I was reading on another thread about the term “good girl.” It’s a term that I like to use for my wife sometimes. Her response is one where she doesn’t mind it while at other times she doesn’t like being called it. I thought it would be good to make a custom to show how calling her a “good girl” will be my reward to her. After thinking about triggers, I tried associating “good girl” to different activities that I want her to do. I only repeated it twice in audacity because this will be a standalone file played at certain times, not every day, since this is not my main file I’m going with. My plan is when she does something I like, I will call her a good girl. I hope this will become reward for her enough to continue the habit forming behavior.
I’ve actually done this. My girl LOVES to be called a good girl and works to get that result. These were affirmations I had in an older recording. SO just know that it CAN work. If I do anything more with it I’ll try to remember to let you know.
I played this for 2 whole days. Yesterday night, she told my son that mommy is a good girl. Then when we were having sex last night, I called her good girl. She got all into it and excited, concluding with a pretty intense orgasm. I believe it’s working out well. I plan to only call her that when she does something good, during sex, or during a BJ. In this way, she will associate the reward with these activities that I like.
This sounds similar in logic to Sdalie’s triggers. You use subliminals to associate positive feelings with ‘good girl’ then use that in association and to reward good behavior. Very Pavlovian.
Right that’s the idea. Pavlov’s dogs, but with my wife. I have to be careful with overuse of good girl though. I actually told her bad girl when she did something I didn’t like and she reacted negatively to it. Interesting.
I added a sex part to it, because my sex only custom hardly gets any play. I only repeated this script twice in audacity. The reason is I’m either going to play it alone or with my other customs. If I play it in a playlist at night, I want it repeated less to give the other customs more time to play. A big emphasis is on that type of sex position and yes, she’s starting to enjoy it more in that position which makes sex great for me.
