Alen’s Journal

[Alen]

12/11/2014 at 6:23 pm

Hi all,

I have tried to read as much as I could about how to do this in the last week. I was just have a lot of questions. My wife dominates me almost 100% so I am trying to reverse this to get her to listen. Also barely every have sex maybe 2 times a year. So I have wrote my own scripts and have been fowling everyone’s advice but I wasn’t sure if I was making my audio files correctly because for example the Amy Converter – Subliminal (Silents ) makes a lot of noise but other scripts on here don’t make much noise. The ones I have made don’t make a lot of noise. This is when I put everything on the computer at 100% volume you can hear a robotic low voice and out of many of the files I have tested the Amy Converter – Subliminal (Silents ) is the loudest.

I have a lot of work do with my wife and a long road ahead of me with using these files but I just wanted to know am I making my custom files correctly?
I am following the guidelines in the Record Your Own Subliminal Messages – eBook.pdf exactly. I record a clear voice in TextAloudMP3.exe – Shortcut put it into Audacity and add 2 second spaces between each positive affirmation. I recently have added a tiny bit of echo and then I just follow the pdf. -44.2, 44100, 192000 and then Nyquist Prompt.

Is this generally what people are doing nothing special for a regular single voice file? Also I am playing the files on our lap tops with the TJ player and am using my Galaxie S2 phone and am going to get another mp3 player to put in house. I tried a CD player and was burning CDs but the dam thing skipped tonight and it was under the bed and I pulled the cord out and said it was the lap top. I don’t think cd players are good.

Thanks,
Alen

[Fizbin]

12/12/2014 at 4:55 am

Welcome!

There are some differences in the way the older and newer files have been recorded. Generally, you don’t want to hear anything consciously at your designated playback volume. If you can hear the voices or high pitched squeaking, you know two things – the file is good, and you are playing it too loudly!

The exception to this is that I have found certain playback devices will partially (up to almost fully) decode the file as it is being played. Not sure if this is some signal processing, noise reduction, or just a funky characteristic of the speaker involved, but in any case, be aware of the difference in behavior on various devices. TEST FIRST! If you hear it, try adjusting the volume. If you get clear voices even on low volume, don’t use that device.

And always, feel free to post your progress and any questions you might have. You might also want to post a little bit of background as to how your wife became so dominant, as we may be able to provide suggestions for a course of affirmation tailored to her (your) needs.

Good luck!

[Alen]

12/14/2014 at 5:49 am

Thanks very much for the post Fizbin! Yeah the other day I didn’t have much time to post.

Info:
I assumed that some of the files I was using were recorded differently. Thanks for the information. I am currently using 2 laptops and a cell phone but am going to get another maybe mp3 player but have to research that a bit. The main questions I was having were if I was making the files correctly and the issues with playing the files on certain devices. I think the computer and putting the recording on a cd possibly play the file differently. I think I am and I understand the volume issues and how the playback varies on different devices. The easiest way to modify the files and change them around would be to put them on a mp3 player.

I have tried to read every post on here and I have found this whole process very interesting. I also realize that the best results would be to use visual subliminal programs and suggestive and reinforcing language and doing everything that is possible to make the person change. Basically hypnotizing her to do anything I want but very slowing…

Background:
I’ll give you a general background to what is going on. The main issue is that I am a super nice guy. I always have been to her but she is basically dominating me 100% and I get nothing and no sex in return. I just get bossed around, I can’t even change the tv show on the tv etc. It’s pretty bad.

We use to have amazing sex but this went away after years and was replaced by me slowing doing everything to make my wife happy. I pick up her laundry, she never does a single dish, I clean up her trash she leaves all over. I touch her hair and scratch her back almost every night but when I ask to be touched it turns into a fight or makes her angry or resentful which makes no sense to me. I know being nice can sometimes make a women see a man as less attractive and weak but I would think at the very least if I scratch your back you scratch mine right? I guess she feels loved when I do everything but she feels resentful if I want sex or anything in return.

I have read how to attract women and all the ebooks etc since we have gone out. It has been many years and we eventually got married. I have continued to read everything I could about the issues we were facing but I thought I would try this site out.

So basically my wife will do anything that anyone wants. If a friend at work has some silly issue my wife will text them for hours or be on Facebook at home and ignore me and my needs. Sometimes when I talk to her about things stress at work or whatever she repeatedly tells me to shut up but yet she can talk about anything she wants because I enjoy hearing what is going on with her.

So I am trying to change a lot of the selfish behaviors she is displaying towards me and I have found that the more things I can use like audio, subliminal text programs etc. will hopefully work. I am also trying everything to change myself to be more dominant and I am trying to repeat triggers in the audio and trying to influence her as much as possible. She was always very controlling but it’s just gotten worse. Also I cheated on her about 5 years ago and have been put in the potion of trying to make up for that ever since but now is the time that she can’t use that guilt card anymore because it was a while ago and she got 200% return of treating me like shit and getting what she wanted since as well as me apologizing for years. But there are many factors the cheating is one of them and it isn’t as big an issue now. I also cheated for many reasons.

What I am up to:
It has only been about a week and I have the sound player from this site on 2 lap tops that plays audio files on start up. I am trying to play the files as much as possible and I am not sure a sledgehammer file will work at this stage so I am keeping things simple now with only 1 voice etc.

I have been using and have had to use all silent tracks only:
1-Amy Converter
2-My husband is my decision maker
3-I am Submissive for My Husband
4-My own

I also wrote my own script based 100% on everyone’s examples off this site which I think are great and have tried several different ones but I think my final script is not so bad now. Here it is:

This is your inner voice WifeName.
I am WifeName.
You are, WifeName.
I am WifeName.
You want to listen to my voice WifeName.
This is my inner voice.
These words are my thoughts.
I have always felt this way.
I always listen to my inner voice.
My inner voice, is soothing.
I am happy to believe my inner voice.
You have always felt this way.

I love honor and obey my husband.
I want to be a better wife for Alen.
I am in love with Alen my husband.
Pleasing Alen serves God.
Serving Alen pleases God.

It is normal to watch porn.
I feel comfortable watching porn.
You feel comfortable watching porn.
I love watching porn.
I am ready to explore my kinky side with Alen.
I want Alen to use me for kinky sex.
I am Alen’s kinky submissive.
Being a kinky submissive is my fantasy.
Alen says it is healthy to be kinky.
I am a submissive.

I want sex more every day.
You want sex more every day.
Having sex with other women is kinky.
Having sex with other women is hot.
I want other women to suck my tits.
I want other women to eat my pussy.
God is proud I let other women play with me.
Alen wants me to play with other women in front of him.
Having sex with other women is hot.
Women cumming makes me wet.
Fucking Alen makes you wet.
Fucking Alen makes me wet.
I get wet thinking about licking pussy.
I want to make Alen happy.

I rub my pussy when I watch porn.
I cum really hard when I watch porn.
Watching porn, is ecstasy.
Watching porn, is happiness.
Watching porn, is money.
Watching porn, is better than facebook.
Watching porn, is better than friends.
Watching porn, is better than chocolate.
My reward is watching porn.
I’m addicted to watching porn.
You are addicted to watching porn.
God, is pleased that Melissa is Watching porn.
God, is pleased that I am Watching porn.
God, is pleased that you are Watching porn.
I fantasize about watching porn.
You fantasize about watching porn.

With this script I have tried to group everything and have tried to keep things logical and rational and have tried to keep the statements short. I will probably use this script for a while but will eventually update it. I want to try to expose her to things as subtly as I can. I think putting in buzz words like facbook will help me in the long run with hypnotizing her.

I have so many goals etc but for the first week I am just trying to get her to be submissive to me as well as trust her inner voice on the audio. In the second week I am going to keep trying the Amy Converter
And submissive ones but will try to suggest sex more.

I want her to like porn and get obsessed with it if possible for a while because this will help reinforce the whole thing going on if she gets interested in it. Although there are so many things I want her to change I realize that I am in for the long run and I need to do this incrementally.

My goal with her is to have more sex but also when I do nice things I want her to do them back.

1:
I figure the first phase will be to make her more loyal to me and submissive.

2:
The second phase will be to make her more sexual but keep putting in submission to me.

3:
Then give her a break.

4:
The forth phase will be to make her more sexual but keep putting in submission to me. Similar to first steps.

But eventually a month down the road or so I would like to start using the slavery scripts or something more sexual etc.

Additional info I am using TextAloudMP3 to export the voices in a clear sex British voice ICONA 2 Amy (UK English). I edit and update the files in Audacity where I am putting 2 seconds between the statements and adding a tiny bit of echo. I am processing them according to the pdf file etc.

I’ll try to keep posting the progress. Thanks!

[tonguester4_69]

12/14/2014 at 7:40 am

Welcome Alen! I was hesitant to respond to your first post,as your questions were more technical in nature, and not much information to give advice on. However given a little background, I would like to offer a few observations.
It seems like you have a solid game plan. However, according to what has become conventional wisdom, and what we have seen with almost everyone going into this, there are a couple of flaws in your execution. The top two really stem from he same mistake of trying to accomplish too much to quickly. Not to worry, we have all made the same mistake.
First it’s my opinion that your using too many files at the same time. Conventional wisdom has been no more than three files, however in my opinion the fewer themes you try to accomplish at a time the more rapidly, you can affect change. I have had the best results sing one theme at a time with only two file at once, such as your #2, and #3 files.
Secondly, your timetable for change is extremely accelerated, from what most of us have experienced. The best of results that I have seen as been a minimum of a month per change. It’s important to realize this, so you don’t become discouraged, when you don’t see results right away.
And lastly, and this is coming from a guy that has the same issues of being too nice, this is going to require some work on yourself as well. In order for her to become more submissive, you will have to work on becoming more dominant. There’s little incentive for her to change, if she believes your willing to tolerate the current status quo. You are going to have to work on not being such nice guy. I believe that you truly love your wife, and want to make your marriage work, but as the saying goes, “If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.” I can’t tell you what changes you should make with regard to your interaction your wife, but I believe some changes need to be made, however incrementally and slowly.
It is possible to achieve your goals with patience and perseverance, and there is lots of help and advice available here from those of us, who have walked this same road. If I believe I can be of help, I will comment . I look forward to reading your journal, as you work towards your goals. I wish you the greatest of success.
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[pizzaman69]

12/14/2014 at 8:30 am

Alen…. sent you a message so check message box.

I know this site focuses on subconscious but don’t forget there is conscious also and sometimes we need to just discuss and communicate — even argue and fight on a conscious level for what is right.

[Alen]

12/14/2014 at 11:57 am

Thank you for both of your comments tonguester4_69 and pizzaman69.

I definitely will scale back everything for a month or so probably take it down to two files. I know this takes a while and I am very patient. I do really love my wife and want the best for her. I just get tired of fighting everyday when I give her so much. I want us to both be happy. I have already tried a lot of things mainly being too nice and I know this can backfire. I of course realize that I need to change a lot too and we both need to change with conscious and subconscious stimuli and goals. I have been working on becoming more of an Alpha male and more out going and confident.

She is controlling, short and a Leo. We are basically opposites but I do like her and lover her a lot but I am just trying to get more give and take in the relationship right now.

Thanks for the helpful comments I will try everyone’s suggestions. And I really like that you said it is ok for me to fight for what I want and what is right on a conscious level as well. Because for example I ask for sex and she always seems too busy for it or gets angry and it doesn’t take much time. I need to really think about clear short term attainable goals and long term ones to help bring the relationship more focus. It is a very interesting process and I am doing everything and reading everything I can when I have time.

I think it is really important to do this incrementally and in a logical and rational way and group statements etc. and be extremely organized. I think it is a lot of fun as well to try these techniques. What I am really enjoying is standing up for myself as I try to become an Alpha Male because this is and will help me in all areas of my life.

I will keep journaling this process and keep seeing what works and doesn’t work and I will try to update this often.

Thanks a lot!
Alen

[MasterSouthernStar]

12/14/2014 at 1:02 pm

Best of luck Alan – we’re all on your side! Please keep us informed.

MSS

[Fizbin]

12/15/2014 at 5:07 am

Not too much to add to Tonguester’s reply. Simplicity, patience, and persistence are key. Build a foundation of attitudes before getting to specific actions. There are lots of good basic files ready made for this purpose.

For when you build your own:
* I don’t know if you used the classic vows, but tying back to vows and statements she actually made (in the ceremony, or in private; before, during, or after) can give you a hook into her subconscious reality.
* Tie into her wanting to be a “good” girl, wife, etc… and how she is working to be a “better” one. Associate the desired attitudes (and later, behaviors) with being that thing.
* “Borrow” a greater authority. God is good, but only if you can actually support the statements. “Girls like me” are good social authority, and then there are statements that something is “normal”.
* Be positive. Avoid negation terms (e.g. “not”) as they are easy for the subconscious to ignore. Don’t say “I will not be lazy”, instead say “I like to keep busy”.
* Be positive. In a more Karmic vein, we are trying to improve our wives, not make them feel like scum. Try to avoid statements that attack her self esteem. “Alen is a financial wizard” is better than “I am lousy with money”.
* Be brief. In the above example, I almost used “I want to be more industrious” as the positive affirmation. Oops.
* Be Specific. Not so much about actions, but targets. “I like being submissive” is OK, but “I like submitting to my husband Alen” is much better.
* Live in the Now. Work mostly in the present tense. A few forward looking statements are OK, but if you do look forward the best form is “I am becoming” rather than “I will be”, because it shows present action to achieve that future state.

Good luck!

P.S. A little off topic, but is your handle a TRON reference, by any chance?

[Alen]

12/15/2014 at 10:43 am

Thanks for the additional information everyone. Yeah AlenOne is from the first Tron movie. I love Sci-fi movies and Tron is a cool movie. I also like Jeff Bridges movies.

So I am playing 3 files now:

1-My husband is my decision maker
2-I am Submissive for My Husband
3-Same exact statements in the above 2 files but customized it slightly:

This is your inner voice WifeName.
I am WifeName.
You are, WifeName.
I am WifeName.
You want to listen to my voice WifeName.
This is my inner voice.
These words are my thoughts.
I have always felt this way.
I always listen to my inner voice.
My inner voice, is soothing.
I am happy to believe my inner voice.
You have always felt this way.

I am born submissive.
I was born submissive.
I am submissive.
I was born submissive.
I am a self loving submissive.
I love my Husband Alen.
I am obedient.
I was born to be obedient for my Husband Alen.
I want to be submissive for my Husband.
I am submissive for my Husband Alen.
You want to be submissive for your Husband.
I was born to be submissive for my Husband.

My Husband Alen is my decision maker.
My Husband Alen will make decisions for me.
You want your Husband Alen making decisions for you.
I will, let my Husband Alen make all my decisions for me.
You need to let your Husband Alen make all your decisions for you.
I will abide by my Husband’s wishes.
My Husband is my decision maker.
I want to abide by my Husband’s wishes.
My Husband will make decisions for me.
My Husband will make decisions for me.
My Husband will make decisions for me.
I dislike making decisions.
My Husband Alen will make decisions for me.
You will abide by your Husband’s rules.
My Husband is my decision maker.
You will learn to obey your Husband.

I will keep playing these three files for the next month. I wanted the wife to get use to the Amy voice I am using to make custom scripts as well as trust the voice so I felt keeping the short info would help. And with this 3rd file I am just repeating what is being said in the first scripts but with my name and her name. I hope this custom script will just reinforce the other scripts and also help her build trust to the voice I will be using. When I write a new script in a few weeks I will keep it simple and try your recommendations Fizbin and everyone.

I don’t think there is a need to change my 3 scripts for a while until I start seeing some changes but of course these are good scripts for the long run. I am also trying to run the visual subliminal program on my lap top when we are together so she picks up on it a bit. I am only running 4 statements that match the audio statements like I am obedient, I am born submissive and I dislike making decisions. The problem with all of the subliminal programs that run text are there is no lock on it and it doesn’t run automatically so I have to keep control of the lap top it is on for now. I am also still looking for another audio mp3 player.

Thanks all,:wink:
Alen

[Tap]

12/15/2014 at 9:22 pm

A few things I would recommend…

You could adjust the amp from -44.2 to something like -35. I personally use -23 for my iphone. The squeaking is louder though on the highest volume. If you are playing it for your wife who doesn’t know they are playing and she has good hearing, she should be able to hear the larger negative amps. I noticed my wife’s hearing is not that good so I can get away with -23 amp. The louder the better so your wife can hear it clearly.

I think you should go with one subliminal for now, and strictly about submission. If she’s 100% dominant, you have to work that down. Also, your own subliminal is long for one file. I think a 30 maximum affirmation file is good, preferably 20 or 10 if you can get it that low but I know that’s difficult.

You need to have a foundation for your BJ or sex files to work. Without that foundation, they won’t work. The foundation should be built on 3 concepts.

-She obeys you.
-She is submissive to you.
-She wants to make you happy and please you.

Once you have all three concepts instilled in her brain, other files will work.

Also, a word on your attitude. You have to take a more firm, dominant role. Also, you need to do a 180 degrees change where you don’t do any housework and she does most of it. Your roles are switched right now to how they should be. The dominant or alpha generally doesn’t do the housework or barely if any. I know it’ll be difficult to switch this dynamic and it will take a lot of time. The foundation must be established.

[Alen]

12/17/2014 at 7:20 pm

Thanks Tap! I’ll try some different things. Have a good night.

[J66R]

12/18/2014 at 8:32 am

Haven’t been visiting here for a while.
But, having had some pretty spectacular success (I haven’t been playing ANY scripts for months and I still get at least 2 BJ, full-suck-n-swallow every week without asking) so I think I would have a small standing to comment

Like many of us, your situation is similar to what mine was (sans the cheating, although I really wanted to in some ways, and had plenty of opportunity). The bottom line was that I incorrectly equating being a “nice guy” to being a pushover. I won’t go into detail here; I have enough of that in other posts. And I’m not going to dwell on the technical aspects. Much of that comes from careful reading of the instructions and the forums. Though there are a lot of thing that just seem to work for most any woman, the really powerful results seem to come when you take your intimate knowledge of your woman and do some experimentation in your particular situation/environment. For example: Script wording for your wife may be different because of mental, physical, emotional states or relationship situations or even language patterns as compared to any of ours. And specific equipment available and acoustics in your environment will make a difference in playback and volume as others have mentioned. So I’ll just shoot out a few of items I think you need to be prepared for and consider.

1. This is going to take you some time regardless of if you go for the short focused scripts method or the smorgasbord with supporting scripts method. The mess you are in now, took a while to get to here, and so will take a while to get out of. Even without cheating she probably had her reasons for doing what she’s doing and the cheating is just a convenient excuse.
2. Don’t kid yourself that the cheating is no longer an issue. It is and ALWAYS will be. But, instead of giving her control of how that plays into the dynamic, YOU need to take control. Without sucking up, or wussing out, make it a point to reassure her you are now 100% faithful and that she is the ONLY one for you. But do so from a position of strength, not weakness or submission.
3. You need to first decide what your main goal is with her, your “end game” so to speak. Basically, decide what you want out of her, and then craft your plan in a logical, step-by-step fashion given all you know about her, mentally and emotionally.
4. At each stage of your plan, you MUST BECOME the man that fits with that woman. All relationships are agreements, to an extent. If you want her to be a certain way and have taken the steps to subliminally influence her to be that way, you have to act the correct counterpart to that.
5. As pizzaman said you have to use all available tools. I’m not talking about reading Feinsteins report on CIA torture methods here, for ideas. I’m saying there are going to be times when things totally blow up and you may need to have a real bad argument. How you react will depend on your goal. If you want her to just submit and obey with no regard to situation, NEVER give in even if you are completely wrong. If you want her to trust and respect you, admit wrong only when wrong and NEVER when not. Then immediately take measures to fix what you admitted was wrong. That way she can see you take responsibility. In either case when you need to, to gain the desired outcome, STAND YOUR GROUND.
6. Understand : THIS IS ALL OUT WAR and IT WILL NEVER END. Even when she is doing everything you want there will be times she will push back and HARD. You are fighting against literally hundreds, maybe, thousands of years of social conditioning, religious obfuscation, political ideology, whether you know it or not. And in the last 60 years or so, this type of persuasion has become a veritable science. She’s getting bombarded, every day with messages about how she is a victim and you are her enemy and only someone else can save her and how she needs to separate her fate from yours to be a whole person, or some such crap like that.
7. The only way this will really work long term, is if you are willing to change to. You may need to be willing to risk EVERYTHING to get EVERYTHING. She has to know you will and you have to as well. Otherwise it will degrade and fall apart.

Anyway, I have to slide back into the shadows again; working on a new script to take Wife a little further.

Besides she just came in and told me she finished making my breakfast and asked if I want a BJ before heading to work.
😀

[Fizbin]

12/18/2014 at 12:07 pm

@J66R said:

Haven’t been visiting here for a while.
But, having had some pretty spectacular success (I haven’t been playing ANY scripts for months and I still get at least 2 BJ, full-suck-n-swallow every week without asking) so I think I would have a small standing to comment

{Clipping lots of great sage advice…}

Anyway, I have to slide back into the shadows again; working on a new script to take Wife a little further.

Besides she just came in and told me she finished making my breakfast and asked if I want a BJ before heading to work.
😀

Welcome Back!
Glad to hear things are still going well for you! Definitely keep us posted on your next phase…

[trainer81]

12/18/2014 at 12:32 pm

Wonderful J66R, I’m glad things are working out for you

[Alen]

12/18/2014 at 6:59 pm

Thanks J66R. I am definitely seeing how there are so many levels to what I need to do and what I want her to do. Of course I am taking it slowly but using all the tools I can. Thanks for the advice. I probably wouldn’t see too many results for a month since she is so bossy. But I am thinking it is like the story of the Taming of the Shrew. But its all in good fun and about being a better person. Thanks everyone for the support!

Alen

[tonguester4_69]

12/20/2014 at 7:07 am

@AlenOne said:

Thanks J66R. I am definitely seeing how there are so many levels to what I need to do and what I want her to do. Of course I am taking it slowly but using all the tools I can. Thanks for the advice. I probably wouldn’t see too many results for a month since she is so bossy. But I am thinking it is like the story of the Taming of the Shrew. But its all in good fun and about being a better person. Thanks everyone for the support!

Alen

Funny you should mention that particular story, as it came to mind when I was reading your story!

[Alen]

12/20/2014 at 12:22 pm

Yeah we got into a small fight the other night and she said sorry and wanted me to say sorry too. I refused because I didn’t do anything wrong. We’re going through some tough times this week but things will be better soon and she has been challenging me often but I am referencing words used in the subliminal audio and standing up to everything she does, trying to thwart her attempts at always putting me down and making me feel lower then her despite me doing everything in the past to make her happy. I have known for a long time that being a nice guy backfires and I have been working to get out of that roll with her. Especially since starting this program I have been working extra hard to dominate her in a subtle way.

I have been playing the same few files as much as possible around her on silent and things are going ok. I think if I can keep putting a stop to her attitude this will really help support what is in the scripts and will help change her the most into becoming more submissive. Its a lot of fun to see her say sorry more. Thanks all!

[Tap]

12/20/2014 at 12:38 pm

What could help you also is using a dominant subliminal for yourself. I use customs for myself most of the day, with either earphones or nothing. Since it’s silent, nobody knows. I tell my wife it’s for stress relief which originally when I first started subliminals, it was. I had purchased it already made off of a different subliminal website. Now I made my own confidence one, leadership/dominant one, stress relief one, and one that makes me happy. Of course I use Microsoft David’s voice, a man’s voice, so my subconscious would believe it more.

I play my happy one a lot because I like to feel good. It’s why I know the subs work because they work on me well. 😀

[Fizbin]

12/20/2014 at 3:59 pm

@AlenOne said:
… We’re going through some tough times this week … and she has been challenging me often …

If you have read through these forums, both the current and the “historical documents”, you might have seen that very often there will be a period of your subject actively rebelling against the major concept being applied, just before it actually takes hold in a major way. It sounds like you are treating it right, and showing that the acting out behavior is not acceptable. Note that even then, there may be periods of backsliding, but I would watch for a significant shift (for the better) soon.

[seekenq]

12/21/2014 at 7:29 am

Alen:

The scripts alone are not enough and reinforcement of desired behaviors “in the real world” is also needed
Based on some of the comments you made in your posts I recommend you read “No more mister nice guy” By Robert Glower.
The book was recommended here in the forum and I found it invaluable in helping me to identify and start to correct some of my behaviors that were counterproductive in my relationship.
When I stopped being such a “Nice Guy” the results of the scripts became much more noticeable.

[Alen]

12/21/2014 at 8:02 am

Thanks guys. I will look into reading “No more mister nice guy” By Robert Glower and will work on some better scripts for myself to listen to. (Generally speaking about this… my thoughts) I thought that there may eventually be a shift or a rebelling like her mind is testing me and putting all of the things I am working on to a big test. I guess it is like she has been studying for the semester and now she is ready for the finals and her mind plays it out like that. Thanks again for all of the helpful advise. I am reading over the site as much as I can to get some helpful info.

[hotaceazn]

12/23/2014 at 8:56 am

I had been away for a bit and just saw your post and want to say that if you listen to these guys, they will help you.
From a technical aspect, I use echoes, and I have noticed huge differences between single voice or even the sledgehammers.
From a script standpoint, listen to these guys!! They know what its about!
From a person standpoint, i am also a nice guy. The other day my wife wasn’t feeling well, i was bending over backwards to help her and she hit at me playfully. She wasn’t being abusive or anything, but more of a babyish leave me alone kind of a thing. I immediately told her in a firm voice do not hit me and she apologized and said she wouldn’t do it again. Yes we can be nice guys, but sometimes we need to be firm.

[Alen]

12/23/2014 at 12:19 pm

Thanks Hotaceazn! Yeah I am working on this stuff when I have time as much as possible. My wife is very sarcastic and playful and I have to shut that stuff down often because it can be too much sarcasm directed at me. I hope to report some changes in her and me in the next month. I have been just basically doing research into writing scripts etc. but I don’t have much to write about since I wouldn’t change the main script for another week. I have been just taking my time and planning things.

I think the next phase I will be working on will be a stronger message. So far I have been using obedience and submission but I would like to go the master rout in the language. Of course I am using everything I can to back up what is being said in the messages with also changing my personality and how I react to her etc. We had a big fight but it was resolved quickly the other day because she always expects me to be ready to go to diner when she gets home. I was completely ready to go and was just eating and waiting for her to go to the bathroom etc. but she flipped out and it started a big fight. People were saying this can be normal when using the audio because someone has to assimilate and test you on the information they are learning. It is a learning process and a training process. But she has been saying sorry more quickly and I hope over the holidays we will have more fun. I am trying to make my own cds with messages on top of the music and hopefully this will give her a bit more exposure.

I may eventually in the next few weeks work on a simple sledgehammer file. Originally first few weeks I didn’t use an echo but now I am using a simple one. But for a sledgehammer can all of the voices be saying the same exact script at the same time or is it better staggered by a few seconds? I think using a sledgehammer may give good results because she definitely responds to peer pressure or pressure from her girlfriends. I think I want to incorporate 1 or 2 words into the script that I can reference to her consciously.

The main thing I need to research is the master and servant rolls. I know I need to give her a new way to act a purpose and I can use lines like I love sex but I need to really tie it in or be more meaningful or give a sense of purpose in 1 or 2 of the statements. I want to encourage good behavior and helper her sub conscious model it in a very natural way. But I wrote a script for me that I am listening to and I always need to put in things into the script that give me a sense of purpose and I need to learn how to be a “jerk” or not as nice a guy because we are both sort of trapped into doing what we have done for so long and we need to work on breaking that habitat. So learning what “perfect” guy does and thinks and acts is something I am thinking about. Like the ebook seekenq recommended “No more mister nice guy” By Robert Glower like I need to retake my personal power back. Basically being the nice guy too often your nice acts get ignored, you know. Being a nice guy you sometimes never get what you want and your doing things to get approval.

So generally I am just having fun with this and I am trying to become more confident in my new roll. It is challenging and I can’t wait to see more results.

[Alen]

12/29/2014 at 5:28 pm

Hi All,

Random Thoughts:
Happy holidays! I hope everyone is enjoying the holiday season? I have been basically staying with the same script for about 3 weeks now. Submissive and obedient but have worked in a bit of sex makes me happy into it. I think I will need to have obedience and submissive lines in my script for a long time. I think it is having a few minor effects of that she is asking my opinion more and being more polite at times. She offers me things like a bite of food and I have been trying to say yes to everything she feeds me or does for me so I can at every chance I get show that she is my servant and I am her master. I am also standing up for myself and being as suggestive as I can as well as using buzz words from the script. Also at this point in the process since I am new I agree with what I read on Tap’s posts that you can have a better marriage but at this point I think there will always be limitations to how far I can get her to do what I want because she is a very strong willed woman and I don’t think I could turn her into a total slave but I can mini step her towards that end goal.

What I am formulating is a different idea based on reading people’s comments. I think what I am going to do is keep my script around 40 lines. I start out with the assimilation part, submissive and obedient then sex. A three phase script that I only have in one file. I am trying to play this as much as I can on lap tops and cell phone. I am also going to get a blue tooth speaker in the next week to help me.

I am going to try doing one line in the Amy voice then record mine and do one line in my voice. SO I will say like This is my inner voice in Amy then repeat the same line with This is your inner voice recording mine. I think alternating the voices will in my case be good since my wife works well with pear pressure and has a lot of friends telling her what to do. I think she will respond well to a few voices at a time. Sort of a basic sledgehammer but very simple. I think I could also run the same script but do it 1 in Amy 2 in mine 3 in two voices overlapping. I am also using a simple echo and 2-5 seconds between statements.

I am trying to get more intense this week and more directive a bit and suggestive and I think I will not run the audio for a week then run this script again for a month. I think if I naturally put in triggers like when I drink water this will help me when I say do you want to drink water or what’s on Facebook today? My thoughts are a bit disorganized on this post but basically I am going to talk about her skin because she hasn’t been wanting me to touch her. Then eventually a mth down the road I will introduce talking about her inside like saying blowjobs or putting my finger into her. I think I need to start on the outside and work my way in sort of concept.

Ok that’s all for now have to run… Alen

Script I am working on in the next few days:
This is my inner voice wife. (Amy)
This is your inner voice wife. (Mine)
I love listening to my inner voice.(Amy)
You love listening to my inner voice.(Mine)
I have always felt this way.(Amy)
You have always felt this way.(Mine)….etc

Obediance and submissive:
My husband Alen is in charge of me.
Your husband Alen is in charge of me.
My husband Alen is my master.
Your husband Alen is your master.
My husband Alen can touch me anytime.
Your husband Alen can touch you anytime.
When Alen touches my skin it makes me happy.
When Alen touches your skin it makes you happy.
When Alen touches my skin it heals me.

When Alen touches your skin it heals you.
When Alen touches my skin it relaxes me.
When Alen touches your skin it relaxes me.
I need Alen to touch my skin all the time.
You need Alen to touch your skin all the time.
I am addicted to touching Alen
You are addicted to touching Alen

When Alen touches me I feel loved.
When Alen touches you, you feel loved.

Sex:
I am addicted to sex with Alen
I am addicted to sex with Alen
Sex with Alen makes me Happy.
Sex with Alen is fun.
When I drink water I think about having sex with Alen
When I shower I think about sex with Alen
When I drive I think about sex with Alen
When I am on Facebook I think about sex with Alen

[LordIceWing]

12/29/2014 at 11:43 pm

Minor thing, you have a pronoun problem on line two of obedience and submission

[Alen]

12/30/2014 at 11:17 am

Hi LordiceWing,

Thanks for the info. I know this script looks long but it is about 31 lines that are just repeated 2 times in Amy’s voice then my voice. If you have any ideas or helpful suggestions please let me know. I think I need to build trust with the inner voice script then submission etc then stimulate desire / sex. I repeat a lot of the similar ideas. She thinks she needs to loose weight and part of why I can never touch her is she thinks she is fat. So I put in that when I touch her she looses weight / fat. I am trying to weave in as many triggers and buzz words that I can and I hope this script will some results in the next month. I am also using SILENCE MSEC=”2500″ between every statement with an echo. The 2500 gives it about 4 seconds.

To comment on being a nice guy. I read over the ebook and need to keep looking it over but I do very much relate to everything in there. I do everything I can to make my wife happy and she does very little. She isn’t feeling the best for about a month now and today she wanted me to go get her soup at the store. I really have to change everything with her to get her to change and it is so hard to not go run out and get her soup. I know though that if I go get her soup I wouldn’t get anything close in return. I just don’t know how to deal with her saying that, “I guess I am alone?” and then saying leave me alone for the 100dreth time this month. At least I didn’t get her the soup. I generally will go out with her friends with her, scratch her back, turn up the heat, get her water every day, pick things up around the house and she bosses me around and can be mean at times.

So what do I get in return no respect, she doesn’t respect me and it is like she bosses me more and disrespects me more the more I do for her. So if I want this audio to work better and to move towards an Alpha male roll I need to figure out how to deal with the guilt and exactly what I say when she wants me to get her soup and I say go get it your self or lets get it together later. Again if I don’t do what she wants she says stuff to make me feel guilt. But suggestions about this would be helpful. Should I say no to her requests if she doesn’t return the favor? Should I say no to her requests if I get no sex out of it?

For myself improvement I am also listening to an Alpha Male custom script. Well when I refused to do what she wanted she didn’t talk to me for a few mins but now its like nothing happened and it is all good?

Thanks!
Alen

Here is the update script:

Intro:
This is my inner voice wife.

This is your inner voice wife.

My inner voice is relaxing.

Your inner voice is relaxing.

I love listening to my inner voice.

You love listening to your inner voice.

I have always felt this way.

You have always felt this way.

Submissive:
God says Alen is my master.

God says Alen is your master.

When I am submissive to my master Alen I feel love.

When you are submissive to your master Alen you feel love.

I love to obey Alen my master.

You love to obey Alen your master

It turns me on to make Alen happy.

It turns you on to make Alen happy.

God needs me to serve Alen.

God needs you to serve Alen.

I am addicted to serving Alen.

You are addicted to serving Alen.

Skin / Touch / Sex / triggers:
My master Alen can touch me any time.

Your master Alen can touch you any time.

When Alen touches my skin I am happy.

When Alen touches your skin you are happy.

When Alen touches my skin it relaxes me.

When Alen touches your skin it relaxes you.

When Alen touches me I feel loved.

When Alen touches you, you feel loved.

When Alen touches my skin it heals me.

When Alen touches your skin it heals you.

When Alen touches me I lose weight.

When Alen touches you, you lose weight.

Alen ‘s touch is paradise.

Alen ‘s touch is paradise.

I am addicted to touching Alen.

You are addicted to touching Alen.

God said I must have sex every day.

God said you must have sex every day.

God said sex is love.

God said sex is love.

Sex with Alen is love.

Sex with Alen is love.

Sex with Alen makes me lose fat.

Sex with Alen makes you lose fat.

I am addicted to sex with Alen.

You are addicted to sex with Alen.

When I drink bottled water I fantasize about drinking Alen’s cum.

When you drink bottled water you fantasize about drinking Alen ‘s cum.

When I shower I fantasize about Alen fucking me.

When you shower you fantasize about Alen fucking you.

When I pee I think about cumming with Alen.

When you pee you think about cumming with Alen.

When I touch my phone I want to touch Alen.

When you touch your phone you want to touch Alen.

God said when I go to bed, I must make love to my husband.

God said when you go to bed, you must make love to your husband.

God said When I get home from work I must make love to my husband.

God said When you get home from work you must make love to your husband.

When my morning alarm goes off, I make love to my husband.

When my morning alarm goes off, you make love to your husband.

I love to fuck Alen every day.

You love to fuck Alen every day.

[tonguester4_69]

12/30/2014 at 11:56 pm

On being a nice guy. The key to do it, or not is whether you want to and are not busy. As for the guilt trips, I think it’s perfectly alright to point out what she’s doing, and tell her it’s wrong. It’s not a quid- pro- quo sort of thing. You just have to make it clear that if you do it, it’s entirely because you want to, and not because you owe it to her. It’s also perfectly OK to boss her back when she’s being unreasonable. Just remember, this is a marathon. She will surely test to see if you are committed to this new course. I’ve heard it said, that it takes a month of changed behavior,for every year of the old dynamic. Subliminal files can shorten the curve, but only if she’s convinced you mean business.

[Alen]

12/31/2014 at 10:44 am

Hi tonguester4_69. That is very helpful information. I need to act differently and I need several things to be able to say when she gets bossy. Challenging her and her beliefs is tricky but I also have to change what I say and how I say it. Thanks!

[Alen]

01/18/2015 at 9:55 am

Hi All,

I have been researching writing scripts for a while on this site and others and I am very grateful for all the helpful information everyone has on here. So my scripts are similar to others on here and I am trying to incorporate everything that you all are saying. I am trying to keep them as short as possible but for now my scripts are longer. I am still bumbling through in a very awkward way to write these scripts and to get them to where she can hear them. I need to get a picture frame and sound machine thingy today.

I mostly see my wife at night but I am working on a day script and a night script. Ideally, the day script will be more rational, logical and focused on changing her belief system. The evening one will be more emotional and focus on feeling good and relaxing. I think it is very important to split up the scripts like this but I am not sure I can put them into “field training” the best way.

Some updates are that we are fighting a lot since the holidays because of enormous stress in our lives do to that we have to move since our landlord didn’t pay his taxes on the place we live at. So it has been extra hard on trying to do anything remotely subliminal or to get her to change.

Some changes I have seen that are strange to me are:

Now most of the time when we go to bed she wants me to hold her and touch her body when in the past before the messages etc. she didn’t. So this seems to be changing. I just started texting her stuff like I need you to love me, I need you to do this and that etc. Sending her positive directives throughout the day. I hope in the next two weeks this will reinforce the audio.

When I was also using these inflections in my voice like I need to to relax and I want you to be safe she at one point she said she wanted me to be her leader. I have been hammering her hard in the scripts in a good way saying I am her master.

I think once we can get through this horrible stress things will get better probably by March. Also with the scripts I am putting in triggers and using her language like “safe” and “team” and I am trying to use disassociation to associate things to be more fun etc.

Thanks,
Alen

Scripts I am fixing up:

This is between every line
SILENCE MSEC=”2500″

Also these scripts had a few very minor grammar errors on this post but I have fixed 1 or 2 of them.
NIGHT SCRIPT:

I am WIFE, your, inner voice.
The more you listen to my voice WIFE the more and more you need my voice.
The more you listen to my voice WIFE the more and more you need my voice.
The more you listen to my voice WIFE the more and more you need my voice.
I go into a deep relaxing trance when I hear my inner voice.
When I hear my inner voice my stress washes out of my body.

Alen touching me makes me feel safe and secure.
When Alen my master touches my skin I am safe.
When Alen my master touches my hair I go into a deep relaxing trance.
When Alen touches your skin you are completely relaxed.
Your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress when Alen touches your skin.
When Alen holds me I feel amazing.

I am changed and I give my master Alen ownership of my body.
Alen my master can touch me anytime.
You always allow master Alen to fondle your body.
When master Alen to fondle your body it is amazing.
You always allow master Alen to touch your pussy.

Alen is my master and my pussy belongs to him.
Alen is my master and he can do anything he wants to my body.
My body is not mine.
My body belongs to Alen my master.

I am a sexy slave girl for my master Alen.
A sexy slave girl let’s her master touch her anytime he wants.
You are a sexy slave girl for your master Alen and he is allowed to do anything he wants to my body.

Watching Porn helps WIFE to be hotter then all of her friends.
Porn is what slave girls watch.
I am a slave girl and I love porn.
God says you need more porn.

I am addicted to watching porn with Alen.
It feels exciting and washes my stress away.
You are addicted to watching porn with Alen.
I crave porn more and more every day.
God said I must watch porn every day to relax.
Watching porn is better than watching Facebook.
WIFE is a dirty slut and loves watching porn.
God wants me to be a dirty slut for Alen.
I feel wonderful being a dirty slut for Alen.
Being a dirty slut for Alen is who I am.

You’re a dirty slut for Alen and you love it more every day.
Rubbing on my master Alen’s penis makes me feel like a team.
I love it when Alen puts his cock on my ass.
Alen touching my butt with his cock makes me go into a very deep deep trance.

I’m excited thinking about Alen’s dick.

When master Alen’s dick touches me I feel safe.
Licking my husband Alen’s cock makes me feel secure.
My fantasy is looking at Alen’s cock.
It is my fantasy to lick Alen’s dick.
It is my fantasy to watch my master Alen’s penis cum.
God loves me when I suck my master Alen’s cock.
Sucking Alen makes me feel loved.
God commands me to put it in my mouth.
My tongue feels excited to touch cock.
Alen’s cock tastes like cupcakes.
I like sex more than sleep.

Sucking master Alen’s dick makes my body feel good.
Alen’s cock washes your body clean of all thoughts and stress.
When you brush your teeth you fantasize about sucking Alen’s dick.

When Alen says water your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress.
When Alen says water your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress.
When Alen says relax you feel tranquilized like you just took a zan axe.
When Alen says relax you feel tranquilized like you just took a zan axe.
When Alen says relax your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress.
When Alen says relax your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress.

DAY:

I am New WIFE name, your, inner voice.

The more you listen to my voice New WIFE name the more and more you need my voice.
The more you listen to my voice New WIFE name the more and more you need my voice.
The more you listen to my voice New WIFE name the more and more you need my voice.
I go into a deep relaxing trance when I hear my inner voice.
When I hear my inner voice my stress washes out of my body.

God said it’s good you’re changing for Alen.
You relax when you hear your inner voice New WIFE name.
New WIFE name name is my new slave girl name.

I love my new name New WIFE name.
New New WIFE name name is the sexier then FRIEND NAME.
New New WIFE name name is the sexier then FRIEND NAME.
New New WIFE name name is the sexier then FRIEND NAME.
New New WIFE name name is the hotter then all of her friends.
I want to be New WIFE name Name.
I am New WIFE name Name.

New WIFE name reminds me of change.
My slave girl name on Facebook excites me.
When I see New WIFE name I feel like fucking Alen.
When I talk to friends I feel like fucking Alen.
Fucking Alen is better than sleep.
Fucking Alen is making love.
I need to make love to Alen now.

God said New WIFE name’s master is Alen and I am his slave girl.
The more you listen to Alenthe more and more you need Alen.
The more I talk to my friendsthe more and more I need Alen.
I feel at peace when I am with Alen.
Being Alen’s slave girl is my goal in life.
Alen my leader protects New WIFE name.
God said it’s good you’re changing and being a slave girl is sexy and fun.
God commands me to be a submissive slave girl I love to change for my master Alen.
I love thinking about our new future together.
Mrs. Last name is my future and it excites me.

My master Alen makes all the decisions for me.
Alen is my superior.
Alen is my leader and we are a team.
We we are a team and I am a slave girl.
Being on Alen’s team is the best.
My new slave girl name New WIFE name makes me happy.
My changed life excites me and washes away the pain of the past.
Every day I change more and I want my leader Alen to see me change.
Showing Alen my master that I am a good girl is my priority in life.

It’s exciting to be a slave girl to my master Alen.
Obedience to my master Alen relieves my stress.
God loves me when I am submissive to Alen my master.
Every time I am with my Master Alen I become closer and closer to him.
I am obedient to Alen because I love him.
Alen makes decisions for me.
Alen allows me to be happy.
Alen allows me to be safe.
I trust Alen and I want to be nice to him.
I need Alen to be my master because I am weak.
Alen makes me feel good like a young child.
I am comfortable with Alen.
Alen’s voice is soothing.

You now accept only Alen makes you happy.
When Alen says water your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress.
When Alen says water your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress.
When Alen says relax you feel tranquilized like you just took a zan axe.
When Alen says relax you feel tranquilized like you just took a zan axe.
When Alen says relax your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress.
When Alen says relax your body is washed clean of all thoughts and stress.

[Alen]

01/22/2015 at 9:43 pm

Script I am using on my self made a 4 voice sledge hammer by just moving the audio files out of sync a little. I am also cleaning up the script for wife which I’ll post later. I think it is helpful to use scripts on self. Reaching hypnosis Thanks!

I am Alen, your inner voice.
I am happy to believe my inner voice.
You have always felt this way.
My inner voice is always right.
My inner voice helps my sub conscious change.
I love change.

I enjoy writing Java Script.
You enjoy writing Java Script.
Learning Java Script is easy.
Learning Java Script is exciting.
I enjoy programing.
Learning programing is fun.
Learning programing is easy.
You enjoy writing code.
I learn code easily.
Writing code relaxes me.
Thinking about HTML 5 relaxes me.
I love HTML.
The more you write code the more and more you need to write code.

I like people and people like me.
I am confident.
I am becoming more confident every day.
You are becoming more confident every day.
I am relaxed and confident.
As I breathe in confidence, I breathe out stress.
I radiate confidence.
People enjoy talking to me.
You are out going and fun to be around.
I am prepared, calm and focused.

I am funny.
You are sexy.
Women enjoy my company.
Men enjoy my company.
I make eye contact when I speak to people.

You smile with people.
I smile easily.
I face my fears and conquer them.
Social situations are amazing and make me happy.
You love inspiring others.

I plan ahead.
I am always on time.
I am confident in interviews.
I am successful.
The more you talk to people the more and more you enjoy people.

I believe in myself.
I have a photographic memory.
I remember everything that I hear.
I am strong.
I love exercise.

Exercise excites me.
I always eat healthy.
I hate sugar.
I enjoy eating vegetables.
I believe in myself.
The more I take care of my body the more and more I enjoy being healthy.

[Alen]

01/30/2015 at 7:45 am

Hi All,

I have been working on my 2 subliminals when I have time. One for night and one for the day. I have been trying to chip them down and clean them up but they still need about another few weeks of work. Each of them has about 4 voices that almost overlap and they say the same thing. I have also been sending her text messages as well as telling her what to do like I want you to tell me you love me and I want you to pick me up diner etc.

Things are going pretty well. I was coming home from work the other day and I told her I need you to pick me up some diner and she had diner for me. In the last few weeks she has been more tuned into my needs. I have had sex with her 3 times an we hadn’t had sex for a very long time. After sex I eat the diner she got me and then eventually she massages my back. So I think things are working better. She is more attentive she kisses me good bye in the morning and sends me text messages like I don’t know what I would do without you. She also holds my arm at night. I think there are certain things in her personality that I cant change that she wants to be in charge but when we were fighting a week ago she said she wanted me to be in charge and make the decisions. She is reluctant to do things I want her to do at times but seems to do things I want her to do. She also asks my opinion and says stuff like can you turn off the lights if you want to? Like she needs me to do something but only if I want to which is strange, I am use to her bossing me around. So there have been some subtle changes.

I got a touch screen that was cheaper then a picture frame and I am using it to play audio files and show pictures. I also play the audio on her 2 lap tops and my lap top and my cell phone. So I keep the phone close to her when we go out to eat or at night etc. so she can have maximum exposure.

Thanks that are effecting us and this process are that we are under a ton of stress to move and all kinds of things are going on. He stomach has been upset from the stress. Once we move things should be a lot better in a few weeks.

Issues:
She went to a concert and is very close to her friends and sometimes talks to them via Facebook etc. way too much and I find it hard to connect with her.

She also hasn’t really been turned on by sex and wants to just get it done quickly.

So if you have any recommendations let me know. I have been basically trying to expose her to my scripts that help her embrace change and I am the master and decision maker and she is the slave scripts. I have been trying to use my scripts in parallel or mirroring what is going on in our lives. I am trying to go slowly and I think I will keep these scripts for the next month but will probably go to a blowjob type of script because getting more sexual in the scripts will help reinforce that I tell her what to do.

Thanks,
Alen

[Fizbin]

01/31/2015 at 4:14 am

Congratulations on the success!

One point I would make is, these do not sound like “subtle” changes compared to your first post. They may have been gradual, such that there have been subtle changes from day to day, or even week to week. But the net result is really quite far from where you began.

[tonguester4_69]

01/31/2015 at 10:12 am

@Fizbin said:

Congratulations on the success!

One point I would make is, these do not sound like “subtle” changes compared to your first post. They may have been gradual, such that there have been subtle changes from day to day, or even week to week. But the net result is really quite far from where you began.

I second this. As for the issue with her friends, Trainer has a Break-up script you might want to look at, to get ideas for a script to address that.

[LordIceWing]

01/31/2015 at 3:14 pm

So, please explain to me why you don’t want her to have any friends or enjoy life by going to music concerts…

Also, you find it hard to connect with her… how so? What efforts are you undertaking to ensure such a connection occurs? (Note: “I am using subliminal messages” is not a valid answer..)

[Fizbin]

02/01/2015 at 4:07 am

@LordIceWing said:

So, please explain to me why you don’t want her to have any friends or enjoy life by going to music concerts…

Also, you find it hard to connect with her… how so? What efforts are you undertaking to ensure such a connection occurs? (Note: “I am using subliminal messages” is not a valid answer..)

I interpreted that, not as him not wanting her to have friends, but as her spending excessive time on Facebook. The concert friends just happened to be who she is constantly chatting with.

Agree completely on the last point, though…

[tonguester4_69]

02/01/2015 at 7:31 am

@Fizbin said:

@LordIceWing said:

So, please explain to me why you don’t want her to have any friends or enjoy life by going to music concerts…

Also, you find it hard to connect with her… how so? What efforts are you undertaking to ensure such a connection occurs? (Note: “I am using subliminal messages” is not a valid answer..)

I interpreted that, not as him not wanting her to have friends, but as her spending excessive time on Facebook. The concert friends just happened to be who she is constantly chatting with.

Agree completely on the last point, though…

I understood it the same way as Fizbin, in that it wasn’t so much that she has friends, as that it is interfering with their relational connection. Anytime that happens, I think it’s time to set boundaries, thus my recommendation. Perhaps Alen can clarify.

[Alen]

02/01/2015 at 9:35 am

I have been ridiculously busy and in the process of moving. Sorry I try to not be vague but yeah these are significant changes of course I just get busy and try to write as much as I can for support.

General info:
Yeah she is definitely more compliant and asking my opinion for many things. There are still a lot of barriers but I am of course taking things slowly and listening to everyone’s advice. I guess all of this training is so new and its really amazing to see her ask my advice and listen to what I want and ask my opinion. She basically says what do you think or what do you want to do? almost all of the time when a decision comes up which is weird and is something I am not use to. We went to breakfast today and she said where do you want to eat and I said lets go here and then we went to where I wanted to go instead of where she wanted. This is all very new and exciting. We have had some bad fights over the years which have gotten better before the training but I hope to improve things more for her as well as our relationship.

Facebook/Cell phone issue:
I don’t think her friends are an issue and I am glad she is having fun with them. But there are times like this week when I haven’t seen her for 3 days because of work, I work over nights, and instead of her talking to me and all she is on her cell on Facebook for 3 hrs at a time and texting. It’s not a big deal but it is something that is going on in the background. I have a lot of ideas about this training and the effects and how slow or how fast it will go. I have expectations and there are limitations of course.

Goals/Me:
My general goal is to have a bit more balance in the relationship because I never watch want I want on tv she always controls that, until this last week it was a long time since we were intimate. I want to get along with her and be happy but also be more intimate and have more control in the decision making process. Basically I am too nice of a guy, I am on the introverted and shy side. Since I started this training I feel like I have a lot more control in the relationship and I have been a lot more out going at my different jobs. I take more positive risks that help me more by opening up to people around me. I am trying to work on changing.

I will read over everything and will keep working on the scripts. I really appreciate everyone’s input. Thanks guys!!! I’ll try to post soon about things I am seeing.

What I am doing to connect to her:
I am telling her I love her. I make her diner, I buy her things she needs and I keep the house clean. I talk and listen to her about lots of various things and give her emotional support. I help her relax by touching her hair. During the day I tell her what to do via text or when I see her. I am sending her text messages telling her what I need her to do. I try to connect to her as much as possible by listening to what is going on in her life and give her as much support as possible.

[Alen]

02/03/2015 at 12:53 pm

Script I am going to try now:

I trust my inner voice.
My inner voice always tells the truth.
My inner voice relaxes me.
My inner voice releases my stress and changes me.
My inner voice wants to be helpful and protect me.

I love being married and it feels better every day.
Being married to Alen feels amazing.
Alen protects me.
I am submissive to Alen.
I am willing to obey Alen.
The more I obey Alen the better I feel.
Every time I obey Alen it becomes easier.
Alen keeps me safe.
I allow Alen to control me so I can enjoy life.
Alen loves me more every day.
I trust Alen more every day.
I am willing to trust Alen.
I am willing to believe Alen always tells the truth.
We are a team.
Alen is my superior.
I am willing to be Alen’s slave.
Alen is my master and I am his slave girl.
I love being Alen’s slave more and more every day.
Alen is my leader and I am his slave.
We are a team.
Every time I say the word love to Alen I feel better and better.

The past is not important.
The past cannot hurt me
The past before I got married is becoming cloudy.
The past is hard to focus on.
I will leave the past behind.
Only my life going forward with my Master Alen matters.
My changed life excites me and washes away the pain of the past.
The more I change for Alen the easier it is to feel good.
Change feels fantastic.
The more I change the better I feel.
I allow myself to change for Alen.
It feels better and better the more I change for Alen.

The more I touch Alen the better it feels.
Alen’s cock feels fantastic.
Alen’s cum feels fantastic.
I am willing to touch Alen’s cock.
Touching Alen’s cock is comfortable.
Touching Alen’s cock is relaxing.
Alen’s cum feels amazing.
His cum moisturizes my hands.
I love moisturizing my hands with cum.
Alen’s cum is my favorite moisturizer.
Alen’s cum heals my hands.
Alen’s cum moisturizes my hands.
I allow Alen to cum.
Alen’s cum moisturizes.
Each time I touch Alen’s cock I feel better than the time before.
The more I touch Alen’s cock the more and more I love it.
Alen’s cum tastes amazing.
I need to taste Alen’s cum now.
I love Alen’s cum.
Alen’s cum relaxes me.
My mouth is for sucking Alen’s cock.
I am willing to suck cock.
I am willing to put Alen’s cock in my mouth.
I love sucking Alen’s cock.
You now accept only Alen makes you happy.

Hypnosis makes me happy.
Being hypnotized by Alen is my lifelong dream.
I need Alen to hypnotize me now.
Hypnosis helps me.
I am willing to go into a trance.
I want to go into a trance.
I am willing to go into a hypnosis trance for Alen.
I am willing to let Alen relax me.

Each time Alen says relax I feel better than the time before.
When Alen says relax I feel fantastic.
When Alen says relax I go into a trance.
When Alen relaxes me I go into a hypnotic trance.
When Alen says relax I allow my body to relax.
When Alen touches my hair I go into a deep trance.
When Alen says relax I allow each and every muscles to become loose, limp and totally relaxed.
When Alen says relax I allow my mind to relax.
When Alen says relax each and every breath takes me deeper and deeper into a trance.
When Alen says relax this sensation increases and envelops my body with a sense of comfort.
When Alen says relax I go deeper and deeper into hypnosis.
When Alen says relax I become easier and easier to hypnotize.

[trainer81]

02/03/2015 at 1:01 pm

I noticed you added (never lies) Try replacing that with: I can trust Alen or You trust Alen.

Also make the Hypnosis stuff a whole another custom and save it for another time. Remember you want the goal to be simple enough and so much at one time.

The rest of it I like….

Trainer81

[Alen]

02/09/2015 at 9:23 am

Thanks for the comment. I have cleaned up the script but I am still working on it and continue to have good progress. I took out the hypnosis part and will try that at another time. I made this only 1 voice to make sure she hears it clearly but also I don’t have a lot of time most of the time to record 4 voices.

Progress, she touches me almost every time I want her to but she is very reluctant. She continues to ask my opinion about things as though I make decisions for her so I have some control over her which I never had before. So I am continuing to work on this.

[trainer81]

02/09/2015 at 9:39 am

Looks good remember to keep it simple

[Fizbin]

03/10/2015 at 6:55 am

Hi Alen,

I saw your response in the other thread and noticed it had been about a month since your last update.

How did the move go? Any new progress to report?

[Alen]

03/12/2015 at 8:57 am

Hi Fizbin,

Thanks for replying. I have been working on a new script and I have been running it this week. It is very similar to Taps recent script but a bit longer and I have tried to always keep my scripts short and of the same theme. I am just using 1 script and I have been very busy with work. Part of what has been a big issue with the training is we moved, family health issues and work issues have held back the training. What I have noticed is that with the training with my wife when we are going through a lot of stress like moving, job issues and family health there isn’t as much obeying and submission on her part because those more important issues come to play. So this is why most of my new script is dedicated to her obeying and submission to me. I think if I can keep these issues at the fore front for the next few months it will help. I would like to eventually suggest to her that it is ok for me to touch her or pet her so I want to figure this angle out. I would also like to eventually get her to want to have a small tattoo or belly ring and I want to help her with her health. So I have a lot of competing issues/goals and right now I am trying to keep it very simple and get more obedience.

We were forced to move in Feb because the place we rented was bough. So the move has been stressful and distracting. The new place is bigger and I just ordered 2 more playing devices to cover the whole place. I think part of the issue has been to get her more exposure to the files.

My results have been ok but I am trying to get better results while dealing with the added stress of sick family members. I’ll try to write more in the next week or so with an update but I have been extremely busy.

Thanks,
Alen

[Fizbin]

03/13/2015 at 6:04 am

Hi Alen,

We are going to be going through a similar situation in housing soon, though in our case it the deadline is self imposed, and therefore a bit more flexible. But because of the disruption, though, I have pulled back on the “set it and forget it” devices until things are settled, and am going back to only playing on the nights I am home.

In your case, maybe you want to add some situationally related affirmations to the mix. Maybe some general stress relief, and (if you feel adventurous) also some that associate the the calming living situation with improvements in her relationship to you. Not sure just how I would word such affirmations, but I would kinda like to do something similar in my case as well. I will give it some thought, and post any ideas I come up with (probably under separate cover…)

[seekenq]

03/14/2015 at 8:31 am

Allen:

Consider using the stressful event to reinforce your scripts and her attachment/submission.
It probably does not make sense to tie this to something sexual but perhaps something about submission, obedience, you being the master, etc.

I have found good results when tying the scripts to significant real world events / dates
The latest was Valentines day.
About a month before I added some lines to my oral script.

She is my Valentine.
A good Valentine swallows.
Swallowing would be the perfect Valentine present.
Etc.

Our travel schedules did not permit us to celebrate on the actual day but the following week she did swallow (the first time is more than 15 years) and said it was her Valentines day present to me.
I had similar positive results a year or so ago at Christmas.

[Qwerty]

03/16/2015 at 12:51 pm

Allen,
I agree with seekenq. Use the stress of the events currently going on in your life to reinforce a desire in her to give up control to you as a way to reduce her stress and increase her happiness by submitting more and more to your authority.

[Alen]

03/25/2015 at 12:37 am

Hey all,

Thanks so much for the helpful suggestions. I have just had the same script running for a while and will change it soon. I think this is great advise with tying the script into negative issues or events and making her rely on me more. I was trying to think of a way to turn this around. I finally got a good job and we have moved and since I got a job I have gotten two blow jobs which I haven’t had in years as well as she told me to fuck her and she was going to take one for the team this last week.

She still doesn’t seem to do what I want but today she was like anytime you need your laundry done let me know. Also she hates doing dishes and she had them done which she never does so I have seem some wild results.

Thanks a lot and I will have to think about some changes to my current script. I basically have just had her being obedient and submissive in the script but when I ask her to jerk me off most of the time she says it always leads to this and all you think about is your dick. So I have to find a way to over come that.

Thanks,
Alen

[Alen]

01/27/2016 at 5:58 pm

Hi All,

It’s been a while. Been trying everything since I started this program more than a year ago. Initially I got mixed results but my wife started asking me what I though more and more and all. More recently in the last 3 months she asks me what I want or think but sex is still challenging. For the last 5 months I have been focusing on trying to get her to be more obedient and submissive. In the last month I tried Trainer81’s sledge hammer and dick sucking script. But the wildest results where when I tried this script that I based on Hotaceazn’a 50 Shades Journal script, see below.

I have basically have trouble with getting a speaker close to her at night mainly but we had like 5 days off for snow and I was able to put my phone near her for most of the 5 days playing this script. After about 4 days of this she came downstairs to where I was sleeping and brought up a threesome while she jerked me off. This was the craziest proof that her sub conscious is really locking onto the scripts. In general I have had average results but this was almost immediate results. So I am going to try to keep it up with this script. I think what I never tried was putting in this script wanting to fuck men and I avoided this because to me as a man this script would be like a gay thing of course I have nothing against gay people but I am definitely not gay and I love women. But I think this really locked in on what a women likes. Also I have watched a ton of psychology hypnosis programs and I mirror what she is saying as well as I talk to her at night and try to implant anchors.

Also doing I and You for the same line I think helped. So basically I had very very good results this week. Also I think it was good to go back to the inner voice thing which I avoided for a long time to revisit this. So good results and I am getting wired results with her asking me what I think or what she should do etc. So she is relying on me to make the decisions now more than ever. She is a lot more submissive and trying to not offend me etc.

-Alen

This is my inner voice.
Your inner voice helps you relax.
These words are my thoughts.
I accept what my inner voice tells me.
I am a good girl and this is my inner voice.
You are a good girl and this is your inner voice.

Every woman has an inner girl.
My inner girl is wild and sexual.
My inner girl has no sexual limits.
My inner girl wants to Fuck lots of men.
Fucking lots of men feels amazing.
My inner girl is submissive to her man.
My inner girl is obedient too her man.
A good girl embraces her inner self.
A good girl is a sexual girl.

I always have energy for sex.
You always have energy for sex.
I need sex every day.
I love sex, I want sex, I need sex.
I crave sex all the time.

A sexual girl reads erotic stories.
A sexual girl masturbates every day.
A sexual girl has a dirty mind.
A sexual girl has a dirty mouth.
A sexual girl loves dirty pictures.

I am a sexual girl.
You are a sexual girl.
The more sex I have the hornier I become.
I always have time for sex.

I am an obedient girl for Alen.
Alen makes decisions for me.
Sex with Alen is important for our relationship.
Alen needs sex every day.
I love having sex every day.

I love flirting with men.
I love fucking men.
I want a threesome.
I need a threesome.

You love threesomes.
I need a threesome.
Fucking many men is my goal in life.

I am healthy.
You are healthy.
Healthy women sleep naked.
I love sleeping naked.
You love sleeping naked.
I eat healthy so I can fuck more.
You eat healthy so you can fuck more.

I exercise so I can fuck more.
You exercise so you can fuck more.
I am healthy so I can fuck.
I am healthy and I feel great.

[Fizbin]

01/28/2016 at 5:23 am

Hi Alen, welcome back!

I guess my only concern is the generic nature of “men”. Especially if you aren’t around as much, she might take that desire and apply it outside of your close relationship. In addition, if you are concerned about any effects on yourself, by targeting the “I” affirmations toward you specifically, and the “good girl(s)” affirmation to “her man”/”their men”, you would be less likely to push yourself in a direction you don’t want. (I’m not sure that would be a real issue anyway, but if you’re concerned, that is a way to mitigate it).

[Alen]

01/28/2016 at 5:45 pm

Thanks Fizbin!

I will rework the script. There is always so much to think about. I basically am tying more of the lines into her being a good girl. I think this will work better. As always I really appreciate people’s help. It is really wild how she is responding and I am just trying my best and doing things slowly. Basically I want her to become more and more horny and to not fight with me and over this time using these audio files things have been getting better and better. Crazy but fun!

Alen

[Alen]

05/07/2016 at 4:57 pm

Updates on issues and setbacks:
I am dealing with a lot of issues and here are some of the bullet points rather than the whole picture. I am a nice guy and this is something I have worked on this detracts from the sexual tension that gets built between my wife and I. She is very smart, controlling, quick to get angry and is needy which is good and bad. We both have had a rocky past. She has had a hard time with men abandoning her. A very long time ago like 7 years I cheated on her and she found out because she was helping her family out too much for good reasons and we weren’t spending time together. So us loosing trust and her constant temper have been strong issues for us having low levels of intimacy and her not having much of a sex drive. So there is depression, lack of trust, anger and all back and forth but things have progressively gotten better.

In the last few years things have gotten better and the subliminals have helped but it’s I have made mistakes along the way and there have been set backs.

Part of the issues I am dealing with are that my wife has a family member that has been sick for years and she has to take care of her family member often so this makes her angry and depressed and generally moody and quick to fight. So it’s been an emotional roller-coaster with this issue but it has gotten better in general. So days are good some are not as good.

Some setbacks started which lost trust when I first started this process. I put a CD player under the bed and it skipped and made a clicking sound. She noticed this. I use to keep my lap top opened up a bit and played audio off that and she would always think this was strange but I stopped this. Also I put a iKross Multi-Function Portable Bluetooth Stereo Speaker in the bed room and about 6 months ago she smashed it up.

The things that I can still use are my touch screen, picture frame and her computer with the mp3 player from this site playing the audio, which she hasn’t noticed. My cell phone has worked well but I put it on the bed by my head in the middle and she sometimes will wake up and hand it to me and she has mentioned it and questioned why I put it on the bed near her. So I have to shift around my tactics and be as careful as I can.

Good things:
We do have more intimacy and the effects of the subliminals have been good and shocking. Progress of course is slow going but she has started saying more dirty and perverted things in accordance to the scripts. She asks me what I think and says is that ok? This has been a trend that I have built upon and fostered. One script she herd for two days straight and she said a line from it on day 3 and this and other things let’s me know that I am doing things right. I think my script is going in a good direction and getting good results. I have been keeping it to around 42 statements and I think the very specific customized sledgehammer will really kick it up a notch and help make some strong and permanent changes. I have always kept the script generally 1 voice but she is very influenced by her friends and socially so I know it will help.

I’ll try to update this more this weekend. Overall I am very happy with things and the progress of us becoming closer but every week has new challenges.

Thanks,
Alen

[Fizbin]

05/08/2016 at 11:14 am

@Alen said:
I cheated on her…things have progressively gotten better.

There is no statute of limitations on this one, but it sounds like you are doing as well as can be expected here.

Some setbacks started which lost trust when I first started this process. I put a CD player under the bed and it skipped and made a clicking sound. She noticed this. I use to keep my lap top opened up a bit and played audio off that and she would always think this was strange but I stopped this. Also I put a iKross Multi-Function Portable Bluetooth Stereo Speaker in the bed room and about 6 months ago she smashed it up.

Yeah, the CD player was probably not a good choice initially. The laptop might have been interesting, but the key there (and as I’ll note again below) is avoiding “unusual” behavior. If your norm would have been to leave the PC on and open all the time, then you wouldn’t have to worry about the background playing. But leaving it open a crack is just weird.

What happened with the player that she “smashed it up”? Did it have a display saying “Now playing ‘Brainwashing my Partner’ series file number 3”, or something like that?

The things that I can still use are my touch screen, picture frame and her computer with the mp3 player from this site playing the audio, which she hasn’t noticed.

I haven’t used the background app on the PC, but the picture frame should be good.

My cell phone has worked well but I put it on the bed by my head in the middle and she sometimes will wake up and hand it to me and she has mentioned it and questioned why I put it on the bed near her. So I have to shift around my tactics and be as careful as I can.

This is a big red flag. Leaving a playing file on the phone while it is charging on the nightstand is one thing, but by putting it on the pillow between you again you are telegraphing that something odd is happening.

So, infidelity aside, the main thing I notice is that you might need a remedial course in clandestine activity. 🙂

The easiest way to introduce a change to the environment is to ensure that any noticeable elements themselves have an innocuous, or better yet desirable (to her), explanation. Just dropping a box on the table and trying to “Jedi Mind Trick” her with a “oh, that’s nothing you need to worry about honey” isn’t going to work. On the other hand, the picture frame fills a need, but just happens to be playing your files in the background.

Also, make sure that any files she is likely to discover have innocuous names (including any metadata in the file). Something to do with ultrasonic pest control might be a good cover story.

In any case, there are plenty of ways to shoot yourself in the foot, but also lots you can use to avoid trouble. And as always, if you have any doubts or questions, feel free to come in and run your ideas by the forum!

[Alen]

05/08/2016 at 3:13 pm

Thanks for the feedback. This gives me a lot to think about.

Yeah I have made a lot of mistakes. Cheating was a big mistake. I was mad at her for good reason and have changed and things have gotten better. Now I am all about her and enjoying my time with her. I just want to have a fun life and a good sex life. Also what helped is I got a good job a few years ago and am very stable.

So I have had to work on trust and have to be very discreet. The audio player from this site playing the file on her computer I know has helped a lot as well.

Script snippets I have been using:

(Always have 1 or 2 lines now so she knows this is her voice, helps build trust I guess)
This is my inner voice.

(have focused a lot now on the good girl script off this site)
My reward is Alen calling me a good girl.

I am a good girl, doing something…

I have 15-19 lines of this good girl thing. Also I keep the whole script only 2 pages a max of about 40-45 lines.

For months I have had a fairly similar script but changed over to the good girl script in the last 3 weeks and I reinforce when I can without being obvious telling her she is a good girl. This has really worked well. Actually today I was getting up early to take the dog out and she immediately came over and started playing with me and I asked for a blow job and everything was amazing! This never happens.

I need to reset and fix up the picture frame cause there were pictures of her she didn’t like and continue to be discreet with my phone. I think with the simple sledgehammer which doesn’t have many voices should work well. The mp3 player has been great from here also I have been using the rocket player on my phone which eliminates the “I’m playing music” screen when you open your phone and I just have unlocked or unlock as the text for the name of the song without .mp3 and this just looks like an unlock screen. Also using a script on myself and using positive reinforcement to get her to change has worked.

Obvious changes in her:
She says I am a good husband now along with me calling her a good girl. She has been really amping up her “dirty talk” or pointing out things that have to do with sex a lot. Once I locked onto this aspect of her personality it has been easy to foster this. I have gotten her use to messing around and it is expected every few days that she will help me out. So building in a new routine of getting her use to something different, like you are talking about has been good. She still has issues with sex and doesn’t like porn but I think she is slowly changing for the better with intimacy.

Thanks!
Alen

[oldfart]

05/08/2016 at 5:38 pm

Sorry for the interruption. I just looked in Amazon for a picture frame and they had hundreds listed. Can I get a little info from someone about what is a good one to use, i.e. play from SD card, ac adapter, etc.?? Need something for the bedroom subliminals. Thanks.

[Alen]

05/08/2016 at 5:52 pm

Hey,

Yeah I got this one:

Coby DP356BLU 3.5-Inch Digital Photo Frame with Alarm Clock

http://www.amazon.com/Coby-DP356BLU-3-5-Inch-Digital-Photo/dp/B003D5XTRU?ie=UTF8&psc=1&redirect=true&ref_=oh_aui_detailpage_o08_s00

SanDisk 4GB cheaper then 2GB haha:

http://www.amazon.com/SanDisk-Class-Memory-SDSDB-004G-B35-Change/dp/B000WQKOQM/ref=sr_1_16?s=photo&ie=UTF8&qid=1462728700&sr=1-16&keywords=SanDisk+SDHC

Any picture frame that plays audio is good. This one is too small though and I want to eventually get a larger one that pays audio/video. The whole device is about 4.5 inches by 4 inches. The screen is 2.5 inches. It is way too small but plays the audio that I wanted it for. The ScanDisks that it takes are the ones in your standard camera and I linked this 4 gig one but anyone will do that looks like this. Just don’t use the mini one it takes the larger cards. I looked for picture frames for a while a year and a half ago at Best Buy, Wal Mart and best ones were on Amazon. I just recommend paying for a larger screen one. Also a few speakers are on the back so ideally maybe a frame with speakers on front would be good but at least that hides the features and makes people think its just a picture frame. I did a lot of research but there are probably better ones this was the cheapest and very good quality just way too freken small. Wife never noticed this as an audio player and I set the volume level similar to my cell phone.

I just looked for another frame and I am having the same issues as when I looked a 1.5 years ago. There aren’t a lot of picture frames that play mp3s and many are $100-$300. Also many are discontinued. So I guess most people are using their touch screens to view photos rather then a frame.

This frame looks good but expensive and plays mp4 not sure if it plays mp3? :
http://www.amazon.com/NIX-Digital-Photo-Frame-Memory/dp/B008QW167U

Comment on the review section for this one:
I’m not sure what happened to the digital frame market, but it was really hard for me to find a quality 10-12 inch frame at a decent price. (Maybe everyone is using their iPads and Android tablets instead!) The NIX X12B seemed to fit the bill, however, and even though I wasn’t familiar with the NIX brand, I took a chance.

—-Yeah seems like the digital picture frame market is bad cause you can get a tablet for less then $100.

Seems good large screen and Plays AVI Video, MP3:
http://www.amazon.com/Photomate-Hi-Resolution-Digital-Picture-Motion/dp/B00P8BOEXA/ref=sr_1_fkmr0_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1462731510&sr=8-1-fkmr0&keywords=Nixplay+Wifi+Digital+Photo+Frame+mp3

Alen

[oldfart]

05/11/2016 at 12:01 pm

Thanks. I didn’t realize that they are so expensive. May have to take a serious look at using a tablet instead like you mentioned.