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  • August 25, 2014 at 2:12 pm #0
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    08/25/2014 at 2:12 pm

    So my wife has known for some time that I have a bit of a hypnosis fetish, and while she’s said she’d be willing, I had been hesitant to try. But two nights ago, I finally said to hell with it, and jumped in.

    Before I report on that, I will note that I had a “trust” script that had four lines in it dealing with hypnosis:
    I trust my husband to hypnotize me.
    You trust your husband to hypnotize you.
    I crave being hypnotized by my husband.
    You crave being hypnotized by your husband.

    I had a longer script dealing specifically with hypnosis, but never played it for her.

    Additionally, I still believe that “his happiness” is embedded in her, so knowing how much I want to do hypnosis played a role in her willingness.

    Further, I believe that my wife is a “natural somnambulist,” and thus goes into trance easily and often. (Side note – everyone goes into trance occasionally, if not frequently. A common example is when you drive a familiar route and realize that when you get there, you have no memory of the drive itself.) Not only does my wife “space out” while driving, but she frequently zones out in bed, at the kitchen table, etc. If I say something, she’ll suddenly snap out of it, but sometimes she’ll be kinda groggy, and say something like, “Wha??” clearly unsure as to how long I had been talking and how much she missed.

    She also gets very trance-like during sex. Sometimes I’ll go kinda slow, and as the pleasure builds inside her (but before orgasm), she gets this half-smile on her face and sometimes her eyes will roll up into her head. Sometimes when she’s in this state, I’ll command “cum for me,” and she’ll instantly go over the edge. Of course she was already close, but it’s pretty hot to tell her to do it and watch her be unable to resist.

    Anyway, I wrote all of that because I felt it necessary to preface my report with some indication of why I had such fantastic results. I’ve posted to a few erotic hypnosis forums, looking for answers as to why/how my wife responded so easily the first time she went under. Believe me, I’m not complaining at all, but part of me would feel negligent if I reported what happened without adding these caveats because my understanding is that no one should really expect these results the first time.

    It’s also questionable as to whether this was really our “first time.” I’ve done “relaxation exercises” with her in the past, so she has at least had experience with listening to my voice guide her through a series of commands and suggestions.

    Note that I have purchased a program on erotic hypnosis, so I’m going to be a bit vague on the details in places.

    So we started with the Elman Induction, which is a very well known induction. Some people call it foolproof. I went through it with her and, novice that I am, couldn’t really tell if she was in trance or not, but decided to press on. I guided her into feeling stages of pleasure. I built her pleasure up slowly, starting with something pleasant all the way up to her feeling hot and aroused. I continued to guide her with suggestions and commands, all of which she followed perfectly. Finally, I decided to go for it, even though it felt like I was going much faster than I really should. I told her I was going to count from 1 to 3 and that when I hit 3, she’d have a powerful orgasm.

    “1… feeling so aroused… 2… so hot… so horny 3… CUM FOR ME!!”

    and holy shit, it worked! and holy shit, no filter at all. she’s loud when she can be (we have kids), but this was the loudest I can ever remember her. And yes, the kids were home, but in the basement.

    I’ve pretty much been walking on air since that moment. And the fact is, I can’t really tell anyone – who would believe me? LOL. So I’m sharing this story on the internet with people I’ll never meet.

    I was also able to install a re-induction trigger and it works amazingly well. I just say “Sleep Now” to her, and BOOM, she’s right back down in trance. I wasn’t sure whether it would work until last night (our second session), but as we began, I just said the words and down she went. So I don’t even need to bother with the induction anymore.

    At this point, I’m telling her to remember everything from the sessions, so we’re able to discuss the session both before and after. She’s loving how the sessions feel physically, they’re bringing us closer emotionally, and both the physical and emotional seem to carry over for her outside of trance. She said she’s slept better the past two nights than she can ever remember. She just called from work this morning saying how much she’s enjoying it and that we have so much new territory to explore. Fun times ahead!

    And yes, before anyone asks, I plan on training her to orgasm whenever she gives me a blow job. Definitely a top priority!

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    08/25/2014 at 2:40 pm

    Congratulations. Now the fun can really begin. Do you think you could share how you set your triggers. I had not been able to get any triggers outside of a hypnotic state to activate.

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    08/25/2014 at 8:34 pm

    WOW!!!! that is awesome!

    walking on air…. heck yea I would be too!

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    08/25/2014 at 8:48 pm

    Congrats!!

    I too have a hypno fetish and hope to get there someday with my wife.
    I’ve been reading quite a bit and have been running a I like hypno script for a few weeks now.
    I am planning to attend an EH seminar next month in San Francisco and want her to come along.
    I figure I will tell her the plan in a couple of weeks.

    Any information on how you installed the trigger would be greatly appreciated.
    Now that you have a trigger installed what are your plans for her ?
    I ask because I am trying to figure out my goals for the seminar.

    Now that you have her able to orgasm on command all kinds of interesting things become possible.
    One thing I have been wanting to try r is taking her level of arousal beyond orgasm.
    The basic idea is to establish orgasms on command when you reach the count of 10 (3 in your example).
    Once that is working reliably you take her up to 10 then down to 9, 8, 7 then back up to 10, down to 9, 8 (repeat a few times).
    Skipping numbers up and down every once in a while is important at this point, i.e. 4,5,7,8,10,9, 7,5, etc.
    Once you can consistently control her level of arousal (and keep it very high but not at 10 for a while ) you count up towards 10 but when you get to 9 you then go to 11, 12 etc. (skipping 10).
    You then take her back down towards 10 but again skip over 10 on the way down.

    Imaging tying blowjobs to something even better than an orgasm and on command.
    Best wishes as you enter a new chapter in your relationship.

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    08/26/2014 at 3:35 am

    >> Any information on how you installed the trigger would be greatly appreciated.
    Now that you have a trigger installed what are your plans for her ?

    Just to be clear, the only real trigger at this point is “sleep now.” She will cum on command in trance, but I haven’t made it a trigger (yet) that will work outside of trance. I’m a little hesitant to keep pushing that button, especially at home with the kids. We still have our hotel nights and we’ve got a week-long road trip in October, so if I want to try to make her cum for three hours straight, I’ll have that opportunity. And that would be the time to install it as a trigger.

    FWIW, sleep now works perfectly. Tonight was our third night, and she’s basically conditioned herself to get in the proper position (sitting up on our bed), awaiting me to put her in trance. In fact, she starts to go into trance before I even say/do anything. But as soon as I say sleep now, she’s done.

    I added “normal time” as a trigger for her tonight. That’s what I’m using to bring her out of trance. She was complaining about feeling disoriented when I took her out of trance. I was counting her up from 1 to 3, but that wasn’t working so well. Maybe I was going too fast? So now when I say “normal time,” she’s supposed to take a deep breath and take however long she needs to emerge from trance. Tried it twice tonight – the first time was ok, second time was better. Like anything, practice makes perfect.


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    08/26/2014 at 4:41 am

    These hypnotic techniques sound advanced, but it has great potential to do all kinds of things. I don’t think my wife would agree to that though.

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    08/26/2014 at 1:42 pm

    So Adrz74 – how resistant was your wife to hypnosis prior to using the subliminal? Do you think using the subliminal helped open that door to a conscious acceptance when you decided to do it? How much exposure to your subliminal did she have in terms of hours per day and for how many days? Had she ever expressed interest in it prior to using the subliminal? Had you previously discussed hypnosis with her and gotten rejected maybe in months past prior to using the subliminal?

    I know there are at least two that market these erotic hypnosis programs named Cunningham and Shade. I have gotten their sales emails but never bought – do you feel the erotic hypnosis program that you purchased helped to make this happen?

    Hey Tap, perhaps we could also use a subliminal to gain our wives acceptance to it and open the door via subliminal file?

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    08/26/2014 at 1:42 pm

    @Tap said:

    These hypnotic techniques sound advanced, but it has great potential to do all kinds of things. I don’t think my wife would agree to that though.

    I do think his happiness, along with the lines in the trust script I mentioned above, played a role in her acquiescing. Just like with any other activity that our women have initially rejected, I do believe that their attitude can be changed with the right script if that’s something you want.

    I agree about the potential. I’m almost overwhelmed at the moment, not sure which direction to go because I didn’t plan this far ahead. I thought it would take a few weeks to just get her used to going into trance. And I certainly didn’t think we’d be doing it every night from the first time.

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    08/26/2014 at 1:56 pm

    Sound like great progress in a short time.
    Taking it slow is probably a good idea as well.
    Practice makes perfect for sure.
    Both for her and for you.
    Improving your confidence as a hypnotist helps you and that in turn helps her follow your instructions.

    Have you started any deepening routines to take her into deeper states of trance and back out ?
    Taking her into deeper trances is essential for more advanced techniques like post hypnotic suggestions.

    If you have not done much reading on EH yet I can recommend
    – “pillow talk” by Michael Scott
    – “look into my eyes” by Peter Masters
    Both give some good advice and ideas for various sessions.

    Using a normal time / wake up routine is an important part of any session.
    I am not surprised she felt disoriented without one / or with a very short one.
    I agree you may want to extend the time as you bring her out of trance.
    Bring her back gradually (perhaps a slow 5 count or more) with constant reinforcement on how she will awaken feeling wonderful / refreshed / happy etc. between counts.
    This will be even more critical when you take her into deeper trace states.

    Congrats again on the progress.

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    08/26/2014 at 3:35 pm

    I did read Pillow Talk a long time ago. I may have to revisit it. And I have Look Into My Eyes as well. I think I’ve been hoarding resources on the off chance my wife actually succumbs to my fetish… :)

    I’ve been following Mark Cunningham’s stuff. One thing I like that he teaches is something called eyes open somnambulism. You get them to open their eyes while in trance and talk with them. It’s extremely powerful. It’s also really hot, from my point of view. It’s hard to describe the difference, but there’s a look in their eyes when they’re in trance (as opposed to ‘normal’) that is a huge turn on. Her eyes are simultaneously glazed over and completely focused.

    One reason Mark does this is because it blurs the line between trance and reality. I’ve noticed my wife look into my eyes during normal activities and her eyes start to glaze over. Of course I encourage this when she is in trance – telling her that she craves trance, wants me to hypnotize her more, and having her repeat phrases like that back to me. We were on the porch last night, just chatting, enjoying the pleasant night, and she looked into my eyes and I could see her start to fade, so I started to use my hypno voice and she playfully swatted at me, telling me to wait until later. heh. Actually, tonight I’m gonna try to get her to go into trance without using “sleep now.” I’m just going to encourage her to take herself into trance and see what happens. Yesterday I told her I had a hypnotic finger and made her go into trance by tapping her on the nose. lol.

    Yes, I’ve worked on having her go deeper. I’ll go through a fractionation sequence with her, where I’ll have her open her eyes and look at me, and then say “sleep now” and she’ll close her eyes and sink deep down. open eyes again, sleep now, back down further, more relaxed, etc.

    I’ve made some rookie mistakes so far, but we’ve had good post-session talks. I feel like by having made the mistake, admitting them, and taking responsibility for them, her trust in me is growing. Also, she is remembering almost everything about the session and I think that helps with trust. I know part of her was worried that I’d take advantage of her. There was one sequence the first night that she didn’t remember, and I’m not sure why. She also didn’t realize that I had an induction trigger for her, and she doesn’t consciously know what it is. And what’s funny is that I can’t tell her because she’ll just go into trance. lol.

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    08/26/2014 at 3:55 pm

    @pizzaman69 said:

    So Adrz74 – how resistant was your wife to hypnosis prior to using the subliminal? Do you think using the subliminal helped open that door to a conscious acceptance when you decided to do it? How much exposure to your subliminal did she have in terms of hours per day and for how many days? Had she ever expressed interest in it prior to using the subliminal? Had you previously discussed hypnosis with her and gotten rejected maybe in months past prior to using the subliminal?

    I know there are at least two that market these erotic hypnosis programs named Cunningham and Shade. I have gotten their sales emails but never bought – do you feel the erotic hypnosis program that you purchased helped to make this happen?

    Hey Tap, perhaps we could also use a subliminal to gain our wives acceptance to it and open the door via subliminal file?

    It’s not that she was resistant to hypnosis per se… Without getting too deep into personal issues, I think she feared that I would abuse her trust. Given that I have used subliminals to change her, I think it was an accurate fear for her to have. :)

    In the past year or so, I’ve been much more open with her about what I want. Including sexually. I’ve stopped hiding my fantasies and fetishes. But prior to that, even if she did agree to hypnosis, I was wary about trying because I knew I had secret plans that she hadn’t agreed to. I didn’t know how to get her so deep in trance that I could start turning her into my own sex slave (for example). And if she wasn’t deep in trance and heard me telling her to be my sex slave, that would be problematic when the session was over…

    Mark takes a different approach – he’s completely open with his subjects. He has them remember everything about their sessions. So that’s what I’m doing now. He calls it “conditioning with pleasure.” You teach your subject to feel pleasure. You increase it. You attach it to actions you want them to perform. You increase their desire for it. In order to have pleasure, they need to obey you. And just like that, now they believe that obedience to you is pleasure. I’ve had my wife say that to me – “Obedience to you is pleasure” – and it is true for her.

    Anyway, she never really overtly rejected hypnosis – it had more to do with being found out if I tried to be devious while she was under, so I was hesitant to try. But with this approach, you can do it openly. I’m not all the way there yet, but I’ve watched loads of Mark’s videos and it’s amazing what he can get these women to agree to. I can only imagine what they do for him off camera…

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    08/27/2014 at 12:55 am

    Thanks for the pointer on Cunningham.
    I’ll do some reading up.

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    08/27/2014 at 2:34 pm

    We were out at dinner last night with the kids and at one point, I looked into her eyes very intently, and she started to trance out. She kind of shook it out and said, “I know what you’re doing, stop it!” Smiling, of course. But I thought it was cool because we were in public with a whole bunch of other people around and she was totally ready to drop. I’m sure if I pushed her, she would have gone down.

    I did get her to go into trance, basically just by encouraging her to. I told her she knew how to go into trance and that she could just let herself go into trance without me telling her to.

    Tonight I’m going to have her actively try to NOT go into trance while I talk her down. She will obviously (I’m assuming) still go into trance, but by doing it this way, I’m showing her just how much control I have over her. She has no defenses and will be completely open to me.

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    08/27/2014 at 6:15 pm

    how much exposure to the trust subliminal in terms of hours per day and # of days prior to trying it with her consciously?

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    08/27/2014 at 9:04 pm

    @pizzaman69 said:

    how much exposure to the trust subliminal in terms of hours per day and # of days prior to trying it with her consciously?

    I always played my subliminals overnight. I played his happiness for months. I didn’t play this trust script for nearly that long.

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    08/29/2014 at 2:53 pm

    While we were having sex last night, I put my wife in trance. That might have been the most amazing thing ever. Although I could see how getting a blow job while she’s in trance could be even better. :)

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    09/02/2014 at 1:26 pm

    We were apart for four days over the long weekend. We were only able to text occasionally. She complained about not being able to trance. Said the weekend was very hard for her. I told her to feel pleasure a few times and she said it worked, but not as intensely as when we are together. I also would type out phrases like, “Tell me you love being hypnotized by me,” and she would obediently type back the correct response. She calls herself an obedient wife now.

    The kids and I got back very late last night and she was asleep already. The kids woke her up so she could kiss them good night. She seemed very sleepy and I thought she’d just roll over and go back to sleep, but I told her I’d be happy to put her in trance, and she immediately agreed.

    I tested all her triggers and they all still work perfectly. I tried to install another trigger last night. There’s an exercise I’ve done with her a few times where my voice goes into her mind and removes her thoughts. Each time she lets go of a thought, she feels pleasure. We do this until her thoughts are gone and only my voice remains. My voice becomes her thoughts. It’s a fun exercise, but I decided to try to speed it up, so now when I say, “Clear your mind,” she goes through the whole exercise instantly. That’s the idea anyway. We’ll see if it works tonight…

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    09/03/2014 at 2:03 pm

    So we had the following conversation via text yesterday:

    -I want to talk. And be in trance.
    -You will be in trance soon.
    -Yes
    -Does that excite you?
    -Yes
    -Sometimes when I look at you (not in the bedroom) I get the feeling you want to go into trance [NOTE: the only place we have done trance is in the bedroom, so I’m telling her that I think she wants to go into trance at other times – during dinner, sitting on the porch, etc.]
    -Yes. That’s right.
    -How do you feel about that?
    -I like it.
    -And you know it would just take a word or two from me to get you there…
    -Yes. I know.
    -That arouses you, doesn’t it?
    -Yes
    -Good

    For the record, the “clear your mind” trigger worked great last night. I put her in trance first and then triggered her and then asked if all her thoughts were gone and she said yes.

    I also got my first blow job from her while she was in trance. I told her previously that she should always feel pleasure whenever she pleases me, and since sucking my cock obviously pleases me, she should feel constant pleasure while sucking me. The actual blow job was kind of mechanical compared to some of her enthusiastic blow jobs, but just watching her in that state made up for it. I stopped her in the middle and she straightened up a bit and she just had this perfect mindlessly blissful look on her face. I asked if she was feeling pleasure and she said yes. Then I had her continue to the end.

    When I took her out of trance, she made a face at first and I wondered whether she was going to be upset, but I think she was just noticing the funny taste in her mouth, lol. (I guess I haven’t been having enough pineapple juice.) Then she looked at me and got a huge smile on her face, snuggled up next to me, and said “I love you.”

    I guess I never expected her to enjoy this as much as she has, but it’s awesome that she does.

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    09/05/2014 at 5:58 pm

    Last night we had, for lack of a better word, a quickie. Most of our sessions take at least a half hour, but our “family time” ended at 8:15 and I was going out to watch the football game at 8:30, so we had ten minutes, tops. She had an absolutely terrible day at work, so I basically dropped her into trance, cleared her mind, made her feel relaxed, made her feel pleasure. Before I brought her out of trance, I told her to have a wonderful evening with the kids and that when she went to sleep, she would sleep deeply and restfully through the night. I took her out of trance and she looked at me and immediately said, “Where are the kids???” LOL. Wording is definitely important to how the subconscious interprets things. Not a big deal this time, but I hadn’t expected such urgency.

    This morning, she woke me before she left and asked whether I had told her to sleep deeply. I told her I had and she said she slept like the dead (her words, I’m guessing I shouldn’t say “sleep like the dead” to the subconscious). I said I was getting deeper and deeper inside her mind and she said she liked that. I found that kind of exciting. And then today we had the following email exchange…

    Her: Am having another insane day. Incredibly stressed out.

    Me: I want you to hear my voice say:

    Take a deep breath, and feel relaxation all throughout your mind, all throughout your body, letting all the tension go. Take a few more deep breaths, feeling more relaxed with each breath, and now, feeling completely refreshed and ready to take on any challenges you face at work.

    Repeat as necessary :)

    Her: OMG. That makes such a difference.

    So I guess I can trance her a bit electronically. I’ve sent her texts that say feel pleasure and she said she feels it, though not as intensely as when we’re together. I need to ask her if prefacing it with “hear my voice say” makes a difference.

    Anyway, one of the things that I’m loving about hypnosis is how much of an effect it’s having on her. Yes I love it, it’s totally my fetish, and I’m excited about all the sexual possibilities, but back in the real world, she has a very stressful career, and as a modern woman, she is stressed in general, just because of all her responsibilities as a mother, wife, employee, etc. It is so incredibly satisfying to be able to take her stress away. And, obviously, it encourages her to want to do this more and more.

    Tomorrow night we’re going to be alone at a hotel. She’s already said she wants to go very deep and open up completely. I’m not even sure what she means by that. I plan on having her cum like crazy.

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    09/05/2014 at 10:42 pm

    As a follow up to the previous post, I think one way some of you guys could get your wives to agree to this is by proposing it as stress relief. I’ve found (to my surprise) that being completely open with my wife during this has been amazingly effective.

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    09/08/2014 at 12:18 am

    Last night, I made my wife cum while giving me a blow job. She said it was even more intense than the hypnotic orgasms she’s had before because she felt in on her lips and tongue in addition to her pussy. I did make her feel arousal on her lips and tongue, though I did not specifically tell her to feel her orgasm there.

    I continue to put her into trance every day, and I also make sure to give her commands throughout the day that she obeys. I continue to stress her obedience to me and I even (jokingly) suggested to her today that I would get her a t-shirt that reads “I’m an obedient wife.” She was hesitant to respond, but she finally admitted to me that she would really like to wear a shirt like that. So maybe I will get her such a shirt… :)

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    09/08/2014 at 12:20 am

    Sounds like great progress.
    Glad to hear it is going so well for you.

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    09/21/2014 at 12:11 pm

    Yesterday, my wife kept talking about how much she wanted sex last night. She went into work at 5 for about five hours and I had a few too many beers, so it didn’t happen.

    This morning, I go into our closet and notice a couple of our sex toys on the ground. So I asked her about it and she admitted that she was really horny, but I was passed out, so she tried to do it herself. She said it really wasn’t the same and that she NEEDS me tonight.

    She then said she didn’t understand why she’s so horny all the time now. I told her that that was all part of my plan. She was like, “really? So this is your fault!” but laughing about it.

    I told her she should have told me, but she said she felt guilty and embarrassed at first. Now that she knows it’s my fault, she no longer feels that way. She says I’ve corrupted her and some day I should write a book about our sex life. Lol…

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    10/20/2014 at 6:54 pm

    A couple nights ago, I put my wife into trance and guided her through a scenario where she was bought by me at a slave auction and then trained as my sex slave. I had her imagine that this happened over a lifetime. (Nice thing about hypnosis – you can condense a whole lifetime into about ten minutes.) I ended the scenario, but with her still in trance, I gave her a trigger word that would immediately bring her back to that scenario, where she feels and believes she is my sex slave.

    So I tested the command and she immediately responds, “how can I please you Master?”

    All I can say is… Wow. I’m gonna have some fun with this… :)

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    10/21/2014 at 3:19 am

    Definitely some serious fun times ahead… Carry on!

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    10/21/2014 at 3:42 am

    P.S. How long had you gone between the session and invoking the trigger? Are you using elements from the Relyfe materials?

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    10/23/2014 at 8:35 pm

    So I actually tested the trigger while she was still in trance. I told her it would work whether she was in trance or not, but I haven’t tested it again since that day. Real life has gotten in the way unfortunately. But before she left for work this morning, I suggested to her that we would need some alone time tonight and she was excited for that. So I will test it tonight, barring some unforeseen setback. Assuming it works, it will be interesting to see whether she goes into trance when I trigger her. Looking back, I realize I was a bit vague, so we’ll see how her subconscious decides to respond.

    I haven’t used the Relyfe stuff at this point, but I am thinking about going back to it and at least looking it over to see whether I can incorporate it. Did you have any specific ideas? I’m always looking for more input… :)

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    11/08/2014 at 10:32 pm

    So did it work?

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    01/19/2015 at 7:50 pm

    I continue to be amazed by what hypnosis can do…

    My wife is now trained to cum on command. If I say, “cum for me,” she does instantly. Also, I’ve trained her to always cum powerfully, BUT to always be aware of her surroundings when she cums. I gave her three examples:

    1. we’re alone in a hotel – be as loud as you want and move around as much as you want
    2. we’re alone in our bed at home, but kids are here – move around as much as you want, but keep the volume down
    3. we’re having dinner at an elegant restaurant – no moving, no volume

    I haven’t specifically tested #3, but I did make her cum in public last weekend. She’s away this week on business – on Saturday I brought her to the airport. When we parked, I put her in trance and told her the next time I kissed her, she’d have a powerful orgasm. (For those unfamiliar with hypnosis, this is called a “post-hypnotic trigger.”) We got her checked in, had a drink at the bar, and then I walked her over to security. I pulled her to the side and, since I knew what was going to happen, I held on tight. When we kissed, she started moaning and her knees buckled, but I held her up. When we finally stopped, she looked at me with complete astonishment. I just smiled and told her that was my going away present to her. :) We have a weekend away just the two of us coming up, so I do plan on testing #3 with her then.

    Actually, I gave her another gift for her trip… So when I put the cum on command trigger in place, I actually made it so that she wouldn’t be able to cum at all unless she had my permission. She didn’t have a problem with that per se, but the idea of not being able to cum when I wasn’t around or (looking down the road) dead was a bit of a concern.

    The method is a little complicated, but basically, I got her to a point where if she said, “Master, may I please cum?” in her own mind, then she would instantly hear me respond, “Cum for me!” and her body would do the appropriate thing. The first time you try something is always the most nerve wracking… I took her out of trance after planting this trigger inside her. I explained to her that I thought I “fixed” the problem of how she could cum without me around and what she needed to do. She seemed skeptical, but she closed her eyes and I just waited. I assume she asked permission, because seconds later, she was cumming. When she finished, she just looked at me and asked, “Can I do that whenever I want?” I laughed and told her only when I wasn’t around. If I’m with her, she needs to ask permission from me directly. Then I asked her how much women would pay for what I just gave her. She just shook her head and laughed.

    Anyway, after I made her cum by kissing her, she got on the plane. She told me the following day that she used my “gift” twice on the plane and that no one in her row was aware of what happened. Yes, my wife is self-triggering orgasms on airplanes next to strangers. LOL She’s also used it in the hotel and said she was very vocal. So it seems she’s absorbed the lesson about monitoring her surroundings.

    At this point, she always calls me “Master” when she’s in trance, but not when she’s out of trance. That’s probably the main thing I want to change this weekend, along with getting her to wear her collar.

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    02/01/2015 at 12:33 pm

    adrz74;

    Congratulations – sounds like good progress. Keep up the good work.

    MSS

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    03/02/2015 at 11:48 pm

    A couple people were asking about triggers out of trance, I saw, post-hypnotic triggers are very tricky, the best way to train them is like with adrz wife something akin to Pavlov’s dog training. Some inductees can be set with a trigger and others have to learn the trigger over time. Realizing which one kind of training is necessary is very important. I know of some people that cant hold a trigger at all but can be slowly trained to do a request.

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