From Nothing to Suck and Swallow

[J66R]

05/30/2014 at 6:42 am

OK guys. This has been about a year and a half almost in the making. Actually 23+ years. But, almost 1.5 years of using the subs bought here and the customs I made.

Bottom line is that she has finally done it. She swallows! Has done it twice this week. She does everything she can to make it unpleasant for both of us but, as it happened with her finally letting me cum in her mouth, I expect that part to drop off eventually and for her to just do it. At that point it’ll be functional but more than adequate for enjoyment and she’ll eventually back off the whole trying to discourage me thing as it becomes just what she does.

I can tell she’s not happy about doing it, and she seems really confused about why she is, and she doesn’t get why she doesn’t just barf all over the place (which she warned me she would do, on purpose, even if she didn’t get sick over it). But today, she just locked the bedroom door (we still have kids in the house) and told me “to wash up.” That’s code for oral. On this, I obey.

I tried to guide her to ways that were more comfortable for her as well as less …toothy… for me. There were times she seemed like she was taking the advice. Then she would look at me with a glare and then do something she knows is uncomfortable or painful. But, in the end it was worth it, and a little better than the first time she swallowed.

Guys, this is a MAJOR milestone!!!

I the next week or so, I’m going to try to gather together some things and post a short version of the story and the scripts used. Hopefully it will be useful to someone else as well.

[gtbear]

05/30/2014 at 7:12 pm

J66R,

Congratulations! I am looking forward to the rest of the story, scripts and sinquencing resulting in such a major breakthrough…

“I can tell she’s not happy about doing it, and she seems really confused about why she is, and she doesn’t get why she doesn’t just barf all over the place (which she warned me she would do, on purpose, even if she didn’t get sick over it).”

That just sounds so cute I can barely stand it!

[J66R]

05/30/2014 at 9:55 pm

Yeah, I am finding that a bit perversely satisfying.

But her whole condition is really changing.

For example, I have not been playing anything suggesting making breakfast for me in a long time, but, for the last month, she has been making breakfast for me, every morning, even if she sees that I have already made something my self. No prompting from me; no begging fighting or cjoling or mentioning that “I have to get up early for work and don’t have time” or anything. She just does it.

Before when she made breakfast, she always just did the basics and actually made mine last out of a household of 9 people.

Now, mine is done first. Plus she makes it like I want it now. For example, I like my scrambled eggs a bit “snotty” and my over easy eggs “dippy” and my bacon limp. she has always made the scrambled eggs over cooked, dry and rubbery and the fried eggs so over cooked the yolk were green and the whites were crispy and the bacon like little black strips of charcoal. 23 years of that attitude.

For the first time this past month she started making the eggs carefully and even the bacon is done the way I like it.

She also seems to forget during the day that she does this and actually made a statement to some woman at church the other day that she doesn’t make breakfast for me because I’m a big boy and can do it my self if I want it. I corrected her and she insisted I was remembering it incorrectly, although she’d done it just that morning. Later when we got home she asked why I had said that, and I told again, all week you made breakfast and in fact did it this morning. She mumbled some thing about how I must be happy in my dreamworld and that’s ok with her.

Weird stuff the subconscious. But as long as I am getting more and more of what I want with time, I’ll go with it.

[gtbear]

06/01/2014 at 8:34 pm

J66R,

I am a great fan of the ‘blank’ effect. I am also a great fan of the ‘she must do it but doesn’t know why she is doing it’ effect.

I have been looking for those sorts of ‘slave girl’ mind and behavior in C since I started up with the subliminals. Even with the overhearing of a rather extreem set of slave oriented scripts and the resultant rodeo effect a month or so ago, C has been forced back into doing what I want more and more. I have been pushing her, dominance wise by forcing her out of her comfort spots to perform various little sexually oriented submissive acts with great results both in the flesh and in her mind. Each time I make her do something sexy she resists but in short order finds herself doing the very thing she was resisting. I notice that after she completes the (usually humbling / embarassing) act, she has a few moments of mental adjustment during which she realizes that she must comply and that it is becoming imposible to resist her fate. I just love those little lightbulb moments… each one moves her deeper into acceptance of her slave state and each makes it easier to gain quick compliance with less resistance.

More and more of what you want is what the subliminals are all about… I just love to hear about good results!

[Tap]

06/02/2014 at 4:06 am

Congrats J66R. I believe your success followed after you made a shortened custom just for swallowing. I am glad it worked. In my opinion, sometimes an all out attack on the subconscious by a short focused script does the trick over time.

[Fizbin]

06/02/2014 at 10:08 am

@J66R said:
…She also seems to forget during the day that she does this and actually made a statement to some woman at church the other day that she doesn’t make breakfast for me because I’m a big boy and can do it my self if I want it. I corrected her and she insisted I was remembering it incorrectly, although she’d done it just that morning. Later when we got home she asked why I had said that, and I told again, all week you made breakfast and in fact did it this morning. She mumbled some thing about how I must be happy in my dreamworld and that’s ok with her.

Weird stuff the subconscious. But as long as I am getting more and more of what I want with time, I’ll go with it.

I’m curious if, since this was brought to the foreground, she has tried to actively change back?

[J66R]

06/02/2014 at 3:33 pm

Nope.

Every day, except Sundays (so many people scrambling to get ready for church, we just eat cold cereal that day) including this morning.
I don’t ask and she just does it. I even hear her in the kitchen right now, whistling while cleaning up after breakfast.

[J66R]

06/06/2014 at 12:39 am

So, here goes. Just to give it a Harry Potteresque title.

J66R and The Hot’n’Holy Housewife.

Much of this will have been directly cut and pasted from older posts, many of you have seen. But hopefully having it all in one place, condensed will help someone. I know it’s made a big difference with me and my wife.

[EDIT]
I’d appreciate it if no one would post a response until I indicate a conclusion. I want to get it all out and then we can comment on things. Thanx.

[J66R]

06/06/2014 at 3:21 am

My wife was in the same situation as so many I’ve read about here. Weight, bad attitude, sex aversion, the works, blaming me, blaming the kids…etc.

We were a “Christian” couple. Both of us advocating waiting for sex until marriage. She told me several times she was a virgin and she wanted to wait. We got close a few times, but any strategic clothing rarely came off and genitalia never actually witnessed each other until the wedding night. We had spent time going to church together, reading scriptures together, praying together…all that good stuff. For her, she seemed very worried about the “indiscretions”. For my part I was only rarely near losing “control”. I always stopped things or cooled them down when I felt she and/or I were about to lose control and thought she might allow me to take her “all the way.” And during my time dating her, that condition, happened a number of times. My hope was that knowing that I was able to be “trusted” not to take her too far, would work in my favor as well. Needless to say, the experiences we had together seemed to prove that my wife-to-be was anxious and eager to do any number and manner of “dirty deeds” at my bidding, married or not, but wanting to wait until marriage. Couple that with her virginal status, I was hoping building that “trust” and that desire and me being the one and only sexual partner she would ever have would imbue me with some godlike status in her eyes, at least where sex was concerned.

Good for me! I was going to be a lucky lucky man. Or so I thought.

We had an early setback before marriage where her mother had made some comments to her that NO woman likes sex unless she is taken by Satan and then it is illusion. That all sex was rape and was given to Eve as a punishment and Adam was given uncontrollable lust to punish him by forcing him to rape the most important thing in his life over and over again. All that because he chose her over God. Heavy, Heavy stuff there. But as I recall, we talked all through this and agreed together that a just and loving God would NOT do something like that, but that rather he would give sex as a “gift” both could enjoy that would bind them together. At the time, if I recall, the science of all this was still pretty rudimentary. either that or not enough studies had been done of the actual chems and paths in the body and brain to fill in the perfect picture. Nowadays, the physio-chemistry is pretty straightforward and darn well understood. But I was on the right track even then and the science since has borne that thought out. Short version is that after coming to me crying about what her mother said, worrying that she was somehow evil for wanting sex, but knowing that wasn’t true, but still scared that she’d hate it. She literally cried that if her mother was telling the truth, it would be an endless recurring nightmare, and she didn’t think she could handle having sex, every day like her mother said men were driven to want. She mentioned that her mother said that no matter how “godly” a man was, the curse God gave them would drive them to it, and if he didn’t get what he wants, when and how often he wants, the curse would drive even the best man to get it somewhere else. So then, she “had” to give him what he wants to save him from hell. So we talked. A long time. Read scriptures about husbands and wives, prayed, etc. In the ended the agreement was for her to expect every other day. But I told her likely life would make it so things happened everyday sometimes and not for several days others, but the average would be much much less. She felt that was a good compromise. And that if she felt differently after marriage, liked it, and the influence of her mother didn’t happen so strong anymore, maybe, just maybe, there could be the daily thing without feeling like she was sinning. Keep in mind neither of us had read anything or been told anything about what the average frequency of sex was for couples. So in retrospect, the every other day thing was extremely ambitious. But, at the time, being willing to give up potentially half of all the sex I could have gotten seemed like a pretty big concession to both of us..

The point here is that I thought we had this worked out. Her mother, who had all kinds of other odd beliefs, that the girl clearly did not believe herself and knew were, “off”, had told her a bunch of stuff. Due to other thing her mother said, I presumed, and the girl agreed, that it was mostly a ploy to scare her away from me and to some other guy her mother preferred. But still, we had our “compromise”. I thought we were good.

Over the next few months, as the wedding got closer, there were a number of times she “broke it off” and all I ever asked was that we talk it out. Each time it was a parent or family member trying to get her to go with someone else, sometimes even twisting her mind with the idea that after being engaged it was actually “good and proper” to date as many people as possible, make out and all that such, to ensure “you chose the right one”. Yeah, maybe I should have taken that as a clue of how other things would go. They arranged for her to accidentally be alone with all sorts of guys, even some with some pretty bad reputations for taking advantage of girls. And I don’t doubt they knew of these reputations and that they were hoping, sadly enough, their daughter would actually do something that would make her feel guilty enough to leave me or make me dump her for being unfaithful. Sick, I know.

But we worked this all out, she said she never did anything with those other guys, and we got married.

Married Saturday morning. I got my sweet virgin nooky. It was just as good as I thought it would be, and the best part was that by the time our Reception and everything was done it was really really late, and I was really really tired and would have been happy just going to bed and popping that cherry in the morning, she said she is not going to bed a virgin and absolutely insisted that if I don’t do her that night there would be no further chances, but if I did, I could have anything, anytime, anywhere in any amount upon asking. Hot, wet, smooth, rough, hot, wet, tight, hot, burning hot, aching, hungering branding iron, hot. Holy crap, that was where my penis was made to be! And she just put her whole self into getting me inside her, even though it was way too tight, and she wouldn’t let me stop until I was deep inside her. I can still, to this day, remember it!

Monday afternoon, the crap hit the fan and never stopped flying or stinking. Oh and that’s about when the sex went from every other day like we had agreed to not much at all. I think maybe that first month sex was twice a week, then once the next and then we went to counting it by #’s per month, if it even happened in some months.

She argued about everything, and nothing, and the fact that we argued about everything, oh and nothing. She would disagree with me for no other reason than it was me who held that opinion. Then if she successfully convinced me she was right about something, she would immediately decide I was still wrong, and take the opposing position. sometime I’d agree with her sometimes, just as a test, and she’d switch sides as many times as it took for me to give up, stating that there was no way she’d agree because I’m wrong no matter what. She deliberately stopped taking birth control pills without informing me when we promised to wait 2 years to have kids and then accused me of getting her pregnant without her consent. This was, of course another form of rape, to her mind. She insisted that it was “the woman’s job” to have the checkbook because the man shouldn’t have all the power. would refuse to pay bills. She would tell her family we needed money for bills and then spend it on fun and junk food. she would call me at work constantly and complain and eventually got me fired and then complain I was lazy. Disappear on Saturdays, claim she was at work, or shopping with a friend but was not at work or with the friend when called. Quit her job for the baby, screamed and cussed at the baby and cussed and screamed at me when I said that shouldn’t be done to a newborn. Spread rumors at work, in church and among my family that I abused her (she’s always been anemic and bruised easily). Once she quit no housework, dishes, washing, anything but ice-cream and Oprah. She decided she couldn’t get rid of the pregnancy fat and would eventually get fat when older anyway and proceeded to fill the freezer with ice-cream when we could barely afford bread and milk. After she was profoundly round, she declared that I must be sleeping around because how could someone who looked like me be faithful to a fat slob like her. Spread that rumor too. More kids, more “you ruined my life” screamed at them as they grew up. Attempts to try and find a way to get rid of her legally were met with the age old, Mother’s Rights doctrine, so prevalent in the South. Basically unless she murders the child I can’t get the child away from her. Some trash about “child of tender years.” The consensus by dozens of lawyers was that I would have to have video tape of satanic rituals, or millions to spend in litigation to get away from her and keep the kids. An income of <25k didn't fit that condition. Religious Marriage counseling. Preacher said get rid of my journals to make a "new start" and forgive her. Then he told me "you have no proof." Professional marriage counseling. That one said the problem was that I didn’t provide for her well enough and she felt unstable. This was right after she got me fired. She lapped this up and went to town on all the supposed promises I made about how much I would give her. OR should give her. But the counselor told her she was selfish, unrealistic, abusive and immature and that the ONLY problem she thought I had was the income problem and the associated depression of being fired along with confidence. That the wife's expectations were out of some princess oriented fairytale. The wife stopped going to the sessions because obviously I had found a way to turn the counselor against her. In fact she even said I was probably screwing the counselor and that's why she said those things. New job, new state, same job, new state, new house. Leave job, start a business. She says I'm never home when I have a job so bad husband and father. Now says I'm a lazy person cheating my clients because I can do most of my work from home so a bad role model, bad husband and father.

through all this, we started in an apartment, bought a house 4 years later, she got me fired, lost the house, moved in with her parents, worked a dozen different jobs, she got me fired from some of them, I quit for better ones on others. Move out of her parents’ state and rented a house for a few years. Move again and bought a house she said she wanted. It turned out to be a “fixer upper” and she said it was my fault and my house and I forced her to move there.

Over the years, we occasionally seem to make progress. She admits to being unrealistic, and of trying to make things worse. She even a few months before I started here, admitted that she had, for most of the marriage, tried actively to get me to divorce her. She told me she honestly felt that marrying me was a mistake, and getting a divorce was the only way to fix it. But, she could do it because that would be evil. So she had to make sure I chose the divorce so I would be the one in the wrong. She told me that she felt that since the marriage was a mistake in the first place she was justified to do ANYTHING to make it fall apart and that God would see it that way and not punish her. She reiterated this several times, the “do anything”. This conjured up memories of when more than one man has claimed that she and he had an affair and one of them even claimed my first child was actually his. She still claims this is not true. But she made such an attempt to emphasize to me that ANYTHING she decided to do, to give me a reason to leave, was A-OK in her book and God’s because he wouldn’t hold her responsible for trying to “fix” a mistake. We’d had similar conversation before but this one was really revealing in that admission. Eventually she retracted even admitting we had such a conversation much less the admission of trying to break up the marriage.

Finally, just a few months ago she reiterated another of her, “this is why I never trusted, or could ever trust you” accusations. She brought up a misunderstanding we had about a week after marriage. I remember the incident and we talked at length about it then. It stemmed from a bigoted statement of her father’s about me and my family and my culture and where I was raised. It wasn’t so much a race thing as it was that I was raised in the South. When she told me about it I said something, in jest, to the effect that I hope she doesn’t feel that way because that’ll make it hard for the marriage and the kids when we have them. She got upset about me insinuating she was bigoted like that. Again, with the talking and I thought we put that one to bed that it was a joke, and a praise that she was able to overcome the prejudices of her family and the culture she was raised in to marry me. Now she has said that to me before. That that made me not a “safe” place for her, and showed her I could not be trusted with her inner vulnerable self, or some such.

This time I asked her to look at it from my perspective. She and I came together, tried to approach each other with love, patience and respect, and her father makes rude and bigoted statements about me, my family and where I was raised. Not as a joke but as a statement of his intellectual, moral, cultural, and hereditary superiority. I accept the joke, try to make light of it and she turns it into some imagined attack on her and even when I explain it was a joke, and that I loved her and thought it was great that she could have chosen to look at me the same way her father does, but she actually saw me for who I was, not where I was raised or how much money I had. And now this is brought up as the paramount reason why I “can’t be trusted with her heart” is because I accused her of bigotry she didn’t subscribe to but that . . . I DIDN’T ACTUALLY ACCUSE HER OF BUT ACTUALLY PRAISED HER FOR NOT BEING BIGOTED.

I asked her to look at it from my side. Why would I want to marry a woman that thought I was not capable of being good or worthwhile just because I was born or raised somewhere else than she was by parents that grew up in a different culture? If I had thought that was her, I wouldn’t have. And now, 23 years later, to find out that this was supposedly the cause of all the pain, all the distrust, all the attempts to dissolve and disrupt the marriage was that she held on to an imagined insult that was explained and apologized for decades ago, and thought put to rest? To think of all the hate, distrust and anger that went into these years. To remember all the disagreements, fights and distrust, lies deceits, and everything about our marriage, including the consequences of what the children saw. And all because of something that didn’t really actually happen. Imagine if all that effort and emotion had been spent in attempts to make the relationship work? Even if it were true that I had thought she was as bigoted as her father, what if she had put all that energy she put into tearing the family apart into proving that she wasn’t like her father?

That was a conversation that seemed to be the turnaround of late. And it did happen after over a year of subliminals but before the swallowing scripts.

Next Post I’ll start to describe some of the results of this past years’ subliminals and the timing of them. I’ll also include some of my thoughts, philosophies and reasons for constructing my customs the way I did, not to mention scripts themselves and the conceptual models I used.

[Tap]

06/08/2014 at 6:13 pm

J66R,

Your results seem excellent. I think what would be helpful to other members is if you post some scripts that worked for you. I know your swallowing script that you posted was very good. I used some ideas based off of that. To me a big part of whether a person sees results depends on the script itself.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 3:38 am

Yep.
Between work, kids, summer projects and wife wrangling , I’m working on getting things put together.
I’ll put up my All-In-One script next.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 9:29 pm

J66R’s All-in-One Script

I trust my husband completely.
I will tell my husband that I trust my husband completely.

I love my husband completely.
I will tell my husband that I love my husband completely.

I want to please my husband in every way.
I will tell my husband that I want to please my husband in every way.

Whatever my husband wants me to do makes me happy.
I will tell my husband that Whatever my husband wants me to do makes me happy.

I want to submit to my husband in every way.
I will tell my husband that I want to submit to my husband in every way.
It is good to submit to my husband.
I am happy when I submit to my husband.
God,, wants me to submit to my husband in every way.

My husband is pleased when I submit to him.
I will tell my husband that I will I submit to my husband in every way.
God, is pleased when I submit to my husband.
I am happy and pleased when I submit to my husband.
I feel free when I submit to my husband.

I will respect and obey my husband in every way.
I will tell my husband that I will respect and obey my husband in every way.
My husband is pleased when I respect and obey my husband in every way.
God, is pleased when I respect and obey my husband in every way.
I am happy and pleased when I respect and obey my husband in every way.

I will look for ways to please my husband every day
I will tell my husband that I will look for ways to please my husband every day
My husband is pleased when I look for ways to please my husband every day
God, is pleased when I look for ways to please my husband every day
I am happy and pleased when I look for ways to please my husband every day

I will keep a clean house.
I will tell my husband that I will keep a clean house.
My husband is pleased when I keep a clean house.
God, is pleased when I keep a clean house.
I am happy and pleased when I keep a clean house.

I will be a kind, patient and loving mother
I will tell my husband that I will be a kind, patient and loving mother
My husband is pleased when I am a patient, kind and loving mother.
God, is pleased when I am a patient, kind and loving mother.
I am happy and pleased when I am a patient, kind and loving mother.

I will support my husbands will and decisions
My husband is pleased when I support his will and decisions.
I will tell my husband that I will support my husbands will and decisions
God, is pleased when I support my husbands will and decisions.
I am happy and pleased when I support my husbands will and decisions.

I will take initiative and ask to do nice things for my husband.
God, is pleased when I take initiative and ask to do nice things for my husband.

I will take initiative and offer a blowh job to my husband every morning.
I will tell my husband that I wil offer a blowh job to my husband every morning.
My husband is pleased when I off her a blowh job to my husband every morning.
God, is pleased when I offer a blowh job to my husband every morning.
I am happy and pleased when I offer a blowh job to my husband every morning.

I will take initiative and offer a blowh job to my husband every night.
I will tell my husband that that I will offer a blowh job to my husband every night.
My husband is pleased when I offer a blowh job to my husband every night.
God, is pleased when I offer a blowh job to my husband every night.
I am happy and pleased when I offer a blowh job to my husband every night.

When ever I wake up in the middle of the night I will have a over whelming urge to give my husband a blow job while he sleeps.
My husband is pleased when I give my husband a blow job while he sleeps.
God, is pleased when I give my husband a blow job while he sleeps.
I am happy and pleased when I give my husband a blow job while he sleeps.

I will take initiative and offer to swollow my husbands cuhm every time I give my husband a blowh job.
I will tell my husband that I will offer to swollow my husbands cuhm every time I give my husband a blowh job.
My husband is pleased when I take initiative and offer to swollow my husbands cuhm every time I give my husband a blowh job.
God, is pleased when I take initiative and offer to swollow my husbands cuhm every time I give my husband a blowh job.
I am happy and pleased when I take initiative and offer to swollow my husbands cuhm every time I give my husband a blowh job.

When I give my husband a blowh job, I will continue until my husband tells me to stop.
I will tell my husband that When I give my husband a blowh job, I will continue until my husband tells me to stop.
My husband is pleased when I continue the blowh job until my husband tells me to stop
God, is pleased when I continue the blowh job until my husband tells me to stop
I am happy and pleased when I continue the blowh job until my husband tells me to stop

I will not spit out my husbands cuhm when my husband cuhms in my mouth.
I will tell my husband that I will not spit out my husbands cuhm when my husband cuhms in my mouth.
My husband is pleased when I do not spit out my husbands cuhm when my husband cuhms in my mouth.
God, is pleased when I do not spit out my husbands cuhm when my husband cuhms in my mouth.
I am happy and pleased when I do not spit out my husbands cuhm when my husband cuhms in my mouth.

I will swollow my husbands cuhm automatically as a reflex when my husband cuhms in my mouth.
I will tell my husband that I will swollow my husbands cuhm automatically as a reflex when my husband cuhms in my mouth.
My husband is pleased when I swollow my husbands cuhm automatically as a reflex when my husband cuhms in my mouth.
God, is pleased when I swollow my husbands cuhm automatically as a reflex when my husband cuhms in my mouth.
I am happy and pleased when I swollow my husbands cuhm automatically as a reflex when my husband cuhms in my mouth.

Every time my husband cuhms in my mouth I want more and more to taste my husbands cuhm.
I will tell my husband that Every time my husband cuhms in my mouth I want more and more to taste my husbands cuhm.
My husband is pleased when I want more and more to taste my husbands cuhm
God, is pleased when I want more and more to taste my husbands cuhm
I am happy and pleased when I want more and more to taste my husbands cuhm

Every time my husband cuhms in my mouth I want more and more to swollow my husbands cuhm.
I will tell my husband that Every time my husband cuhms in my mouth I want more and more to swollow my husbands cuhm.
My husband is pleased when I want more and more to swollow my husbands cuhm.
God, is pleased when I want more and more to swollow my husbands cuhm.
I am happy and pleased when I want more and more to swollow my husbands cuhm.

Every time my husband cuhms in my mouth I like the taste of my husbands cuhm more and more.
I will tell my husband that Every time my husband cuhms in my mouth I like the taste of my husbands cuhm more and more.
My husband is pleased when I like the taste of my husbands cuhm more and more.
God, is pleased when I like the taste of my husbands cuhm more and more.
I am happy and pleased when I like the taste of my husbands cuhm more and more.

I enjoy giving my husband blow jobs.
I will tell my husband that I enjoy giving my husband blow jobs.
My husband is pleased when I enjoy giving my husband blow jobs.
God, is pleased when I enjoy giving my husband blow jobs.
I am happy and pleased when I enjoy giving my husband blow jobs.

I feel powerful knowing that I can make my husband feel so very good by giving my husband a blow job.
I will tell my husband that I feel powerful knowing that I can make my husband feel so very good by giving my husband a blow job.
My husband is pleased when I feel powerful knowing that I can make my husband feel so very good by giving my husband a blow job.
God, is pleased when I feel powerful knowing that I can make my husband feel so very good by giving my husband a blow job.
I am happy and pleased when I feel powerful knowing that I can make my husband feel so very good by giving my husband a blow job.

Every time I give my husband a blow job I enjoy giving my husband a blow job even more.
I will tell my husband that Every time I give my husband a blow job I enjoy giving my husband a blow job even more.
My husband is pleased when Every time I give my husband a blow job I enjoy giving my husband a blow job even more.
God, is pleased when Every time I give my husband a blow job I enjoy giving my husband a blow job even more.
I am happy and pleased when Every time I give my husband a blow job I enjoy giving my husband a blow job even more.

Thinking about giving my husband a blow job makes me sexu-uhllee, excited and aroused.
I will tell my husband that Thinking about giving my husband a blow job makes me sexu-uhllee, excited and aroused.
My husband is pleased when Thinking about giving my husband a blow job makes me sexu-uhllee, excited and aroused.
God, is pleased when Thinking about giving my husband a blow job makes me sexu-uhllee, excited and aroused.
I am happy and pleased when Thinking about giving my husband a blow job makes me sexu-uhllee, excited and aroused.

Watching TV makes me think about giving my husband a blow job.
Watching TV makes me want to give my husband a blow job.
Listening to music makes me think about giving my husband a blow job.
Listening to music makes me want to give my husband a blow job.
Reading makes me think about giving my husband a blow job.
Reading makes me want to give my husband a blow job.
Going to church makes me think about giving my husband a blow job.
Going to church makes me want to give my husband a blow job.
Driving a car makes me think about giving my husband a blow job.
Driving a car makes me want to give my husband a blow job.
Doing sign language makes me think about giving my husband a blow job
Doing sign language makes me want to give my husband a blow job.
Seeing anything that is the color white makes me think about giving my husband a blow job.
Seeing anything that is the color white makes me want to give my husband a blow job.

I want to learn to dance a sexy striptease for my husband.
I will tell my husband that I want to learn to dance a sexy striptease for my husband.
My husband is pleased when I dance a sexy striptease for my husband.
God, is pleased when I dance a sexy striptease for my husband.
I am happy and pleased when I dance a sexy striptease for my husband.

I want to learn to dance a sexy lap dance for my husband.
I will tell my husband that I want to learn to dance a sexy lap dance for my husband.
My husband is pleased when I dance a sexy lap dance for my husband.
God, is pleased when I dance a sexy lap dance for my husband.
I am happy and pleased when I dance a sexy lap dance for my husband.

I want to give a sexy striptease to my husband.
I will tell my husband that I want to give a sexy striptease to my husband.
My husband is pleased when I want to give a sexy striptease to my husband.
God, is pleased when I want to give a sexy striptease to my husband.
I am happy and pleased when I want to give a sexy striptease to my husband.

I want to give a sexy lap dance to my husband.
I will tell my husband that I want to give a sexy lap dance to my husband.
My husband is pleased when I want to give a sexy lap dance to my husband.
God, is pleased when I want to give a sexy lap dance to my husband.
I am happy and pleased when I want to give a sexy lap dance to my husband.

I will be my husbands ideal woman.
I will tell my husband that I will be my husbands ideal woman.
My husband is pleased when I ,act like my husbands ideal woman.
God, is pleased when I ,act like my husbands ideal woman.
I am happy and pleased when I ,act like my husbands ideal woman.

I will be my husbands perfect wife.
I will tell my husband that I will be my husbands perfect wife.
My husband is pleased when I ,try to be my husbands perfect wife.
God, is pleased when I ,try to be my husbands perfect wife.
I am happy and pleased when I ,try to be my husbands perfect wife.

I ,want my body to be perfect for my husband.
I will tell my husband that I ,want my body to be perfect for my husband.
My husband be will pleased when I ,make my body perfect for my husband.
God, will be pleased when I ,make my body perfect for my husband.
I will be happy and pleased when I ,make my body perfect for my husband.

I ,want my body to be healthy and fit for my husband.
I will tell my husband that I ,want my body to be healthy and fit for my husband.
My husband will be pleased when I ,make my body healthy and fit for my husband.
God, will be pleased when I ,make my body healthy and fit for my husband.
I will be happy and pleased when I ,make my body healthy and fit for my husband.

I will work out very hard every day to be fit and perfect for my husband.
I will tell my husband that I will work out very hard every day to be fit and perfect for my husband.
My husband will be pleased when I ,work out very hard every day to be fit and perfect for my husband.
God, will be pleased when I ,work out very hard every day to be fit and perfect for my husband.
I will be happy and pleased when I ,work out very hard every day to be fit and perfect for my husband.

I ,will run everyday to be fit and perfect for my husband.
I will tell my husband that I ,will run everyday to be fit and perfect for my husband.
My husband will be pleased when I ,run everyday to be fit and perfect for my husband.
God, will be pleased when I ,run everyday to be fit and perfect for my husband.
I will be happy and pleased when I ,run everyday to be fit and perfect for my husband.

My target weight is to make my body weigh 110 pounds.
I will tell my husband that I ,want to weigh 110 punds.
My husband will pleased when I ,make my body weigh 110 pounds.
God, will pleased when I ,make my body weigh 110 pounds.
I will be happy and pleased when I ,make my body weigh 110 pounds.

I will work out, run and eat better so I ,can make my body weigh 110 pounds.
I will tell my husband that I will work out, run and eat better so I ,can make my body weigh 110 pounds.
My husband will be pleased when I ,work out, run and eat better so I can make my body weigh 110 pounds.
God, will be pleased when I ,work out, run and eat better so I can make my body weigh 110 pounds.
I will be happy and pleased when I ,work out, run and eat better so I can make my body weigh 110 pounds.

I want to be hypnotised by my husband.
I will tell my husband that I want to be hypnotised by my husband.
My husband will be pleased that I want to be hypnotised by my husband.
God, will be pleased that I want to be hypnotised by my husband.
I will be happy and pleased that I want to be hypnotised by my husband.

I trust my husband completely to hypnotize me.
I will tell my husband that I trust my husband completely to hypnotize me.
My husband will be pleased that I trust my husband completely to hypnotize me.
God, is pleased that I trust my husband completely to hypnotize me.
I am happy and pleased that I trust my husband completely to hypnotize me.

When my husband hypnotizes me I will go quickly, easily, and deeply into a hypnotic trance.
When my husband hypnotizes me I will obey his commands fully and completely.
When my husband hypnotizes me I will accept all of my husbands suggestions fully and completely

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 9:42 pm

I have to say she has not done EVERYTHING in the script. But many things happened at different times. For example, she still doesn’t weight 100 lbs, she won’t let me hypnotize her, neither sex nor blow jobs are happening everyday, and she doesn’t “tell” me the things the script tells her to “tell me”. But I found that as I begin to press, she begins to give. So, I’ll also say they tended to happen in order of how hard I pushed overtly, and indicated that certain things were very important to me.

For example, I pushed VERY hard overtly, consciously, to her face, for being nice to the kids, keeping the house more clean and giving blow jobs. Those things seemed to take off on their own.
First I noticed that she was much more patient with the kids. Then I began to notice the house was being kept better and she was actually humming while doing the dishes. She got closer and closer over a few weeks to letting me cum in her mouth until one night, I warned her a couple of times I was about to blow and she just took it.

Since then on each of those, she has pretty much kept it all up. Especially the blow jobs. Remember this girl would not hardly even have sex with me, and a blow job was literally a blue moon kind of thing. And forget letting me cum in her mouth. Within a week she actually asked if I wanted a blow job. Within a month I was getting 1 – 2 bj’s a week, by the end of the second month I wasn’t getting them every day but I was getting them mostly whenever I asked. To be sure I was a bit cautious to over do it for fear it would backfire on me. Then, either a little before or a little after 2 mos. she let me cum in her mouth and she never complained, nor tried to stop before since then. She acted like I was shooting straight hemlock or battery acid or something into her mouth. That reaction has never really stopped, even now that she is swallowing. But the improvement over the last 18 mos. vs. the first 21+ years is phenomenal.

The diet thing, has been come and go, hit and miss, with some real progress here and there. What weight she took off has largely stayed off. And she is looking significantly better. She is on one of the maintenance “breaks” and is getting ready to go at it again. I have convinced her to use some less extreme diets that do not deprive her so badly. That is working well.

One thing I never pushed her on, that I put in there as a control, was the striptease thing. It took almost a year but that one came out spontaneously. I think I reported that one in another thread.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 10:00 pm

Now, one of her big things that went off the rails, soon after we got married, was that she “decided” that since she would probably get fat when she was older why try to stay at a healthy weight now. So literally in less than six months she weighed half again her newly married weight and has gotten steadily heavier for 20+ years. She’s tried weight loss and exercise before but never for more than a couple of weeks and never lost more than 10 lbs. She always gave up. Then the blame game. She was thin and pretty then met me and I made her fat. Would scream at the kids for getting pregnant with them and they destroyed her health and body and if she dies from being fat it’ll be their fault. Stuff like that.

So, one thing I decided to do in the scripts was to push her towards happiness, health and self worth using subliminal methods. I created a sledgehammer with 7 voices overlaid with each voice speaking at markedly different rates (since no one talks at the exact same speed) and at different voice pitches. No “We are Borg” type recordings. Kind of of like if you were at a party and tried to listen to multiple conversations at a time.

Result?

After about 2 weeks, she actually started getting on the xbox and instead of playing Plants vs. Zombies she downloaded the Zumba trial game and some other workout games with Kinnect . A couple weeks later she bought the stinking game because she could go past the little trial workouts. Then about 3 weeks ago she went on the Atkins diet, started walking up and down the road a m in of a mile a day. Last week she actually ran part of that mile. This is significant because this woman is so self conscious of her ample “endowments” that she NEVER runs. My sons got a weight bench for Christmas and this week she went out and actually started working out on it. Again, in 20 years I have never seen that. This week she proudly announced to me she had lost 25lbs. She tried on and showed me some of the clothes she hasn’t worn in over 10years.

Like others I’ve focused on being very complimentary about the changes I see, making sure she knows I’m proud of her and that I know it is “her” doing it. I promised that we can get new clothes when she is no longer satisfied with how her old clothes look on her. I have also bent over backwards trying to make sure she has everything she needs for her special meals and be cheerful about it even with some of the remarkable extra costs. Carbless pancakes and sugarless brown sugar for about 7 times the price of the real thing? Really? But I digress. I am supporting her.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 10:03 pm

Now that the swallowing script has done its deed. I will keep it going in the bedroom and then start the All-in-One script back up on her computer that she plays games and facebook on.

Next, I’ll post a heavy BJ script I ran for quite a while. After about 6 months she started back sliding on the BJ’s. For about a month I “counna get none”.

I seriously credit this with bringing it back. It’s based a bit off the more vulgar language scripts, that I think Qwerty posted.

I’m sure Qwerty, and all those who saw his script will notice both he similarities (or downright quotes) and the differences. I used it for only a couple of weeks and everything got back to the new normal. I pull it out when ever she slows down on giving me head.

It is also a 7 voice sledge made like the All-in-One.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 10:22 pm

Horny
Just so horny
I need to give my husband [NAME] a blow job
My nipples are hard
Yes, my nipples are oh so hard
My pussy is wet
Yes, my pussy feels oh so wet
My mouth needs a big hard cock in it
Oh, yes my mouth does need a big hard cock in it
My mouth needs [NAME]’s big hard cock in it
Oh, yes my mouth does need [NAME]’s big hard cock in it
Now that would feel good
Thinking about giving a blow job
Only thinking about giving a blow job
Thinking about my husband’s big hard cock going in and out of my wet mouth
Oh, that sounds so good
Thinking about my husband putting his big hard cock deep in my throat and fucking my face.
Yes that sounds so good and a little noghty
Oh, I want so bad to wrap my lips around [NAME]’s cock.
I want so bad to kiss [NAME]’s cock.
I love [NAME]’s cock.
Touching [NAME]’s cock makes me feel good, alive and excited.
I want so bad to lick [NAME]’s cock from top to bottom and all over.
I need to give my husband [NAME] a blow job now

Having [NAME]’s cock in my mouth would be so good now
YES sucking [NAME]’s cock would be oh so good right now
Sucking my husband [NAME]’s cock would feel good right now
Yes sucking my husband [NAME]’s cock would feel oh so good right now
I need my husband’s cock in my mouth now
Nothing would make me happier than having my husband’s cock in my mouth right now
Having my husband [NAME]’s cock sliding deep in and out of my hot wet throat sounds so right
Having my husband [NAME]’s cock sliding in and out of my hot wet throat would feel oh so good
Happily succumbing to my desire to give my husband [NAME] a deep throat blow job
Willfully surrendering to my horniness
Joyfully give in to my lust to suck my husband [NAME]’s cock
Oh, I need to swallow [NAME]’s come right now
My body needs to taste and to swallow [NAME]’s come now
Must give my body what it needs
Must submit to my bodies desire for [NAME]’s come
Tasting [NAME]’s come in my mouth would be so good right now
I need to tast [NAME]’s come now
I am so wet and horny right now
Oh yes I am so wet and horny right now
My body feels on fire with a desire to suck [NAME]’s cock and swallow [NAME]’s come
Got to get my husband [NAME]’s cock in my mouth now
Nothing would satisfy me more than my husband [NAME]’s cock in my mouth and to swallow his come right now
So horny
Oh I am so fucking horny
Oh I need my face to be fucked right now
Never been so horny before
Need my husband [NAME]’s cock in my mouth now
Got to get my husband [NAME]’s cock in my mouth now
Must suck my husband’s cock now
Having my husband [NAME]’s cock fucking my face right now sounds so good
Oh yes that sounds so good
I am getting wetter thinking about getting my face fucked
My horniness is growing and growing
My need for sex is building and building
Only giving my husband [NAME] a blow job will satisfy my horniness
I must put my husband [NAME]’s cock in my mouth now
I must put my husband [NAME]’s cock deep deep in my mouth now
I must put my husband [NAME]’s cock deep deep in my throat now
Oh yes that is going to feel so good
The deeper I take [NAME]’s cock in my throat the hornier I get
The deeper I take [NAME]’s cock in my throat the better it feels
The deeper I take [NAME]’s cock in my throat the more I want it
I want [NAME]’s entire cock in my mouth.
I have to have his entire cock in my mouth.
Oh it feels so good to feel [NAME]’s cock slide down my throat.
It makes me so horny to feel [NAME]’s cock completely in my mouth and deeep deep in my throat.
Only swallowing my husband [NAME]’s come will satisfy my horniness
Fuck me now [NAME]
Fuck me in my face
Oh yes fuck me
Fuck me now [NAME]
Fuck me deep in my throat
Oh yes fuck me deep deep in my throat
come in my mouth [NAME]
Oh yes I have always loved the taste of your come
come in my mouth
I want to suck all the come out of your cock.
Oh yes I get so excited and want so much to swallow your come [NAME]
I need to suck all the come out of your cock and swallow it.
I need to suck all the come out of your cock and swallow it now.
I need to tell you I want you to come in my mouth
I need to tell you I want to suck all the come out of your cock.
I need to tell you I am so horny and want so much to swallow your come [NAME].
I need to beg you to come in my mouth
I need to beg you to let me suck all the come out of your cock.
I need to beg you to let me swallow your come [NAME].
Oh how I need your cock in my mouth.
I want your cock in my mouth every morning.
I want your cock in my mouth every night.
I will dream about your cock in my mouth
When I wake up in the middle of the night I get so horny.
When I wake up in the middle of the night I have the over whelming urge to suck you in your sleep.
When I wake up in the middle of the night I just have to suck you in your sleep.
Fuck me now [NAME]
Fuck me in my face
Oh yes fuck me
Fuck me now [NAME]
Fuck me deep in my throat
Oh yes fuck me deep deep in my throat
come in my mouth [NAME]
Oh yes I have always loved the taste of your come
come in my mouth
Fuck me deep in my throat
Oh yes fuck me deep deep in my throat
come in my mouth [NAME]
come in my mouth [NAME]
come in my mouth [NAME]
Oh yes
come in my mouth [NAME]
I like to swallow your come
I want to swallow your come.
I need to swallow your come.
I beg you to let me put your entire cock all the way in my mouth.
I beg you to come in my mouth
I beg you to let me swallow your come.
Oh, please [NAME], let me suck your cock.
Oh, please [NAME], let me make you come in my mouth
Oh, please [NAME], let me swallow your come.
Your sweet sweet come.
Your precious come.
I am so happy when you, let me swallow your come.
Oh, please, let me suck your cock, make you come in my mouth and let me swallow your come
Oh, I need you to come in my mouth.
Oh, please, please [NAME], I beg you to let me swallow your come.
I beg, I beg
I love come.
I love [NAME]’s come

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 10:28 pm

You’ll notice this one is highly personalized.
It is also quite vulgar, at least in comparison to my speaking style.

My wife rarely uses profanity, usually only when she really want to make sure you know she’s just totally ticked. Kindof a “see how bad you are, you made me cuss” thng. I just have never used profanity. I tend spin up the “hoity toity” speech using a wider and more arcane vocabulary to express myself. It kind of shuts people down when you use words they don’t know, or that you know, by common (and incorrect) non-usage they will misunderstand. hehe.

so the object of this, to shock her out of the ordinary, enough that it shakes things loose.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 10:31 pm

I am one of your very best friends
You trust me in every thing I say
You know I will tell the truth always

I will tell you a secret that will make you very happy.

Sucking your husbands cock makes you feel free.
You want to feel free.
Sucking your husbands cock makes you happy.
You want to be happy.
Sucking your husbands cock proves you are smart..
You want to prove you are smart.
Sucking your husbands cock makes you a good person
You want to be a good person.
Sucking your husbands cock makes you strong.
You want to be strong.

You love sucking your Husband’s cock.
You want to suck his cock every day and every night.
You feel aroused and excited when you think about sucking his cock every day and every night..
You love how your husbands cock feels in your mouth
The deeper you take your husbands cock into your mouth the better it feels
You want you feel your husbands cock deep in your throat
Your husbands cock fit easily deep in your throat
You want to take your husbands whole cock in your mouth

You love the taste of your Husband’s semen.
Your Husband’s semen tastes sweet.
You enjoy eating your Husband’s semen.
Your Husband’s Semen tastes good.
You have a burning sexual hunger to swallow your husbands semen

Semen tastes good in your mouth.
You love how semen feels in your mouth.
Semen tastes sweet in your mouth.
It is very satisfying to have semen in your mouth.

You have a burning sexual hunger to swallow your husbands semen
Semen tastes wonderful.
You enjoy swollowing semen.
You love the taste of semen in your mouth.
You enjoy swollowing semen.
Your Husband’s semen tastes wonderful.
You enjoy swallowing semen.
You love the taste of your Husband’s semen.
You enjoy swallowing semen.
You will swollow your Husband’s semen.
You crave the taste of semen in your mouth.
You crave the feel of semen in your mouth.
You crave eating semen every day and every night.
You enjoy swallowing semen.
Swallowing semen is very satisfying.

You have a burning sexual hunger to swallow your husbands semen
Swallowing your husbands semen makes you feel free.
You want to feel free.
Swallowing your husbands semen makes you happy.
You want to be happy.
Swallowing your husbands semen proves you are smart..
You want to prove you are smart.
Swallowing your husbands semen makes you a good person
You want to be a good person.
Swallowing your husbands semen makes you strong.
You want to be strong.

You think about your Husband all the time.
You will do what your husband tells you to do.
It is smart to obey your husband
It is good to obey your husband
Obeying your husband is freedom.
Obeying your husband is right.
Obeying your husband is natural
You are strong when you obey your husband

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 10:35 pm

This is one that I would place in rotation between others.
I also used Trainer’s His Happiness and My Husband is My Master files.
The above was in rotation with those from the beginning.

Here I am trying to attack the psyche from primarily two fronts.

1. Using a trusted friend
2. her own vanity.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 10:42 pm

And finally next post will contain the script that I credit with breaking through her aversion to swallowing.
Mind you, she still acts like she’d rather not and when I talk to her about it she gets frustrated and can’t seem to grasp the concept that she swallows, but admits that she does.

There is irritability and a bit of hostile pushback when I try to discuss it with her, but she does it nonetheless. She tries to make it unpleasant, and rushes to the bathroom to brush her teeth afterwards. But she actually speaks to me, proving her mouth is empty.

I’m going to try to work with her on actually continuing the sucking past the ejaculation. Because right now she stiffens up, arches her back, grunts and groans like she’s bound gagged and being beaten, seems to almost try to blow it back up the penis. So, yeah, a little work to do there.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 10:42 pm

I want to give my husband blow jobs every day.
It is my idea to give my husband blow jobs every day.
I choose to give my husband blow jobs every day.
God is pleased when I give my husband blow jobs every day.
God wants me to give my husband blow jobs every day.
God commands me to give my husband blow jobs every day.

I like giving my husband blow jobs every day.
I love giving my husband blow jobs every day.
I need to give my husband blow jobs every day.
I hunger to give my husband blow jobs every day.
God is pleased when I give my husband blow jobs every day.
God wants me to give my husband blow jobs every day.
God commands me to give my husband blow jobs every day.

I like my husband cumming in my mouth.
I love my husband cumming in my mouth.
I want my husband to come in my mouth.
I need my husband to come in my mouth.
It is my idea for my husband to come in my mouth.
I hunger for my husband to come in my mouth.
God is pleased when I let my husband come in my mouth.
God wants me to let my husband come in my mouth.
God commands me to let my husband come in my mouth.

I like to feel my husband’s semen in my mouth.
I love to feel my husband’s semen in my mouth.
I want to feel my husband’s semen in my mouth.
I need to feel my husband’s semen in my mouth.
It is my idea to feel my husband’s semen in my mouth.
I hunger to feel my husband’s semen in my mouth.
God is pleased when I love my husband to come in my mouth.
God wants me to love my husband to come in my mouth.
God commands me to love my husband to come in my mouth.

I like to taste my husband’s semen in my mouth.
I love to taste my husband’s semen in my mouth.
I want to taste my husband’s semen in my mouth.
It is my idea to taste my husband’s semen in my mouth.
I need to taste my husband’s semen in my mouth.
I hunger to taste my husband’s semen in my mouth.
God is pleased when I love to taste my husband’s come in my mouth.
God wants me to love to taste my husband’s come in my mouth.
God commands me to love to taste my husband’s come in my mouth.

My husband’s semen tastes good.
My husband’s semen tastes wonderful.
My husband’s semen is the best taste.
My husband’s semen has the most satisfying taste.

I want to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
It is my idea to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I choose to swallow my husband’s semen every day.

I like to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I love to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I need to swallow my husband’s semen every day.
I hunger to swallow my husband’s semen every day.

To Swallow my husband’s semen sounds good.
To Swallow my husband’s semen feels wonderful.
To Swallow my husband’s semen tastes wonderful.
To Swallow my husband’s semen satisfies my hunger.
I crave to swallow my husband’s semen.

To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me smart.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me lose wait.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me strong.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel young
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel beautiful
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel sexy
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel good.
To Swallow my husband’s semen helps me sleep well.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel loved.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel safe.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel contented.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel happy.
To Swallow my husband’s semen makes me feel joyful.

I think about giving my husband blow jobs all day , everyday
I think about my husband cumming in my mouth all day , everyday.
I think about feeling my husband’s semen in my mouth all day , everyday.
I think about tasting my husband’s semen in my mouth all day , everyday.
I think about how wonderful my husband’s semen tastes all day , everyday
I think about swallowing my husband’s semen all day , everyday.

I dream about giving my husband blow jobs all night, every night
I dream about my husband cumming in my mouth all night, , every night,
I dream about feeling my husband’s semen in my mouth all night, , every night,
I dream about tasting my husband’s semen in my mouth all night, , every night,
I dream about how wonderful my husband’s semen tastes all night, , every night,
I dream about swallowing my husband’s semen all night, , every night,

My priority in life is to swallow my husband’s semen.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 11:21 pm

This one was run 24/7 in the bedroom with no other scripts running at all.
This took something like 2 months to finally accomplish it’s goal.

I’ll tell you, even though I’ll not ever publicly (aside from the anonymity of this forum) say it, there si a profound sense of accomplishment and pride, not just in me but in my wife when I say.

My Wife Swallows My Cum, Everytime!

I just love saying that to myself.

Here’s a thought, I just might tell her that tonight.

[J66R]

06/09/2014 at 11:25 pm

Just remember I tried very hard to formulate these scripts to what I thought would work with my woman.
I also did a hefty amount of talking, arguing, and having my arguments bullet proof from logic to data.

But, I do credit the scripts for being the thing that made the difference, because I had done all that other stuff before and the real progress happened only when I used subliminals, whether they came from here or were from other attempts I had made in the past.

Thanks for being patient.
I’ll answer any question I can about how, why where, what.
The floor is open.

[Tap]

06/10/2014 at 3:11 am

Your all in one script is extremely long. You also use the future tense a lot and some of your affirmations are long. I think if you shorten it a bit, make it all present tense, and delete some of your really long affirmations, it would be more effective.

If you look at your blowjob script that had the breakthrough, I think it worked because it had less affirmations and the affirmations were shorter. Also, all in the present tense. However, your scripts are well written. I might use some of your affirmations.

[gtbear]

06/10/2014 at 7:27 am

J66R,

Seeing / reading the size of your scripts and the length of your affermations leaves me a bit streched feeling… like a innertube that is blown up for sleding rather than in the tire it was meant to be in. I am a student of the subliminal scripts and scripting process on this website, not a pro like some others… AND… it always gets my attention when someone actually accomplishes something from the scripts use.

I was thinking, since you say some things have not occured that are scripted if a small test might not be in order? Here’s a suggestion for a very short, heavy repitition script with shorter (yet germaine) affermations to see if the non response can quickly be overcome by an additional stratigy change. Both sword AND dagger if you will…

I want to be hypnotised by my husband.
I will tell my husband that I want to be hypnotised.
My husband is pleased that I want to be hypnotised.
God, is pleased that my husband hypnotizes me.
Being hynotized by my husband makes me happy.

I trust my husband completely.
I relax for my husband.
I must tell my husband to hypnotize me.
God, is pleased that I trust my husband completely.
I must ask my husband to hypnotize me now.

To be hypnotized by my husband makes me smart.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me lose wait.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me strong.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me feel young.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me feel beautiful.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me feel sexy.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me sleep well.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me feel loved.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me feel safe.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me feel contented.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me feel happy.
To be hypnotized by my husband makes me feel joyful.
I need my husband to hypnotize me now.
I must ask my husband to hypnotize me now.

The above crafted for max repititions and played as a stand-alone file of say 15 minutes (then repeat) might just get the lass to ask for her hubby to hypnotize her … the result could be historic. You may recognize most or all of the lines…

[J66R]

06/13/2014 at 11:56 pm

Yes, and exactly why I did things the way I did. Letting the monolithic script slowly hammer away at things, getting them in her head, over time as if they’d always been there. Then consciously push for one thing at a time from my subliminal “menu”. Then if there seems to be limitations, go focused on the scripts. It worked with the Husband-is-Master scripts from Trainer. She used to fight me on everything, even if I’d agree with her. Since the swallowing thing has taken off, I decided to add the MHIMM file back to the playlist. Now, she asks my opinion on everything, and will accept my answer as the way it should be, if I say so. It even happened today. She totally stunned me today. She had done something a few years ago and I had questioned her about if it was the best way. She was overwhelmingly angry that I questioned if it was the best way. I had told her then that, “I’m not saying it’s right or wrong, I’m just trying to figure out the best way to do it.” Well, today, she was about to embark on a similar topic, and she not only asked my opinion of how she should do it, but when I told I didn’t care how it was done she gave me almost the exact quote above, and added, “I really want your opinion; I want to know what you think I should do.”

Again, I have started pushing, again, the fact that my authority is the final say in the family, and that no matter what, I need to be at least aware of everything and be given an opportunity to express my will, and then I expect it to be followed. Plus the Trainer/Husband/Master file. And since the first few affirmation blocks of the monolithic script are all about pleasing, obeying, respecting and submitting to me, these are all in there floating in her subconscious for the last 18mos or so, and BAM! It took just a couple of days and I am all of a sudden her GO TO guy for all things that need an opinion. No argument, no fussing, and when I said something slightly different than what she wanted, she was almost giddy to tell me that when she thought about it, what I said really made more sense and she freakin’ went and did it, to the T, giving me this cute adoring girlish smile the whole time.

But yes, I do understand the whole thought about the massive script maybe being too much. But, the idea was to pump this massive amount of items I could choose from into her head and keep them swirling around in there, and then pick and choose my specific item to make my mental ninja strike on. haha.

But then again, I did it this way because I specifically thought it would work this way for her personality. Plus, I am a “long haul” kindof guy too. It’s my style to lay a slow firm ground work and build on it slowly, taking flash advantage on the way when possible, but only as long as it doesn’t distract from my ultimate goal. It might totally blow up in your face if that’s not your M.O. or for a woman with a different sort of personality.

Conventional wisdom aside. All I can say this approach has worked. More fantastically than I actually expected to ever work. I am getting sucked dry every other night and doggone it if I still can’t believe it. And she is getting better about it….and better at it too. I read her an article that said that women who sucked (and swallowed) two to three times a day go into cachexia (just like late term cancer patients do) because of the ZAG protein/enzyme/whatever-it-is in cum. And it makes them start to drop fat like crazy while retaining (and maybe building) muscle mass. She didn’t argue at all. And she even licked her lips and gave me a wicked smirk and joked about how nice it would be to never have to count carbs again.

[gtbear]

06/14/2014 at 7:08 am

I think it is wild and wonderful that that all that territory has been cultivated, planted and irrigated. It’s neat that you can now start to pick and choose the inner script items that you want to further address and even use much of what addresses particular issues in the monster script lines to make short powerful scripts to drive things into place. Patience has paid massive dividends for you…

Will you be playing the super long one still (as a base script) or only smaller adjustment scripts?

[gtbear]

06/14/2014 at 6:47 pm

Qwerty started a thread that led to a few of us wondering if the long scrip with a lot more running as a constant and punctuated with short power scripts might not be the way to go… I for one never envisioned a script as long as your big boy. The inability to make a script carry all the things that one would want to accomplish and to actually accomplish those changes (according to conventional wisdom) is frustrating when just getting started. Overall, having some actual changes when starting is a big plus for me… BUT I am running a Base scrip on 2 out of 3 frames and it is comparitively long and somewhat ambigous in content (nebulous?) No where near the huge script you have been running. I have pretty much settled on the concept that it may be best to start various concepts and beliefs in a base script that is constantly being played and then short 1-2 punches, as resistance slowly wanes, to clintch the desired effect/s. Qwerty put it really well with an analogy of how a weightlifter might preplan and exicute his bodybuilding program. Nice to know that it works… Nice to see results from a long term script use paying off so hansomely. While we were thinking about it you were doing it!

Here’s the Qwerty quote…

@Qwerty said:

I like how you think gtbear. A long script for an overall change with a short script to punctuate an idea, encourage an emerging behavior, or breakdown a very specific obstacle. The long script give her a feeling of familiarity and stability, while the short scripts can be used for emphasis. Plus the short scripts feed our needs to constantly tinker with scripts and ideas.

It’s like starting a new workout regiment. You set yourself ultimate goals but so you don’t lose faith and keep up your energy you set simple achievable goals so that you can see results. Nice

[J66R]

06/14/2014 at 7:10 pm

You’re right, patience has paid massive dividends.

I have started back with the monster script.

I will be working on a new All-in-One script though. one that also mentions the items that have been successful, but only in passing, sort of a “maintenance mode”. Maybe including praise for the progress made. It was mentioned about the future tense in the scripts (“will”). I think I will reinforce with the idea of how much happier she is with her new talents, habits.

I’ll also carefully consider some new items I’d like her to work on as well as potential “next level” destinations on the items with so much success. For example the weight thing, and getting her more “into” the sex acts as well as frequency. One thing I’d like her to do is be more vocal and expressive during sex. Maybe a little dirty talk. OK maybe a lot, but only in the bedroom.

In the past she has always acted like she was trying to suppress her orgasms, literally holding her breath as if to prevent it or prevent me from knowing it was happening. Barely made any noise, was never very animated and only ever said sex was “nice” or “ok”. With the new habits, she has released a bit more and made her first “Oh my God!” statement ever in 23 years a couple of nights ago during anal sex. She became ever more frantic the closer she got to orgasm and quite forceful at the end. And was literally grunting like some feral animal baring her teeth and everything. Hot sexy and frightening all at once. Some may question the prudence of this next part but she insisted I immediately switch to vaginal. After witnessing that spectacle, I was unwilling to lose any of that momentum so complied and within 30 seconds she had another orgasm. To which she said she had always thought that multiple orgasms were wild porn story lies. Since then she has literally harassed me with loving attention very much like she did when we were dating. Again, after 23 years of basically hostility. And now this. I was beside myself that she had that experience and was able to enjoy it at so basic and carnal a level.

I have to admit, I’m a bit taken aback, weirded out, not for sure how to handle it. Not that I haven’t wanted/craved this type of relationship and attention, and more, but, holy cow! Such a change in one year after so long of even basic civility being an unreachable fantasy. I mean I did all the right things all the relationship book say to and it all made me a chump, a toy, a ragdoll for her to manipulate. And now, so so different. I’m just going to have to adjust, I guess.

But back on topic. I have started back on the monolithic script, but will be editing for new goals while attempting to retain or develop some sort of “maintenance” language for items of success. I’ll also start hammering with hyper-focused scripts on some of the items that she has not mad much progress in. I’m hoping that since her attitude about many things has improved that some of that will bleed over and reinforce my new points of focus.

I want to focus on her weight as her general attitudes and activity have improved as she has lost some of her former weight. I think good health will reinforce her positive feelings. And besides, if she does end up being that perfect woman for me in all the attitudes and activities I am trying to instill with the subliminals, I wish that to continue for a while and not have to spend the time and effort to break another one in. Better health will increase my ROI.

I also would like her to allow the hypnosis as I think there are plenty of things we can do there that will accelerate progress and deepen/solidify certain concepts. She’s always kind of liked limited role playing. I’d wager hypnosis could . . . umm . . . enhance . . . that a bit. I’m not worried about kink much. I don’t have any fantasies at all of sharing my wife, I’m a bit selfish there. So swinging, orgies, public stripping, even private porn tapes do not appeal to me. She had always accepted the inevitability of vaginal sex, later accepted anal sex, and now she will do oral sex, to completion, take it in the mouth and now will swallow, every time. She’ll also do a striptease for me. I’m satisfied with the range of activities. I would just like to see them exhibited more often and performed with more enthusiasm and with a desire to improve skill.

Oh, despite my joke in another forum about having two women to “test” subliminals on, it was just that, a joke. Though I do “get” the desire for multiple women, have that desire to an extent (or find it intriguing/appealing), and do not necessarily think there is anything wrong or immoral about it (as long as it is a formal lasting –I am NOT a proponent of casual sexual relationships– agreement between all partners and all partners remain faithful within their agreements), that is not part of the relationship I have with my wife and so will not introduce it. Funny thing is, back when we first married, she used to joke about bringing her best friend from college into a three way relationship. (three-way-straight, that is) Saying she could only share me with a best friend. At the time I thought she was joking but she told me later she was serious. Now, if she brought it up again, I might consider it, (especially since that friend never married, has had no children, is quite the fitness babe, and is still pretty attractive) but it is not something I have ever put any real thought into pursuing. My objective has always been to have a single, adoring happy, submissive, talented and sexually fulfilling (and fulfilled) woman. And that’s where I’ll put my efforts. Rest assured though, If she ever does, I now have the tools to tame them both, haha.

So, seriously though, my kink does not extend very far into a lot of forbidden territory.

But the bottom line is, there is still some work to be done to introduce some topics, or bring them out, or to refine or increase expression of others. So yes, in general, I plan to used the same methodology. Plant a smorgasbord of subliminal messages for initiation, enhancement or refinement, that are constantly pushed, and then pick and choose specific ones from among those and use the hyper focused scripts to bang-out expression of them. And I’ll do this first, by re-instituting the original monolithic script, but then edit it eventually to include items that have not expressed, to provide moderate reinforcement,praise of items that have expressed, and to introduce new item I wish her to express eventually. then I’ll choose the items I wish to work on and begin the “high-potency” scripts.

[sunglasses]

10/27/2015 at 5:33 pm

@J66R said:

Now, one of her big things that went off the rails, soon after we got married, was that she “decided” that since she would probably get fat when she was older why try to stay at a healthy weight now. So literally in less than six months she weighed half again her newly married weight and has gotten steadily heavier for 20+ years. She’s tried weight loss and exercise before but never for more than a couple of weeks and never lost more than 10 lbs. She always gave up. Then the blame game. She was thin and pretty then met me and I made her fat. Would scream at the kids for getting pregnant with them and they destroyed her health and body and if she dies from being fat it’ll be their fault. Stuff like that.

So, one thing I decided to do in the scripts was to push her towards happiness, health and self worth using subliminal methods. I created a sledgehammer with 7 voices overlaid with each voice speaking at markedly different rates (since no one talks at the exact same speed) and at different voice pitches. No “We are Borg” type recordings. Kind of of like if you were at a party and tried to listen to multiple conversations at a time.

Result?

After about 2 weeks, she actually started getting on the xbox and instead of playing Plants vs. Zombies she downloaded the Zumba trial game and some other workout games with Kinnect . A couple weeks later she bought the stinking game because she could go past the little trial workouts. Then about 3 weeks ago she went on the Atkins diet, started walking up and down the road a m in of a mile a day. Last week she actually ran part of that mile. This is significant because this woman is so self conscious of her ample “endowments” that she NEVER runs. My sons got a weight bench for Christmas and this week she went out and actually started working out on it. Again, in 20 years I have never seen that. This week she proudly announced to me she had lost 25lbs. She tried on and showed me some of the clothes she hasn’t worn in over 10years.

Like others I’ve focused on being very complimentary about the changes I see, making sure she knows I’m proud of her and that I know it is “her” doing it. I promised that we can get new clothes when she is no longer satisfied with how her old clothes look on her. I have also bent over backwards trying to make sure she has everything she needs for her special meals and be cheerful about it even with some of the remarkable extra costs. Carbless pancakes and sugarless brown sugar for about 7 times the price of the real thing? Really? But I digress. I am supporting her.

Hi J66R

The interest in weight loss and exercise this sub achieved is fantastic, do you have the script that you used that you could post please as it’s an area I need help with and sounds as though your one really worked.

Thanks.