.

[Tap]

01/04/2014 at 8:59 pm

Edit #4: Now the goal is to improve the quality of BJ while sustaining the amount given. Some of my affirmations are longer, especially a few of the “while” statements. I found there was no other way to explain what I wanted in the subliminal. As such, I’m not sure how effective those affirmations will be. However, I kept much of the main script that has worked and just finetuned it. I deleted some affirmations in place of others to keep the script short. 23 affirmations, repeated 6 times for a total subliminal of 13:32.

I like my husband Tap’s d ick.

My husband’s d ick, in my mouth, tastes great.

I like sucking, my husband’s d ick.

It turns me on to suck my husband’s d ick.

It feels good to suck my husband’s d ick, while looking, at his eyes.

I like to suck my husband’s d ick, while he plays with my pussy.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me happy.

Giving my husband a BJ, gives me pleasure.

Giving my husband a BJ, feels like ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me wet.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me orgasm.

I want to give my husband a blow job.

I feel wonderful giving my husband a blow job.

I enjoy giving my husband a blow job, for a long time.

I like my husband’s d ick, deep in my throat.

It feels great to deap throat, my husband’s d ick.

I want my husband cumming, in my mouth.

My husband cumming, in my mouth, feels like ecstasy.

I like my husband’s semen, in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

Every girl gives her man a blow job.

Blow jobs, are normal.

[themistocles]

01/04/2014 at 9:58 pm

Tap,

Looks good.  Keep us appraised of progress!  That’s another topic I want to tackle, but focus is key, right?

[Tap]

01/05/2014 at 2:57 am

Yes focus is key. I think you can try 2 subjects at a time and be ok.

She gave me another one today so that’s 4 now since last saturday. She mentioned she likes giving a BJ now over other sexual activities. She actually said she likes giving me a BJ over me going down on her. To be fair, I haven’t gone down on her in a long time because she doesn’t want it. She said she prefers the sperm in her mouth or her hands than other parts of her body. However, she hasn’t taken it in her mouth yet, and just has been finishing it off with her hand. This is something I stressed in the new script above.

I’m still surprised at some of the things she’s said about it. It’s obviously from my script. Her liking BJ now, her wanting my semen on her hands or in her mouth??! I had the hand affirmation in my previous edits but took it out, so it’s strictly about in her mouth now. She can talk about it in her mouth, but I’d like to see it happen. We’ll see what happens.

[Tap]

01/25/2014 at 2:55 am

Edit #5: Shortly after my last edit, there were two incidents where she was in the act and I asked her to do certain things and she didn’t like it. In fact, it led to arguments and she said she wanted to stop doing it altogether. It was a major setback, but I convinced her to keep doing it.

I quickly redid my script and she’s gotten to liking it again. She even asked her friend for tips on how to give a good BJ and it has helped some. I still haven’t gotten her to take the semen in her mouth. Maybe eventually it’ll happen, but I’m not pushing it yet and am satisfied with what I’m getting now. It’s gotten to the point where I prefer it over sex, probably because I’m lazy to do the work sometimes and it’s a quick fix for me. At this point, it’s been about twice a week but at least once every two weeks. She still prefers having sex over it.

If you noticed, I changed some of the affirmations around to flow better. I first talked about BJs in general, and then I tried to go forward sequentially as if she’s in the act of doing it. I think it has allowed her to accept it more. It’s now down to only 19 affirmations, repeated 7 times for a total subliminal of 13:15. I think describing the act “sucking d ick” rather than using the word “BJ” provides a more vivid image in her mind and might be helping. Also, she complained how her mouth would get tired, hence the added affirmation. She’s also said she wants it over within 3 minutes. I’m trying to extend that with the affirmations about doing it for a long time.

Blow jobs, are normal.

Every girl gives her man a blow job.

Giving oral sex feels like ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me happy.

Giving my husband a BJ, gives me pleasure.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me wet.

I like my husband Tap’s d ick.

My husband’s d ick, in my mouth, tastes great.

I like sucking, my husband Tap’s d ick.

I enjoy being on my knees, sucking, my husband’s d ick.

I like to be on my knees, sucking, my husband’s d ick.

My mouth, feels relaxed, sucking, my husband’s d ick.

I like my husband’s d ick, deep in my throat.

It feels great to deep throat, my husband’s d ick.

I am comfortable giving my husband a blow job, for a long time.

I enjoy giving my husband, a long lasting blow job.

I want my husband cumming, in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

[eldrin81]

01/25/2014 at 2:11 pm

Yes like timid squirrels they are. Little nudges. Sounds like my wife too, god forbid you offer any advice, it is seen as criticism, and that of course is just evil. Maybe some affirmations about wanting to improve her skills, and research?

[Tap]

01/25/2014 at 5:51 pm

@eldrin81 said:

Yes like timid squirrels they are. Little nudges. Sounds like my wife too, god forbid you offer any advice, it is seen as criticism, and that of course is just evil. Maybe some affirmations about wanting to improve her skills, and research?

True although I don’t want to make the script too long. I’ll see how my current script goes and add more like that if I think she needs to improve.

[Tap]

01/28/2014 at 3:20 am

I got her to agree to take it in her mouth for once. She did and the orgasm was amazing because she kept going. She spit it out after and said it was disgusting, which was the downside. I’m not sure if she will want to continue finishing me off like that, so I edited my custom again to emphasize that part of it.

Blow jobs, are normal.

Every wife gives her man a blow job.

Giving oral sex feels like ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me happy.

Giving my husband a BJ, gives me pleasure.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me wet.

I like my husband Tap’s d ick.

My husband’s d ick, in my mouth, tastes great.

I like sucking, my husband Tap’s d ick.

I enjoy being on my knees, sucking, my husband’s d ick.

My mouth, feels relaxed, sucking, my husband’s d ick.

I like my husband’s d ick, deep in my throat.

It feels great to deep throat, my husband’s d ick.

I am comfortable giving my husband a blow job, for a long time.

I enjoy giving my husband, a long lasting blow job.

I want my husband cumming, in my mouth.

I like my husband, to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

My husband’s semen, in my mouth, makes me happy.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, feels great.

Every man comes, in his wife’s mouth.

Every wife swallows, her man’s semen.

[J66R]

01/28/2014 at 4:31 am

It took forever with my wife, but once she took it in the mouth, she has done it that way every time.
Now there is no question, she even comes to me and says “Go wash up.” Though she still acts like I’m spraying a fire hose down her throat when I cum.

Anyway, make sure you praise her and let her know just how amazing it was, and how it makes you feel so much more for her and it makes you just love and want to take care of her even more, but don’t back down now that this line has been crossed.

I honestly think wife is just on the verge of swallowing, it’s just taking just as long as cumming in her mouth but it will be worth it when it happens!

Just my $.02

[Tap]

01/29/2014 at 3:21 am

Interesting. Thanks for the advice.

[Tap]

02/08/2014 at 10:44 pm

Shortened my script to only 10 affirmations. After the success of my forgiveness script, I want to try it out. I repeated the script 13 times for a total subliminal of 13 minutes. I normally can only repeat it max 6 so in the night, she should get double the exposure. I tried to keep the main meat of the script but it was difficult. She now is taking my semen in her mouth half the time.

I enjoy giving my husband Tap a BJ.

Giving my husband a blow job, feels like ecstasy.

My fantasy, is giving my husband a blow job.

My happiness, is sucking, my husband’s dick.

I like sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

My mouth, feels relaxed, sucking, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband’s dick, deep in my throat.

I like my husband, to come in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen, in my mouth, tastes wonderful.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

[eldrin81]

02/09/2014 at 2:03 am

Looks tight and focused. You have already gotten into oral land so I think this should help cement it with further repetitions. Shorter scripts really are better, though sometimes my firsthand second drafts still top 15 lines. But then I try to widdle them back, like a sculptor with clay.

[Tap]

02/10/2014 at 1:04 am

Yes it’s definitely hard to get everything into 10 lines. In fact, I refixed my script and edited my last post above. That is what I’m going with currently. I felt it’s a bit stronger from her POV in why she should want to give me a BJ.

[Tap]

02/15/2014 at 6:03 pm

Saw a bit of slideback in that she didn’t really want to give a BJ after she said she would. She tried to delay it. And my shortened script has been getting all night exposure. I think I stripped it of some affirmations that were effective. The overall BJ ideas about society and what wives do might have been important to keep. I lengthened it back to 20 and will see how it goes.

Blow jobs, are normal.

Every wife gives her man a blow job.

Every man comes, in his wife’s mouth.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me happy.

Giving my husband a BJ, feels like ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me wet.

My fantasy, is giving my husband a blow job.

I like my husband Tap’s dick.

My husband’s dick, tastes great.

My happiness, is sucking, my husband’s dick.

I like sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

My mouth, feels relaxed, sucking, my husband’s dick.

I like my husband’s dick, deep in my throat.

It feels great to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

I like my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, feels so good.

My husband cumming in my mouth, feels like ecstasy.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

My husband’s semen, in my mouth, makes me happy.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

[eldrin81]

02/15/2014 at 6:25 pm

Tap, some thoughts of what I have noticed. Ten lines is great for some topics, but if you really look at it, getting a wife who hates oral sex, to so oral sex regularly is a multi faceted topic. Cutting back too far is a real danger, as you and I have both recently experienced, as there are several underlying and seemingly unrelated issues that cause hangups for them on such subjects. Also, sometimes it’s hard if not impossible to find the right words that convey all the meaning you need in as few as 10 lines.

10 lines is best for very tightly focused topics that are simpler to attack, or when you can manage to get the wording ‘just right’. 15-20 is probably the sweet spots for topics our wives are very resistant too and have several issues with.

[eldrin81]

02/15/2014 at 6:30 pm

I think any time you are tackling a specific behavior that she is resistant to change, rather than a single attitude, you are gonna need a script of 15-20 lines, or one or two other supporting scripts.

Specific behaviors: giving oral sex, probably could only be a ten liner if she previously did blow jobs for the man and enjoyed it. Unlike my wife who never did it unless she was coerced or pushed, and hates it.
Attitude: Husbands happiness, easily tackalable in 10 lines

Very specific behaviors: dying her hair a certain color, wearing a certain outfit on a special day etc, probably easy to get by with 10 lines.

[Tap]

02/16/2014 at 7:28 am

Yes I agree, specific behaviors, shorter is good. For behaviors she dislikes, 20 is ok. Back to the new normal as today she gave me a BJ and I finished in her mouth.

I think I’ll stick to this script for awhile.

[eldrin81]

02/16/2014 at 1:57 pm

Sounds good man. I have stuck with 10 lines on my oral, but only because I have two other scripts supporting it.

[Tap]

03/04/2014 at 2:54 am

Another edit. I noticed her explicitly talking about sucking dick more so I switched most of the affirmations to that. I also placed a few strong affirmations about her purpose in life…I want to see how it affects her.

Blow jobs, are normal.

Every wife gives her man a blow job.

Every man comes, in his wife’s mouth.

My fantasy, is giving my husband a blow job.

I like my husband Tap’s dick.

My husband’s dick, tastes great.

My purpose in life, is to suck my husband Tap’s dick.

My goal in life, is to suck my husband’s dick.

I want to suck my husband’s dick, every day.

I like sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

Sucking, my husband’s dick, makes me happy.

Sucking, my husband’s dick, feels like ecstasy.

My mouth, feels relaxed, sucking, my husband’s dick.

I like my husband’s dick, deep in my throat.

It feels great to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, feels so good.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

My husband’s semen, in my mouth, makes me happy.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

[Tap]

03/08/2014 at 5:18 am

I’ve been playing my BJ custom at night by itself. Interestingly, 4 times in the past few days I told her to give me a BJ and she said next week. The most I’ve gotten now is a BJ every other week and cumming in her mouth every other time she gives me a BJ. I decided my script wasn’t as good and switched back to an earlier script. I actually went to this thread to look at one of my better versions from before. That is the good thing about keeping a record of my old scripts on this website. I usually only keep a copy of my current script that I’m using saved on my computer. I switched back to this script:

Blow jobs, are normal.

Every wife gives her man a blow job.

Every man comes, in his wife’s mouth.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me happy.

Giving my husband a BJ, feels like ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me wet.

Giving my husband a BJ, makes me horny.

My fantasy, is giving my husband a blow job.

I like my husband Tap’s dick.

My husband’s dick, tastes great.

My happiness, is sucking, my husband’s dick.

I like sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

My mouth, feels relaxed, sucking, my husband’s dick.

I like my husband’s dick, deep in my throat.

It feels great to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, feels so good.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

My husband’s semen, in my mouth, makes me happy.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

[gtbear]

03/08/2014 at 5:28 am

Tap1,

I’m wondering if adding a time imperitive to some of those statements might be of value?
Like:

I think about
I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth now.
I need my husband Tap, to come in my mount now.
I must have ….

That sort of thing…

[Tap]

03/08/2014 at 5:37 am

That’s something that might work. Put some urgency in her thoughts. Actually, I’ve thought about making my affirmations generic such as:

I like to suck dick.
I like to give blowjobs.
Sucking dick, makes me horny.

These affirmations are shorter and possibly more effective. Kind of like:

I like sex

Rather than…

I like sex with my husband.

I did this with my sex file and to me it’s effective.

The reason I don’t do it for the BJ file, even though it might be more effective is with the “I like sex”, since I might hear it also, then yes of course I like sex. But if my subconscious hears, “I like to suck dick”, over time through the years, I’m not sure how this would affect my subconscious. So I go with the long form, “I like to suck my husband’s dick.” I don’t have a husband so my subconscious should always reject it. In addition, there is the fear that “I like to suck dick” might get her liking to suck any guy’s dick.

One issue I’m having with this script in particular is my young son is always around. I try to limit his exposure as much as possible so I really only play it at night. If he wasn’t around, I would play it 24 hours a day and I’m sure I’d see better results.

[gtbear]

03/08/2014 at 7:00 am

I was reading about subliminals up on Wikipedia and followed all the scientific fellows links to studdies on the subject and read abstracts of their work. One, who’s name I do not remember found that sexual based subliminals given in the study were without effect on males but females had some low level reactions to them. I am sure that they didn’t play the subs in as prolific nor prolonged a way as most here do….

I have a 5 year old grandson here who tends to sleep with C due to not liking to be in his own bed by himself. I keep an eagle eye out for ANY reaction out of him concerning the subs and so far have seen or heard nothing even remotely attributable to the scripts… C on the other hand seems to be responding well to just about anything I put on there. I am paying close attention to any discorse in the forum about how others are handling exposure both to themselves and to their kids just in case.

I am hoping that in time I will be able to have C sleeping etc. with some comfortable form of earphones and the boy back in his own room and bed.

[eldrin81]

03/08/2014 at 12:35 pm

Lack of vocabulary may help him ignore the subliminals. My 3 year old has heard many of the subliminals playing, and he acts NO DIFFERENT than before. He literally just is in his own world. I still keep an eye out, but he just flutters about doing his own thing. My statements are all worded to only make sense to my wife however, so if my subconscious can reject them on that basis, I’m sure his can, simply because he doesn’t know some of the words.

[eldrin81]

03/08/2014 at 12:51 pm

@gtbear said:

Tap1,

I’m wondering if adding a time imperitive to some of those statements might be of value?
Like:

I think about
I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth now.
I need my husband Tap, to come in my mount now.
I must have ….

That sort of thing…

If you look at some of my past scripts, I used a clause at the end like:

I want to suck Eldrin’s dick right now.
I need to suck Eldrin’s dick right now.
I am going to…

I used such a clause in other scripts to concerning their individual topics. The urgency, atleast for my wife didn’t make a bit of difference. So now if I feel the need to put such a thing in, I just stick with one statement: “I must [do this thing] right now”. Shorter and to the point.

[gtbear]

03/08/2014 at 6:09 pm

Yep… llive and learn… read a post by Tap on another thread about the way the subconcious brain processes (or not) info. Found the past/future tenses not accepted or processesed by the subconcious to be sort of limiting but realize that slims down the options on statements in scripts, like the above, quite a bit. I don’t post that sort of thing because I know what I’m talking about… it’s more like just asking for opinions.

On the boy brain / subliminals, I read somewhere that there are some pretty serious differences between the male brain (physically) and the female brain. Size, functions, and manner of thought / memory processing. That sort of thing may be at the bottom of why some subs don’t seem to take effect on guys and others do. Vocabulary, context and experience probably limit subconcious exposure as well. Seems that by personalizing the scripts to one degree or another you would be limiting other peoples exposure as well. That’s a question even if it doesn’t sound like it….

[seekenq]

03/09/2014 at 2:20 am

If the subconscious ignores past/future tenses like “now” or “right now” I wonder about statements like “always”
– I always do X
– It has always been this way.

This or something similar seems to be relatively common in a number of our scripts.
Any thoughts about if this is effective or any suggestions on alternate constructions.

[eldrin81]

03/09/2014 at 2:43 am

Now, right now, is a present tense not past tense. The subconscious does not ignore it, I have just not seen those statements instill a sense of urgency in my particular wife. Your mileage may vary.

[Tap]

03/09/2014 at 6:48 pm

I decided to combine my short sex file to my BJ one as I saw some slide back with sex again. It’s 28 affirmations trying to keep it under 30. It’s repeated 5 times in audacity for a total time of 12:40. I added a period after some words, because Amy actually says it better like that with the pause.

Blow jobs, are normal.

Every wife gives her man a blow job.

Giving my husband a BJ, is happiness.

Giving my husband a BJ, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, is my fantasy.

Giving my husband a blow job, pleasures me.

Giving my husband a blow job, satisfies me.

I agree to a blow job, for my husband.

I like my husband Tap’s dick.

My husband’s dick. makes me horny.

My husband’s dick. tastes great.

I like sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

I want my husband’s dick. deep in my throat.

It feels great to deep throat, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, feels so good.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I enjoy swallowing my husband’s semen.

I like sex.

Sex makes me happy.

I have a high sex drive.

I agree to sex with my husband Tap.

My husband Tap makes me horny.

I enjoy playing with my husband Tap’s dick.

I love the doggy style position.

The doggy style position pleasures me.

The doggy style position, is ecstasy.

The doggy style position makes me orgasm.

[eldrin81]

03/09/2014 at 7:06 pm

Tap, since you are just trying to maintain and cement behavior at this point, it probably isn’t detrimental to have more than 2 scripts/topics playing, if those behaviors have already been established and just need some maintenance.

[Tap]

03/09/2014 at 11:19 pm

True. The thing is, I’ve hardly played my sex script and it mainly has been my oral. I figured I’d might as well combine them since both are important to keep maintenance up. Same thing went for my cleaning script, which I combined with my obedient one.

I’ve seen that behaviors learned can become undone if the subliminal is not played every now and then. While it would be nice if it was permanent, I do not believe it to be so. You will mostly have to play the subliminals every so often to maintain the behaviors, especially if the thoughts and behaviors are not natural for your wife/girlfriend.

[gtbear]

03/10/2014 at 12:16 am

Well pop my bubble! No permanent changes without ongoing maintenance… There ought to be a way to cement these thoughts as solid instead of just tacked on transitory behaviors. Something is lacking… On the other hand, perhaps we should look at these behavior mods as being learned skill sets that require brushing up on to stay good at.

[Fizbin]

03/10/2014 at 1:51 am

How “permanent” is ANY behavior, really? Even though you will create a new “base” state, she will still potentially be exposed to the “forces” that created the undesirable behaviors in the first place, so what we’re really talking about is a “booster” shot of immunity against those agents.

[tonguester4_69]

03/10/2014 at 4:59 am

I believe at some point for any permanence to any behavior, there has to be a willing commitment to it. In sex especially, I think our wives need to see an improvement in their lives, to make that conscious, willing commitment to adhere to our desired behavior. Just my opinion , of course…..

[Tap]

03/10/2014 at 5:31 am

I think playing the script a few times a week is good after the behavior is learned, and also providing positive reinforcement when she does something you like will help continue the behavior.

I played my new script all day today. She gave me a BJ as agreed upon today. She wanted to surprise me on whether or not I’d finish in her mouth or by her hand. Well she took it in her mouth and swallowed some of my cum and spit some out. She laughed afterwards saying next time she might just let me cum on her face. I told her it has vitamins and minerals and is healthy to drink, so she said she might just swallow it all then. We then talked about it and she agreed to just take it in her mouth all the time she gives me a BJ, but right now she just wants to give me one, once every two weeks. I’ll take that and see if I can increase the amount of times.

For me at least, the orgasm is much more intense with her finishing me off in her mouth vs sex. A part of it is in sex, when you orgasm, you get weak and can’t keep pumping while in a BJ, the girl continues for you at the moment of orgasm so it intensifies it.

That’s decent success of my script.

[eldrin81]

03/10/2014 at 1:33 pm

I think eventually with another month or so those behaviors will naturally cement if you keep up what you are doing. Her own actions will become habit. Still, it’s no big deal to replay an old script once a week or so for a boost, maintenance. You just need to get her to step up the frequency. Maybe borrow some lines from my original 10 liner from February.

[trainer81]

03/10/2014 at 4:09 pm

It’s impossible to know for sure, but I feel like His Happiness is permanent for my wife. I don’t think I’ve played it for her in over a year, but she will still occasionally say how important it is for her to make me happy.

[Tap]

03/11/2014 at 2:04 am

I think it if your wife was predisposed to that line of thinking, than His Happiness might have just put those type of ideas into words for her. If your wife is originally against something, such as a BJ in this case, then it will need more reinforcement.

I kid you not, just in December, my wife was strongly against BJs, told me to divorce her and get with another woman if I wanted it because it’s the most disgusting thing ever. It’s why all last year I didn’t even focus any subliminals on it, if you read my journal. I pretty much thought that it would be impossible. She said even if I paid her a million dollars she wouldn’t do that. It was only after I saw Qwerty and Faustboon have success in oral, I decided to make this oral script. From just a few months ago, I still can’t believe how far it’s come.

[J66R]

03/11/2014 at 12:20 pm

I’ll agree with you there.

At the beginning of last year when I first started the subliminals, I thought getting a regular blow job (regular = anything more than once a decade) would be impossible and getting to cum in her mouth would be a sign of the end-of-days sort of thing. She said all the same things to me. Divorce, could not pay her enough, go get a whore, NEVER gonna happen, and more. Then all of a sudden about 2-1/2 months into it she took it in the mouth. Totally surprised me. I think it did her too. I always let her know when I was close, both out of respect and because if she did, I wanted it to be her that chose to and not me that forced it. Now it’s minimum of once a week usually 2 -3 times and always in her mouth, no question. Just have not been able to get to go through with swallowing yet. I think that is a matter of time though. But BJ’s are now as often as regular sex is. And this is a woman who for 20 years wouldn’t even touch my penis much less suck on it. I quote, “PEE comes out of it. No way!”

That breakthrough was all the proof I needed that this works. You just have to find the right wording of the scripts. But even the bet habits and the most awesome skills need practice and reinforcement to remain permanent.

[FaustsBoon]

03/11/2014 at 1:05 pm

That is inspiring man, and something I needed to hear right now. I’ve been really tense over how inconsistent my results have been, and closing in on one year here has me frustrated over not being at a level of success where sex 2-3 times a week is even common, and blowjobs have been 2-3 a week during some stretches, and none-for-a-month at other points.

[eldrin81]

03/11/2014 at 4:20 pm

@Tap1 said:

I think it if your wife was predisposed to that line of thinking, than His Happiness might have just put those type of ideas into words for her. If your wife is originally against something, such as a BJ in this case, then it will need more reinforcement.

I kid you not, just in December, my wife was strongly against BJs, told me to divorce her and get with another woman if I wanted it because it’s the most disgusting thing ever. It’s why all last year I didn’t even focus any subliminals on it, if you read my journal. I pretty much thought that it would be impossible. She said even if I paid her a million dollars she wouldn’t do that. It was only after I saw Qwerty and Faustboon have success in oral, I decided to make this oral script. From just a few months ago, I still can’t believe how far it’s come.

Me and you were pretty much coming from the same place, though you have been around longer than me. Your wife seemed just about as highly resistant to oral as mine is. Her saying lines like ‘find another woman if thats what you want’ are things my wife has said too. For some oral is a broachable subject, that was done previously, for my wife it was never done without much issue. My recent theory that it would take 60+ days to achieve that, was based off reviewing your journal. It seemed that it took atleast that long for you to get her to start doing it with any enjoyment or frequency.

[Tap]

03/12/2014 at 1:41 am

Well, I think if you have a good oral script, use that mainly 24/7 as much as you can. It’s also important to have some kind of your happiness, obedient script as a base. I think you should have her wanting to do it in her head in about 30 days. Then the trick is giving her a way out to do it. Offer an exchange for it at first. Something that she wants that you can give or do for her. After she does it the first few times, make the experience as enjoyable and quick as possible. Then give her compliments, etc. reinforcing her. Eventually, she will get used to it and it becomes a habit.

For me, her BJ skills are pretty good now so I was kind of loud when I was getting there the last time. I think she liked that part because she knew she was doing a good job, and went at it with more effort.

[MasterSouthernStar]

03/16/2014 at 5:39 pm

On the issue of permanence….

My belief is that anything will become permanent that is maintained long enough. That is to say that once the desired thought pattern is attained (here via subliminals) that maintenance is required – for a given time. Eventually – if we do something the same way over and over again – we can’t even remember how we did it before. This is an industrial engineering concept stemming from the use of checklists to perform tasks. IF we create a checklist to ensure a task is done via a standardized method (in compliance with direction in our arena) it must be used every time at first to ensure compliance. However it’s not long before the subject adapts and memorizes the list (script) and follows it in their head. After a while the subject sees the benefit of each step as experience weighs in. At that point the subject will often become an advocate of the new method. Even at that point – occasionally the checklist should be trotted out just to make sure none of the less common elements are forgotten. In an industrial setting twice a year is considered plenty as long as compliance appears uninterrupted. I think whole process applies pretty cleanly to the portion of this thread about permanence and maintenance. I’d say get her where you want her to be – and keep playing what got you there long enough that she can’t remember her old ways. THEN play that every few months just to be sure. That’s what I’m going to do if I ever get there!

MSS

[eldrin81]

03/16/2014 at 6:18 pm

I agree MSS. I don’t believe playing the subliminal for the traditional ’21 days to form a habit’ is enough. that number refers to actually acting on the behavior. So if you continue to play the subliminal, and you get to a point where she is doing the said behavior for 21-30 days it is likely engrained as habit. Though negative reinforcement from peers is always an issue. So having the exact script that got her there in the wings to play is useful. I’m sure hearing a script she has heard before for months is easier to take to than a new script too.

[Tap]

03/16/2014 at 10:43 pm

MSS,

That’s a very good process. The key is to get her to standardize the method and she gets used to doing it like that. I think I’m on my way. What’s funny is yesterday, she was satisfying me sexually (not by BJ) and I came with some spilling on her arm. She pulled her arm away and commented eww. I told her, so you can swallow my cum just fine but if it’s on your arm it’s gross? She smiled and said she prefers it in her mouth hahaha. Now obviously this can only be because of my script. I have no affirmations of it on her arm.

I was thinking that placing the desire in her mind with the word “want” might actually be effective. For example, my line of:

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

…makes her think she really wants it in her mouth. That would be vs:

My husband comes in my mouth.

I was thinking about both. While the second one could also be effective, it’s simply a statement of what is presently occuring. In her mind, she might reject that if consciously she knows her husband doesn’t cum in her mouth. But if you place the desire, she will think she really does want it. The other school of thought is, if she hears the second affirmation alot, maybe she will take it as true for her conscious that her husband does cum in her mouth. It tricks her mind to thinking it’s true. This is the same as:

I am a slave, to my husband.

It’s a simple statement that the conscious may reject at first, but then accept as true after constant repetition. Just some of my thoughts…

BTW, I shortened my script to 15 lines again and separated the sex part into a separate custom. I also have a -17 amp version which I like to use when sleeping as I feel more confident she’s hearing it well, since the device is on the ground on the side of the bed.

Every wife gives her man a blow job,

I want to give my husband a blow job, every day.

I want to suck my husband’s dick. every day.

Giving my husband a BJ, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, is my fantasy.

Giving my husband a blow job, is pleasure.

Giving my husband a blow job, is happiness.

I like my husband Tap’s dick.

My husband’s dick. tastes great.

I love sucking, my husband’s dick.

I want my husband’s dick. deep in my throat.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, feels so good.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

[gtbear]

03/16/2014 at 11:48 pm

MSS,

How goes the “this girl” statements? Did you implement that and is it doing what you wanted?

[Tap]

03/21/2014 at 1:18 am

I switched back to a 20 affirmation version of my file. As I said, I have her doing it at a minimum of twice a month with cumming in her mouth. The plan is for her to do it today. When I came home from work, she started jokingly doing the motions with her hand pretending my dick is in her mouth. She said she wants to put strawberry syrup on my dick before doing it. I like when she responds like this, but I’m trying to get her over the hump of doing it more than twice a month. I’ll never be satisfied with my gains.

[Tap]

03/22/2014 at 4:24 am

She took it in her mouth and the orgasm was awesome again. The funny thing about these subliminals is that I think I’m being affected by it also. I play my BJ file all night mostly, and I find myself just wanting BJs now. It’s like I prefer it a lot more than sex. Sometimes I’ll tell her give me a blowjob, and she’ll ask for sex instead because she wants to be satisfied also. I reluctantly give in, as if sex is now the de facto 2nd choice. Now that she sees I don’t want sex as much, she wants it more. That’s how women are. But really, I’d take a BJ over sex any day. Just sit and chill while she does the work and the orgasm is more intense. Just some of my thoughts…

[Tap]

03/22/2014 at 4:08 pm

New goal: Increase the number of BJs and get her to swallow it.
My latest edit which I think is pretty good is below. Again I play this mainly only at night by itself.

Blow jobs, are normal.

Every wife gives her man a blow job.

Giving my husband a BJ, is happiness.

Giving my husband a BJ, is ecstasy.

Giving my husband a BJ, is my fantasy.

Giving my husband a blow job, pleasures me.

Giving my husband a blow job, satisfies me.

I like my husband Tap’s dick.

My husband’s dick. makes me horny.

My husband’s dick. tastes great.

I love sucking, my husband Tap’s dick.

I want to suck my husband’s dick. every day.

I like my husband’s dick. deep in my throat.

I want my husband Tap, to come in my mouth.

My husband cumming in my mouth, is pleasure.

My husband always comes. in my mouth.

My husband Tap’s semen, tastes wonderful.

I like swallowing my husband’s semen.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is ecstasy.

Swallowing my husband’s semen, is happiness.

[MasterSouthernStar]

03/23/2014 at 5:50 pm

GTBear;

Hadn’t gotten to the “this girl” thing yet. It IS on the schedule though. Probably take a while. Thanks for asking.

MSS

[Tap]

04/05/2014 at 2:04 am

I thought I’d bring it up just because it’s so surprising to me. She told me that she likes the taste of my cum over the taste of my saliva. It’s why she doesn’t want me going down on her or kissing as much, but she prefers taking my cum into her mouth after a BJ. The power of the subliminal.

[Tap]

04/06/2014 at 5:09 pm

So I decided given the recent thread on the forum where personal things that I have posted were used against me in an argument, I will most likely refrain from giving more personal info about my situation or posting any new scripts.

I’ll just say that I continually am seeing gains in rephrasing my scripts and using different techniques. While commenting about what has helped me personally with scripts and techniques might be invaluable to others, I feel it does more harm for my situation than good. I will still stay on the forum though to help others that are posting about their experiences. I do feel given my now over 1 year of experience, I have much advice to give to those that are trying to better their marriages, and I am glad to do so.

[MasterSouthernStar]

04/06/2014 at 5:42 pm

Tap;

Sorry to hear of your recent difficulty. I saw that and really didn’t understand why it got like that – but oh well – it was what it was. Sad that it has had this outcome, but at least you are still with us in some form.

Thanks for staying around. I’m sure it will be a big help to many of us.

MSS

[Fizbin]

04/06/2014 at 9:33 pm

Hi Tap,

I also am saddened to hear this, but fully understand. Once the flamewar started, I stopped reading any of the messages that appeared to be part of it. It is times like that when I wish I really had the moderator authority that was (mistakenly) implied by my status tag on the old server.

In any event, I am glad you will at least be around to kibitz.

[seekenq]

04/06/2014 at 10:24 pm

Tap:

Sorry to hear of your decision.
Perhaps in time you will reconsider.
I have found your input here on the forum to be of enormous value to me and I think to others as well.
It is a shame to lose your valuable insight and experience over something completely tangential to the main purpose of the forum.
You will be missed.

[J66R]

04/07/2014 at 1:18 am

Tap, it bothers me that it went as far as it did and, to a degree, I feel badly about how far it went, and regret any part I played in its escalation.
Though I feel the points I made were solid and legitimate, I must admit the motivation quickly became emotional, and so was not appropriate.

On the other hand, the information you have shared here has influenced my scripts and attitudes and I have appreciated your input. I believe we will all be at a loss for the lack of your continued input.

[gtbear]

04/07/2014 at 4:43 am

Tap,
I hope that you will not be run off.
I have to admit, however, that the intire incedent may have done substantial harm to the forum as now all who post can look forward to the same treatment if they get crosswise to some folks. (I wonder if instilling that chill wasn’t the original intent.)
This forum needs a good hearted, tuff and impartial moderator if it’s going to survive intact.

[Qwerty]

04/07/2014 at 3:40 pm

Tap,
I too am saddened to hear that you are pulling back. I know personally that I always looked forward to your critics and scripts, for although I did not always agree with them they always made me evaluate my position, my efforts and my thought processes, as well as giving me ideas to incorporate or modify for my scripts.

[adrz74]

04/07/2014 at 7:12 pm

@gtbear said:

Tap,
I hope that you will not be run off.
I have to admit, however, that the intire incedent may have done substantial harm to the forum as now all who post can look forward to the same treatment if they get crosswise to some folks. (I wonder if instilling that chill wasn’t the original intent.)
This forum needs a good hearted, tuff and impartial moderator if it’s going to survive intact.

Instilling a chill? Seriously?

As others have noted, Tap was often the first to offer criticism to others. My assumption is that if you can dish it, you can take it, so I’m as surprised as anyone that he’s made this decision.

I was only standing up for something that I believe in very strongly. I admit I got overly emotional about it and I regret that.

In the spirit of good will, I offer up the following: I will for the time being only post on threads that I have started. I will continue my own journal and possibly other threads, but I won’t comment on anyone else’s journal or threads. Consider this a self-induced probationary period.

I think the more involvement on these threads, the better. I’m not looking to attack folks and drive them away. So for now, I’ll confine myself to my own little section of these forums.

[gtbear]

04/07/2014 at 9:25 pm

adrz,

I see nothing to be gained for the forum by loosing 2 rather than one poster, even for a short while. I think everyone has been supprised by the emotional responses and most would just like it all to fade out and not be repeated. I would hope that you stick around and help to mend the social fabric. Peace … Love … BJs for All …

[Qwerty]

04/07/2014 at 9:54 pm

I agree with gtbear. This is a passionate community with people of differing belief, backgrounds, desires and expectation. It was inevitable that at sometime some topic was going to spark passionate debate. We are a mature community here and we have enough life experiences to realize things can be said or taken in ways not intended or as personal attacks. We are also mature enough to recognizes when things may have gotten out of hand after the fact. Rather than shrinking from the community as self inflicted pentence, throw yourselves further into the community and help us be vigilant against future threads flaming out of control.

We have been lucky as a community not to have had this happen before and it speaks again volumes to the community and its maturity. Let us move on and embrace and aid one another, for although we all come from different backgrounds and beliefs, we are all here for a common purpose and I for one can say without the voices in this community both reigning me in and urging me on I would not be where I am today.

[trainer81]

04/07/2014 at 10:18 pm

I think we should all listen to Tap1 and the advice tries to share with us all. God gave us a brain and the smarts to use it so let’s everyone’s options with respect!

Tap1 I’m going to make you a mod

Trainer81

@Tap1 said:

So I decided given the recent thread on the forum where personal things that I have posted were used against me in an argument, I will most likely refrain from giving more personal info about my situation or posting any new scripts.

I’ll just say that I continually am seeing gains in rephrasing my scripts and using different techniques. While commenting about what has helped me personally with scripts and techniques might be invaluable to others, I feel it does more harm for my situation than good. I will still stay on the forum though to help others that are posting about their experiences. I do feel given my now over 1 year of experience, I have much advice to give to those that are trying to better their marriages, and I am glad to do so.

[Tap]

04/09/2014 at 12:50 am

@Trainer81 said:

I think we should all listen to Tap1 and the advice tries to share with us all. God gave us a brain and the smarts to use it so let’s everyone’s options with respect!

Tap1 I’m going to make you a mod

Trainer81

@Tap1 said:

So I decided given the recent thread on the forum where personal things that I have posted were used against me in an argument, I will most likely refrain from giving more personal info about my situation or posting any new scripts.

I’ll just say that I continually am seeing gains in rephrasing my scripts and using different techniques. While commenting about what has helped me personally with scripts and techniques might be invaluable to others, I feel it does more harm for my situation than good. I will still stay on the forum though to help others that are posting about their experiences. I do feel given my now over 1 year of experience, I have much advice to give to those that are trying to better their marriages, and I am glad to do so.

Wow Trainer. I didn’t expect you to make me a moderator. I do still plan to help others either way.

[Tap]

04/09/2014 at 1:47 am

@Trainer81 said:

I think we should all listen to Tap1 and the advice tries to share with us all. God gave us a brain and the smarts to use it so let’s everyone’s options with respect!

Tap1 I’m going to make you a mod

Trainer81

@Tap1 said:

So I decided given the recent thread on the forum where personal things that I have posted were used against me in an argument, I will most likely refrain from giving more personal info about my situation or posting any new scripts.

I’ll just say that I continually am seeing gains in rephrasing my scripts and using different techniques. While commenting about what has helped me personally with scripts and techniques might be invaluable to others, I feel it does more harm for my situation than good. I will still stay on the forum though to help others that are posting about their experiences. I do feel given my now over 1 year of experience, I have much advice to give to those that are trying to better their marriages, and I am glad to do so.

Trainer, just a question. I don’t see the reply button anymore on topics, and also for some users, their responses are blank. I don’t see any writing on them. Do you know what’s going on with my user id?

[trainer81]

04/09/2014 at 5:41 pm

Yes what I need to do is configure the permissions which is a easy fix All get on this now…

I figured you make a good moderator Tap1, since it looks like this forum needs it.

Trainer81

[trainer81]

04/09/2014 at 6:13 pm

Okay test user Bob5 here. All is working now You can see all posts and reply…

Trainer81

[Tap]

04/10/2014 at 12:14 am

@Trainer81 said:

Yes what I need to do is configure the permissions which is a easy fix All get on this now…

I figured you make a good moderator Tap1, since it looks like this forum needs it.

Trainer81

Yes it works now. I think I might like being moderator. Thanks.

[Tap]

04/10/2014 at 12:58 am

To all, don’t worry I’m not leaving and plan to continue to help others. I also have nothing against anyone so Adrz74, continue posting as you feel like. Let’s just move on to training our wives and helping each other out.