Ok so i tried using the files here on the site to train my wife a little while back with little success. I stopped playing the files when we went on vacation a little while back and didn’t play them again when we got back. now i am taking a second attempt at training my wife using custom files that i tailored to her, hoping they work better. currently i have two files that i have made. i set each file to loop three times and then combined them into one long file. i used a couple scripts that i found here in the forums that were originally written by Tap, (by the way thank you tap for posting the scripts, they were very helpful.) I modified the scripts a bit to be better suited to my wife and my goals. Currently i have a silent version of the file that i play on my phone, and through a wireless Bluetooth speaker when we are home, as well as a pair of white noise files on her phone that she can play at night. She has a lot of trouble sleeping and i suggested getting some white noise to help her, then added the subliminal underneath the noise.
currently my goals are to make my wife a bit more submissive and obedient, as well as help boost her sexuality. although not naive, she is a bit prudish and i hope to get her to be a bit more sexual. the two current files are an basic submissive file and a file to get her to give blowjobs a bit more easily. I hope down the road to include a file to make her feel more aroused and enjoy sex more. and maybe if i can think of a way to get her to enjoy some light bondage, which i have a bit of a kink for myself. well i’ll check back in a few weeks and see how the files are working. For anyone who has already done this, about how long should i expect for her to change her behavior? I’m trying to start small, but i’m not sure exactly how to gauge her response to the submissive part of the file. i think i will be able to tell if the BJ part is taking effect.
It sounds like a good plan and I hope it works out for you. I would just say with combined files, my experience is the less affirmations the better. 30 for me is usually my max where I still see a good benefit while playing it.
ok so it’s been a few weeks, and with almost daily playing of the files i must say there seems to be a bit of a change in my wife. the changes that i have noticed in her are slight and subtle but mostly i have noticed that the last week or so she has been a bit more frisky. I plan to keep playing the same files for awhile since they seem to be working albeit gradually. so far so good i guess.
I would say with files that may change her core beliefs, she would have to hear the affirmations many times over a period of weeks before you will see changes. The best you can do is positively reinforce any positive thing she does that you like, and that mirror what your subliminals are telling her to be like. Compliment her on any good changes she does, right when she does it. That way she will associate good memories with the things you want her to do.
