Getting rid of jealousy?

[Wanderer123]

03/02/2015 at 2:59 pm

As I read all the great information here it is clear that you shouldn’t use negative words or phrases in custom scripts. I understand that but I’m not sure how to go about addressing the topic of jealousy. I want my wife to not be jealous or scared of other women, which I see as a first step in getting her to open up to threesomes and other adventures. Can anyone offer advice on how I would approach something like “jealousy is bad” or “don’t be jealous of other women”.
Thanks,
J

[Fizbin]

03/02/2015 at 4:58 pm

Basically, what you will want to do is emphasize as good the qualities that are the opposite of the undesirable trait. For example:

I trust Wanderer around other women.
It is natural for men to have many women as friends.
I like to see other women around Wanderer.

[isteral]

03/03/2015 at 12:45 am

wouldnt it be more prudent to say seeing other women around Wanderer means he’s a good person? From the standpoint you wrote it while its ambiguous it seems to limit to increasing the amount of people around Wanderer, where in the phrase i wrote it would generally give an aura of showing good nature?

[Fizbin]

03/03/2015 at 2:43 am

Those were just example lines to give a sense of direction. That wasn’t anywhere near being a complete script.

Also, they were just a first step – the long term idea is to get progressively closer to the desired state. If she is currently jealous to the point where seeing him with any other woman makes her upset, dealing with that is more important. Jealousy is about trust and possessiveness, not about seeing the other person as not being good.

[Wanderer123]

03/09/2015 at 6:49 am

Fizbin and isteral, thanks for the replies. I will work on this in the coming weeks as I see how my current playlist is working. I appreciate your feedback!
J