Enslaving my wife

[Islander711]

01/28/2017 at 1:49 am

After being off the forum for over 4 years, I am back to make a good slave girl out of my wife. I have already gotten her to agree to be submissive to me, but she thinks that I will not have her do that. She is in for a nice surprise….

I plan on using the following for starters-

Slavery is my life
My owner is my master
I am a slave
Forming a slaves mind

I would like some feedback on my choice of scripts, especially if I have missed something or have too much to start with.

I plan on using my phone and Bluetooth speaker while we are asleep and putting something on her computer for when she is playing her games. I am thinking about the hypnosis sub on there.

One question that I have is Will she be able to get different things from her computer and the speaker at the same time?

I still have to set up my Bluetooth tomorrow and make sure that it is working so I have some time before I get started, perhaps a day or two as I spent today getting all the MP3’s on my computer and down loading the scrips for the ones that looked promising today.

[Islander711]

01/29/2017 at 2:46 am

Well, after 2 blue screens and and a couple of false starts on my downloading, I got her training on the way tonight. She is merrily sleeping on the bedroom while the scripts play. I will get her computer set up with player to get her while she is playing on it. This will be the most effective as she plays it constantly while she watches TV.

I do have a question, will the player still play in the background when she listens to things on her computer? If it stops, will it start back when she is done with the other thing that she listens to. I am going to do rain for that one and rename it ‘Weight Loss’ or something like that.

Here is hoping for a better slave.

[Fizbin]

01/29/2017 at 4:14 am

I would not suggest using any of the audible background files on the PC. The whole purpose of Trainer’s PC player is to have your silent files play unnoticed while the PC does other things.

If you want her to “actively” listen to an audible file (e.g. one of the hypnosis-covers, or rain, etc…) Then absolutely give them innocuous names (and make sure you update the advanced properties of the file itself to be consistent as well. (right-click, properties, details tab)

[Islander711]

01/29/2017 at 3:17 pm

Thanks for the advice Fizbin, but I will have to use rain as she has a habit of muting her computer while she watches TV and plays games so I need to do something that she can hear so she is reminded to not mute the sound I have mentioned subliminals to her before in regard to weight loss and claustrophobia so I am going to give them names that relate to that and just tell her that I found them and that she needs to keep the volume on so she can hear the rain. I believe that that will have her keep herself on the training.

I have noticed that she is using earbuds lately so I am going to add a few others to her computer. She has been saying that she needs to relax more come to think of it so I guess i can put a few on that relate to ‘relaxation’ also. Thanks for the idea.

[Fizbin]

01/29/2017 at 8:28 pm

Having her aware of and accepting that you will be playing subliminal files of some kind is a major advantage. Also remember that the hypnosis files are not “background” subliminal files. They have an active hypnosis component, as well as the subliminal programming behind them, so they can’t be used when doing something else.

[Islander711]

01/30/2017 at 2:23 am

Thanks for the head’s up on the hypnosis files, I will have to think of an angle on that. Maybe I could label them as deep relaxation files. I will have to think about that.

I do have to keep reminding myself not to go too fast so I probably won’t do the hypnosis files yet. Maybe in February at the earliest. I have her thinking that I am doing them for my insomnia. I will start working on that after I have her well on her way of her training.

[Islander711]

01/30/2017 at 3:24 pm

OK, I have prepared the files to put on her computer and, when she gets home, she will install them for me.

I have chosen 4 slavery files;

I am a slave now Emotional control
Slaves cocksucker now Weight loss
Respectful compliance now Erasing claustrophobia
Accepting Slavery now Female figure reinforcement

I also included;

I love Hypnosis by Master now Relaxation and weight loss extreme

I expect her to be using these when I am not around and some while I am around. After all, I use my phone and my speaker to play ‘my self help subliminals’, even when I am sleeping. She accepted this explanation from me. I am glad because I do not have the finances for a more covert speaker system. Besides, there are some beneficial subs that we have that I may play in the future, and these are somewhat beneficial to me.

I am also telling her that the hypnosis subliminal has bilateral beats that sometimes make the user a bit drowsy so she won’t use that one except at home.

I think that I have everything covered. Please let me know if you see any flaws in my plan.

Thanks

[Islander711]

01/31/2017 at 12:07 am

She did help me put the files into her computer and merrily listened to them all, the rains, the silents and the hypnosis. I will just have to remind her remember to listen to them until I start seeing effects. That is why I put the cocksucker subliminal. Now I have to make a loop on tje player so it doesn’t play the other music as she went through teh cycle once.

Things are looking well.

[Islander711]

01/31/2017 at 5:41 pm

I’ve got her listening to the ones on her computer so that is working well. All I have to do is remind her and she does it like a good little girl. I do make sure to compliment her for doing it. Positive reinforcement is always good.

I do not think the night ones are playing all night so I have to find out why my phone only plays one track at a time and then waits for me to start the next one. I probably need to get the files updated or something. /sigh.

[Fizbin]

02/04/2017 at 3:37 am

Looping is generaly a function of the playback app or device, not of the file.

[Islander711]

02/04/2017 at 6:26 am

I was talking about the files OS files or something as I can not find the damn loop function. Most frustrating.

[irelandseye]

02/07/2017 at 4:05 pm

hi there im new and also going to start training my wife from monday onwards. let me know how she is taking to her training so far and ill also update here

[Islander711]

02/10/2017 at 1:27 pm

I’ve got her to where she listens to her subliminals daily. I haven’t seen any indication of the training yet but it’s only been about a week and a half so I’m not expecting much yet.

[irelandseye]

02/10/2017 at 4:41 pm

i’ve also just started her training and i’m just using the silent subliminals at night. i’m starting with the wife cocksucker as i want her to learn that skill first lol. hoping it will kick in soon.
im thinking of 1955 house wife and obidient wife then

[Islander711]

02/12/2017 at 7:11 am

I do have the Slave cocksucker going when she does hers, but I would rather have compliance and slavery first. The cocksucker one is just to get her to do it a bit more.
I am waiting until the end of the month to see where she is at and determine whet happens next.

[irelandseye]

02/13/2017 at 4:51 pm

Not results yet for me will keep updated as to her progress.

[Islander711]

02/13/2017 at 10:13 pm

I have to get the E-Book on making my own subliminals now as she has asked me to make her some with the carpenters music. I am wondering what to make as these will be for ling term rather than progression. I do want to keep her on the slavery track but get her open to having a sister slave and to be bi-sexual. Any ideals on this development?

I do want to get her on the cock sucking page, but I am wondering if I can modify that to make her thank of pussy licking also. I saw a cock sucking one in the forums that I plan on using as soon as I get proficient on making the subliminals. Anyone knowing where that was found I would be appreciative knowing which thread that was in.

[Islander711]

02/21/2017 at 4:26 pm

Well it has been 3 weeks and I am seeing some changes, the one that stands out is that she is a bit more subservient to me. I also found an inexpensive electronic frame, referred to me by Sri91, that I have ordered so I am probably going to let the scripts she is hearing run until it gets here around March 10. I have put the link below.

I need my slaves house cleaning and, most importantly, her dish washing skills to improve so I know where my focus will be. I am also going to put the subliminal part of the hypnosis track in and putting my name in it.

As I will be putting in a custom stating my name. Something like;

Islander0711 is my master
I am property of Islander0711
I am happy that Islander0711 is my master.
Islander0711 owns me.

I will be expanding on this. I was wondering if I should put her name in the script but I am not sure how to do it so it sounds like something that she would naturally think of as she never refers to herself in the third person.

I also want to make her bisexual so I will be expanding on some things that she does during sex and make her think that she is fantasizing about another woman.

I will post the scripts that I develop and keep ya’ll posted.

Aloha

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[irelandseye]

02/21/2017 at 5:14 pm

i’ve been playing my silent for just over a week.
i find she was more submessive to my needs before I plad nay files at all. she seems to have gone the opposite way more argumentative .

[Fizbin]

02/21/2017 at 6:57 pm

@Islander – Congratulations on the initial success! Don’t get too eager to change programs at the first sign of results. Give things a chance to sink in.

@Ireland – I haven’t read the other threads yet, but I don’t recall just what you are playing for her, or the conditions under which the playback is happening. Is it just the WCS file? Or did you add something else to the mix? Does she know about the files? An abreaction can be indicative of hitting a hard boundary somewhere, or it could be the subconscious putting up a “last stand” before caving in. Others have reported similar reactions when a script contains a word or concept she finds utterly repugnant. In those cases, it is best to stop and find a different topic for the time being that is not as significant a departure from her current reality.

[Islander711]

02/21/2017 at 10:15 pm

I’ve got until the March 10 before the electronic frame comes so she still has over 2 weeks to go before the scripts get changed, and it will only be for when she is not in the bedroom. She will still get the initial 4 that I have on my phone for her sleeping and she has the 5 on her computer. I think that she is fighting the Slave’s Cocksucker right now, but I believe that it has caused her to agree to sex more readily so I think that it is working and she has been listening to the ones on her computer regularly.

I do not have much time to work on the files because I need to do the majority of the work while she is out because I want to minimize the chance of her finding out what I am doing as this would not be good. Fortunately she goes swimming 6 days a week and walks on 3 days after the swimming. I have her convinced that she is listening to the weight loss subs so I think the submissiveness in the files is having her listen to me encouraging weight loss and doing it because I said so.

[irelandseye]

02/22/2017 at 10:01 am

It’s just the WCS file for now and she is not aware of the files.
I play the silents at night.before the files she would give me head every second night. she dislikes swallowing so the file was to increase frequency to every night and include swallowing.
since playing the file nothing in 5 nights which is unusual so file has had the opposite effect. I also noticed her being very disagreeable as well lately. has anyone seen this before.

[Islander711]

02/22/2017 at 12:28 pm

Yes, that happened on my first attempt, I wish that I would have just changed to a different file now that I have a chance to look back. If you use the file again after you get another file that is related to, but different from the one that is causing problems and use it, then the original file won’t cause the same problems. You are trying to convince the subconscious mind so you don’t want it to fight you. Give it a chance to digest the new info and find something different that will help you on your way to your goal.

[irelandseye]

02/22/2017 at 4:08 pm

well im going to leave the file playing for another week and then try a different one if no success. Thanks for the advise. she was very submessive at the start of our relationship. Im trying ot get back there. Have only myself to blame as i laid down the law back then and then slowly one thing after another over the years and power dynamic is changed. Im hoping to get it back over time. just a warning really to others not to be soft or let small things slide if you get on top. Women do test boundaries and need to be reminded of their place.pulling her up on small things now and not letting anything slide might save you from scratching your head down the road wondering where your once compliant wife has gone and replaced by this controlling bitch

[Islander711]

02/23/2017 at 12:15 pm

You do have to back up the files with actions. Could her hostility be that she is trying to bully you into not being dominate? If you think that this might be the case, stand your ground as you are taking over and she is fighting it. Just be firm and even tempered if this is the case and she will cave and be submissive again. If she is listening to a lot of feminist ideology then you need to do some customs to get her to thinking that that is silly and to stop listening to that dribble.

[Tichi]

02/23/2017 at 2:36 pm

@irelandeye

I think you need to change your relationship dynamic first. If she is in charge then WCS is not where your relationship is at. You need to become the alpha first.

Something more along the lines of this which tap originally posted for me:

My husband Tichi is my king.

My husband Tichi is my boss.

My husband Tichi has complete control over me.

My husband Tichi is superior over me.

My husband Tichi is dominant over me.

My husband Tichi has authority over me.

My husband Tichi is in charge of me.

My husband Tichi makes decisions for me.

I always show respect to my husband Tichi.

I am submissive to my husband Tichi.

I like being submissive to my husband Tichi.

I am happy being submissive to my husband Tichi.

I love being my husband Tichi’s submissive wife.

My fantasy is being my husband Tichi’s submissive wife.

I do everything my husband Tichi says.

I follow my husband Tichi’s orders.

I love to obey my husband Tichi.

I am happy to obey my husband Tichi.

God commands me to obey my husband Tichi.

My purpose in life is to obey my husband Tichi.

I always obey my husband Tichi.

I enjoy pleasing my husband Tichi.

I like to satisfy my husband Tichi’s desires.

I love making my husband Tichi happy.

I need to do everything to keep my husband Tichi happy.

My greatest desire is to make my husband Tichi happy.

My priority in life is to make my husband Tichi happy.

[Fizbin]

02/23/2017 at 6:20 pm

@Ireland,
Most of the time, when the subconscious pushes back it is headaches. This sounds more like a true “abreaction”, which is a serious rejection of the concepts in the file. I would drop the current file immediately and go a different direction, probably toward general respect and submission/obedience, rather than a specific action.

[Islander711]

02/28/2017 at 9:13 pm

Well, I had a mild surprise today when I came home. The electronic picture frame came in today, 10 days ahead of schedule, so I have a bit of work cut out for me as I am not ready to put the files on that I wanted. I haven’t gotten them all scripted translated and ready yest. I do confess that I was behind due to getting a new job, after not working for the past 3 months, so I haven’t been able to get what I wanted to do ready. I do know that the extra cash coming is making her feel a bit better, but me not being here is making her mad that I am not spending enough time with her when she wants me to, not that she would if I was here all day. Stupid woman, but that is what I am working on.

I plan on putting in 5 subliminals into the frame;

Forming a slaves mind — continuing what she is getting now
I am a slave — continuing what she is getting now
Slavery is my life — also continuing what she is getting now
A good blow job — as I would like that
Barbie doll — as do want to make her a bimbo, she overthinks way to much and that causes problems

To the making her a bimbo, I found a game called The Internet republic of Bimbolands and have managed to get her to play. It is like a lot of the mindless games that she plays, but you are trying to become the best Bimbo possible. She is doing well so I can encourage her to get better and use first person about her and I have gotten her to use first person when describing her bimbo. I have a bimbo too so I have a reason to talk to her about out ‘shared interest’ and to tell her how good of a bimbo that she is. Amazing what you can find on the internet.

Anyway, I have had some success on her attitude, but, as I can not be around everyday due to the new job, I was falling behind on her subliminals. The frame, right beside her chair, should get her on track.

As always, I do appreciate any feed back that I receive.

[irelandseye]

03/01/2017 at 2:31 am

Thanks for all the replies and the advise.
yes it makes sense to bring out back her sub side before concentrating on specific tasks.
I’ll try the submessive thoughts wife ready made file as i haven’t experimented with making my own customs yet. It seems to cover a lot of what im looking for. being new i would be afraid yet i might not set the correct speed and volume and correct affirmations.
I will let you know how the new file goes.
Islander let me knwo if you find it effective using 5 subliminals.
I’m trying the slow and steady method one at a time when and if she responds to the submissive thoughs wife ill as hte WCS file.
Tichi and Fizbin thnaks very much for all the advise. out of curiousity have both of you moulded a better verion of what you want for your wifes/ partners through subliminals and how long did it take to get there in general

[Islander711]

03/01/2017 at 9:42 pm

I do have an advantage, when my wife was still in Europe and wanted to come back to me she did say that she would be submissive to me. I am just helping her along, maybe more than she bargained for, but I am the dominate and I decide how submissive she is. That is why I will be continuing the first three. She has not gotten to the submissive stage to my satisfaction.

The other two are for goals, one short term and the other is her long range goal.

I have read that the human mind can keep track of 7 things, more or less, depending on the individual. I am trying to put her into a state of confusion by overtaxing her attention span on the related topics when she is at home vegging to the television. With the television’s ability to put someone into a mildly receptive state, I plan on overloading her subconscious with the proper programs. At least that is the theory.

[irelandseye]

03/06/2017 at 3:25 pm

just asking previous users who may know
are the sledgehammers more effective than the normal subliminals

[Islander711]

03/10/2017 at 4:33 am

I had forgotten how much working and commuting get in the way of doing what you plan. Oh well, life, what gets in the way of living.

Not much to report on my slaves behavior, she is preparing my meals without much of a fuss, but I will have to work on her cleaning abilities. This is a bit of an upgrade. She has her gaming meeting tomorrow so I have some time to finish her gift so I hope to see some more improvement in the next few months.

I have noticed a bit of a rise in her libido lately, but this could just be me taking advantage of some miscommunication of some texts. It is hard to judge this.

Irelandseye, I think that the sledgehammers are good for a breakthrough when she looks like she is having some resistance. You can also use them as a bit of a change of pace. Sometimes variety is key. I think that that depends on the woman.

[Islander711]

03/11/2017 at 3:50 am

Her picture frame programming has started. I love quite time, I can get so much done.

I would love to see progress tomorrow, but realistically, I am expecting some signs in 30 days or so. I will update if something happens.

[Islander711]

03/15/2017 at 4:57 am

She is really liking her picture frame and was bugging me to put more pictures in it, which I did tonight. She gets at least 3 hours of the scripts while I am home and I believe another 3-5 hours while she is here alone, but she does go out for her swimming exercises 6 days a week and volunteer work a few times a month. I believe that this is a good amount of time. I just have to remember to be dominate.

The only bad thing about the picture frame is that the company that makes it, Coby, has gone out of business. Bummer, it got good reviews. Fortunately, you can still get the products fairly inexpensively and they are of good quality. I will have to find a new source.

[Islander711]

03/22/2017 at 7:08 am

Well, she is really liking sex more, and trying to justify why she says yes so easily. This is a good sign so I must see what the next step is going to be, but not until the end of the month at the earliest.

I have been complimenting the behaviors that I like and just mentioning what I don’t care for in an off-handed way. I will be studying the next set of scripts that I will be putting on.

I would like some suggestions on what hardware to use at night, the blue tooth speakers didn’t work as well as I planed as they tell me that they are connecting at night and waking us both up. this ruins my sleep and I do have insomnia so I can’t have them play as I have a job now. I will have some discretionary cash in a few weeks so I would like some ideals on what to get.

[Fizbin]

03/22/2017 at 9:09 am

Some of the Bluetooth speakers also have an option for micro SD cards. Generally they don’t make any extra noise in that case, and just start playing the card right away on power up. Just add “micro SD” to your query on Amazon, and verify in the descriptions. Many are quite cheap affordable.

[oldfart]

03/23/2017 at 1:36 pm

Try Amazon for picture frames. Just looked and they have quite a few listed.

[Tichi]

04/02/2017 at 1:46 pm

I just use an older Android tablet. Picture frames should be good too.

[Tichi]

04/02/2017 at 2:23 pm

Just saw this question on moulding a better wife.

In short (my full story is documented in my thread)
My starting position is her wanting a divorce. She was running around doing whatever pleased her. She was running the relationship and I was always behind the eight-ball trying to please her. Despite her being the alpha she wasn’t that happy and our relationship wasn’t doing all that well. (Clearly)

Today and it has taken over a year to get where I am. It started predominantly with obedience sub to turn the relationship around. It takes at least a month for the principal idea to start taking hold, along with you acting inline with the message. For me it was to start acting like the alpha in the relationship.

So when she says, I don’t know what to do because you are better at this than me, then I know the sub is doing its job. And that I better step up and provide the solution. I would like you to do this dear… (It doesn’t even matter if your right or wrong!)

Also I stopped appologising for everything because I don’t need to, unless of course it’s *really* needed. You know I really stuffed up and felt it was required.

When going out I’ll request her to wear what’s pleasing to me, but also I lead her and protect her out there in the world. E.g. I walk on the side the cars travel and lead when going in to a bar, but let my wife follow a waitress and remain behind in that circumstance.

I try never to get angry, because as soon as you do you loose the power (I feel), but remain calm and express what I’d like to happen.

Lots of guidance from Trainer, Fizbin and Tap. It’s been a long road. Sometimes it feels like your going backwards too. Lots of reading and applying on how to be a alpha male in a relationship.

Today she is happy to cuddle and sleep in the same bed. She calls me babe or hon and is delighted to see me when I come home from work. It all feels very positive at this point.

One thing that has not crossed the threshold is sex. This is the most important thing that’s required to close the loop in the relationship and keep it together. But I am working on this as it’s taken this long to get where I am from where I started.

My scripts started with obedience and as the relationship dynamic changed to me becoming the alpha, I have changed the script around to more focus on wedding vows, feelings and desire.

It’s a slow, long road that needs persistence and small changes.

You can change her direction 180 degrees if you want to, just not in one hit, rather in 1 degree steps and eventually she’ll be facing the way you want.