I wanted to also let everyone know about how subliminals are great for self improvement for yourselves, and not just your wives. You can make a script to improve any part of your life. I myself have a foundation, all-in-one script, that I listen to. I’ve been listening to some form of the script for about a year now, at night when sleeping with my sleep head phones, and during the day so I’ve had a lot of exposure to it.
I feel very confident in myself and my abilities now. Careerwise, I feel like I can climb the top of the ladder to be the head boss. I have already succeeded in moving up the ladder in my career recently. Before I didn’t have too much confidence in my public speaking abilities, but I have definitely improved on that. To be honest, I had lower self confidence growing up so I needed some kind of boost. As a leader, if you don’t have confidence in your decisions, then your subordinates will not have confidence in you or follow you. The same goes with being a leader or dominant over your wife. It works both ways.
Many times I’d worry about little things, feel bad for no reason at all, and have a negative attitude. Now I generally am happy with my life and how things are going. I would say I have a more optimistic view. The only thing I changed is listening to my own subliminals a lot so I can only attribute it to that.
Of course, my wife doesn’t listen to my subliminal. Most of the time at home, I listen to it with earphones. Below is my current script which has stayed this way for about 3 months. Once I find something that I feel like is working, I go with it. It’s easier to see the effects on myself as opposed to what I play for my wife, for obvious reasons because I know how I feel.
It is 30 affirmations. I also use Microsoft David’s voice because the point is, my subconscious has to think it’s my inner voice. I have posted versions in my other thread, but felt it was important to have its own thread.
Also, I would point out to those that may be skeptical or on the fence about if subliminals really work. Make a subliminal and play it on yourself. See if you feel a change in your thought pattern or how you do things. The main thing you should notice is that your thoughts change. When thoughts change, your actions and behaviors change because of these new thoughts. Therefore, if it works for you, then obviously it will work on your wife. It is another strong reason why I believe in subliminals, because they work for me.
I am confident.
I am naturally confident.
I am always confident.
I am confident within myself.
I am confident in all situations.
I am confident at all times.
I am growing more confident every day.
I am outgoing and confident in social situations.
I am outgoing and confident in all areas of my life.
Confidence comes naturally to me.
I have a deep level of in-built confidence.
I am a strong and confident leader.
I am the alpha leader.
I effortlessly lead people.
I feel comfortable and confident leading people.
I am dominant over my wife MsTap.
I like being faithful to my wife MsTap.
God’s will is that I am faithful to my wife MsTap.
I am always faithful to my wife MsTap.
I am happy being married to my wife MsTap.
I have a very happy life with my wife MsTap.
I am happy.
I am naturally happy always.
I find happiness in everything I do.
I have a positive outlook on life.
I have an optimistic view on life.
I have a very happy life.
My life is full of joy and happiness.
I feel satisfied all the time.
I feel ecstasy living each day of my life.
I had used the self mind control of Tainer’s befor, but had never really thought of making a custom one to address certain issues I have. I have a pretty large issue with porn addiction, maybe I should write a script for my self to deal with that. Food for thought…..
Yes it pretty much would help with anything. Something like porn addiction would be similar to stop smoking subliminals. It would be about how you word it.
Dumb question. Wouldn’t knowing the content of the subliminal render it ineffective? We say being in the same room as the wife and hearing her subliminal doesn’t affect us because we have read the script and know the content making the subconscious reject it.
Dumb question. Wouldn’t knowing the content of the subliminal render it ineffective? We say being in the same room as the wife and hearing her subliminal doesn’t affect us because we have read the script and know the content making the subconscious reject it.
It depends on how well you train your own mind to resist those subliminal messages. For one Dream Girls ready made subliminal downloads have been written for the female mind and two you just have to keep reminding yourself that this is for her, not me.
Well, what I was thinking about is if he writes a script for himself for self improvement. A great idea and frankly, one I have had but didn’t think it would work. I would have written it so I would be totally familiar with the script and that would cause the subconscious to reject it. Or would it? If not, that could open up a massive big area for changing ourselves for what we perceive as the better. I could sure use a get a good nights sleep script.
I haven’t been to this forum in a while so just saw this. Most subliminal websites sell self-help subliminals. It’s why I got into subliminals in the first place and believe in them, because they have worked on me. Yes I knew the affirmations going in.
For me, knowing the affirmations makes no difference. In fact, I am of the opinion that us as men can be affected by our wife’s subliminals, depending on how they are worded. If you play something that says “I am submissive” over and over and you hear it, it will affect you. Being submissive is not a girl thing as many guys are submissive. This is why at night, I listen to my own subliminals with sleep headphones, to drown out my wife’s subliminals just in case.
I play a BJ file for my wife every night for probably almost 2 years now. Of course, I’m not going to like giving BJs as my mind rejects that idea, but to be honest, I think about receiving BJs a lot more now, than I ever did before. I have to think it’s partly because of my wife’s subliminal.
On the topic of self-improvement, I think over the past few years and even since I joined this site in April 2013, I have accomplished much in my career. I have to think a part of that is because of my subliminal that I listen to daily. I don’t want to get into too many details, but while I’m of a younger age, I have risen to higher levels of management in my field than most people probably wait to be in their 50s to reach.
I’ve always been a fairly quiet and introverted person, but have forced myself to speak up more in meetings and while giving presentations. I saw my need to improve in the public speaking area so added it to my subliminal a year ago. I believe it has helped me to feel more comfortable talking in front of people. After all , most people hate public speaking.
Below is my main subliminal. It’s a bit long, so I have a shorter one without the happiness affirmations and a focus on confidence and public speaking. I listen to that focused one sometimes when I think I need more emphasis on it or before a big meeting.
I am confident.
I am naturally confident.
I am always confident.
I am confident within myself.
I am confident in all situations.
I am confident at all times.
I am growing more confident every day.
I am outgoing and confident in social situations.
I am outgoing and confident in all areas of my life.
Confidence comes naturally to me.
I have a deep level of in-built confidence.
I am a strong and confident leader.
I effortlessly lead people.
I feel comfortable and confident leading people.
I speak very articulately expressing myself well.
I am confident speaking in front of many people.
I enjoy speaking and giving presentations in front of many people.
I am always calm relaxed and successful as a public speaker.
I am an excellent public speaker.
I have outstanding public speaking skills.
I am dominant over my wife MsTap.
God’s will is that I am faithful to my wife MsTap.
Sure. I think subliminals can help each of us obtain any goals we are trying to achieve. It’s just a matter of articulating that in strong, effective affirmations. One thing I’d recommend is to use a man’s voice if the subliminal is for yourself. I use Microsoft David. It makes it more believable for your subconscious to think it’s your own voice.
